@Vytas She could still go out with you. Your texting is just not the best here.
Don't ask girls to plan out dates and logistics. Instead, tell her. You should have told her: "Good, let's go walking tomorrow at 7pm at place X."
Just assume she is free. If she's not, she will tell you and you can say, "When are you free?", she will tell you, and you will adjust the time. You should also pick dates and times when she is likely to be bored and free.
Wait a day or two and ping her. Sometimes girls are just busy with life.

The Buddha did 7 years of hardcore yoga practices, all of which he aced. That's before his ultimate enlightenment.
Jesus trained with John The Baptist. Baptism was a technique of holding your head under the water until you nearly drowned, and then in the last second of your life, pulling you out. That was Jesus' teacher. That was Jesus' analogue of a psychedelic experience. Jesus also did a 40 day fast and vision quest int he desert. I'm sure you've heard of it.
If you hold yourself under water until you're nearly dead, you'll have some trippy experience Be careful what you wish for, though.
If I told you guys to do what Buddha or Jesus did to attain enlightenment, you would call me a madman and a criminal. I'm coddling you here like puppies
Psychedelics are what I tell you to do when you're too meek to do a 40 day vision quest in the desert.

In a sense I don't struggle with friends because I'm so introverted I don't keep them.
I enjoy my own company more than that of any other human. Many people don't understand such a lifestyle.
The struggle was three-fold:
Simply learning to be social at all Getting over my insecurities and limiting beliefs that any hot girl would want to date me Learning how to flirt and attract women When I started I had big problems with all three.

Lolz
That's your absurd idea of me. You might as well have photoshopped my face onto Arnold Schwarzeneggar's body. That's what you've done in your mind because you idolize me.
The truth is that I have been insecure my whole life, I've struggle enormously with being social and attracting women.
When I attract a hot woman, she has no idea who I am or how much I make.
Yes, I'm 6'2". But... I don't have a square jaw. I'm not classically good-looking. I'm skinny. No girl gives a fuck about my spirituality, knowledge, or wisdom. She has no idea how much money I make and I never tell her. I can be socially awkward. I'm highly introverted and don't like small-talk.
1000s of hours of work went into making me dating-material. And much of it was invested into improving my inner game.

Also, dude, don't forget, most women are short! You can easily find gorgeous women who are in the sub 5'5" range. So ultimately height is irrelevant.

Don't bullshit me. Being bald is certainly a disadvantage in dating hot women. Don't use this as an excuse. You can still date hot women while bald. But it's harder. You will have to have better game.
1) Although I am very introverted I really enjoy deep intimate relationships. It's a bit of a paradox, but not really. Introverts like few relationships but they are deeper. We trade off breadth for depth.
So while you may think that I don't go deep with intimacy, the opposite is the case. When I'm with a girl, I give her my full attention because I don't scatter my social energy around in 50 different ways. And I'm not with a girl often so it feels much more special.
2) As an introvert you need to make plenty of space for alone time. Don't constantly be together for long periods of time.
3) Dating an introvert is helpful because she too will appreciate her space and alone time and she won't be interested in highly social activities like clubbing or partying. Two deep introverts can make for a great combo. And there are plenty of introverted girls.

Sure it is. My first two wingmen were two black guys in Dallas. Both of them got laid more than me because they were more experienced and had better game.
Will you have a disadvantage with white girls? Sure, probably. But it doesn't really matter when you talk to 30 girls a night. You don't need to bang every girl you meet. You only need 1 per night to be down.
If you're a black guy and you want a hot white girlfriend, this isn't a problem because all you gotta do is filter through 500 hot white girls until you find a few that love you. Is it worth it? Sure it is. You can do that in a few months.
Remember.... you're not out to bang the whole female race. You're just looking for a handful of women. A handful out of thousands. This makes your goal much easier.
When I was practicing game, it's even worth it to approach 300 pound whales. You are just being social and having fun. Lower your standards for socialization and approach. Just because you approach does not mean you need to end up having sex with her. She might have a cute friend.
APPROACH ALL! -- should be your motto. Young, old, hot, fat, man, woman, gay, straight -- doesn't matter. Just approach and socialize. Sort the wheat from the chaff later.

Depends. When I was doing it seriously I would go about every night that clubs were open in the city I was in. Sometimes 3 nights per week. Sometimes 7 nights per week for a whole month. It all depends on what opportunities are available in your area and how serious you are. 2 nights per week should be minimum. That's typically Fri & Sat. You'll need to check your city and venues to see if it's worth making the trip out there on weekdays. Many times it's not worth it if you live in a small city.
Typical night: 5, 10, or 20 girls. Depends on how busy the venue was. Some nights are just slow so you can't approach 20 girls. Sometimes you only get 5 or so. 10 per night is a great number to shoot for. But some nights it will only be 3 or 5 just because it was slow or you were chickening out.
The #1 to doing massive approaching is that you need to find specific venues and cities that offer that opportunity. Your average bar does not have 10 girls worth approaching.

The peak of my game was a Vegas 30-day challenge. I beasted full-time for 30 days straight in Vegas, 5 hours per night. I did something like 750+ approaches in that month. I even approached with a cold fever and dripping nose. In fact that night I got laid. I was having sex and wiping my snotty nose on the rough sofa pillow because my nose would not stop running in the middle of sex. It was unreal and not so pleasant. But it was training. My wingman was nailing her friend in the same hotel room. The four of us slept in the same bed.
Yeah... that's beast-mode in Vegas. Off the hook. Crazy shit goes down here.
I did it all 100% sober too.

One of the hardest things I've ever done. But also one of the most growth-catalyzing for me.

I have not found any methods that work well for me other than long and tedious-as-fuck full-time meditation retreats.
Realistically you need 100 hours straight of uninterrupted mindfulness concentration.
But even then, you will fall out of that state once you stop the retreat. Changing one's baseline is the hardest thing.

Indeed it won't.
What it will do is show you how deluded you are to chase after those things.
You are confusing spirituality with an activity of serving the ego's survival. Spirituality is the opposite of that.
Your mindset is: "Why should I do spirituality? What's in it for me?"
To which the answer is: "Spirituality will fucking kill you. There's nothing in it for the ego. If you want to keep being an ego stay as far away from spirituality as possible."

Indeed, you do not yet understand
You don't get how deep this goes.
Death is imaginary.
When you realize that. EVERYTHING changes. Yet nothing changes.
If you have cancer, enlightenment will not cure your cancer. But it will allow you to be happy regardless because you know that you'll just reincarnate as soon as you want because you have infinite lives.
Imagine if you were playing a video game like Mario Bros and you believed you only had 1 life vs playing the game knowing that you can play it as many times as you want. What would that change? It wouldn't change Mario's world. But it would change how you play the game. All the sudden, Mario dying is not a problem.
See, when I die, I will just reincarnate as something else. I know that but you don't. That's the difference.
Yes, enlightenment is technically useless. Because use is an illusion. Enlightenment is prior to usefulness, which is exactly what it's so powerful. It frees you from the enslavement of utility.
What you're also missing is that Beauty and happiness are useless. And yet it's the greatest joy of life. So in practice what you're missing out on is infinite joy, beauty, and love. All totally useless, yet life sucks without them  
What you really want from life is not usefulness, you want LOVE and Beauty.

Yes
You can get so used to it that it becomes enjoyable. That's how it is now for me.
First time I had a panic attack though. So yeah... it's gonna mindfuck you a few times.

Be very careful with dosing.
Plug instead of vape/snort.
Always on an empty stomach.

I've seen him game in-person.
He definitely gets results, but he is a dysfunctional, sociopathic rapist and so I cannot recommend him. He also games a lot while drunk. And the thing is, if you drink every night, you don't need game techniques. Being drunk IS the technique.
I'm sure you can learn valuable things from him, but I cannot in good conscience endorse his methods because they are sociopathic.

I've basically seen every one of them game in person. I've casually winged with some of them.
I've winged with so many different guys from all over the place. Some great, some terrible, and all in between.

Haha
That's so unnecessary. Of course you could do that. Or you could just square up to her, look deep in her eyes, move your face closer to her's, hold her hands in yours -- and you will see it in her eyes if she wants you to kiss her. If she is giving you puppy-dog eyes, you kiss her. If she flinches or recoils or darts her eyes as you move your face slowly towards her, you pull back. And if she allows you to stroke her face or the hair on her face slowly with your fingers, then she'll definitely let you kiss her.
And if you go in for the kiss and she pulls away, you just laugh it off and try again 5 minutes later.
Always assume the kiss will be successful unless she explicitly says No. If she agreed to go on a date with you, she's obviously already willing to fuck you. All you gotta do is not act weird or creepy and make her feel comfortable. You do this through lots of early physical escalation. Google Kino Escalation Ladder.

Women love to play coy and give fake resistance. Or sometimes she's just not comfortable and shy.
The man has to be persistent and break through her coy displays and make her feel comfortable.
If a woman resists your kiss, you butter her up with playfulness and wit, boost up her mood, and they try again 5 mins later when she's giggling. Never kiss a woman on a down-note. Kiss her on an up-note. Tickle her first, then kiss her.
Women are highly state and mood dependent. By learning to shift her mood you get her to open to you. Women are not like men. They need to be warmed up and turned on. And they will play coy.
Of course all this assumes she's interested in you. I'm not talking about raping a stranger while she protests. I'm talking about flirtation.
The hotter the woman is, the more she will shit-test you before she lets you kiss her and fuck her. Women need to test how seriously committed you are to them. This is part of her survival strategy. She wants a persistent man who knows what he wants and can cut through her token defenses.
One of the best tricks you can play on a woman is telling her this: "We are definitely not having sex tonight." Because that's usually her line. Then you have sex with her 10 minutes later. When she gives you the surprised Pikachu face, you tell her you were just kidding.
You have to stop being serious with women. Play with them without abusing them.
Push-pull is an important dynamic to learn. Stuff like telling her, "I hate you." and then kissing her. You need to be illogical to scramble her defenses.

I shot a 3 hour video on How To Get Laid - Part 1. I just haven't released it yet.

But this stuff is sorta below me. Not to toot my own horn, but it's sort of like you're asking Albert Einstein to tell you how to get laid when he could tell you about cosmic physics. But you are too depserate to care about cosmic physics, you just want pussy like the thirsty dog that you are

I don't recommend much of it. Date to build up skills and get a girlfriend.
One night stands are not quality sex anyway. You will have way better sex with a girlfriend. I also don't recommend keeping harems.

Read, study, and contemplate it more.
Read the book
Tai Lopez is Orange.
People are complex and so is Spiral Dynamics.
No, he's Orange.
His book is helping people go from Blue to Orange. It's classic capitalist business/financial advice. It has nothing to do with Yellow or systemic concerns about "wage slavery" as a political or social ailment. He's just telling people how to make lots of money.
He's much more conscious and his material is not merely about making money.
I used to be more Orange. I've evolved a lot in 8 years.
Some topics I still cover from an Orange perspective because all the higher stages include the lower stage capacities within them.
When you become Yellow, you still have full access to the Orange abilities. If the topic I'm talking about is something like teaching incels how to get laid, then I will use a stage Orange approach because they do not need nor relate to Yellow. I am able to communicate from any color of the Spiral depending on what is appropriate to the situation. I'm not limited to operating from one color.

It stings like a bitch for a week. You feel it and go on with life. It helps a lot when you have built a good life for yourself centered around a life purpose and personal dev. Otherwise you will wallow in despair and depression because you got nothing else going for you.
When you are proactive about building a good life for yourself and doing spiritual work, you need other people less and less to complete you. To the extent that your life is not well put together, the loss of people in your life will lead to huge catastrophe and deep suffering -- because you use these people as emotional crutches to avoid doing serious work. If you take this work deep enough, you will not need anyone for your happiness.

When women get turned on by male stripper shows, it's not just the body. It's the emotional state the entire show puts her in. When girls go to male strip shows it's usually a pack of girls and they all drink and dance and get have fun together. This pumps up their state and then they get horny from that and want dick.
Pumping up her emotional state is the magic key. No woman will ever fuck you logically. If you cannot get her out of logic-mode, she will say No.

Hey guys, so I've contemplating a lot on this for a while now. Now, I don't mean to toot my own horn, but for most of life many people have told me that I look like model or a movie star. Hell, some girls in middle school, high school, and college liked flirting with me. Now, ever since my mid twenties I've put on almost 20 lbs. of pure muscle and I am on my way to looking like a fitness model or a Hollywood male celeb playing the role of a superhero. However, I've approached countless women in my life within all kinds of venues and have even learned so much knowledge on how to seduce women. However, I've only been able to have sexual encounters with 6 women in my life and have only been able to make out with about 20 women (including a lot of them being girls who were drunk to varying degrees).
I've learned that women aren't nearly as visual as men are and that looks are subjective especially to women. However, I am now starting to think maybe women in general are not turned on sexually to any significant degree by any male visual aesthetics. Sometimes I wonder if there was even any point in me working so hard to look fit and masculine. Do women even masturbate to guys who look hot to them? Do women only like a guy who looks good or sexy merely because they appreciate the fact that he looks socially presentable, cool, and appears to be their type physically?