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What about decaffeinated coffee? Is it good? It's just got the caffeine out of the coffee with chemistry. It's good .... maybe it can be good for you?

If I had to memorize, I always felt that it had to be natural, not forced memorization. Upon self learning programming and science, I am faced with people suggesting that I need to memorize this and that to "master" these subjects. I felt utter disappointment and hatred for myself. My self esteem had gone low. In school, even in Korea, I was good at nothing else but English and Math. I had good teachers tell me that if Math is learnt by rote, it retardates people's mathematical mind. It's bad for both short term and long term success. Simply put, rote learning in itself is the devil in Mathematics. I had always known that deeply. That was why I was always top in my class with just math and english, except with other subjects, science, history, korean...etc, I didn't do any of it. As I'm trying to master chemistry and physics and programming, I come upon this dilemma again. And I had to feel somewhat inferior to other kids for getting good grades outside of math and english. I know that physics don't require rote, but it seems chemistry kind of requires it.... I feel so much sadness and despair. What about programming? I hear two opinions on this subject of memorization in programming. One party says to memorize and the other says don't. The former was someone who is learning it in school. The latter is a programmer in the youtube advising us not to memorize it because he still was able to be a programming encyclopedia even when he made no effort to memorize. What should I do with the fact of rote learning? I hate it... utterly.... so much, I want to puke even thinking about rote learning. As you see, getting a korean education and american one. (America has it too no doubt, but just a little bit better than Korea) If you can't be bothered reading all the bullshit above, read below How do geniuses like Einstein David Bohm Richard Feynman treat rote learning? How do they treat memorization? I hear demons (people) around me shouting at me that I'm not intelligent because I hate memorization. I hear teachers looking down on me, straight A students laughing at me for resisting rote learning. How do you deal with memorization? You could see, I'm a lost person right now, but this is important to me. My goal here is this, how do geniuses learn? Do they completely disregard memory and let it happen naturally? Or are they like straight A school kids who cram in all the bullshit they see just to get some fucking acceptance from other kids and teachers? zhugeliang (the person with the white robe) is considered the greatest genius prime minister that ever lived in China

@Vzdoh just for your benefit, I must say one thing. For the sake of the universe this has to be done. As a fellow actualized.org member, I must say this for the team: Yes, I can see that you are a total babe.

@Roy maybe it can sound equivalent to a person drinking beer or wine that has no alcohol in it. Barley water? Grape juice? I understand caffeine is part of the taste. Personally i dont find it makes that much of a difference.

@Vzdoh yeah, years of loneliness can make you just tell a woman out of spite that she is an ugly person. It comes out of hatred for oneself and the need for attention. Forgive my indiscretions

To get back to topic here. We both agree that 80% women are attracted to high status males. I want you to stop attacking, and just get back to topic here @Vzdoh

@Vzdoh Honestly, i love this woman. Shes so entertaining

@Vzdoh I'd like to say I've been in a loads of leadership positions in my life, more so naturally than any effort by me to do so. Still a 22 year old kid, and haven't ever opened a business yet, so I may be more inexperienced than you blonde woman. I've known the worst thing you can do as a leader is to lust for power. Quite counter intuitive but the fact of the matter is that it's true. Greatest leaders are ones who don't want to be leaders. One of the more dangerous things a leader can do and hurt himself is to live with a competitive approach to life and try to single out other people. Boundaries are important, but to single out introverted people or loners is the worst thing a tribe could do. Truly, bullying you isn't the wise choice. But the worse choice is to not call the other out when one person in the group is doing something wrong. Wouldn't you say, a noble powerful man often finds himself alone? Are you denying this fact? Won't you agree that a man who cannot walk the journey alone is a coward? A powerless man compared to the one who has courage to stand alone? Maybe for the untrained eye of a beautiful woman, she will not see the amount of courage the man has beneath the facade of his status, money, and clothes. But you cannot deny a woman who had rich experiences will be able to see through that facade and see directly to whether he is a coward or not. And often we see cowards form groups and play political games to single out other cowards. I'm not saying courageous men cannot form their own groups. In fact, I don't see any coward being able to form a group sustainable in the first place. Think about this blonde girl or woman lol I don't care about being right. Maybe by dialogu, through agreement or disagreement, I just want to find a new insight about this matter of sexual attraction, that's all.

@Vzdoh woman. Your insecurity is hilarious. I love seeing you get mad, its fun. No i dont disagree with you majority of women go for high social status men. I never said that. In my previous post, unless you are blind blonde which you kinda are, i said 20% women dont care for high status males or low status males regardless. 80% do. And your picture aint so attractive. Been with blonde girls who looked better than you go for a loner like me. And ill say this from a hurt i have experienced alright? The reason i question this is because of this. Ive been that popular guy. Ive been that socially high status... whatever. And the girls i liked didnt like me for some reason because i only cared about social value. The girls i liked rejected me okay? And they would go for guys that were not so socially savvy like me, but maybe more funny or cooler than me... whatever. Thats why i question the value of social power in sexually attracting women. It is often known that women in a tribe many times get impregnated by another caveman outside the tribe even with the political leader doing everything in his power to stop other men from playing with his women. Psychologist had been puzzled by this many times.... because it occured all around cultures and countries. Some believe it is because that lone caveman has the future potential to be a leader, so the woman fucks him like a buying insurance. Lol. But the fact of the matter is, we all dont know. Yes, this is indeed all about survival and replication. And it seems however replication is counterintuitive to survival. Things we do for sex are often dangerous to our survival. Its facts. We risk our lives to get sex. I personally cannot fathom this in my head. I question social status because ive been that guy and ive been disappointed with the results. Maybe i should shoot for being a rock star then to actually fully experiment with this social status thing? Haha maybe i would. The point of the matter is, i dont care about being right. I just care about success. And the success im looking for is to understand and be what makes women sexually attracted to a man I dont feel like youre looking for success. I feel like youre looking to be right

@Windappreciator I am terrified what's going on in your mind

I don't even understand what you mean by that. So would women be attracted to Brad Pitt with the plague? I personally don't think so Leo. So you're saying, of course a woman will be repulsed by a man who is sexually inept even though he may have high social power. I always, personally, thought certain women are literally sexually attracted to fame/social-status. Like, I know it sounds weird, but just like some men are into foot-fetishes, female-domed and many women get turned on by being dominated by their bosses, they get turned on by even a sexually inept man with high social status. Maybe the sexually inept man may have lost his balls (like Adolf Hitler lost one) and have something totally disgusting on his body, and, of course not all women, but considerably a lot of women will be willing to have sex with that man. Am I the only one who thinks this is strange? If I were a girl, I personally could be sexually attracted to just social power, political power. Lol. Maybe.

@LastThursday im crying day and night man. seriously, but what is gamification? The ideas you have just said kind of enlightened me to something..... ? I did say in the post that I'm not against memory or physical memory itself (which would be habits i.e. basketball shooting form habits, tennis foreword hand forms) .............................................you presented the idea the way in which we memorize is horrible. That's an interesting concept. Do you have any more to say?

@Olivia24 You should remind yourself to drink tea everytime before sex

@Michael569 i followed you on instagram, I like your website design

@Tangerinedream ... I'm not putting you above other woman as a superior just for that. But your thinking is what I thought an ideal woman would be. And even with that, I have plenty of experience when a girl did not like the main alpha guy, but would like the mysterious quiet one on the side. ... hmmm.... just like how you have said. Actually, the many beautiful girls tend to be this way, although not everybody haha. thanks for your take on this

@robbinsarle sure, I agree. But I would say those women exist 20%. The other 80% do look for social status, do you agree. And those 20% would amount for 80% of the quality women, no?

@Vzdoh to be honest, I have nothing against people's preferences. But it seems you don't see the man, but his social status. If he loses his social status in some way, you will abandon him. I don't think you'll be able to find a quality man with that attitude even with being beautiful as you have said you are

@eaaaeaeae define value. is value social status?

@Arcangelo ?

@Vzdoh how you have described it makes quite much sense to me. Have you never felt attracted to a man who was a loner? I think its possible for woman to be sexually ampted up by them too

Im a little confused though haha... i personally see no fucking value in fame.. i have occassionally had bouts of wanting attention, but... the pursuit of it has been long gone. Whats the value of many people knowing you? Having even just two friends love you to death seems to be enough for me. Even one is good. Even none, is to be expected really. And their love for me will not change anything about me. Ill die anyways. All i care about is my experiences of life. How i experience the world. What do woman want from a guy who has fame or prestige? Is it like jewelry? To each persons, definition for jewels and treasures are different. For low conscious people, a jewel will only amount to ruby, saphire, and diamonds. To people who are not, they will look for good souls or poetry music philosophy... idk because these are a rarity also, only it is just a different type of sort. Its obvious to me women who are attracted to a man with fame is because she is attracted to fame. Or is it not? Is there something inherent in a man that is famous that women desire beyond her wanting to upper her own "fame"? Why not just be a model or a celebrity herself? Maybe... she doesnt need that fame herself. She simply is attracted to a famous man, having no desire for that fame herself. Maybe this is the case; i am not really sure. It seems highly possible to think this way. Mistaken me if im wrong please.

@Leo Gura what about luke skywalker trying to overthrow darth vader. Harry potter trying to overthrow voldemort. I would say voldemort and darth vader are more powerful popular people, yet people love luke skywalker and harry potter more. They give more prestige to harry more than voldemort (though oftem it is lesser than their counterparts) How does status dynamic work in this context

@Etherial Cat obviously, high social power can give you two things. Material wealth and fame. Women are attracted to material wealth, not necessarily the man himself. What about fame? If he loses that recognition from others, will the woman leave him?

maybe I am, maybe I'm not, maybe go @Harlen Kelly yourself

This is what I have wrote in my notes: You have never truly learnt it until you are able to totally apply it in existence You may have read mathematical formulas, scientific theories, but you don't know how to apply it, you have not learnt it. You've never gone through the experimental design itself! Let's say you are able to apply it in falseness. True learning is when you are able to apply it in existence. So unless the idea or concept cannot be applicable in existence, that idea or concept was never true learning at all. You cannot apply anything in the false world because the false world has no place where an idea or concept can be applied in the first place. Don't expect to understand something 100% until you know you are able to apply it totally in existence. So you struggled with science. Yes, you have not applied it in the real world. So do many science students you know. It's good. Apply it in the real world and you will know. Whatever learning, basketball, computer science, martial arts, relationships, if you are not able to totally apply it in existence, you have never learnt it in the first place. Hope it helps.