Of course. Like I've said elsewhere: don't chase women. This is a huge turn-off. You must do the minimal effort possible when attempting to date them. The more effort you do, the worse they respond. Women want to date men who are too busy and too serious to cater to them.
Be so serious about your own life that you simply don't have time or desire to chasing down a girl. You just invite her for a drink and if she doesn't agree you don't engage in chit-chat, you ignore her.
Girls who are attracted to you do not need to be convinced to meet you. They will agree with very minimal work from you. Working to get a girl to like you does not work and it makes them like you even less.
If you make the girl feel like she is the prize, like you are the lucky one to date her, she will not sleep with you. She has to feel like she is the lucky one. To make her feel that way, don't contact her too much. She needs to feel like she will lose you unless she acts to meet you.
The girl needs to feel: "OMG! If I don't act quick I'll lose this amazing guy."
Therefore: DO NOT CHASE WOMEN.
You invite her and then you wait for her to come to you. You do not desperately message her to be with you. And you do not chit-chat aimlessly with her, and you do not befriend her with rapport-building over text. Do not try to butter her up to like you. Maintain a detached frame.

Of course girls make your survival harder because you gotta take care of them and protect them.
But in return you get sex, intimacy, love, emotional support, companionship, children.
It's a trade off.
It's more worth it for the personal growth you get as a man rather than the pleasure of sex.
The amount and quality of sex I got was not worth it. But the amount I grew myself in the process was worth it. The growth would be worth it even if I got zero sex. The sex lasts for minutes. The growth lasts a lifetime.

I don't see a systemic solution. Mankind is in still in the dark ages and will be for a long time.
Individually you can try to minimize your involvement in it, but that won't scale to most people.
Ultimately you gotta accept your pig-like nature.

Fucking. Fucking never changes.
It's always been about maximizing value. Deny it all you want but survival runs you through and through.

I didn't say there was no good in humans. I said it only goes as high as their level of consciousness.

Mostly by speaking truth to power.
All power sits on a foundation of lies and falsehoods and unconsciousness. So shedding light on that is how power ultimately loses. Which is why all power is obsessed with suppressing truth.
Which is why I focus on truth rather than leftist loyalty.

Christianity is an idol-worshiping personality cult.
Worshiping a human is evil.

It took a lot of deep soul-searching and painful truth-seeking.
Because I was so involved in pickup, I had some untrue ideas implanted into my mind early on.
In pickup it's very important to believe that looks don't matter at all. Because this increases your results.
The more you think looks matter the less laid you'll get. This is what blackpillers don't understand.
Pickup requires delusional confidence, as Owen likes to say. It's very true. You need to believe you are the sexiest guy in the world regardless of objective reality. I drank from that poisoned chalice.

No, it's more profound than all that.
It's Love because the difference between killing a dog vs not is relativistic and imaginary.
Love is the realization that all difference is imaginary. And since all difference is imaginary, nothing can ever be wrong, because the notion of "wrong" is imaginary too!
There is literally no difference between right and wrong. That difference only exists from your biased, finite, relative POV. Which means it isn't absolutely true. Which means it's false. Which means it does not exist.
So... the difference between right and wrong simply does not exist. To realize that, is Love.
You only think it's wrong because you are selfish and biased. But God is selfless and has no bias. Therefore nothing is wrong for God. Therefore God is Love.
Contemplate this: Why do you assume cruelty is wrong? Who told you it's wrong?
Realize that it isn't wrong. That's just your bias. If you were honest and objective you would admit it's just your bias.

I don't know why you call morality that.
Morality is your sense of right and wrong. But your sense of right and wrong are shaped by what you need to survive and what your social group needs to survive. Emotions play into your sense of right and wrong and are also biased to serve your survival and your group's survival.
So there is this layered sandwich of factors what all work together to serve your survival: emotions, thoughts, beliefs, cultural conditioning, right/wrong, self/other, biological instincts.

Seriously developing yourself as a man will never be as popular or mainstream as stuff like blackpill, redpill, incels, etc. Because the most popular stuff is designed for lazy people who don't want to do any work. And becoming a powerful man requires enormous work.
Of course you can teach whatever you want. But just understand that real success cannot be turned into a meme or an ideology.
It's the same problem as trying to popularize God or enlightenment.
Pickup is not dead. There are more guys doing and teaching pickup than ever. Just don't go about it in a toxic way.
All the core principles of attraction and how to be a man have been discovered and articulated long ago. The problem is that it's so challenging that most guys don't want to do the work to actualize it.

Most blackpill guys have serious childhood trauma, abuse, broken families, missing parents, evil mothers, drug addict parents, poverty, depression, mental illness, chemical imbalance, low education, low IQ, low physical appearance, terrible social skills, profound introversion, autism, Aspergers, zero social experience, bad ideological indoctrination.
Yeah, you cannot imagine how bad it is. It's way worse than what you imagine. If you knew their childhoods and life experiences you would be horrified and their beliefs would make perfect sense to you.
These people live in hell and depression and dream of suicide or killing women. It's a sick, sinister, dark form of consciousness. You could almost call it satanic energy.
Blackpill is built on a painful toxic upbringing that creates seething anger and nihilistic apathy.
Normal social guys cannot understand such things. It's like another world. A dark bleak world of trauma and misery with no hope, no redemption. A black hole of self-hatred.
Your life has been too good, too loving to understand. No one hurt you enough, young enough. You had a decent family. You had good genetics. You had a social life.

By following the fundamental principles of epistemoloy and philosophy that I laid out for you. Grounding yourself in direct experience. Keen attention to bias. Consciousness work. Caring deeply about truth. Avoiding any ideology or group-think. Studying all the self-deception mechanisms. Contemplation. Construct-awareness. Paradigm-awareness. Relativity. Radical openmindedness. Reading many diverse sources and perspectives. High quality sources, not ideological junk. Meditation.
You know all this. Now do it.

Catching 100 fish or 1 fish takes the same bait.
I've never had lots of women attracted to me. This is a fantasy for most men. This only works for exceptionally attractive men. You ladies assume that the average man is like the top 1% of men. That is a fantasy. That's not how dating is for average or below average men. You grossly overestimate how much attention the average man gets from women. It's 100x less than you think because you're looking at some hot player dating coach. That kind of guy is 1 in 100.
I've never cared about having lots of women attracted to me. Just one. But getting that just one requires the same effort as getting 100.

The stuff I teach is not metaphysical beliefs. It's insights about the structures and operations of Mind, which is highly relevant to any process of understanding reality truthfully.
Actualized.org is focused on structure not content. Adopting beliefs is already a bad structure for scientific inquiry.
For example, materialism is bad content, bad epistemology, bad ontology.
There is no scientific reason to believe in an external mind-indepedent reality. This is as silly as believing in unicorns.

Well, it's everything I've ever talked about. So it's a lot of stuff to summarize.
It's the doing of Pure Philosophy It's thousands of hours of contemplation and deep existential questioning It's understanding the 9 Stages Of Ego Development and working through each stage It's developing profound Construct-Awareness It's taking psychedelics It's observing your own ego in action and the egos of others It's study and research, reading and watching videos It's educating yourself about the world, cultures, geography, politics, science, various forms of spirituality It's developing a life purpose It's getting crystal clear about your values and principles It's the study of self-deception It's the study of epistemology and its many traps It's deconstructing everything It's understanding your own corruption and selfishness It's studying your own emotions and developing mindfulness over them and understanding how and why they work It's recognizing immaturity within yourself and working towards mature ways of being It's studying and contemplating the common traps everyone falls into

Yup. That happened for me last year. I still have yet to release videos about it. I'm giving you guys some previews via the blog.

The only way out is through.
You can make use of capitalism to build yourself a decent life. That's what everyone has to do. You shouldn't expect government to just give you a good life. Turn yourself into a massive value provider. You can make good money in this system if you are hardworking and highly creative.

That's why you're not getting results.
Your method is terrible. Like throwing shit at the wall and hoping some piece sticks.
You have to build an emotional connection with the girl to give her a reason to want to hang out or even respond to your calls.
You are missing the whole art of game. You don't know how to flirt and how to establish a human connection. This is why girls don't sleep with you.

@SoonHei
I understand your grief and emotional turmoil, and you just wish things had unfolded differently so SoonHei would still be alive. I totally get that.
However, it is important to be factually and historically accurate about "long-established religions". The amount of death, torture, hatred, pedophilia, suicide, etc caused by classical religions is orders of magnitude beyond any new age spirituality. Classical religion is not "safe" in that way, it only seems safe because it is so baked into the social fabric of society. Many people kill themselves every year from holding Christian and Islamic beliefs about homosexuality being a sin. Or from other kinds of guilt. Or they kill others out of religious hatred. Again, this is because any large scale spiritual teaching will be corrupted and misused by self-deceived ego-minds.
The things I teach are tools for leading a good, moral life -- without dogmatic moralization. But a good moral life cannot be guaranteed by following any set of mechanical rules. Genuine goodness and morality requires consciousness, wisdom, intelligence, responsibility, and balance. I teach all of these things more than any religion. Classical religion teaches mechanical rules, which is not sufficient to eliminate suffering, evil, corruption, misunderstanding, or suicide. Misunderstanding within classical religion is very high. All classical religions also have esoteric and mystical cores which teach radical truths about God, Love, Heaven, Death, and Awakening. Because Truth is radical by its nature.
So my point is this: be careful not to conclude that new age spirituality is the root issue here. The root issue is the tricky nature of how the mind works. The mind is extremely self-deceptive by its nature, and then it will use whatever system of ideas/beliefs to behave however it wants. Those ideas/beliefs can be atheist, theist, Christian, Islamic, New Age, Buddhist, nondual, rationalist, nihilist, capitalist, socialist, nationalist, liberal, conservative, or whatever.
I know this logic doesn't take your pain away. But thinking that "the grass is greener on the other side" can add to your pain.

This is a fantasy.
Without employment humans will devolve into drug addicted animals, not enlightened sages.
Do not assume that billionaires will give you any of their money.
If you are not employed you have no way of making money. Do not assume that you are unemployed but you magically have money.

The key thing to understand is that it's not about fairness or morality, it's about power.
If you think the world works based on morality the world will never make sense to you and you will fail at predicting the future.

Working harder and smarter is their best bet. Even if socialism wins, it will be a cold day in Hell before it puts money in your pocket.
Wealth is actually created for average people when they run small businesses, like hotdog stands, village shops, small farms, bazaar shops, cafes, bike repair shops, candy stores, etc. Marxism confiscates and kills these small businesses.

I have wondered this myself.
Some people just have lucky genetics. Like Trump.
If I ate the shit they eat I would be dead by now.
There may actually be a correlation between one's level of consciousness and how sensitive your body/brain is to toxins. Notice that a high performance sports car requires superior fuel to travel the same mileage. High performance machines tend to be more sensitive and fragile, requiring higher precision in their operation.
There are some people who smoke a pack of cigarettes a day their whole lives and never get cancer. But are these highly conscious people? Would you really want to trade places with them even if they live to 100? Trump will probably live more years than I do, but I don't regret that one bit.

Morality without reality ends in evil. Which is 20th century Marxist Cuba, Russia, China, North Korea, etc.