Etherial Cat

I also found rude how you told @ivankiss his post was "off topic". And that has nothing to do with being biased towards women. But If you want to talk about gender... You've got also a domineering way of addressing women in particular and that's pretty obvious. Usually, it's an attempt of taking power in indirect way as well as in more direct ones. And while this behavior is very common outside of the forum, people here are trying to open up and develop themselves. Your pattern is like "I'm here to win the argument and prove I'm the best" when most are interested in sharing. And it's problematic because this is pushing people to close off and feel unsafe.

It has nothing to do with being partial and/or siding with @soos_mite_ah. If you call someone dull-witted, don't be surprised if they answer you something unkind right after. ? Your attitude is quite offensive to other forum on a regular basis. So that's not an isolated event. I've read a lot of thread where you interact and you've also been low-key rude to me before.

I'm sorry if I come off as blunt with you Harlen Kelly, but you've got a very arrogant, displeasing and aggressive way to state your opinion - and this on a regular basis. It would be nice if you could tame these aspects because it's not worthy of this type of forum.

It's not a question of gender. It's a question of being loving to your partner. This is better done when you're not being a selfish ass just interested in taking. Sex if done consciously is also applied spirituality and an art of love. Ideally, both partner take pleasure from giving to one another. It anyway result in all needs being covered.

In this case there are no difficulties. If she's horny and you can read it -> she's consenting.

Think about it, it's not because a girl gives you a finger that you're entitled to take an arm. Just pay attention if consent is being actively retracted. It can happen. Or maybe she's not into a particular thing for X reasons. If you want to really have great sex with her you anyway will need a high degree of intimacy and attunement to her needs and wants.

You've got to read it. You cannot miss a woman when she is into it. If it feels like a yes, it's probably a yes. And a lot of time it will be implicit rather than explicit. But you can also ask if she is into it if you are not sure at the beginning of the interaction. It's more like if she's tensed and try to avoid the sex that you've got to be worried.

These type of graphics are nice. I've hard they are now very common in sexual education classes.

Very much so. I get the chills when I hear men talking of hard close, because if I think about it, a lot of rapist will perceive their action as being a hard close and not a crossing the line action. Consent doesn't mean stopping when you get shouted NO. It is looking for a YES. Are you aware that a lot of rape victim do not say no out of fear or freeze up?

There are several qualities of consent and degrees of coercion. I think this is why it can be so hard, unfortunately. The best is obviously a big yes .

Women having sex when they don't want it is much more common than just a rape by a stranger. I know women/girls who've been put some pressure by their boyfriend and/or husband to have sex even when they would rather not. I had a boyfriend who would extorcate sex from me by telling me normal people had sex a defined number of time a week, and turn to me like I owed him the weekly quota.

@Shin Thanks for creating these threads. I just watched the video and It's really accurate. Since most of this is occurring on a subconscious level, I also got the chance to learn a few things there as a woman. I've been contemplating on the importance of trust in female/male relationships before and I've found it to be one of the corner stone of a functioning dynamic. I'd say that there are two dynamic with men in general. Either they make me feel safe and I trust that they respect my needs, or it's the opposite and I fear their agression. A lot of time, it's a spectrum... but I'm only fulfilled in scenario one. A good man is a man that I perceive as trustworthy, protective and able to emotionally relate to me so I feel protected on several level (physically, emotionally, intellectually...). I guess that's what Teal talked about when she described attunement. When I feel aggressed I withdraw. I can't be open. I get defensive and I sulk. Because I'm just not safe to be me. I don't feel loved nor protected. And this happens as soon as there is a violation of boundary. I get especially displeased if I realize that there is no intimacy going on and depending on the level of it, I just decide to sign off to the relationship. On the other hand, when I feel trust, I'm open and able to be in my feminine. My femininity depends highly on how much I am able to be made feminine in an environment. If I spend a lot of time protecting my emotions and my boundaries, well, it's all that energy not used on the "right tasks".

@Raphael Just move out, Raphael.

Some men are feeling so weak that they need to diminish women to feel strong. Nothing new under the sun. As I said many times before, these are no catch.

I'm not convincing myself of anything. I'm merely stating my experience. If it offends you, it's not my problem. Your narrative is not mine,

Being fearful of aging doesn't mean you think of college girls as being your competition. While I find them beautiful, I am still very confortable with my own sex appeal. Being a college girl is a state, and it is a state I don't long for. I'm too wise to long for a state, let only for one that presuppose loosing gradually your innocence for maturity. Also, you've got to understand that I have no shortage of men. I come from an abundance mindset and this is the least of my priority. Each time a man tries to make me feel like I am shit, I tell him bye bye and don't think of him a single second forward. So that's it.

Airol is what I got in Greece. It has different names everywhere but the formula is kinda the same. In Switzerland, I think I had the usual Retin-A but it got discontinued and hard to get. I'm afraid of aging. But I'm not afraid of aging for low quality men's attention. This I don't give a damn . I've got no time for this rubbish when there are non dual Chads hanging around- so sorry! You're afraid of aging too. All ego are. Aging challenge your self-image, your sense of self, and reminds you of your mortality.

Right. When I saw Melissa for the first time I was like... "I'm gonna use than thing forever"! . I'm european and it happened that in 2017 I spent a few weeks in Greece where it's available without prescription. I bought a dozen pack and brought them back and I'm still living out of the supply. You basically need to find a way to get it somewhere for the best quality/price ratio available. I've heard its very cheap in Mexico, so If you're american, think of loading your bag with them while traveling to Tulum or Cebo.

Yes! I also got it prescribe first as a teenager Basically RetinA makes your skin shed and pushed it to produce cells on a constant basis. At first, your skin is looking absolutely awful but after enough material has been discarded you're left with incredible skin. And yes, it does work for wrinkles. As long as they are not too deeply established. Hold on, lemme introduce you to Melissa. https://youtu.be/dqkt9rYtt2Q

RetinA and retinol is not exactly the same. RetinA is more potent and only available on prescription. But yes, your routine otherwise seems pretty solide. I've got also some rosehip oil which does wonders. I'm very minimalistic when it comes to skin care, so I'm basically alternating between RetinA and Cera-v type of ultra potent hydrating cream. The rest is accessory. I love using also Mario Badescu as an exfoliating tool for the body. And that's pretty much it.

Most effective trick is using RetinA + vitamin c serum. I also use +50 spf because my face has freckles.

A man with a disintegrated anima will attack women for control. Claiming that a woman is too "old" is typically an attempt of pedestal dragging. But that's exactly what I mean by a man not being a catch by behaving that way. Women are women from 20 to 80. A 20 year old will turn a 80 year old if lucky. Good men treat woman well from childhood to death.

France be like:

Surely, I have seen a shift during the last year regarding how China is conducting its diplomacy. It is more and more expansionists and confrontative to the western world. China intent to play by new rules. Now I'm not sure how China and Russia will ally themselves, but it is clear that an alliance between the two of them against the USA and our European quasi satellite state doesn't look good. Fixed it.

Nope. It's sort out automatically bigots and leave you with the best pool. A smaller pool, but better quality pool. The job of a woman is to always find the best suitor. Most men interested in you is somewhat spam pretending to be a match. But you ain't compatible. If a man adopts low-key disempowering or objectifying narrative, he's no catch. That's it.