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Hey leo, I wish you would do a video on Using the Scientific method in-depth for personal work. What are variables and we become our own spiritual scientists bridging the gap between science and spirituality. I am sure you experienced in your own way in tweaking the traditional scientific method which led to your success. How to use scientific research data along with spirituality and context to develop our own personal self experiments and conduct measurements and report results for own growth, we quantitatively measure progress and you can make exercise sheet for us to begin and from there, forum members participate in formulating the best scientific-spiritual method. I am really struggling through one so I need reference.

Hey, guys I believe that religions started as self-help for ancient people who had no technology like we have today and were truths which got corrupted by the ego and since religion most of the time got into politics and they morphed to suit the ruling class. There is so much value and so much bullshit as well. Its just non-beneficial to dismiss religions as airy-fairy, woohoo type of stuff as leo says. Post what do you like of religions that resonate with you. I noticed in every religions there are one or two individuals that resonate with me. Sadhguru in Hinduism This guy alexander Ihsan I recently found after searching for meditation on youtube and he Is Muslim Sufi mystic Of course he has benefits and bullshits

Hey guys, watching a video of Leos blog posted on 10th of september 2018 about money making and value generation. In manosphere where so many desperate millennial white heterosexual males who are conditioned through television and movies of must having girlfriend or a girl should get a guy or get with so many guys to be accepted by the culture as sane and wholesome person. The Problem is the pyramid schemes Leo talked about where so-called PUAs who are nothing but self-actualizing people who read into the biological literature to come up with some sort of scientific back up on their marketing methods aimed at targeting the conditioned millennial false sense of self which, many of these PUAs are now failures like RooshV who rants 24/7 at his return of kings blog site and he is dragging men to MGTOW movement which is movement that dis-empowers men and its just the other face of radical feminism that dis-empowers women. I am surprised how they don't see that being Alpha is the most stressful position you can be. You are unconsciously under scrutiny of lower people who want to fault-find something in you constantly. Many Alpha Human males don't sleep with so many women because in many societies that are super-religious or very ethical will not tolerate behavior and they become outcasts. Alpha males are certainly not muscular. Look at world leaders, most of them are not muscular and yet with power of their words and diplomatic minds and intelligence they rose to the top and now they control people's fates and by one word, they can take away our lives easily. Humans are definitely not so simple like chimpanzees. We have extra layers of deception bestowed to us by nature which is language, visualization, vast memory,subconscious analysis, self-image...etc. Labelling of Beta and Alpha is just too simplistic and lie. In fact, in many countries and societies and groups you will be mindfucked to see how musculinity and alpha is defined in their perceptions There is integrated males and disintegrated males. I think we better come up with new system of male classification. I know classification is just symbolism and false but you can always innovate things that can improve the status quo. System of level based on how person can integrate his shadow, his fears, his worries, his self control,his ability to bring his masculine and feminine sides together and use them depend on situation, his ability to be at ease and the find what's weak and works on his faults, his action taking indicator, his fear of death level, his self-actualization level based on maslow. In this we can end so much misery and make paradigm shifts and hopefully more men become integrated and spiritual who take actions rather than falling prey to their desires which can be exploited

There is no problem in getting married. Maybe in the West marriage is failure. In the Eastern countries, people know that there is wild love at first and there is commitment love afterwards. In the West, I believe its only wild physical intimate love only and whenever the spark fades, people will just divorce and that's not healthy mentality. Wild love is temporary and I get what your saying, since enlightened people transcended all those temporary crap, why do they fall in the same trap they avoided through enlightenment. I believe it has many perspectives. The psychological perspective is that people dislike loneliness over long-term. Short term loneliness for self-actualization work is nice but not forever. Biology with spirituality perspective, you have very strong sexual energy from your sacral chakra that need to be extinguished in another person sacral chakra so that its reminder of the union or non-duality that occurs. Yes we crave union and non-duality even marriage and almost everything. We are ideological because we want others to be in union with us in train of thoughts and desires and needs.

I am surprised that this video is not the top of all videos. This video has cured all my self-doubts, my social anxiety, my life style that could get me closer to death but make my ending horrible rather than enjoyable with no regrets. This video gave me energy to purchase leos course and booklist. This has forced me to love myself and oh boy you gotta be kidding me with automatic posture correction and smooth walk. Yes at first my ego blacklashes haaard on this video, making binge eat, indulge in sexual behavior of masturbation and as well as approaching girls who almost METOOed the heck out of me at my college, i slept crazy, cried when I didn't cry before. I rewatched it and rewatched like 50 times and took contemplations along marcus aurellius and other sources on death. IT cured most of egotistical diseases and diet as well. I no longer fear death like I used to be. I believe if more people connected to their death, they would be the most tolerant, loving, life actualized people and fulfilled in all aspect of basic needs and desires because all their doubts and limiting beliefs will be cured and so they take action and learn.

Thank you so much brother. Your words mean a lot. Definitely every aspects and parts of you are your friends and are your companions and families in life. They can make a Julius Caesar of you, They can take you to places beyond your wildest dreams, They can make you the hero with 1000 face. Love them and they shall love you. Integrate them and they will make you happy.

The world is full of anxieties because people don't want to acknowledge death that is imminent nor they want to welcome it. We experiment death on other people but hate when others execute it onto us. That's why misery exists. From your statement, I think You are very enlightened person and wonderful person as well, you are going through a phase of nihilism from my assumptions which I don't know. You are not so sure about why people want to live, ask your ego and body why they cling to life and I am sure you will find the answer from within. You carry a 4 billion year old record in you called DNA, which is full of stories of your ancestors who are you when you died millions of times and you were born millions of times but you don't have the ability to be aware of it. We simply don't know. ALL we know we spawned into this reality like video characters equipped with everything we need to play the game, we need the right software and constant updates to help us play the game until we transition out of it.

Of course I don't know, nobody knows here. We are looking for meaning which is meaningless after all. You are not wrong after all. I tried one thing the video and it worked for me and it can work for people who have the drive and energy for work and want to play the meaningless game of life that will end in few years but nothing is empowering them and essentially they horse shit their lives and when they sense their end is near even its micro-second, that moment I believe is most profound moment in all traditions and accounts from all around globe people say their mind releases all their stored and buried memories that they couldn't access and show you everything of what you've done and what was purpose of your life in clear picture and regretting is really not worth it.

You are the doctor and the medicine and the patient and the disease

This is your ego telling you to avoid contemplating your death or do the work, your just escaping through reason. How do you know that the answering one is you and not your conditioned-self who is based in fear? You just made a belief that nothing good will ever happen to you and it shall be your self-fulfilling prophecy. All beliefs are false, so pick the false belief that empower your false at least until you get enlightenment and discover your true-self.

People who are aware of their death and unpredictability of life will work toward goals and skills that can help them overcome death and help them overcome unpredictability. Developing skills of patience, physical strength, good communication, mindfuckness, surrender to destiney and calmness and working toward your goal of doing whatever you like can always make overcome the worst burdens of life, ask your ancestors how they survived worst times centuries ago so they can have you.

If you believe you won't die then Life is going to be so unpredictable to you, some days you are happy and drinking vodka and singing and beating your friends with matryoshka doll and some days when russian ruble goes down by 80% and and money you saved in the bank, say 100,000 rubles now it worth 20,000 rubles and maybe in a week goes down by 50% more and now your 100,000 worth actually only 10,000 rubles of purchase. You and other people in Russia will go mad and and maybe attack each other for survival rather than staying calm and understanding that's how life is. Military will kill people, Most people in power will send paramilitary groups to steal from ordinary people so that they can survive. Also not believing you are going to die, can make you lose touch with reality and rant and hate and bitch and moan and criticise and not take action toward any goal you want. You won't approach your crush, You won't clean your toilet, You won't do your life purpose work on time. You will read half a book and then stall. You will ruminate with garbage ideas.

I warn you guys, at first contemplating death will make ego backlash and its inevitable. You will masturbate excessively, eat excessively, you will rant excessively, your thoughts will race, your heart will hurt alittle, You want to listen to music, Sleep more, You will hate people even more. just be aware this is side effects. If you persist on be aware and conscious of your death after while, I swear to you, you will experience confidence, true self-love, you don't even have to fake your body language, You will get closer and closer to your life purpose, You will experience amazing insight, You may find your life partner faster because of the confidence gained, You can make friends and completely accept them and appreciate and approve of them without wanting to change them. You will approach people first and initiate conversations. You will become leader and will take actions because time is valuable, You will not be so lazy unless you want to give yourself some rest time. You will be minimalist in your purchase of materials and only buy materials that help you for your life purpose. Death is transition phase, and it will happen, if not now, maybe in days or months or years but it will happen no escape. Have your mid-life crisis early so that you enjoy life more. It's worse to have regrets. Most people are narcissistic and liars and deceivers and victim players because their egos think they are better than everyone else and everybody owes them and should shower them with attention and give them materials they want. Death or out of body experience can humble them and make great human beings

True and also add to it from my experience, after telling people at my college about life purpose which most are just unaware of how they would traverse life. I told about this topic of contemplating death and most of them stopped talking to me or said they had to go do something else. Maybe their subconscious mind is programmed to fear death but from experience no ever thinks of death because people are so preoccupied with envy, lust, greed and gossip and comparing themselves to others and finally ladies and gentlemen I present to you COMPLAINING non-stop.

@now is forever Yes clorox can make your head experience enlightenment.

https://scottjeffrey.com <---------This is his website, he has everything about self-help articles and he talks about the exact same things as leo does. He has grand article about spiral dynamics, shadow, judgement, consciousness, maslow hierarchy of needs with so much examples and details and he has them in PDF to be downloaded. His name is scott Jeffrey. Leo is however more advanced than this guy in aspects of metaphysics, epistemology, advanced analysis and synthesis view of how people behave and society and ego. I think this awesome. We can relate back forth between leo and scott. He has similar products such as finding purpose. I don't know if he copied your work or something but the amazing thing he has his work in PDF.

Leo will forever be number one even if we copy his button up shirt and if we wash our head with clorox.

You spoke about how wonderful the movement is and how harvey weinsetin had sexual record of harassing women understandable. Question? Why now women had to come out? Why not before they stayed silent on his behavior and he could have gone down. After all, we are in age of feminism since 60s. There are also assholes like him who went down. But so many innocent men went down as well. Where is justice? Why withdrawing consent is ok? isn't that basically a revenge? I am not against the movement but myriad of dishonest egotistical individuals slipped their egos inside the movement while true rape victims who were raped and beaten and silenced never get the spotlight and if they do their story is only covered small news and magazine and not the whole media. Big media is reserved for celebrities whom many are liars and got their way inside hollywood via lying and even selling their self sexually and by consent but now are taking revenge. Don't these morons ever think of real victims of sexual abuse? They have no shame of taking over movement that was reserved for sexually attack of hopeless women who are not famous? I read an article covered in the guardian of Muslim girl who dated in secret behind her parents back and she got beaten by parents and her cousins who called her a slut and forced her to sex and raped her and beated her so hard to unconsciousness. Rape by cousin is acceptable in many middle eastern countries to rape your rogue female cousin because the family want you to marry within family boundary and rape by cousin force girl to get married to that cousin or be killed for dishonor, yet the entire media(CNN, fox, msnbc, hoffington post, vice..etx) on google focused on asia argento, rose mcgowen and other hollywood celebs

Who say its collective ego of attention hungry women raising awareness against sexual violence yet all these hollywood actresses got in hollywood via selling their bodies. I believe they are trivializing true sexual victims cases who have no voice because they are not famous and only one magazine or news paper cover their story. these actresses have spotlights on them whenever their celeb status go down alittle and they are on news for weeks. sad thing they try to get attention by any means possible even if it mean to destroy a male colleague or bring back old wounds that healed. I think this is not fine. Also what your opinion on withdrawing consensus. I believe There is no such thing as taking away consensus, and its basically revenge which is not sign of healthy ego. Its like cult no different than incels claiming women want to destroy them.

I personally suck with western women despite my confidence gained from doing actualized work and approaching hundreds of women with 80-90% nothing moving forward. I didn't rant like incels or like former pua like rooshv, though I am only successful with eastern women who have paradigms of submissiveness and housewive mentality from their cultures but western women not so much so I lost touch with western women so I have no Idea because i havent experience them for long time and i really don't care about dating more than I care about putting the work into complete surrender journey and true self-love and finding my purpose. I hope everyone get what they want in life and I hope they have patience and wisdom along with it.

Leo but ok. Lets hit pause with incels and how about the Feminists who are man hating radicals or metoo liars who got in hollywood by offering their body to the producer for a role, later to come calling him a rapist? or going out on date with someone and then next day, saying they touched inappropriately when it is not true? trivializing true rape victims? You cant just attack incels without other liars from otherside who behave like them and even worse. They are all worse in my eyes but again who am i to judge. i surrender my will to the consciousness believing whatever happens to me good or bad is for a higher reason and I only have to accept it and not fight it. I will only apply thick face black heart when I want something out of this life

Thank you. That's true. But from what I noticed, we avoid talking about death as society. People are narcissitic nowadays and are depressed and are lazy and procrastinating with lots of health issues is because they think they are going to live for a very long time and one day their life is going to change for better rather be aware that death can occur any moment. You can right now have sudden death. If people are aware of this very moment and also death simultaneously, they won't stress out over a job or school or not finding someone to date them or worry about what others think of you when you want to take action to do something you want to do. It will take so much crap out of your life. You will also love and appreciate yourself much more than you ever imagined and your self esteem will skyrocket. People will treat you better and love you I swear because you love yourself. Your inner flame can extend to everybody around you, your pheromones from your inner happiness. I am sure nobody will be bitch and moan and criticise and become ideological if he is aware of his death every hour of the day. After while, you get acclimated to being aware of your death and your less likely to be afraid of it

Leo, didn't you say we shouldn't convince anybody?, why should we convince or persuade anyone. what gain do we get from spilling out our ego into other people? Anyhow well said. I add to it "You can't teach a a big cat how to take crap in a litter box".

Nope! It will make it worse. Take it from me. What has cured the problem is purpose and meaning chasing. When you are working toward your purpose you become so driven and happy, you even go all the way to interact and socialize with people in your life purpose field where you may find a high quality partner that satisfy you. You get two satisfactions: 1 one from your meaningful work to yourself and 1 from benefits that come with meaningful work.