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Everything posted by charlie cho
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Anybody get an experience like this? Got on a date with her. Totally normal. Wanted to fuck her but only kissed, but she was going somewhere. A few days later With some miscommunication with calling and text.... with all the texting This woman gave me serial killer vibes. I get it if she was truly angry wanting to kill me or (cook me) as she said it... What chilled me was that she was laughing and enjoying the process of saying these things. Posting messages to me of clowns, and even homicidal women in my country. I know this sounds very comical. What was scary was that the woman wasn't angry, but she was laughing while posting websites of news articles, pictures, and weird texts. I actually posted this just a few hours ago with detailed explainations, but I just thought this was much simpler, and I wanted your taste in this. By the way, this all occured because I called her 'weird'. I didn't even say anything profane to her. The reason I was concerned about her body language in text was because in my country and the neighbor, japan, doesn't allow our messaging apps to turn off read receipts, so I have to assume the pictures and websites she sent me was already stored in her fucking phone. She kept telling me whenever I replied slowly (as if I was with another woman or person), and not immediately to her, so when I called her 'weird', she felt aroused for violence. Which was fucking weird if you ask me. So essentially, my calling her that may have been rude, but it's not uncalled for. Telling me she misses her pasttime in jail, she said she wants to cook me, (which sounded comical to me at first, but probably it shouldn't), of course, I blocked her. TF, I would expect a person to call me a cu** or a fuckin asshole on text if I was being rude, but these posts websites, clown pictures and the way she spoke scared the fuck out of me.
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No personal feelings against my man Leo. I love him. In my opinion, Tate may not be an actor musician or a great businessman. But in terms of playing chess and fighting, the artistic parts about fighting/war. He accomplished more than anybody, more than Leo, that's why he's more motivational. He cuts to the shit. He may not be Jocko, but at least in artistic realms he's accomplished. He's not a motivational speaker who hasn't succeeded in the things he proclaims. He was a chess champion, and a Muay Thai Champion. Still think Leo's good though. Try me, you'll be wrong. If you think I'm trolling. Because I never cared about other's opinions since I was born. Lol.
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.. I did get that sense from the girl. Perhaps that's why I didn't want to block her.
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I did. It was a quick decision.
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@Enlightement although I had fun with making jokes about your points, I do see your point of 'unequivocable empathy' with people I know less to be good advice. I'll probably use it.
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That's because you never had a decent conversation on text in your life. Blocking on the 5th text? Haha. You must have blocked and insulted some good people along your way who could've been good to you. That's not how you do that my dear friend. It's called being attentive. In real life interactions, when someone starts a rhetoric of his own, instead of a dialogue, a good friend will listen and proceed to be attentive, not block his friend from his ramblings. I hope you understand this. Be more attentive to people next time my dear friend. Based on my observations, people who can't listen in real life, can't be attentive virtually either. It's called 'getting in touch with your own darkness' I just told you, I care to learn about people's darkness. Stop thinking everyone just wants attention, by your own projection. Some people do just want to learn. By the way, please don't get offended by this. Don't block me either, like how you would block the person when he texts the 5th text, haha. I am enjoying this conversation with you. But good luck being attentive to others with living with your advice suggested to me.. I write and speak in a way that will seem like an idiot speaking, or just like I am being a provocateur, but really, I'm just trying to have a deep debate with you. Don't block me. Haha. I do notice, I can be very very offensive in my way of speech, at least in the eyes of the perceiver. But you have to understand, I'm not trying to attack, I just enjoy deep conversations and debates, both.
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How are you so sure it would wild sex,, lol
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Although, I do get the point, I can be provocative with words. But that doesnt mean I must be unprovocative. That is like telling someone to not use free speech. The best speakers were always provocative. Also, whether someone believes my words to be untrue or true, does not give the right to that person to say I dont have my freedom to speak. Even with trying to understand a person's dark side, without provocational freedom, without free ideas and speech, exploration of that dark side is impossible. Then there would be no communication. And the consequences of miscommunication will fall mostly on the person who has limited those free ideas and rights to speak.
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You don't get the point then. I'm not here to talk about "pick up" advice as you want to talk about with me. I actually didn't want to block her, even now I don't want to block her now. Because I was interested as to why she acted that way. Believe you me, I don't think you realize I've gotten many F you texts myself. But she was a bit different because it was integrated and natural the way it was written. I was primarily interested in what her state and understanding of the world was. I didn't want to fuck her. What on Earth makes you think of that? If somebody shows you their dark side genuinely. I have a degree of curiosity and I know many people who does too, while you may not have the curiosity, consider others too.
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I just told you, I already did. I just said it to you.
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No no, she definitely likes me. Every girl loves me. You never seen how cute I am. Dont you assume that presumptuously.
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@Enlightement confirmed, i just texted her "fucking why did you do that?" Then she just now proceeded to text me 15 times the same text "dont anger me in the morning." And gave 30 emojis. Fuck it was scary just now again. Wtf It really is the girl who is giving me those text. Not her friend.
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Perhaps. Some psychopaths ... huh.... i dont know.
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Ok. Fine. You will try to understand them despite that person talking about killing you, mind you the girl had a degree of humor and seriousness, when talking about all this. These two qualities are scary as shit. You will try to understand that person. Haha. Believe it or not. I did try to do that. But not with 'unequivocable empathy', until whenever i tried to sleep there were 50 emojis on my notifications of smiling bears. And clown pictures.
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@Enlightement imagine I wrote to you, after having touched and flirted with you on dates, a few days later "where is your address?" "Im going to kill you." "Lets meet now :)" "ill ve there in 2 hours I assume"On text. How will you respond? Or was I triggered? Laugh it off?! Take her on another date? If I could show you the homicidal articles and clown pictures she sent me while I asked her to calm down. The 50 emojis she sent me every time I left her unread 3 seconds. I wonder if you could laugh it off. In fact, i did laugh it off come to think of it. She said she missed her time in prison (am i supposed to believe her?), and got on a long history of what she did to get there. So i asked "what do you miss most?" Laughing. And she replied "ramen" Saying how she was aroused by what i said about "weirdness"and myself replying late. Late? Text her every 3 seconds?! With unequivocavle empathy?!
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No I can handle a critique! How dare you! But maybe, youre right. What you said is very very true. I do have to be very 'unequivocably empathetic to impeccable levels.' Because they are women Ive just met. Youre right, i didnt have 'unequivocable empathy' for stranger women. You're right........ But why should I? Have unequivocable empathy?!
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Yo, read carefully before you write. I called her weird, because she blocked my phone calls (oh, i just realized writing this I didnt mention this haha) Anyway, i didnt call her any profane word. Avoid uncomfortable texting? Then I would have to guess you were never having any real conversations with texting in your life yourself. Because real conversations require discomfort. But please, i have no time to argue with anyone here. Because I have a horrifying premonition that you will try to argue with me, in which I would dread because I dont have such time here to do that. Mind i tell you, she said she will 'cook' me. So, when I said she was weird, i dont think I was inaccurate my dear friend. The real question is, how can I be genuine with people on text, but also being able to be safe and sound in life from such attractive psychotic women!
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@Sugarcoat thats exactly my question sherlock. But again, attractive people tend to be.. u know. I heard jordan peterson recommend people to watch how pyschopaths work Watch this But indeed she was a very good kisser. I like how she wore clothes and how she did her nails and toe nails white. Mind I tell you, she was very very socially calibrated too! Which was hilarious when I gradually gotten to see her go insane through text. But if Im honest, i myself have shown tremendous different dark sides when I wrote to people. Like how in our diaries we write the most haenouss things without our being conscious, its the same things in writing to someone. So maybe its not so strange she had written such gore messages to me. Perhaps, it was to be expected! I heard a police officer say, its often the most attractive people who actually so the crimes, but we are so easily happy to blame the unattractive men to be doing the crimes. Perhaps it was to be expected that she would write such things or even be a pyscho! A real one.
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@The Redeemer lol delete this from my memory. I think i already did. The problem is, she quite nice to look at.
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The problem is .... (just reading what I've written above again)... I realize I made it all sound like a joke. Yes, partly she made it look like a joke, and she was kind of trying to make it humorous, but it was very evident that when I called her 'weird' she was ticked off. I called her that because of her behavior the night before, when she called me 3 times that day, and the last time, I got her call, but she suddenly tried to turn the phone off from me because she was 'sleepy'. Evidently, while texting me those homicidal texts, she thought I was speaking with another girl on the phone, because she called while I was callilng an old school buddy of mine. Anyway, I know I should be ignoring these kinds of women from the get-go, but this was a rare occurence for me because it's the first time I've actually encountered a person showing me their colors (at least, PARTS of their colors) quite genuinely to me on text. And I know this is not only rare in real life situations, being honest and true, and even ridiculous, but it is much more difficult to get people like this on text. To be quite honest, I was very .... ..... felt..... a bit angry at her stupidity. Because being true and even showing dark sides in real life interactions may be more easier than writing something permanent on the phone text messaging app or anything on paper.
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Hahahhahahaha. So cute. Has Leo's forum really denegrated to this level at this point this year? Hahahahaha.
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@001 being able to beat the out of you, or being a muay thai champion. or being able the beat the out of you in chess or, basing on reading all the comments you have written here, embarass you in front of anyone in debates. I know you will lose in debates with him, because you didn't have the brain to even be able to identify what accomplishments he has when hes the most googled man on Earth now. Im not being personal, but it is indeed all facts, at least inrelation to you.
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Perhaps. Need to realize talent and morality has no relation. And to begin to relate it in the first place is a very untalented and immoral way of looking at existence, for the simple fact that it is not true.
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Lol, the degree of intelligence in this sarcastic post. It's not high at all. haha.
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Well, his top book for success is the book 'Mastery' by George Leonard. Am I wrong?