When I brought her home she told me she assumed I was homeless based on how I dressed and looked.
#HomelessGame

The last girl I slept with

BTW, she thought I was homeless when she came home with me.
But don't let me stop you guys... keep bullshitting.

If I showed you a pic of the last girl I slept with, your jaw would drop. Hotter than a Playboy model. She was into spiritiality and read David Hawkins too
You don't know what a 10 is until you come to Vegas.

"Attractive" is a holisitic quality which involves a lot more than just looks. A girl will think a guy is good looking when she is actually attracted by his status, confidence, masculine vibe, charisma, eye contact, humor, etc.
Solid game makes a guy appear attractive.
But of course some lucky guys simply get laid off their looks. It's not a solid strategy though. Guys who get laid the most are working for it. It doesn't land in their lap.

Completely collapsing the "other" duality requires a ridiculously high state of consciousness.
Even someone like Rupert Spira, who meditated for decades, has not acheived it.
Hence, paychedelics.
It's not that others aren't real. It's that others are You. All "other" will eventually collapse into you.
The only thing you will find as you raise your consciousness are deeper layers of Self.

Owen actually coined that term. It's a guy who basically has zero social skills and zero experience talking to girls and very introverted. The opposite of a natural.
Game comes easily to some guys because it aligned with their natural personality. Game comes really hard for others. Game for me is like 180 degress against my strengths and personality. By all rights I should be living in a cave, not pulling models from the craziest nightclubs in the world.
It's like you're asking if Albert Einstien had great game.
I had to push myself super hard to do precisely what I was worst at in the world and what I hated doing most. Learning game was one of the hardest things I've done in my life.

John is not a clown. He has solid game. The issue is integrity.

Most PUAs drink. And sometimes a lot.
I really admire those who go 100% sober, which is one reason I admire Owen.
Sure, you can. His advice on leading and handling logistics is solid.
I am not disputing John's game. It is solid and practical. I was talking about him shitting on all the other coaches. This is in poor taste and discounts the pioneering work of someone like Owen. Regardless of Owen's lay count he has done pioneering work in this field, as has all of RSD. To dismiss all their work so flippantly as John does is not intellectually integrous.
Firstly, he saw me maybe do a couple of approaches at most, from afar. Which says little about my game. I can also say that I have seen him get blown out by girls by pulling them too early and aggressively.
Secondly, when he saw me back in 2013, I was a hard case newbie who had 1 year of experience in game. Of course a newbie will be uncalibrated.
Even the best coaches in the world will get blown out hard each week by a few girls.
I practiced a lot of physical game in Vegas back in 2013, and yeah, very direct physical game produces lots of instant blow outs. But it can also hook like crazy. Some of my most amazing sets came from very direct physical game. People are amazed when they see it hook instantly. It's so on it's shocking. It's an important skill to develop for very loud and crowded clubs.

There is never a guaranteed path to exceptional success. That's part of the challenge! You have to do it despite everything in the environment telling you you'll fail.
Escaping wage slavery is not for people who need guaranteed paths and others to cheer-lead them. Escaping wage slavery is for people who are willing to do the work even everyone around them says it's impossible and that you shouldn't even try. You need massive vision and an irrational belief in yourself. You need to be so confident and adamant that even when you're failing you think you're succeeding.
In other words, your inner game is not appropriate for escaping wage slavery. You're hoping for some kind of promises and hand-holding -- but that's too weak of an attitude for creating serious success.
I should be here telling you that you'll fail no matter what you do. And you should be here telling me, "No, fuck you Leo! I will succeed no matter what you say. I will make so much money I will use $100 bills to light my cigars."

By definition everyone cannot escape wage slavery. It is not possible at a collective level. But it is possible for you at an individual level.
Not everyone can be a millionaire, but you can if you want it bad enough.

Lol. John knows nothing about me or my game.
He talks shit about everyone as part of his marketing strategy. It's toxic. His approach to marketing himself is the same as his approach to gaming girls. Like I said before, a low integrity PUA is going to not just treat girls badly, he will treat everyone in a manipulative way, especially his clients and customers. He's gaming you with the same integrity he games girls.
I was not known in the community at all because I was a nobody, there was nothing noteworthy about my game, and I never made any claims about my skills or results. This whole dick measuring contest about who has the best game is childish. All that matters is that you are improving your game. You can learn valuable lessons from all the instructors. You can also acquire many toxic ideas and habits if you're not careful.
There is nothing more creepy than having your wingmen imprisoned for rape and yourself having rape accusations brought to court. Next to that I am a saint.
Remember, I am not a pickup coach and I never was. So don't compare me to those type of guys. I was critical of the pickup community from the day I learned about pickup. Obviously much of it is low consciousness and toxic stuff sourced from deep trauma and lack of spiritual development.
Be careful who you learn from. Their integrity, or lack thereof, will rub off on you.
Have I done some flashy game? Sure. Have I turned girls off? Of course. That's all part of learning game. Flashy game is not solid game. I explained this in my How To Get Laid videos. But exploring flash is valuable nonetheless. Knowing how to do a bit of flash at the right time is very effective. People also have different styles of game. And much of what is considered flash is also just part of self-amusement and warming up. Sometimes I will say something silly or outrageous just to blow up a set and put myself into a playful mood.
Keep in mind that all my game was done sober. Most of John's game was done drunk while he was gaming in Vegas. He says he quit drinking now -- which is great if true -- but that's after 10 years of drunk game. The majority of his supposed lay count is drunk game. I had to build my state from zero each night. So did Owen.

This is not a matter of trusting Owen. Carefully consider his perspective, running it through your own critical thinking, wisdom, and Tier 2 understanding. Sort the signal from the noise.
There is always a lot of signal in Owen's talks.

You should be working on raising your value every day for the rest of your life. Pretty soon you will be in the top 1% of guys and you will be so unique and valuable, no one will be able to compete with you.
This is not for girls, this is for you. The girl just gets to feel the glow of your inherent awesomeness.
This is not about girls! This is about self-actualization!
Ground your confidence in self-actualization and self-realization. Put your nose to the grindstone. Other guys are irrelevant. Actualize yourself.

You have a bias against death.
That's the core falsehood.
The truth is that nothing matters. Yet if you align with that you will die. Therefore to be alive you gotta be in falsehood.

Take a psychedelic and you'll see how obvious it is. You will laugh.

What's holding you back is your state of consciousness.
If you don't change your state you will never realize you are the coffee table.

You can certainly flip a girl around if she is cold on approach.
But it's not going to be something you do consistently.
Just focus on improving your game rather than aiming for some magical 100% consistency.
Even the best guys in the world get blown out all the time.
I know many guys who are very good. And they have bad nights frequently. It's a very chaotic process.

Your "high quality" girl still wants fun, emotions, value, and leadership. A high quality girl has options. She won't be attracted to some needy inexperienced ass.
For a guy to get a good relationship requires hundreds of approaches.
You are assuming attraction. But that cannot be assumed.
A guy needs a lot of "customers" to get the experience necessary to be the kind of strong man & leader a high quality girl expects him to be.
Every girl wants the sausage but doesn't want to know how it's made. As it turns out, being a man tends to be a dirty business.

Even those girls are still going to get attracted at an emotional not a logical level.
And obviously we are generalizing. Not even all girls like dick. The exceptions demonstrate the rule.
Even the emotional guys are still logical relative to girls. Consider that gender is more fundamental than personality type. Female cats still go into heat and want to be fucked. This dynamic is way more primal than personality type or even humanness.

It exists in this dream of yours as a concept.
A fundamental part of how your Mind constructs "material reality" is by creating a distinction between actual vs conceptual things.
But of course you could stop dreaming that distinction, which could allow a Flying Spaghetti Monster to materialize. But the ego has no control over this. Therefore you don't take the possibility seriously and dismiss it as "fantasy" or wishful thinking.
But if you took enough Salvia or LSD, you could see a real material Flying Spaghetti Monster. Of course afterwards you would probably rationalize it away as "unreal". But you're doing that in order to maintain your construction of a "material reality". If you didn't actively do this, material reality would start to dematerialize, which you would perceive as going insane.
Understand this: if you allowed yourself to see a physical Flying Spaghetti Monster you would think you lost your mind and start taking anti-psychotic medication just to curb the fear of losing your mind.
People don't realize how much their "reality" and "sanity" are connected.
The highest spiritual insights and experiences would be considered insane by most people. This must be the case in order to maintain the illusion of "material reality."
If someone like Jordan Peterson took enough psychedelics or meditated long enough, he would start to go insane and freak the fuck out as his whole sense of reality collapsed around him. It would be quite dangerous.

Where does the present exist? Where does anything exist?
Where did whereness come from?
That could be your koan

That's a very difficult issue. In practice to get good at game you have to not settle down for a while. But girls will not like it. So there is an ethical trade off there. If you are pulling from clubs it's gonna be easier not to settle down vs doing dating. Dating sets up an expectation that you want her as your GF. She will tend to expect that. So one way to go is to wear your player frame very upfront, so she's not confusing you for BF material.
But even so, most girls will want to make you exclusive if you sleep with them more than once.
There is a good reason why most guys are not great at game: you basically have to have very little empathy for the girls to pull it off. The more selfish you are, the more girls you will get. There's no way around that. Girls love to sleep with detached sociopathic players.
I am not telling what to do, I am telling you the realities of attraction.

A) Pay cover.
B) Bribe the bouncer.
C) Grab girls off the street and drag them into the club with you.
D) Find & befriend promoters who can put you on VIP guest list if you bring girls.
E) Make a deep social circle of girls who club regularly and invite them out the club with you.
Option C & D is best.
Some nights in Vegas I might pay $150 cover just to get into the club. Usually I can get in free using a combination of the other options above. And I can often even skip the line.
You can also game outside of clubs around closing time. This is the poor man's option.

I've never seen a problem getting into a club solo. You just pay cover.
Not sure how clubs are in your area. All the clubs I've been to charge guys cover and they don't care about group size.
I would try to frame it as them joining you. If you get on the guest list using a promoter you can say, "Hey, ladies. I'm on the VIP guest list. Would you like to join me?"
Or just chat them up real good so they like your company. Then say, "Hey, let's walk in together as we're chatting." Try to approach girls not in line but further away. You can even find girls who were not planning to go to the club and invite them to join you. This is ideal.
I've done this frequently in Vegas.

The secret to club game is: live in a city with good clubs. If the clubs in your town suck then it won't work so well.
Also, you gotta get really good at pulling. Pulling is a whole skillset onto itself. It is not at all like doing dates. You have to get really experienced at leading and handling logistics bullshit.
But once you learn that, it's actually easier and faster to pull than to date.
But hey, nothing wrong with dating if that's what your city allows.