Aaron p

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  1. By the experience of: Everythingness !!!
  2. Thank fuck someone said it. Society is basically primarily comprised of unintelligent dumbasses. Easy solution: don't buy into societies premise and frame. Society is like one giant shit test like from pickup/game. Society tells you where to go, what to do, who to be, when to be happy, when to be sad and how to be successful. When really it only gets its power if you give it attention. When society tells me how to be and it's wrong, I give it the finger. When it tells me how to be and I do research and find that it's correct, I do the correct thing on my own and thank it. But ultimately it will try to force you into situations. Also, just to clarify, I'm not talking about the law, although that too, I'm primarily talking about social areas of society. But it's all interconnected and linked anyway. It's very refreshing to hear intelligent people saying intelligent things here. Breath of fresh air tbh...without it I would literally start thinking "surely everyone around me in my life can't be a dumbass, if I'm the only one seeing it, it must be a problem with me." Having comm.s like actualized helps me see that actually my recognition it actually right, and that it's quite normal to be completely surrounded by morons 95% of the time in general society. UK and US looks bad ATM. Apparently Brazil has the best chicks
  3. Yes! These are specifically designed for delivering quick fire insights. Use the clips channel. Giving an entire episode to a normie would be like shoving a giant, well done T-Bone steak Infront of a starving African child. They'll probably think it's a frisbee
  4. For god realisation yeah, for mind stabilisation and fundamental grounding type work, is very useful. Also most people will never realise god at the deepest levels. Even the likes of myself, I'm not going for god realisation yet and I'm a hardcore fan of enlightenment. You have to remember how hardcore real god realisation is. It is scary as fuck. And there's a chance of you actually dying or loosing your shit. It's pretty serious...so for most people meditation is going to have some use probably
  5. If you want to deter low tier philosophers you could hit em with a test with this one: ("How to make a girl squirt - Give your girl an explosive orgasm") Or could go easy on them: This episode is big picture, major genius, Inspirational, Opal tier. Listening to these kinds of episodes fills me with wonder. I want to honour how much effort Leo puts into these videos by mimicking his effort. We are truly blessed to have a living genius powerhouse who we get FREE content from! We are spoiled brats <3
  6. Put blockades between me and unhealthy stuff. Or allow myself to have one bite of the cake and no more...for me another insight is that action starts with a simple thought. If you notice the thought that you want to take action, either towards or away from something, then you can repeat that thought over and over mentally and verbally. Then I just force myself to go where I would go if I were going to do that thing, then force myself to do a tiiiiiiiiiny start. Once I do the tiny start the rest is easy. Just getting started is hard so finding ways to leverage the start points is useful I find
  7. This is false. I have already been privately contacted and deeply thanked for some of these instrumental insights. You don't understand the calibre of psychological damage. Research suggests that the likelihood for a male to commit suicide after having been accused of sexual misconduct can be 300% more likely. This is true. This is true. Although there are obvious adjustments that could be made. There for sure already have been some but nowhere near enough. Also because society leans heavily onto stigmatised words like rape or sexual assault...even when the reality of what happens is often very minute in contrast to situations that contain actual extreme violence or assault. Yeah, except we don't eat the cost as a society. Most people in society who are intelligent and empathetic see the situation, feel reasonably bad about it for an hour and forget about it the following day when the individuals, guilty or innocent, are permanently destroyed. Even when they are able to recover a bit or even in rare cases when they are extremely strong like Tyson, there is always a part of that person who will stay destroyed. I know it might not look like it...but trust me, they are destroyed. I have had many conversations (past and present) with people, innocent and guilty...from the oblivious teenager to real the deal. I've done my homework. The young ones especially...who are forced to live as pedos and rapists ...16, 18, 20 year olds who don't understand. Even some children who police have to deal with. Trust me, they would take physical torture instead of this if it were an alternative. But I digress... ultimately it's hard to really do much about this, but I'm willing to shine some consciousness on this typically highly over-simplified topic. Some seriously need it. I have no doubt that if these words were spread nationwide it would significantly improve the devastated minds of many a young man ..as I have already been informed has happened just yesterday.
  8. @Davino you ever watch the Truman show..?
  9. I did 6 months of MMA training about 2 years back. I'm a chubby 16stone 5ft10 tank. And I'm a flexible mother fucker. I hit very very fucking hard
  10. Inspiration for the next song davino^
  11. This is something I'd like to hear about cuz Leo once said that awakening goes beyond regular nonduality...
  12. I am less concerned with how likely it is to happen to me, than I am with the fact that is does happen to many. In fact, pointing to the unlikelihood of me having to experience it personally as a means by which to try end the debate (not our conversation but the debate at large) is only congruent with my previous statement that this is all simply being swept under the rug. Tens of thousands of innocent men (hundreds of thousands if not millions at a global scale, according to the stats) are being named publicly as having been investigated for rape. This naming alone is devastating, as previously mentioned. I don't want to come across to heavy here but saying "it'll probably not happen to you, don't think about it." Is kind of literally the definition of sweeping it under the rug... Well first of all let me correct the phrasology of this statement. I think it's slightly more accurate and phrasologically coherent to say "...by focusing too much on false accusations, you risk discouraging vulnerable people from reporting real sexual crimes." Because...they happen. They exist, they are real. And becoming more frequent. A lot more frequent. But yes This is very very true and probably one of the primary reasons why more action hasn't been taken thus far. And the reality is that particularly females have been undermined and treated terribly for thousands of years and that this has gone unquestioned. My estimate is that everything that is happening in this region is essentially a mass energetic reaction to many many years of bigotry, violence and sexism against women. On this point we agree. However there are laws that put a lot of effort into ensuring that misinformation is limited and simple objective reporting of facts is maintained. And so I'm not suggesting that we focus too much on the tens of thousands of false allegations destroying men's lives, I'm simply saying that we report on the false allegations as frequently as they occur...just like how we do with what we assume are legit cases. Simple objective reporting on facts. Of course then identifying which ones are false in which ones are legit is very difficult given the fact that 97% of cases don't result in convictions... But bro just open your eyes, there is virtually no one standing up and making any effort at all to try and correct any aspect of this devastating area of criminal justice as it continues to destroy. And like I also mentioned even people who do break the law...a growing number of those people have been coerced themselves. Lots of victims of sexual or psychological abuse become perpetrators. Tarring all perps with the same brush, and even using words like perpetrators, is sending the wrong message. Actually stigmatising perpetrators actually increases recidivism rates according to studies. There are many things that need to be changed in this area. I don't claim to have all the answers, but i have eyes and I have ears and a reasonable degree of cognitive functionality and critical thinking ability. This area is seriously unintelligent and fucked up. Just wait till it's your family who get falsely accused of being rapists or paedophiles... you'll think, damn...that guy on actualized...I think I need his help now. Like think about this logically...with so much effort being put into punishing socially unskilled people as heavily as physically and psychologically possible...and making them out to be rapists and creeps and degenerates and spreading that shit for all their families and lifelong friends to see...such that everyone abandons them and they are completely psychologically isolated and devastated...do we expect this to somehow help them reintegrate? Does this result in the decrease or increase of angry, isolated perpetrators... The likes of Holland for example has methods, when dealing with serious and less serious crime, that are much more intelligent than that of the UK and US. Holland prioritises education, liberty, compassion, understanding, firmness and actual rehabilitation. UK and US seem to have many leaders who display low levels of intelligence.
  13. @Davino Bro you have got to make more this shit is off the chain. I'm getting murphed as we speak. Try make one that is less coherent and normal. Just keep in contact with friends and don't go too deep. Keep control. Can't stop listening to this. This is genius level material. My ass is off.
  14. Bro this is so good lol. this is mad chaotic and I LOVE chaos. Love it love it love it. There are probably many ways this could be interpreted. I personally love the random chaos insanity of it. Beautiful masterpiece. You should make way more. Just be careful who you let listen to it, people will give you insults or think your mad lol. Madness makes the best material. I'm getting notes of levity and freestyle fun. I dont want to misinterpret this, but bro, it's quite funny. Like very.
  15. Any videos on how to become a dopamine priest?
  16. The whole thing is one giant immature clusterfuck of psychological retardation and mass emotional reactivity.
  17. So firstly id like to just say thank you for your cordial replies, it's nice to be able to have a genuine intelligent conversation about a subject that can be somewhat emotionally charged and polarising. So in the UK in 2024 there were a recorded 67,460 reports of r made to the police. 2% - 8% of which is estimated are false allegations.With 2% - 3% of being convicted. 98% - 99% of which were male with the "vast majority" of accusers being female. (Per year) So that's 67460 r allegations, 1349-5397 of which are estimated to be fabricated, with around 66111 not convicted for any reason. (Per year) So my first observation is that we have a broken system. Quite clearly. In the UK it's safe to assume that many (probably most) of these are published and the UK names and shames people, the outlets also freely fabricate additional facts that the "perpetrators" can do nothing about...if they contact the outlets the outlets just report again. So we are talking realistically estimated around 2000-4000 innocent [mostly] males per year who have been reported as having been investigated for r per year. Also just because there are more people who have their lives destroyed by car accidents doesn't mean that we can continue allowing a broken system to destroy three thousand innocent men's lives every year. I see what you're saying and I of course deeply empathize with people who have horrific rape experiences and the terrible trauma that causes. But let me illuminate something about this system using the base statistics. As you have quite correctly stated, and as the statistics back up, in the UK at least around 97% of cases are not convicted. The police are aware of this statistic, as such they rely on media reporting to be a strong deterrent. It would definitely be fair to say that the media reporting is probably the strongest thing the police are leaning on to to combat this problem. I think this is quite obvious. The problem is they are reporting on hundreds of thousands of men over the years who have been investigated but not been convicted and tens of thousands the police know are innocent over the years. And there are no doubt multiple thousands of people who we have labeled perpetrators who simply don't understand that if they have sex with a girl after having 4 glasses of wine, then have sex with her again after she has 2 more...their careers could be ended, their family relationships could be ruined, the legacy that they have worked their entire lives to create could be annihilated. And by such a simple mistake (possibly galvanised by a sadistic female). Put yourself in this man's shoes... He has now been convicted of r because he had sex with her again after she she two more glasses of wine. How does this man's daughter feel about her daddy who is now a convicted rapist and how does the mother feel, looking at her newly brandished rapist of a son. After he is forced to leave his job, he'd be lucky if he could get a job in McDonald's as a newly convicted rapist. Or the young person who places a hand on a girls body too fast during kissing. How does this young person now feel about his future as a freshly convicted S.O and his prospects of becoming a doctor half way through his $10,000 medical degree, let alone being completely isolated and branded as a pervert or creep or deviant in front of all of his friends. At a young age this kind of material is extremely devastating. Society's current strategy in combating this is to report on everyone (or most) equally. In the UK they are named and shamed. The psychological ramifications are instrumental and monumental. And in relation to how I would go about fixing this situation... Ultimately I don't know how to fix the situation, but I'm intellectually rigorous enough to be able to identify that there's a massive problem. I think firstly dropping labels and category names that are so unnecessarily triggering or at least modifying the names of the convictions to be more specific rather than giving the same conviction name to a 16 year old who doesn't understand consent and a 60 year old who premeditatedly r'ed a 20 year old. Also I think launching a massive media campaign in all schools giving extensive education to people who have reached a certain age. And I'm not talking about the birds and the bees, I'm talking about the slip up areas that exist in reality (having sex with drunk girls, learning that consent can be withdrawn halfway through an interaction and that this can be completely nonverbal, I'm talking realistic detail). This would be a decent start.
  18. Correct. But they do make fabricated or exaggerated allegations. Also males do it now too so it's not just girls. This depends on where your from. Many legit perps don't get charged yes but have you considered the teenaged adult who's religious parents never educated what consent was...or that they just advanced too fast in a sexual interaction... Or perhaps the man who has consensual sex with a woman who has had six glasses of wine as opposed to four. That a simple lack of mindfulness or social skills could result in growing numbers of young people to be forced to live as rapists. And what about the straight up false allegations... What happens when they lose their careers and families and experience permanent psychological devastation? Even if found innocent. People will assume the results are just as you've described...incorrect. these are innocent lives being devastated (targeting young people who don't understand it). Well either your country or region operates differently to mine and many countries I see this happening in, or your statement is inaccurate. Could you substantiate your claim that false allegations don't name people.. This statement reveals to me that you have not been deeply exposed to the reality of how much damage this area can truly inflict. Society just brushes this extreme damage under the rug so that well off people don't have to think about it.
  19. You could try what I call the "be god" technique. Kinda simple, you just sit there being God lol
  20. Actually it's a very good deterrent of unintelligent people
  21. (This set of insights is extremely selfless and accurate and will likely trigger many egos) Yeah bro that's why I used the word "much" of course there are many legit cases, but the government have not yet found a way to deal with evil people (many of whom are female) who are either extremely mentally ill or just insanely sadistic to exaggerate or fabricate information to policing bodies. I think some people just have so little going on in their lives or their identities are so unfound and hopeless that they need to find their abuser so they can claim "some" form of an identity (in this case a victim identity). Very central truth in a lot of emerging cases these days. This doesen't discount from the legitimacy of real cases, but young mens lives are being annihilated over exaggerations. First and second wave feminism was extremely good and wholesome, but now much of third wave feminisms is just predicated on the single central assumption that all men are bastards. These kinds of people will seriously need to watch their backs over the next 40 years as the pendulum will inevitably swing back in the opposite direction, likely causing themselves a degree of destruction.