xbcc

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  1. These days red pill is the mainstream advice for dating. Back in the days it was RSD, which was healthier but lacking in some truths that redpill has. Red pill is just a coping and defense mechanism. People get brainwashed by whatever is mainstream. This time it's redpill.
  2. You live in a country where that is not okay. In the west you would not get such a reaction from the mom. Accept what is and realize it's not your fault. Next time when that happens say I wanted to talk to your daughter with respect and that you understand that she might not like it. Then say goodbye and leave. You need a stronger frame of reality.
  3. I've battled with cigarettes a lot and I haven't smoked for a month now. The trick is this: Take 5 days off from work or any other responsibilities. Stay at home and meditate or watch movies for 5 days. Avoid anything that triggers stress or craving. Do not go outside because everything makes you stressed. After those 5 days its mostly out of your system and the habit is kicked. Now the hard part comes: not relapsing. For that you need to find the trigger that makes you smoke. For example work related stress. Find a solution to not get that stressed again. Great sleep helps. Good luck
  4. When crypto goes down There goes my crown Walking 'round down town With my face touching the ground I have no desire left Oh what a theft The circled breath evaporated the wealth oh Dear Lord At the meeting board J Powell must cut the cord Of the string that binds the interest rates To the ceiling floor
  5. Jesus, this is so profound! This could be the ultimate guideline in life. Thanks so much!
  6. With all the censoring that is going on in this forum... Seriously, I really like this forum but with the amount of censoring that Leo does, it's hard to have trust in the direction of this forum. Truth can not be sustained if free speech is prohibited. This thread getting locked and me probably banned will be even more proof for that.
  7. See, some comments here made me a bit more friendly towards vaccines. It's good to have open and intelligent conversation about it and not just straight up close the thread.
  8. I'm not active on the forum, sometimes I pass by to read. I'm not active in any other communities, besides crypto. So can't recommend anything.
  9. What makes you think that you know the absolute truth about vaccination? I've learned so much from you, you really opened my eyes on what spirituality is. But your censorship makes me lose trust.
  10. From what I see anything that goes against his world view is not allowed here. Like arguments against vaccination for example. He banned a user who was sharing very valuable information because that user did not agree with Leo on something. I think the disagreement was about love or something. Can't remember properly. The user has a youtube channel called sifting to truth. One of the most valuable practical teachings for me so far. I don't think total free speech is realistic either, but as much as possible should be allowed without hurting others. Vaccination should be allowed to be discussed. Trump should be allowed to be discussed. From what I know no war happened when Trump was in power. But look at all the other presidents. FYI I'm no fan of elon musk either.
  11. I would just see how far he will go. If he is on the verge of overstepping boundaries, then firmly go up to him and tell him that you're not okay with it. If he continues, then slap the shit out of him will-smith style. Seriously, such a slap signals to him that he went too far and then it's up to him whether he wants to make it real violence.
  12. Hi all, Today I had again a feeling of emptiness. It made me think about why my life sucks so much. I realised that the past 9 years of my life everything I have done has been consciously and unconsciously to get women and that has made me suffer a lot. Getting women attracted has never been easy for me (except in primary school it came very naturally, after primary school it went downwards). So I got into pickup and career success all in order to get women. I started a business in ecommerce to be able to travel around the world and do pickup. This business, because it is not my passion, has made me suffer a lot. Pickup itself has also made me suffer a lot for various reason. All the work, flaking, drama and disappointments that come with it. So it has made me realise that while having sex is awesome and very pleasurable, it pales in comparison to the suffering it has caused my by desiring it and taking action to achieve it. Is this the reason in spirituality they say desire is the root of unhappiness? It is very hard to not follow the desire to long and work for all those super hot girls. Oh man. This also goes for power for example. I am thinking about dropping all action towards achieving desires, besides the action needed to have a reasonable apartment and food, which isnt hard. This would free me from all the obligations that make me suffer. On the other hand there can also be ways to achieve these pleasures with the least effort, Osho style. What do you guys think about this and the lifestyle I am planning? Is this the correct way for having peace of mind? Or should I go the Osho way (achieve them with the least effort), or is it impossible and contradictory to having no-desire? I have the feeling that high consciousness will get you the worldly pleasures automatically, like magic. Often when I am deeply at peace, girls notice it and show interest for example. Let me know. Maybe this is the lesson that reality is trying to teach me. Maybe this is an awakening. Edit: If I drop all desire, then how will I find a girlfriend that suits my personality? Don't we have to date many girls to find a matching girl? How will I get dates without putting effort into it?
  13. I have a genuine question @Leo Gura. Then why create a life purpose if it doesn't matter? Currently I have a successful e-commerce business but I am thinking about helping others by teaching. Why would I switch careers if it doesn't matter whether I help people or not? How can I take my life purpose seriously if it doesn't matter whether I help people or not? I would switch career if my work would actually matter to the world. Again, genuine question.
  14. Wasn't Jesus half OG Nigga? He the real OG Enlightened being.
  15. @Ketrumi so you admit to using it for a Devilish cause? Pretty Angelic of you to be so honest. TA-DA!
  16. ISIS is ISness that is ISSING, you donkey!
  17. I am flabbergasted! I learned something very important and revealing from the video: I am a Donkey! I should look in the mirror more closely and pierce throught the illusion and find out I am a friggin Donkey! How great! Thank you Leo, you changed my life! I hope jokes are possible on this forum! If not, my apologies!
  18. Please let this be a topic where WinterKnight answers questions, as he meant this thread to be. Not a discussion topic where everyone can say some shit.
  19. Very legit question. I myself am afraid to start doing Kriya Yoga on my own because of this. If you look at the Kriya Yoga megathread, you see many people having bad side effects and have no guru to cure them or have prevented in the first place. I would love to be convinced that it is something that can be done safely by your own.
  20. I am trying to understand what you said here. In order to become that lucid, one (the ego self) has to execute on spiritual practices until one attains such lucidity. But from my experience your viewpoint on the ego self not having free will is correct. This would mean that I can not influence the fact whether I do these spiritual practices, since I have no free will and everything just happens. This means that whether I attain that level of lucidity that would enable me to manipulate reality is completely outside of my control. Am I correct? The reason I am so interested in the answer to this is the fact that for the past 8 years I have been trying to change bad behaviors/habits of mine with little results. I am almost giving up on chaging those habits.
  21. @winterknight Hello Winterknight. Thank you (or who should I thank if you don't exist?) for answering all these questions and helping so many people. I have a question too. So the ego has no control over what happens in the world, even no control over their own body. This means that the ego-self also can not determine whether on a day he will do his meditation practice which could lead to him being more aware during the day, or even enlightenment. This would also mean that whether you are aware/awake/in a state of observant no thought is also determined by God. So the awareness/consciousness we have in us can absolutely not influence the ego to pursue enlightenment so that the consciousness can be more aware and present and avoid suffering that way. So basically whether enlightenment will happen to ''me'' and whether ''I'' will surrender to the bad life situation is also predetermined... WHAT THE BIGGEST MINDFUCK IS RIGHT NOW IS ALSO that your answer might not be the truth, because it may be pre-determined/destined by God or whatever to give me a non-accurate answer. So it seems that I do understand this all intellectually, but it seems not to make me depressed or anything. Maybe I need to embody it more experientially. God, what a mindfuck
  22. @iamnotahumanbeing @noselfnofun Thank you very much for reading my post and your responses. I can certainly do something with it. I will every day remind myself to not fall into the trap of chasing these kind of pleasures.
  23. Hi all, In the next 4 months I will be traveling in Brazil and I've heard it is hard to import stuff into Brazil from anywhere. During my travel I might buy Leo's book recommendation list and start reading the kriya yoga book and do the practices. Is this book also available as a digital book? This way I don't have to import. If not, maybe I will buy it right now before I start traveling. Thank you