You need to stop this mental masturbation and second-guessing and simply talk to more girls.
When in doubt, talk to more girls.
Girls are mostly not attracted to you because you're not able to convey your personality properly. You are simply uninteresting and don't subcommunicate the qualities of an awesome man.
You need to make your personality pop. You need to stand out among all the other lame dudes out there who are sitting on forums worrying about their looks.
Just the fact that you even care about your looks already shows how weak of a man you are.
A man is not a doll. That's not what women need from men. Women need men to have balls.

Sorry. I stand corrected. I was not thinking of it as a percent.
0.2% is more realistic for a newbie. Although I knew a newbie in Vegas who slept with 25 girls in like 3 months. So it very much matters your geography and also how quickly you learn.
The biggest problem will be that you will attract a LOT of hot girls, but you will be unable to close them for stupid logistical reasons.
The most important element for getting a high lay count in pickup is becoming an absolute master of handling the logistics. You will lose 90% of girls due to logistics. Which means, 90% of girls who are ready to fuck you, you will lose. At least as a newbie. As a vet you will get good at handling all the bullshit obstacles.

I never claimed I have. Be careful what you assume about me.
Pickup has an extremely steep learning curve. The first few years you will suck so bad and get very low numbers. Most of your numbers will come 5 years in. Guys who get laid a lot are either naturals or very experienced and veterans of the game.

It doesn't really take that much. That's just in the very beginning as a total fool.
The results curve is exponential. So you will get a lot better.
Also, when I count approaches, a lot of those approaches a very brief. Most of them are not long conversations since you will get blown out a lot very fast.

@Lyubov Just start being emotionally vulnerable and the right girls will appreciate it.
Integrating your feminine side is one of the most important things you can do to make yourself a stronger, more attractive man.

More excellent work from Abby Martin and Chris Hedges.
Chris Hedges is brilliant.
 

You fundamentally misunderstand what pickup is about.
It's not about running a script. It's about learning how to be authentic. Guys struggle with social awkwardness A LOT. Guys are not as socially intuitive as women who practice socialization their entire lives.
Again, you're not understanding because you have no genuine curiosity in this topic. You're looking at it and judging it from your female self-agenda.
What you're doing is akin to me telling women: Don't watch any YT make up videos and don't shop for panties at Victoria's Secret and don't do anything to improve yourself. Don't wear heals. Don't wear bras. Don't do your hair up. Don't shave your legs. Don't shave your pussy. Don't do your nails. Don't hold in your farts. Don't go out and don't socialize at night with any guys. Just sit at home, be normal, and you'll get a great husband.

In stage Blue society getting laid is a lot easier because you just go to church and marry some girl your church friends introduce you to.
But also, men have been hitting on women since the dawn of time. You just learn about it today thanks to the internet.
Bars and clubs and alcohol exist for one reason: for people to get laid.
We live in a highly alienated time and culture.
You know, in Quaker society none of the boys have a problem getting laid. Their parents just set them up to marry the girl next door.
My dad met my mom by approaching her on a street corner. If he didn't have the balls to approach her, I wouldn't be here, and neither would you.

I talk about a lot more than the Absolute. Mostly I talk about relative stuff.
But also I point to the Absolute in various ways.
Wilber's 4 quadrants is fundamentally dualistic because it requires cutting the world up with distinctions. Wilber's model is relative and cannot be applied to the Absolute itself. The Absolute is not divided into subjective/objective or I/we.
Subjective experience is the ground for everything else. So in this way Wilber's model is misleading. Wilber's model is itself only exists within your subjective experience, as does Wilber, for that matter.
There is nothing but your subjective experience. Period.

It's not a function of time, it's a function of grabbing her attention and making an emotional connection.
You could do this within 5 minutes or fail to do it after 60 minutes.
The conversation needs to be emotionally engaging, it needs to broadcast your personality, and it must have sexual tension without ever talking about sex.
You must also work on all your sub-communication so it's tight: eye contact, body posture, vocal tone, smile, facial expressions, your mood, etc.
Asking too many questions is problematic. Instead of asking questions, make statements and observations, and lead the conservation by talking about yourself a lot. In the beginning you need to carry 90% of the conversation rather than asking her to carry it for you.
The best way to carry a conversation is by learning to talk about yourself a lot. This is something extroverts do naturally but introverts almost never do.

Even if you are the hottest hunk on the planet, not every girl will like you and you will not be able to attract every girl.
You should aim for maybe 1/3rd of girls liking you. The rest you ignore.
Of course girls have different types. If you're not her type then you won't be able to attract her.
The way you solve this problem is by talking to 5,000 women.

God cannot be Love unless it allows you to be selfish.
If God hated or judged selfishness, that would make God evil/selfish.
So by asking God to eliminate selfishness, you are asking God to be a devil.
Only selfish people have a problem with selfishness. Get it?

Toxic Masculinity: Guys who look up to and admire Trump as their ideal of a man
Toxic Masculinity: Guys who use the phrase "soyboy"
Toxic Masculinity: Guys who consider themselves alpha and fear being beta.
Toxic Masculinity: Guys who fear that masculinity is under attack and threatened with extinction.
Toxic Masculinity: Guys who love to complain about and blame feminists but never read a single feminist book and are proud of it.

Who gives a fuck?
Be a man and go get the girls you want! You are the hunter. Stop sitting around waiting for them to hunt you. You should be the one who's screening girls to find which ones are worthy of your love.
If a girl can't see how awesome you are, that's her stupidity and it is beneath you to try to second-guess yourself by assuming she is somehow right. Own your awesomeness rather than waiting for girls to validate it for you. Adopt the frame of a man who understands his own worth regardless of what the outside world is telling you.
When the outside world tells you that you're not awesome, you need to tell yourself, "They're crazy! I'm even more awesome than I previously realized. How can they be so blind?"

So clearly there's something amiss in your inner game. It's a mind thing. You need to become more conscious of what your mind is doing at the moment when you penetrate and go soft. What is your mind thinking? What is the fear? What are you visualizing? What are you feeling?
Get very clear and honest about that.
Sound like you might have fear of premature ejaculation or that you're putting so much pressure on yourself to perform in bed in a certain way. Good sex requires getting out of your head and into the feelings in your body. Try literally moving your awareness out of your head and out into your body.

Russell Brand isn't a skill. It's his natural disposition. He's off-the-charts extroverted and charismatic. An introverted guy is never going to be able match that.
Brand's a natural. You can imitate him, but you ain't ever gonna be as slick as him unless you got his unique type of personality.

@iceprincess
Most guys are really turned on my femininity. So anything you can do to amp up your expression of femininity will drive them nuts. Just by acting up your femininity in bed this will make the sex 10x hotter. Acting up femininity is stuff like sweet talk, gentleness, moaning, squirming, going into heat, being submissive, etc.
Nonsense!
You just need to find the right guy and get turned on in the right ways.
You can have a deep vaginal orgasm without even any physical touch.
Hell, I can almost have a vaginal orgasm and I'm a dude.
Sex is not about the physical. Sex is all about how you use your mind.

Yes, for sure.
Brand is a great example to study and emulate for introverts.
You will never be like him. But you can maybe go 10%, 20%, 30% towards his direction. Which will significantly improve your social life.
I've definitely done that and I highly recommend it.

That's what good game looks like. It doesn't just charm women, it charms all humans.
It feels totally effortless and natural. There is nothing creepy or scripted about it. It's like improvisational art.

Being charming does not mean you will charm 100% of people. It means 1/3 of people will hate you, 1/3 will REALLY love you.

If you got decent game, about 1/3 of girls should hate you, 1/3 should love you, and 1/3 should be indifferent to you.
Train yourself to only care about the right 1/3.

@Don Wei Bro, that's the entire point of learning game. It allows you to hold your poise and cool with the hottest women.
Attracting the hottest women requires being like ice. And they will shit-test you to test your iceyness and detachment. If you fail the shit-tests -- if she can break your poise -- she will immediately lose interest.
The bottom line is this: you will only be able to keep a girl who you can be icey with. If she can de-center you, you won't be able to keep her. If she is the prize and not you, you won't be able to keep her. You must be the prize.
You can increase your cool by lots of experience dealing with shit-tests and rejection. It's also important to raise your entitlement to have the hottest girl. You must feel like you're fully entitled to it. MASSIVE ENTITLEMENT. Like you are a king. This means slaying all your insecurities.
Hot girls are attracted to massive confidence and huge balls. You need to be the most confident guy in the room. Not through fakery. But actually.
The hottest girls are basically attracted to sociopaths, narcissists, bosses, and ruthless scumbags.

It's very important to distinguish between attraction vs relationship.
A relationship of course requires emotional availability. But that's NOT what women are attracted to.

I look forward to deep intimate relationships with females.

45 mins of shamanic breathing is very trippy and powerful, but it is nowhere near as powerful as a DMT breakthrough. Not even in the same ballpark.
A DMT breakthrough is beyond anything the human mind can imagine is possible. It is literally the impossible made possible.