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Hey guys, I am in the US in the state of Alabama which is the worst state for self-actualizing person. I don't know how to buy psychedelics at all. Any Ideas? I want to have mystical experiences but sadly can't.

Brother you need to take time off from self-help because self-help makes you lonely and detach. Start mingling with people. People are you, you are them, but the only thing that differentiates them from you is their physicality. Their body and mind or as you say software and hardware are different due to different environmental and survival adaption and their software is their conditioning where they acquired their mother language and accent and their beliefs and values. Once they die and you die, you guys merge into the same self and you can remember everyone memories. You share 99.9% of DNA with other people, You are made of consciousness just like them, You have organs just like them, you suffer like them...etc. We are you and you are us.

I Myself somewhat wanna be a guru. Why don't you become gurus, to the guys who criticise. My middle eastern people are lacking behind and are extremely tribal and religious. We are so purple and red stage mixed with blue that results are soo awful. I just don't think What American government doing abroad by sending U.S. troops and spreading orange culture is doing better job. It actually make the current egos extremely violent and destructive. I wish I could with leos permission, after reading his entire booklist cover to cover and doing all meditations exercises and psychedelics to teach my middle eastern family about science and spirituality in their own paradigms and world-view slowly growing their minds and shifting their paradigms and uplifting their consciousness to become global and worldly and catch up with civilizations around them and start to improve their own lives and end the seditions and wars and become loving people as much as the Europeans who are accepting refugees, in future, we middle easterners take up european refugees, paying back the gratitude and kindness. I am learning neighbouring middle eastern languages such as Persian which will allow to learn Afghan pashto language, hopefully one day go to Afghanistan and start delivering message of moderate islam.

I can resonate with all of you. I started killing my sense of self since I started leos videos and backlashes were hard on me. I started to become extra-horny, sleepy, angry, crazy......for two years until I lost many parts of my old self which made me extremely lonely and not know myself anymore, evading people, however as leo got deeper and deeper I started understanding him more and more and realized what he was saying is what every religion at its core and every mystical tradition essentially. Plus, I started to read more and more about love and epistemology. I think I made new ego with alot of positive sides to it. I started becoming more and more sympathetic to people. I read chimpanzee politics, apes in us, 48 laws of power, strategies of war, people skills, les giblin book, black face black heart, how to win friends and influence, how to destroy your enemies completely or manipulate them by mikhael saad. I started interacting more, I understood how people behave and why people behave this way. I no longer get disguested or repulsed or get angered by what people do or believe. I just feel more curious and amazed each time it becomes hilarious. I started to incorporate completely surrender to the supreme consciousness as ultimate guide in my life, I incorporated that negativity and positivity are same faces of the same coin and are essentials. Good and evil are essential part of life. Adversity is a must to understand propserity. I just completely surrrrrrrender to the moment. I learned about my Shadow sides, I slowly incorporating it. I am re-watching leos most depressing video, contemplating death to be motivated for life, this is the most gem of all his videos, it grows me each time and make love life and people and their pity cheese-chasing pathetic-ness even more. I just love leo so much. He is the best thing that happend to me. Yes sometime his videos feel lonely but heck I am growing more and more. Loneliness is just temporary, but rewards are immense if you guys stick to growing yourselves. Have your mid-life crisis earlier so that you don't have major ones later when regret becoming haunting. eliminate your regrets earlier. suffer early and you will enjoy later.

@spicy_pickles Congratulations on upgrade you made to your life. You are now Promoted from Private first class to Private second class. If you read books 48 laws of power, chimpanzee politics, our inner ape you get promoted from Private second class to Specialist soldier and If you read no more Mr nice guy and the Art of not giving a fuck and the Art of saying no and personal boundaries You become Corporal. Now going to a sergeant requires more work. This is where you have to apply everything you learned and also you must watch dream killer list by leo and buy leos life purpose course to be staff sergeant and shortly after you jott down things you like and You have clear Idea of things you wanna do you become Sergeant first class. and through trial and error and real world as well as people stand in your way, You read obstacle is the way and Anti-fragility by nassim taleb you advance to master sergeant. Keeeeeeep learning! Go through the ranks like everybody else. Its must in life that people and circumstance block your path but you keep advancing and advancing. Harmful People will step aside naturally when they sense your no easy chump and have leadership qualities. Remember nobody is here to serve you. Some people will do because they love you or like you or think your helpful but not for too long, and you will do the same but not for too long. Care for your own before others. Learn self-reliance and little politics to get with people. Crying and moaning and hating will not solve anything.

I agree with you st clair. People will love you if you listen more and talk less. People love hearing people listening to them without jumping to unwanted help or advice, flatter others lightly, encourage others. Remember Two ears and one mouth. You may run occasionally to people who diplomats who are rare who will out listen you with silence. Remember You can talk with others on most matters but there are matters you have to watch out talking about depending on country you live in but general rules of thumb for strangers and even family and friends: No complains about your life No politics No religion No self-help unless asked and first test the person's paradigm and open-mindedness to make its safe No criticism no talking about career aspiration(depend on person to not draw envy and hate) No talking about past relationships(indicates your not in control or expose your weaknesses to be exploited by others to be used against your rep in future feud and confrontation) no talking about one-sided topics (learn the give me and I give you back game in conversation) no talking about personal health issues (this is weakness for others to exploit or disgust) No talking about psychedelic and drugs(test for open mindedness and safety) No gossiping about others(this paint you in dark matter) Topics you can talk about: Food Fashion Music Cars Sport electronics travelling celebrity gossips art languages movies anime cartoons school work( not too much) If you read political books like the prince, dictator handbook, chimpanzee politics, our inner ape, thick face black heart, 48 laws of power and art of worldly wisdom. You would keep Leo to yourself like I do. It simply too dangerous to fuck up with people's constructed reality unless you are sure nothing serious will happen to you.

What has helped me is read chimpanzee politics and our inner ape by frans de weal. Just understand that people are no different than you and you accept all people without trying to trying to convince them or persuade them because they perfect the way and they mission in life. Some people's mission to hurt others, some people's mission to alleviate others pain...etc. This will give you charisma and make you lovable. Avoid talking anything deep with people unless they show interest but reveal as little as possible so that they don't you look like you are insane or stupid (when in reality this applies to them!). Accept and surrender to the cosmic and universal power. The cosmic consciousness that created everything(also known as nothingness or allah or god or Yahweh or everything or supreme or The I am or any name) denied by logical positivist(scientists) has set the destiny for others to behave the way they behave. The cosmic consciousness pick specific people and deliberately block others. That's how its always been. The supreme consciousness speak in Leos tongue to reveal sacred knowledge to you and me and other priviledged self-actualizers while many people don't want it. You have freedom of choice to choose at particular instant and circumstance what to choose and do and how do you behave but you can't choose your circumstances that fall upon you. 1.Accept all people for who they are even if they totally have different values to the point of annoying you 2.Understand you are social animal and part of your health is socializing and if you are uninterested You have two ears and one mouth so that you can listen more and speak less 3.If you truly want to influence those people and help them succeed, then you need to become a prophet of the consciousness. Learn how to be charismatic and leader. People will simply not listen to you if you are in same level as they are or below. Prophet work is very tough, preaching is very tough. What leo is doing is unacceptable for most people except the open minded. Most of my cousins and family members hate leo when I sent his videos in our family group, they started schooling me on how he is wrong and evil and I should stay away from him because he will wash my brain. rest is yours to find out,

Yeah affirmations are awesome. i used these mantras and affirmations to reprogram my mind i am less hostile to be people because I affirm to myself (Everyone plays the role intended to him in the universe by the supreme, so everything is normal and there is no such thing as good or bad) I am less fearful of death than before (death is not the end, death is not scary, life is not more important than death, I believe there is life after life, i will wait and see) I also use for assertiveness(People will not hesitate to use my resources if I made them available, or put their **** in my mouth if my mouth is open or **** in my hole if I left it open, that's where the boundaries and saying no comes to play)

@CreamCat Well, You know nobody plays any role different to what he is assigned by the higher force. Your fear of death is understandable. In the book the top five regrets of the dying by bronnie ware, she is an assistant nurse that helps dying people. she watched so many people die that she became fearless of death. Death is a topic shunned completely by western culture and embraced by many eastern cultures. Death is never talked about at all. Look at documentary in philippines where homeless people live in graveyard with dying and are not afraid at all. Most western individuals are terribly afraid of death and they act like gods and you can see that clearly in behavior of westerners. Many western government go hysterically if some terrorist act happend and go great length in killing millions in other countries and destabilizing their governments whenever one person dies in the west. The solution is? Develop a mantra and read stoic books like the shortness of life by seneca and marcus aurellius Mantra: Death is beautiful, life is beautiful, life is temporary, death is temporary. everyday you can tame your ego so that it won't give you a super backlash in form of binge eating, excessive libido, emotional distress, super sleepiness, mental fog....etc ways your ego fight back.

Nobody die before his days. Some many people desired death but never died. Your ego is simply very afraid. You simply submit your will to the absolute infinity and trust that in visualizing death you will give you new life and death is merely deception and You can't die at all. You can physically die but never die at all. Ask people who found enlightenment, there is no emptiness after death, there is life in different form not the usual one you know. Place your trust in the absolute infinity/god/reality/allah/Yahweh/most high and know that its omnipresent and its consciousness that is present now and always and knows everything. This conscious power that made everything is taking care of you until your current age and protected you throughout your life. Just seek refuge in it from your demon(Ego). Your pain in life is from your demon not from the conscious cosmic power universal absolute omnipresent omnipotent power. You are simply it and Your demon(ego) is trying to hold you back from going back to this immensely beautiful consciousness known as god, I call him Allah by my tradition. Trust in him and you can never be afraid of anything. see leo gura post on blog page on july 31,2018 the supreme purpose of life.

Hey and best wishes of long, prosperous to leo gura and all self-actualizers, I would you guys to clarify for me about Resources and give me examples. I understand that for every individual there are common resources such as time, money, labor, attention. Time: most people are sleeping 8 hours a day on average, leaving 16 hours of waking time and subtract another 8 hours on average for working leaves you 8 hours to do self-actualizing work or help people or spend time playing games or studying or impulsively engaging in drugs or porn or gossips or self-flagulation or regretting or defending your ideology or praying or contemplating, exercising...etc.. Lets say Hypothesis: You live in western democracy or in one of the rich semi-democratic Arab countries of the Persian gulf where or in one of prosperous Latin american countries where health care, food, transportation and housing are affordable and countries are very safe and politically stable and you can work and start business with little bureaucracy. Say you live up to 70 years and you are in your say 23. You lost 23 years and You cannot re-use those years at all and now you are 23 years old. and lets assume the worse according to one of Leos video so that you can appreciate your time and resources. say you are going to lose your hair at 40 years old and get early onset of Alzheimer at 55 due to some genes you have and then from 55 to 60 in span of 5 years you lose all your mental functions and say from 60 to 70 these are your another useless 10 years of your life. 10 years of Alzheimer + 23 years of growing up lost= 33 years in total lost + 25 years on average according to science if you sleep 8 hours a day = 33+25= 58 years of your life is useless leaving only 12 YEARS of free time to start up a business and self-actualize and build your muscles and attempt to reach enlightenment or do whatever you want. This is very Ideal scenario not to putting account you may die sooner or contract diseases or you may live longer and be healthy or living under dictatorship or extreme tribal societies your entire existence is recruited for benefit of greater ego until you are no longer needed. I make hypothesis but this is not me not yet Money: You work 8 hours a day and make lets say 2000 dollars. You pay 600 dollars rent and you live with a roommate and live in big city where gas cost 40 dollars for cheapest gas (87) and you refill it every week (4*40)= 160-600-2000=1240 dollars and lets say you have pay for car insurance 80 dollars you are down to 1160$ and hence ......etc labor: I think this falls under time. People ask you help. You do what you love and Tasks you have to do. attention: Lets you say you are student and your taking so much classes and can only focus for 20 minutes per session for total of 4 quality hours unless you are hooked to long term harmful drugs that increase your attention span to finish your task and increase your attention span to 6 hours or more Any other examples of personal resources you can think of and to conserve and make good use of? and examples? I want to expand horizon of consciousness in this matter.

Hi, Leo and fellow self-actualizes. Thank you for helping us to see the light of reality and non-duality from darkness of our dualities and egos and desires. I wanted to have complete example of Spiral dynamics model of all colors and tiers of the model. I come from Middle east/North Africa which is heavily familial and tribal culture. It has always been annoying me that my part of the world glorifies racism and tribalism and killing. In fact, we don't understand racism at all or at least the way a western does. We simply can't due to our historical development as nations and our environment with low resources (desert) where tribes and familial survival is based of constantly raiding each other for scarce resources such as water and animal herds, until the extraction of petroleum by the British, where new found wealth has exacerbated violence and tribal identity as whole. Racism is natural part of our politics, identity, language, culture, history, environment. This why Iraq and Syria and Middle east and North Africa in general is very unstable. Rulers and Kings and Emirs are referred to as our Fathers and Females as our mother. Clergymen, Politicians and People in hierarchies as uncles or fathers. The frequent use of pronounces In middle eastern such as Arabic and Hebrew and other Afroasiatic languages for possessions or as honoring or casually referring to someone or something or an object or it: Our father, Father of, Son of, Descendant of, Brother of, Mother of, My cousins, My uncle, my friend, House of, owner of, Shepard of..etc. This thread may help me discover more tribal cultures and help expose me as well as other readers from cultures with different stages about why people can't advance to the next stage and think like someone from higher stage. Purple stage is the royalty stage or ways of the tribe: Tribalism Family Bloodlines Superstition Traditions and customs Honor rites Racism is normal Taboos Bloodlines and lineages relationships Spirits and Ancestors Serving the clan and the tribe Security Inbreeding Small or narrow personal spaces Tattoos Father figure Patriarchy Matriarchy Us vs them Outsiders Use of Drums, percussions Chanting mimicking Animal sounds Glorifying of tribal warfare Hierarchies based on age and status and gender One person achievement is shared by the entire family Mysticism and nature Contemplation Animals are holy and thus are equal or above us Animal husbandry Security in numbers Collectivism Group mentality Examples from the past: Germanic tribes(Gepids, Alemanni, Franks, Lombards, Goths, Suebi,Marcomanni..etc.) Celtic tribes (Britons, Picts, Gauls, Welsh, Galatians..etc.) Scandinavians and Vikings Slavic people Indian Subcontinent Aryan and Dravidian tribes Native Americans Korean clans Japanese samurai clans and shoguns Chinese Clans and Confucianism Mongolian tribes(Golden horde, House of Ogedai, Tatars, Yuan dynasty..etc.) Turkic tribes(Oghuz, Gokturk, Pecheneg, Bulgars, House of Osman, Kayi tribe, Huns..etc) Habsburg ruling family Amazonian tribes West African tribes(Yoruba, Hausa, Fulani, Igbo, Wolof, Serar, Ngamambo..etc) East African tribes(Beja, Somali clans, Nilotic tribes, Oromo, Tigrinya, Tigre, Amharic, Afari, Bantu..etc) Central Africans (Aka, Baka, Bandu, Sua pygmies, Kanuri, Kongo,Gbaya..etc.) North Africans( Tuareg, Berbers, Arabs, Egyptians, Nubians, Kaybles Amazigh..etc.) Qing, Han, Tang Dynasties House of bourbon Rothschild family House of Hohenzollern The Romanovs, Tsars of Russia Bedouins of Arabian peninsula Berbers of North Africa House of Barca of Carthage House of Windsor of England House of Julius Caesar and other Roman emperors 12 tribes of Israel Semetic tribes(Edomites, Moabites, Nabateans, Ugarites, Philistines, Arameans , Chaldeans, Assyrians, Cannanites, Ishmaelites, Yemenites..etc), Pharaohs of Egypt Indo-Aryan tribes of Central (Medes, Persians, Schythians, Messagetae, Kurds, Sogdianans, Bactrians..etc.) Javanese people of Indonesia Pacific ocean people(Philippines natives , Guamese, Polynesians, Samoans, Easter Island Rapa nui natives, Hawaiians..etc.) Andaman Islands and Australian natives. Many of these tribes mentioned exist till this day with same mentality of purple stage ,and some vanished due to being conquered by like minded purple or above stage individuals or simply moved to higher stage. Examples of Now: Royal families of Persian Gulf states Sports club hooligans and fans European monarchs of UK, Norway, Sweden, Monaco, Lichtenstein, Spain, Denmark Imperial house of Japan Militant Groups like KKK and Right wingers and race puritans American college Fraternities and sororities Rotary club and Freemasons U.S. lobbyists and Political parties Political and religious Parties Please we want more examples from videos and peoples and quotes and cultural values of this stage as well as stage beige and Red. \ Thank you.

Sulaym Bedouin tribesmen Performing Al-Frensy dance for Competing in Camel and horses husbandry festival In Kuwait to represent their tribe clan

Ruler of Qatar, Sheikh Tamim Al-thani visiting his maternal uncles, the aristocratic Qahtani Chieftains.

Iraqi tribesman performing National Iraqi dance "Al-Hosat". A Poet in the middle chanting poem called "Qasidah". This dance is performed for their deceased tribal chieftain Sheikh Hussein Munaiseb. This dance is usal performed in most occasion in Iraq, Not necessarily with guns. shooting random bullets is just as something to honor and pay respect

SAAB Bros Dance by Yaam Tribesmen In Najran, Saudi Arabia

Lezingka family dance performed by Chechens, Inguesh, Circassian, Adyghe in celebrations of birth, after their traditional eloping of bride and putting her in the village elder house to negotiate marriage with her parents, and after military victory.

dabke familial dance renowned in Syria, Lebanon, Palestine, Israel, Turkey

Al-Bathali Tribesmen chanting "Al-Daha" of mimicking the sound of angry camels which used to be chant to scare enemies in the past. They are chanting for the celebration of their cousin winning the election. Also, this has been used as way as shamanic ritual of the spirits to reach trance.

Khatwat Assir dance by Assir tribe in Southern Saudi Arabia Where men group of the same tribe chant two line poem and dance.