Arion
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Start with family and friends who support you; Let them share it on facebook, etc;
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As an accounting professional, I would suggest you learn: Excel- formulae, and become able to use it fluently- Vlookups, Hlookups, SUM IFS, pivot tables Acccounting wise- know your debits and credits Learn about reconciliations and the concept behind them If ttheres a particular industry you want to remote work in- learn about the systems they use- e.g investment companies might use CAMRA.. insurance might use SICS///many companies also use Microsoft Dynamics and Great plains.
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Arion replied to machinegun's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Huh? I don't get it. If your coming with the ' everything is one' archetype, how does that help answer the OP's question? -
I think your career enjoyment depends on your mindset and whether you think what you are really doing does count to something : Even if what you are doing something that has a minute impact in the grans scheme of things- honour that and do it as best as you can I personally , am an accountant, and sure it can get boring sometimes- but i try to always improve and add value- this drive alone , makes it interesting A job is not like a trip for ice cream, and should be seen as such
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As a fellow 23 year old, I will tell you that you must expect some disappointments in the working world- you may not get all that you seek..the key is to be able to bear the things you don't liek and understand why they need to be there, and treasure the parts that you do like and become a master at it; I would tell you that the concern for finding the perfect square job will fade as you realise that it likely is not possible.
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Tool- Reflection Tool- Lateralus Tool- Third Eye Tool- Parabol and Parabola
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Arion replied to Guru Fat Bastard's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Can you share any further info on this? If these things actually present themself to the human eye- why on earth does no one study them etc? Why the shoo shoo around it? -
Hey Dan, I like your methodical overview of your years 2018 seems to be your most self scruitinising year- especilly with logging your thoughts etc I don't be on this forum often, but I searched "audit", since I am also in that field, in the same company as you were. Keep up the good fight- see you on the forums
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Seems legit to an extent. I browsed through the entire 6 parts.
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Don't lose semen you can relax sexually without orgasm...see into tantra practices
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@Electron I am everything you described, except the introverted part- I won't say I'm seriously introverted. my point of action I said to keep searching for truth, and blasting my career. whichever friends , girls etc I meet on the way, so be it
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@Justin Evans your post is long, and well appreciated by me
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@Peace and Love Hi, I deeply empathize without what your experience in life has been...but it's great to see that you've became a better person from it Keep doing what your doing! As for me, I am a 20 y/o male, but choose celibacy as I have experienced how porn use and masturbation warps the male mind. Also, I guess I had bad experiences with women, but I trust that there are great women out there; Celibacy for me is -an experiment to 'swim upwards'.....sexual energy for a man usually flows downwards...by downwards i mean short term lustfulness with the the urge to ejaculate - this is great for nature and the continuation of a species, but there sa certain thing that happen during with true abstinence- just read the reports of nofap persons who have been successful. I , as said before have experience s what lust feels like.....in a bad way, through porn use etc..I've enjoyed seeing rough sex etc, and sure this can be something beautiful for an intimate couple, but for porn watchers it just trains us to like violence and humiliation . I have found it brings more peace, and is wholesome to see female from a point of reverence , rather than lust. Lust may be okay in an intimate relationship; this isn't my assumption, as I haven't reached there yet This view on sexuality is Bramacharya, an ancient Hindu practice...there's a guy by the name of Stuart sovatsky who publishes work and insight on this philosophy of sacredness sexuality. It is difficult to maintain long term, but each failure and effort carries me further and further in.
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I've wondered about this question myself. Maturity is the ability to see things from a big picture, with a long term view, and to make decisions in line with this view( a mature person is not impulsive ) It is also the ability to empathize with a wide range of life events and experiences ( hence why mature people are usually older people, who have been through many experiences in life, but not always)
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@Stef this I see my experience with women as we'll, as a 20 year old man. I am am left with no choice. But to be a mgtow, rather than put up wit that craziness
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If I had six months to live : I would : seek deeper for truth- find a spiritual teacher, do retreats : try 5- meo - DMt after about 3 months of solid meditation 1-2 hrs a day :make effort at attracting women and maybe finally fall in love+ experience sex for the first time :stop caring what people think of me :write More in my diary :I don't have any particular passion, but I love gardening, guitar, the outdoors etc. so I'll do more of that. I enjoy my job as an auditor in big four, and tbh if I had 6 months to live, I think I'll still won't give up the job : spend more quality time with family Now I'm thinking- why the fuck am I not doing all this now?^^ well tbh I am , just in lesser degrees, especially the part about attracting women
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@Spiral thanks for your insight and wishes. I agree with you.
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@Spiral sure, of I met such a woman I'd pursue to an extent that I don't come across as needy. i m a guy that takes these things slow, as tbh I'm pretty inexperienced. I also have certain insecurities that I need to address: e.g the belief that women are hypergamous by nature, and my own intimacy issues. In fact , recently I met a woman with all those traits and although I didn't flirt etc, just our quiet conversation was very entertaining and interesting. I made my interest known because of the questions I asked +. Body language. It's still out in the open though .
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Hm, even as a guy, I lack experience in this area also. I'd say : create more opportunities to be together- lunch, movie etc. Gradually get to know the person better by asking ' deep ' questions and having more intimate conversation :maybe you'll figure out if you really like him ,and he, same with you. If your attempts to meet more often are not reciprocated,it's either the guy isn't interested or is pretty shy. If he is super hot as you say, Chances are he won't be shy due to mostly having good first experiences with women throughout the years ( I.e girls blushing at him, approaching him etc. ) If he isn't interested, chances are he won't blow you off totally, but may choose friendship instead I think ,other than an all out attack such as ' hey I'm interested in you, are you ?' This is the next best option. You all are re two adults, and so,e conclusion will be arrived at as time goes.
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Watch : - into the wild - that's all I can think about now
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I'm a 21 y/o male girlfriend material for me is a woman who is: humble intelligent openminded honest compssionate pasionate / creative n life takes care of herself- diet, exercise etc physically- attractive at least ( most women are attractive if they take care of themselves , providing that you aren't warped by media and porn) In my experience , it's rare to find women of this caliber, but that's because. I haven't. Been searching as a guy , you got to do the searching. this, couples with the fact that. I've been entertaining mgtow philosophy and focusing on my goals and self is why im still single
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I'm a 20 year old male who is recovering also. I'm definitely interested, we can post updates / tips here, rather than in the Skype group , which is against the forum rules.+ can split up the community. some tips so far that has helped me; - having a sacredness view of se x - it is the most creative act of a human and resu,to I mths creation of another human,despite our knowledge scientifically of egg, sperm , zygote etc. it's still a great mystery . - lust is a selfish act, and never results in you feeling satisfied in the long run.
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Well I've spread some of his stuff also, but have reach the conclusion that I need to try it for myself, as with any other thing. your experience is what counts. so fo example, I've been trying to do 30 days semen retention, then go up to90 and reflect on its effects on me. about tantra- I'm a single male, age 21 , so I'm completely inexperienced here, but it's soemthing im interested in as well.; it seems that it requires a lot of self control especially for the male.
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I don't use a water filter, but I use A BPA free bottle when carrying water.
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Maybe the events narrated in ' autobiography of a yogi' by yogananda are true... I doubt we were being bullshitted by yogananda. But, the only real way to know is to experience .