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I know I'm late, but maybe you think so because you're unconfident, needy, weak, beta, poor, socialy awkward, boring guy. As everyone else who agrees with you. Your characteristics are common, but that's not literary what women want, they don't wan't "violent, rude asshole", but confident guy. Also why would any girl wan't guy who can't take care of himself - "wealthy, muscular, socially skilled". If you're poor and awkward sure they will rather choose guy who atleast knows how to take care of his looks, finances and has great social circle. Most of your list is bullshit and on the right things you're looking from wrong perspective. As on the topic, I disagree. Girls do like emotional guys, but they don't like needy beta's, be a kind alpha, keep everything in balance. Don't be too needy, don't be too apathetic. I don't get many of you, working so hard to get enlightened, but can't figure out the basics on women attraction.

There is something special about shitting, I read literary the same story here on forum few days ago I guess shitting replaces meditation

Research a lot before, try to understand It conceptually before you do It and start with low dose, then you will be totally fine and will gain a lot of knowledge or/and lose a lot of crap. No research and/or high dose? Very bad idea. Very high doses could rip your ego apart so hard that you could recover only in next life

Fuck those synthetic craps, check out adaptogens. Those will be way better choice. Rhodiola rosea would be the first one to look up, but It's worth checking all of them. Way more effective with not side effects and many side benefits.

Just one suggestion. Don't do as other suggest high dose of lsd If you haven't done It before. You will regret It.

I can't write everything I think about this as It would take me infinity to write It all, but yes, you're not alone. I wouldn't call myself enlightened, just "woke", but that's already faaar away from 95% of society and It's really a struggle to find someone who I could relate with on deep level and completely open up myself. I wouldn't have any problem to find attractive girlfriend, but there's no point in It as the way my mind works will be too different for us to have real, satisfying relationship. I have tried expressing 10% of myself and expressing just the upper layers of myself, but that's pointless, I can't take that, so here I am single for pretty long time, even though I regularly socialize and girls get attracted to me. I don't wan't to sound narcissistic, but this is really frustrating that girls get attracted to me, but they have no idea what kind of rabbit hole I am, and I don't even know If I wan't anyone to dive in there just for their own safety.

Naming just needs to be something that's catchy and easy to remember, but the strategy is 90% about social media. Have accounts on every platform, depends of product, but prefered also youtube channel and podcasts, document as much as you can and make partnerships with influencers. Another technique I am using is build brand as on a product and associate yourself with the brand so brand promotes you and you promote brand. For example If you're selling watersports equipment, do watersports yourself. That's totally random example, but I believe that the best way how to go about branding is becoming the brand yourself and again - social media marketing and influencers. Pay few hundreds or thousands depending on your niche to great influencer and you're instantly exposed to huge amount of potentional customers, already have exposure and definitely some revenue. Check Gary Vee on youtube, will tell you everything you need relating building brand.

I'm living and studying, before been working abroad for years so I have realised that my english skills are better than my native language skills and when I talk native I also wan't to use some english words in between and some native words seem weird, like they don't sound "correct". I believe It's just adapting to language you are the most exposed to and less frequently used one slowly worsens over time. How much of your thoughts are english and how much native? I find It like 70/30 so It's obvious that the 30% one will go even lower.

I actually think there's no illusions here. Except others thinking that she might have a chance. I have no idea what's going on in your mind, but your posts contradict each other which really makes no sense. "Worried I might never have sex" "Guys will have sex with anything" Sure, some fuc*ed up guy would have sex with you, but doesn't sound like any decent guy would ever be attracted to you. You don't wan't to change (every partnership/relationship requires effort in both ways) and can't even define what your problem actually is. You have to work really hard and fix your own bullshit.

Well for a compromise I can tell that I believe 90% studying happens outside school, but I really wan't people to figure that out while in university otherwise in reality most people who say this and don't study on higher levels - university, college, academy etc. tend to live pretty sad lives, stuck in horrible jobs as It is really not that easy to build your own brand, company etc. most people just couldn't do that, so university level education will atleast give decent, comfortable life from which they can move forward. School system and life is as It is, adapt or get left behind. Sure, those few who have the enterpreunership skills to do It on their own, do It!

Really interested to hear the same. I'm glad I'm not alone having this question.

Exactly. To be able to help others, you must help yourself first. Put yourself in the state where you don't have to worry about yourself, only then you can really help.

If you're that kind of person who is unable to apply theory to practice then maybe go to construction or mechanic school? Somehow I've found that mostly lazy people with crappy grades, who don't know what they wan't blame school. Smart, ambitious people know that school is amazing tool to reach their goals. Below university level you have to learn basic information about everything and I think It's stupid to say that you don't need a certain thing from that, in highschool they require you to learn basics on broad, general topics, which is great, after that in university you can study whatever you wan't. Maybe you're just not that kind of person who can study theory, but has to do more practical stuff. Do It, set up you "school system". Let's see how many kids will "walk around track". Do not kid yourself, you would be running alone as your idea is crap and no one would ever join your "school system" as It's pointless bullshit. I get It, you're 16 and your mind is filled up with "actualized mess". But in reality the kid who walked 6 miles will beg for a job to the one who did 20 miles. And socializing is just as or even more important than studies themselves, I suggest you to really think about this as you don't wan't life to teach you how important that is. People, no matter how enlightened or consciouss you are, as you're living in society It's really beneficial to figure out how humans and life in general works and use this knowledge in your favor. Yes, society is tangled in illusions and bullshit, but If you are able to see trough It, you can use It to infiltrate in It and achieve whatever you wan't. In this case, school and socializing really helps If you wan't decent human experience.

Same here. I've heard many times that I think more with emotions than logic, which is kinda true. I love bright, colorful stuff. I love animals and nature and everything that's colorful or beautiful Listen to classical, indie, emotional love songs. I love fashion. I use term aesthetic 20 times a day. Never heard, but probably some have thought about me being homesexual even though I'm great with girls. I hate watching sports and doing most of them except I'm triathlete I see nothing wrong with that and I truly believe that there is very common problem called "overmanliness" and that men are shaped into sociopaths. There for sure is the other side: Agressive routine - super produtive, ambitious and goal oriented, doing heavy endurance/triathlon training (so heavy that you no one could imagine that I have pink raincot when seeing me when training) . Also often mean and almost always straight and don't care about emotions If It's true. I believe this is called duality and we all have It in different degrees, I guess I'm more feminine that masculine, but I love It and you should just own it!

You're just weak. Just kidding, probably lack of some nutrients or too low calories. About the topic. I experienced the same for.., pretty much my whole life, but after gradual revolution It's "cured". I'll list you the main things that will help you. Create goals list. If you have no drive, then, well, you just have no drive. You can't feel motivated and energetic If there is nothing to work towards. Fix sleep schedule, (from experience) no you're not person who needs longer sleep hours, you just need to fix schedule, stop staying up late, go to sleep early and wake up early, always atleast at similar times, the more constant the better. Do not masturbate. Read about nofap. Basically you just shoot all your energy into your hand, sock, napkin whatever Keep It in you and you will be surprised, It's like a superpower. Don't eat heavy foods before sleep . I would actually suggest to go for vegan diet as It really does raise your energy levels. No phone, tv, pc 1 hour before and after sleep. Don't work/study/chill in bed, only sleep. Cold showers right after waking up, the colder and longer the better. Maybe I forgot something, but just few of those will have noticable impact.

I was in the position where I said: "School is crap, they just make robots so they have corporative slaves". You know what? I got bit older and realized that's bullshit. I bet most people couldn't build great career without school, people are just too weak for that, very few quit or don't go to school in order to build their idea. Most will just work in crap jobs and blame "the system". Definitely don't pay for school, that's stupid, so many great countries have free education in any field, choose that. And no, don't take whatever your parents suggest or what pays well, adjust your passion, purpose, hobbies to offered programms, that's what I did and It's the best choice ever. Sure I still study most of the stuff at home as I don't plan to be average worker, that's what everyone should do. You will be taken much more seriously If you do have some kind of degree and school does teach you a lot of important stuff, not just lectures themselves, but whole social aspect Itself. Attend every exhange program, build network, join in every project. School is amazing!

Either you don't know what brand is or I couldn't decode your sentence..

Depends on the product but generally grow It in all kinds of social media - create blog, create content on youtube, facebook, instagram, snapchat, idk If twitter is still popular, do podcasts. Associate yourself with the brand and go all in so that way you promote brand and brand promotes you. Other thing is collaborations and marketing. Just find someone really well known in your niche and pay him to advertise your product. Those are general suggestions, It really depends what you mean by brand.

You might be in a bad mood or I might have been unclear, but If you offer something like that to person you've never seen and all you know is that she is in horrible mindstate then I guess there is something wrong. Idk what I wan't to tell about this, but I definitely see some broken part in you which needs some work/healing done.

I guess some people have no standards at all.. Is her goal really to have sex with whoever agrees? If so, then my hope for humanity just decreased a little. Sure It's way easier for women, but there might be some really bad cases, I tried not to mention this, but this attention whoring and lack of will to do anything about situation Itself is just stupid, she might have to face the reality, otherwise you all are just giving false hopes. Someone who doesn't wan't to invest any work in self-improvement deserves to be alone. Sure she doesn't have to, but her problem needs solution which is improvement, doesn't like It? Face the consequences. Just my ass-holish opinion. And please man, raise your standards atleast a little, that sounded so desperate.

If she made already atleast 3rd post with same crap, then I guess not. OP! You already heard 50 different opinions and suggestions on your problem. Work hard or stay forever alone. I could bullshit you into "apperance is not important, someone is already dreaming about you." That rarely, if ever happens, get your gym membership, get some decent clothes, take care of yourself and fix your mindset. No one is going to do It for you.

If you have time to spend 8hours on phone and masturbate all day then what are you doing with your time? Okay, I understand you're going to university, do you think It's enough to study while there to build decent career? Fuck no, school can only make you corporative slave, most of learning is done outside school. What about hobbies? Music, arts, sport, whatever, do you have them? If not then find what you would love to do. That's just whining while all you need is some discipline and list of goals. I study, work in two jobs, train in 3 different sports, working on business. That's what you need to do, fill your time up with stuff that will create your dream life or, well, you already know what will happen If you don't do It, you will just work in average job, masturbate daily and spend free time on internet. This is the same pain/pleasure principle - start your own personal revolution and stick to It or just accept your life as It is, as It won't change If you don't force It to change. You have the choice, be wise!

I meditate mostly with music. Why? Music is extremely powerful tool for changing your mindstate. Listen to certain music (genre/style), watch your thoughts, how you feel, the vibe you get. Switch It to different genre/style, do the same. This way I have found hundreds of songs which can trigger certain mental states and just after few songs I'm in that vibe, that state I wanted to be in. Music one of the most impactful things on your mindset there can be, be aware of that and you will get why I'm saying this. Now I am able to trigger thinking patterns, feelings, whole belief systems/attitudes, get energy boost, instant focus, whatever I wan't with just listening to certain music and I mostly do that while meditating. I meditate with certain music before training, before school/work, before working on my business, meeting people. Yes, this kinda makes me addicted to music and in some way dependant, but It works so great that I will keep doing this. How I found this out? I just somewhat started paying attention to what I listened, understood that it's toxic and deleted every song I had and built new playlist until I got here. What I do now is I ask people what they listen to. They think that It's just casual small talk question, but actual reason is: "I mostly listen to rap music/ don't care whatever (pop on the radio)/ indie music/ classical music/ metal music.". All those genres have specific vibe and you notice a pattern in mindsets within people listening to certain style.

I wan't a lot of money and but I don't wan't to work. I could win in a lottery, but to increase the chances I choose to work hard. This analogy maybe is a bit extreme, but as I remember, you said you look really unatractive, I don't wan't to be asshole (actually don't care), but don't you think It would be smarter to take care of yourself? You don't need 1000$ gucci shoes and pound of make-up, but don't wear hoodie everyday and carry around 20 pound of extra weight. If you actually wanted to find that guy not just seek for attention on this forum, you would now go to the gym, figure out what your fashion style is and improve your mindset. There are many guys who would accept whoever, but we live in human being society, adapt (follow some standards and put effort) or deal with consequences (stay single).

Don't use your phone or any other electronic devices 1 hour before going to sleep and after waking up. Most people who can't fall asleep, go to sleep with phone in their hands, that shit won't work, put It away, turn of notifications/sounds and leave it alone. Set fixed sleep routine (go to sleep, wake up at same time every day (atleast as much as possible)). This could be one of top techniques. Ice f*cking cold shower right after waking up, no snoozing. Turn of alarm and jump in ice cold shower. Meditate, before and after sleep. Healthy diet (go vegan!) and exercise is also vital for quality sleep. Yeah, sounds like a lot, but all those things are a must and extremely beneficial in many different ways, not just sleep. This all will definitely work? How I'm so sure? I was exactly in the same position, even 8 hours felt like 4, was tired all day and couldn't fall asleep, after slowly implementing all those techniques I sleep really well, not mentioning 101 other benefit from this.