Aaron p

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  1. Yeah I like what you say here lol. I deffo see the problems that can come from a lack of therapeutic vibes. I personally don't subscribe to only cut throat style or only therapy as I can see difficulties and problems arising from a subscription to one but not the other. I think I'll try walk the middle path cuz I think I can be cutthroat and therapeutic.
  2. Another insight I'm having is that that this kind of questioning doesn't necessarily relate to how I actually respond to other people's lack of consciousness... Like I'm still going to be very verbally corrective of people who are racist to my friends. If it happens again I'll probably tell them to go fuck themselves. I think what it's actually about is a deeper, subtler energy which is like an energy of reactivity or emotional volatility... Which of course points to something deeper within myself. So it's not necessarily that I need to stop being vocal about standing against social stupidity at large...I can continue doing that, but what I should be doing is being careful and mindful when analysing my heart to determine whether this vocal resistance is stemming out of emotional reactivity, or calibrated indignation. In other words I think I need to pay closer attention to the foundation and source of my vocality against stupidity in people. Whether it's coming from my own pain or from a detached awareness of the necessity to call it out for the actual benefit of people as opposed to just satiating and satisfying my desire to vent the pain I've experienced from previous situations (that were also brought about largely by the stupidity of people, myself included).
  3. Yeah like parents indoctrinating me with Christian ideology from the age of 2, people being racist to my buddy last night. Christianity is a big pit of outrageous stupidity like. It's also a dangerous pit of damaged people pretending to be healed resulting in loads of problems and dangers...it's essentially a collection pot dangerous idiots. My Christian teachers didn't know how to help me at all nor did my society know how to help me with my mental health problems as a young person. They just unconsciously punish you for acting out. People who just do group think are stupid (most people in government). I also feel that lots of therapists don't know how to deal with real trauma. Kind of like Christianity, it works when the problems aren't too difficult/deep. Such problems require real solutions. I think a lot of mainstream therapy actually reinforces trauma sometimes. The education system is kinda shit, teaching young people what to think instead of how to think...and forcing all young people into one modality of intelligence. Just constantly over and over again idiots not protecting young people (like even simple things about educating them about the basic dangers that exist in the world). These are a few. But as I've outlined in the updated message I think my entire question illuminates a deeper question, as to my relationship with my own suffering.
  4. @Flowerfaeiry I made an update to the last comment there^
  5. It's difficult for me to talk about about this topic sometimes nevertheless it's very true. Having come through many layers of my own stupidity I am very acquainted and qualified in this area. Trust me I have the work experience and diploma in stupidity, but at least I was able to recognise it and make efforts to transcend. This is of course an ongoing process as I would imagine it is for everybody. But it is a genuine difficulty that I'm noticing in myself dealing with people who are completely moronic. Racists, religious ideologues, people who have no idea what they're doing in positions of leadership and power causing immense damage and suffering for others and themselves. What gets me most is the people who make active efforts to teach their stupidity to young people. It may point to a lack of maturity in myself but I have to be honest about where I'm at in my own development... The stupidity of other people really really irritates me. Guys is there any actual solid hardcore spiritual methods to deal with the lack of consciousness in other people? I find it particularly hard to deal with people who are actively in my life leading people into chaos and causing young people in particular extreme amounts of damage. I'm getting an intuitive sense that the most effective method to deal with this kind of problem is to just have a few awakenings but assuming that I can't do that yet how the fuck can I deal with these people Update: Ok so just did a bit of contemplating and I had an insight. I think I'm projecting my pain onto other people. Not to say that they aren't stupid, but my over sensitivity to their stupidity is indicative of deeper truths of feelings of having been failed by leaders in society. So the real question is not how do I deal with the stupidity of others, the real question is how do I deal with the pain and suffering I have experienced. For this, a strategy I think should be effective is the realignment of my understanding of what suffering is, as It is ultimately the sterilisation of ego. So my current conclusion is that I need to lean into my own pain
  6. Guys check this video out. This is probably the coolest trippy visuals I've EVER seen: "Do not dread, do not fear. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you may go." Super thought provoking video, stunning visual effects 💎
  7. Quite a variety of answers here... 😂 I like your answer @integral
  8. All hail pope Leo 👑
  9. https://mentalstateoftheworld.report/2023_read/ Interesting material... Check out the charts (starting with highest rank): The UK is second most mentally ill country on the planet, ranking 7 countries worse than Iraq 🫣 jesus
  10. @Kid A essentially it goes back a few hundred years. The British invaded Ireland a long time ago like they did with a lot of countries. But they were particularly hard on the Irish (prohibiting them from owning land in their own country, shipping out all their food during a famine for profit, lots of stuff). It got to the point where the Irish started to rebel. As you know how this kind of thing goes, rebellion was met with even harsher treatment, which was met with even stronger rebellion, which was met with even harsher treatment etc etc. Eventually the Irish just said "right well, your going to supplant British people in the north of our country as a method to forever rob us of our land? Keep it. We'll fuck it up nice and good for you x." They proceeded to bomb the fuck out of Belfast for a few decades. Irish and British young people were killed, the violence was horrific. There was a crew called the shankill butchers and...let's just say they weren't butchering animals. Everyone was affected, lots of people were assassinated by the IRA. Ultimately, it was the Brits fault and a united Ireland is coming slowly but surely.
  11. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGV6spMOPN2/?igsh=MWF5dGRnZzZocnIwdw==
  12. I'm just gathering some data about different life coaching courses that exist. Ive looked into ipec and even pagans future coach program. As far as I can see eben pagan as a solid program with the only downside being that he tends to upsell and be slightly scummy with his slightly manipulative upselling. I know ipec is expensive like £10K and I know Ebens courses "future coach" and "virtual coach" both cost about £3k combined. According to my research ebens courses have a heavy focus on finding your niche, branding and marketing effectively with what sounds to be a solid business end. And the price point is good for beginner aspiring coaches. Does anyone else have any information about courses that are around the 3000 £ mark that would be equal or better than ebens? (Also if anybody has any general experience with ebens courses + material I'd definitely liked to hear your opinion, including how much he tries to upsell during the courses and how vital and necessary the upsold extra packages are, like are you basically at a massive loss if you don't buy the extra stuff?). Thanks y'all.
  13. Summary of co-active coaching packages: ____ Ai start- Course Packages & What You Get 1. Fundamentals – $1,100 (Online) / $1,400 + VAT (London) 2.5-day intro to Co-Active coaching Covers core coaching skills, mindset, and principles 2. Intermediate Series – $6,900 (Online) / $7,600 + VAT (London) 4 courses: Fulfillment, Balance, Process, Synergy Deepens coaching practice with emotional, cognitive, and systemic tools 3. Certification (CPCC) – $6,500 6-month program Weekly supervision, live client coaching, final exam Leads to CPCC designation and ICF Level 2 path 4. Coach Training Bundle – $8,000 (Online) / $9,000 + VAT (London) Includes both Fundamentals + Intermediate Payment plans available 5. Leadership Program – $19,800 + VAT 10-month in-person intensive 5 retreats + group work focused on transformational leadership Ai end- ___________ Cool. It's a lil more expensive than ebens but I'm getting better vibes from it. It prioritises existential learning. Thank you very much for the comment. I have a while to go yet before I'm worthy of the role so good food for thought thank you ♥️ You know I thought I was Gona start seeing this, eben pagans courses is actually a really good price. And the business end, I mean it looks fucking solid. Defo tempting. Although doesn't help that ebens team is now spamming me slightly with emails about discounts and stuff. Any other ones you'd suggest @Flowerfaeiry ? Something perhaps very similar to the price point of ebens ones but that lean towards spirituality and direct learning and 1-2-1 support. Or perhaps you could try answer this question: are there any places online other than actualized.org that have a lot of people with a lot of experience in becoming life coaches. Like is the replace like that even digitally? I'd love to be able to just find a load of people who have had experiences with a lot of different life coaching programs and just get their advice
  14. I'm insane about god ♥️ don't mean it in a harmful way
  15. Aw man. I've got this thing that keeps happening to me (I keep re-contextualising myself in outrageous and monumental ways) where I *always* get misinterpreted the first time I enter a new social space. Maybe peeps think I'm arrogant or proud. Then after I continue just being normal (usually being very very actual and inquisitive about spirituality in the meditation sessions for example and sometimes quite intense lol) and over time they realise that I'm just extremely extremely genuine lol. It's been a blessing and a curse, a weakness and a tool. I mean it's been a major asset. Somehow this repetitive re-contextualising thing is used massively to my advantage. Like situations just unfold with impossible coincidences and just impossible outcomes...I mean sober in the normal, egoic social life. I like re-contextualising
  16. Hells just separation from god, so yeah
  17. (Im not anti-abortion) Yeah but you have to be careful just with this line of reasoning...I mean there's lots of things the government says you can't do with your body. You can't walk into a library naked, your not allowed to put heroin into your body then virtually all laws in existence that dictate what you can and cannot do with your body (moving it and using it to commit any crime).
  18. Word. Although I think it would be slightly more accurate to say that Leo is the best *articulator. Sometimes I find his communications could be slightly better angled. See he's teaching from such a high level, he can't comprehend how low level some of us are at lol. But I mean he's pretty solid. Defo the best teacher/business combo I've ever seen. I know we sort of jest (well I'm jesting) about Leo being the greatest teacher of all time. I think it's pretty safe to assume that in terms of depth, accuracy, power and communication, Leo's up there. It's a trade off, he trades carefulness for power. Good trade imo, someone needs to have the balls to do it
  19. Overview of the general positives and negatives of the future life program and the virtual coach program. ___________ Ai start- Criticisms of Future Coach: - Time-Limited Tools: Access to AI tools expires after 6 months, requiring additional purchases for continued use. - Overwhelming Content: Excessive materials can confuse users about what to prioritize. - Upsell Pressure: Aggressive marketing for higher-tier packages and add-ons. - Limited Live Interaction: Not enough live coaching or personalized feedback. Criticisms of Virtual Coach: - High Cost: The program's price may be prohibitive, especially with added costs for tools. - Limited Real-World Application: Lacks enough practical, hands-on experience. - Overwhelming Information: Extensive content may be hard to digest and apply. - Lack of Personalization: Limited individualized support. --- Positives of Future Coach: - Comprehensive Coaching Framework: Well-structured training covering all aspects of coaching. - AI Tools: Offers powerful AI tools to streamline client management and business operations. - Community Support: Access to a supportive online community of coaches. Positives of Virtual Coach: - Complete Training: Offers a full, step-by-step process to become a certified virtual coach. - High-Value Bonuses: Includes valuable marketing tools, templates, and resources. - Lifetime Access: Course materials are available for lifetime use with the full payment option. Ai end- _________
  20. @Michael569 Im sending just a little chunk of ai generated info about the courses overall. Don't see the wall of words and exit lol I really appreciate your advice. Do you know of any courses that would be better? Possibly with a more appropriate price Vs tutoring? Also I resonate with what you said about not mindlessly going through the programs. Perhaps you could tell me about some courses that are more philosophically/epistemologically stimulating. (Now that you say that, such an emphasis on ai does sound a bit lazy psychologically). Also I was thinking about the fact that if I were to start some kind of coaching operation myself I would want to have teachings and techniques that lean very heavily in the direction of spirituality. It's just difficult because a lot of spiritual teachers are fucking morons. _________ Ai start- Both Future Coach and Virtual Coach by Eben Pagan offer multiple package tiers with varying features and pricing. Here's a refined breakdown of each program, detailing the available packages, their contents, and any additional costs or subscription requirements: --- 🧠 Future Coach Program Duration: 8 weeks 📦 Available Packages 1. Standard Package Price: $997 (one-time) or 4 monthly payments of $297 Includes: 8-Week Future Coach Training & Certification Program Access to coaching tools and resources Community support Access Duration: Participants have access to program materials, including recorded sessions and automated A.I. tools, for at least 6 months after the program ends. 2. Upgrade Package Price: $1,497 (one-time) or 6 monthly payments of $297 Includes: Everything in the Standard Package 12 Coaching A.I. Power Tools 200 Personal & Business Growth Prompts A.I. Accelerator Pack Infographic 12 “Psychic Marketing” A.I. Tools NEXUS: Your Affluent Client Network $100 Million Marketing Templates Self-Made WEALTH Total Value: Over $10,179 3. Pro Package Price: $2,497 (one-time) or 4 payments of $697 Includes: All features of the Upgrade Package Additional advanced training modules and resources Details: Specifics of the Pro Package's additional features are not detailed in the available information. 💡 Additional Costs & Subscriptions All packages are one-time payments or structured installment plans. There are no recurring subscription fees or hidden costs associated with the core packages. Access to program materials is time-limited, with at least 6 months provided post-program for the Standard and Upgrade packages. --- 💻 Virtual Coach Program Duration: 90 days (approximately 12 weeks) 📦 Available Packages 1. Full Payment Option Price: $2,497 (one-time) Includes: Comprehensive 10-week training curriculum Certification upon completion Access to weekly live classes with Eben Pagan and faculty Lifetime access to course materials Bonuses: Tech Tool Trainings ($1,997 value) Marketing Step-By-Step ($997 value) Wake Up Productive ($497 value) Presentations That Pay ($197 value) Digital Product Marketing Library ($24,000 value) One Ticket to Virtual Coach Live ($997 value) Total Bonus Value: Over $30,000 2. Installment Plan Price: $97 refundable deposit, then 6 monthly payments of $497 Total: $3,079 Includes: All features and bonuses of the Full Payment Option 💡 Additional Costs & Subscriptions Both payment options are one-time payments or structured installment plans. There are no recurring subscription fees or hidden costs associated with the core packages. Lifetime access to course materials is provided. --- Summary: Future Coach offers three tiers: Standard ($997), Upgrade ($1,497), and Pro ($2,497), each with increasing levels of resources and tools. Access to materials is time-limited, with at least 6 months provided post-program. Virtual Coach provides two payment options: a one-time payment of $2,497 or a $97 deposit followed by 6 monthly payments of $497, both granting lifetime access to materials and a suite of valuable bonuses. In the Future Coach program, access to most AI tools, templates, and training modules lasts for at least 6 months after the course ends. After that, access may expire unless renewed via subscription—though exact tools and terms aren't clearly listed. The time limit encourages full engagement during the program. For specifics, it's best to contact their support directly. The likely reason why these tools are limited are estimated to be the following reasons: 1. Incentivizes urgency – pushing users to fully engage within a set timeframe. 2. Encourages upsells – offering ongoing access as a potential subscription or upgrade. 3. Offsets costs – running advanced AI tools has real expenses on their end. (Also because these tools are designed primarily for business startup to bootstrap the launch and start of business). Ai end- ________
  21. I predict another assassination attempt 🎯