purerogue

Things that are bad, often lead to good things in long run, while they might be horrible at that moment , they can bring very good changes afterwards .

So basically identifying is inevitable until we are living in physical world, only the way we do it , perceive can change.

Well but science is biased, especially nowadays, they will rather believe in aliens and matrix made by some aliens , then allow even slightest thought of something superficial, when nothing is really superficial , everything can be explained and that is what science is about, even if there would be magic, it would still be completely possible to look at it from scientific view point, at this point I am surprised that they even talk about different dimensions.

I do not think that you can do it without other person willing to be open for that,no matter how good you are with it, sure you can effect others with your vibrations, but do not thing that you can actually connect without other person allowing it.

Have you ever had situation where you connect to someone to the level where you do not have to talk , you can feel and understand each other?

Can I ask and be honest, is it that you do not like idea of working in area where you have to deal with products that are against your beliefs, or is it just that you are not motivated to do most of things in your life. If it is just the business type , you can look for jobs in other areas, like delivery services, charity, maybe some attraction places.

Although I do not think that everyone needs to move into full green,you on other hand look like person who needs this experience.

That's very complex situation indeed, but to know how to deal with it you must look not at yourself, but at your fathers personality first, there can be many reasons why he acts as he does and if you know what is making him to be such a person, you can start to think of a ways how to interact with him to fix this situation, unfortunately I do not know anything about him and each person needs different way of approach, there is no one way for all.

What are your thoughts on there being higher beings, entities, I see that most of well know teachers do not talk about them at all, which leaves me confused, I have not had experience of getting to see one , or talk to one, at least I think I have not, but there have been allot of strange occurrences in my life as teachings, or well reflected effect on my actions, strange coincidences that make me wonder why some talk about it, others do not even mention any of this.

You have kinda the same concerns as I do, that is why I want to find another way, explore what other paths there are to take , enlightenment is nice and all, but I do not feel that it is the way for me, sure enlightenment is way to return to your true self, but who said that it is a way we need to go, if universe wanted to be himself he would do it, but he made us as we are.

Maybe because you let go of thoughts and all that remains is emotions which allows you to go into deeper state of mind, I mean you are not focusing on your thoughts, but melody , you are pulling yourself apart from "you".

I think most people do not understand means of what you must do to get one and that it might not be as pleasant as you think. It seems people think it is some state and which you are happy and live your life as you used to before, but in endless ecstasy. But in reality whole enlightenment is much sadder acknowledgment of reality from perspective of person who has not let his ego go completely. True enlightened person lets go of this world and many things that you must do to let go of it would seem completely immoral for most of you.

I think your unpleasant feelings are because you are thinking of excuses at the time you are doing it, you should be able to tell if it is the case, relaxing mind of such thoughts is not easy and trying to stop them can be more harmful then useful if overdone, take your time.

How about this, avoid thoughts, but stop doing it if it feels unpleasant, you should not force yourself , it will make it only worse, you should not feel like it is forced thing, you have to tell yourself that you can stop any time you want. Start by little steps and check where it takes you, also you can try to have like 20 -30 min walk to feel better.

I can give you only by opinion on what you should do. Can you give example? I think best thing you can do is just do not think of anything, do not allow excuses even to go in your mind, if you let them in you will lose, no matter how much you try to find counter excuses, like 1 second law , you do it , or you don't do it. it work very similar to your emotions, you let them slip trough you without letting them manifest.

Enlightened person will have no bias toward anyone, that is if he is it this state , not talking about person who has had enlightenment experience and to be fair most of enlightened people will not bother with teaching anything , he might explain it to people around him who get curious and want to learn , but in all he is not concerned about world, so he needs really good reason unknown to me to even bother doing it.

I never said that you must be poor, or live in cave, that is your mind trying to find bias toward me, I said you have to let go of fears, that means let go of being afraid that you could have no money and that you could die of having nothing to eat, nowhere to live.

It is coming from my own experience and from other "teacher", I did not say that it is easy , but it is what it comes down to, most of us are afraid to have no money, let alone all other things that you have to let go of, I like how Leo tells you all about what is reality , but at the same time you all are clinging to it, it is fine if you do not want to attain Enlightenment, but seems silly if that is your purpose.

Alright, I will give you advice, to enlighten you have to let go of ego , to let go of ego,personality you have to let go of all your fears, anything that is dear to you, I hope you can grasp it.

1)How many places you have worked at, if you have a good amount of sample you should know if you are overworked or not. 2)You can try to google company ex employee reviews, it should give you some insight on how bad it is Find other job while you are employed or, stay and find out why it is so hard for you to work there, could be many reasons. It could be that you are overworked and that is why you have problems to make decisions as you are tired, it could be that it is just hard for you to make decisions because of inner conflict which again with workload makes you tired. I would be happy to try to give better advice , but information you gave is very limited

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