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  1. Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    No it wouldn't because it's absurd to expect everyone to be attracted to you.
    Even if you are Brad Pitt not every girl will be attracted to you.
    Even a 10% raw physical attraction rate is very good. You don't need more.
    Personally I know that I'm only truly attracted to maybe 1-2% of women. Which is rather a curse that I live with.

  2. Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Highly extroverted guys with massive natural effortless charisma.
    Unfortunately that ain't me.
    Extroversion is directly correlated to how much sex you will have.

  3. Hate my natural masculine role of a hunter
    Hate my natural masculine role of a hunter
    I was 110% committed to fixing this area of my life. So failure and quitting was not even an option.
    It only took a few months. Nothing in the grand scheme of things. And it was an exciting journey. Some of my fondest memories today are my early days of game.

  4. Day game vs night game: when are women more receptive
    Day game vs night game: when are women more receptive
    @Vrubel Whenever an attractive girl locks and holds eyes with you, you must approach her immediately. That is her telling you: "Come fuck me please."
    If you do those kind of approaches you will see the girl is super-receptive and your job of picking her up becomes almost effortless.
    So don't ever pass those up.
    Stop blinking like a fool, grow some balls and approach.

  5. Day game vs night game: when are women more receptive
    Day game vs night game: when are women more receptive
    There are many pros and cons to each.
    Day pros:
    Virtually zero competition Less noise and obstacles, no friends to cock-block. It's easier to have a conversation. Can run into girls who are introverted and/or don't like to drink or party. Higher quality girls overall. Good even if you're alone (without friends or wings) Day cons:
    Much smaller volume of girls, your approach needs to be well-honed. Waste a lot of time just standing around. Not efficient. Not so good for building up skills. Girls often have boyfriends You're basically only grabbing phone numbers Can't physically escalate much, your game needs to be much more chill and toned down. Night pros:
    Lots more targets. Far more efficient use of your time. Girls are looser and down to fuck Much more likely to be single, less boyfriend rejections. Much better for training and practicing your skills Can get away with sloppy approaches and social awkwardness better Can do rapid and heavy physical escalation Night cons:
    Lots of competition Lots of noise and distractions, hard to hear, hard to talk. Messes with your sleep schedule Need to go for one-night stands, forced to close same-night Drunk girls Friends cockblocking Dancing The club can be very intimidating if you're alone. Wings are more important. Lots of dealing with annoying logistics challenges - - - - - -
    Over all, day game is awesome. The two serious problem with it are:
    Far too few hot girls walking around during the day. The best ones are rarely single Day game is really only viable in certain locations with high volumes of people and hot girls. Such locations tend to be hard to find. Or you can do day game very sporadically as you do your grocery shopping, etc. But this is far too infrequent to be relied upon. It's more of a bonus you get as a veteran of the game. Once you have built up your skills you should be able to execute a solid approach on any random hot girl you see anywhere during the day.

  6. What exactly is meant by "escaping suffering" as a motivation for enlightenment?
    What exactly is meant by "escaping suffering" as a motivation for enlightenment?
    @Vrubel There are basically only two motivations in life: avoidance and seeking.
    If you ain't seeking truth for its own sake, the only other way you can find it through avoidance of suffering or by accident.

  7. Half-Sex??
    Half-Sex??
    Sorry, didn't read that far.
    In that case, your victim mentality is even more bullshit. As long as there are hot girls around, you can get them by talking to them. Frat boys and jocks are irrelevant. Why do you even think about them?
    Yes, Covid sucks for pickup. Wait it out like the rest of us. You are so young the rest of your life is still ahead of you. I didn't even start pickup until 26/27.
    What I wouldn't give to be back in college again. OMG, like shooting fish in a teapot with a shotgun.
    Cheer up bro. Have a long-view perspective. Covid will end and you will get much better with girls if you work at it. Jocks don't matter. So all is good. If the girls are as slutty as you say, then you should have no problem sleeping with them. Sluttiness works in your favor if you make yourself into a high quality guy. She will fuck a few jocks, then fuck you, see how much better you are, and stick with you.

  8. Half-Sex??
    Half-Sex??
    Stop thinking negative thoughts and just go out and talk to more girls. That's the simply solution. You can't think your way out of this situation.
    Be very mindful of your negative thoughts. You need to learn to channel your mental energies towards productive action.
    Move to a city which has lots of hot girls. Talk to them frequently. Problem solved. If you can't move now, start making plans to move and build the resources to move. This laying of plans will lift your depression.
    The reason you're depressed is because you have no hope. And the reason you have no hope is because you're not thinking far enough outside the box and taking radical ownership of your life situation.
    You are young and there are literally thousands of hot girls you can meet and sleep with if you really wanted to. But you don't really want to do the work for it. Hence you're depressed.

  9. First Date field report
    First Date field report
    Don't qualify yourself or seek to impress. Rather deflect her trap by saying something like, "When I crash, it will be all passenger side, Don't worry, your death will be quick and relatively painless."
    Do not fall for a girl's trap where she tries to get you to sell yourself to her. You are the prize, not her.
    Don't do these serious talks on dates. This is awful.
    Instead ask her something like, "What weapon would you select in a zombie apocalypse?"
    "If you were an animal, what animal would you be?"
    "What is your favorite part of your body?"
    WTF is this??! Get out of that car and get your hands all over her body and kiss her.
    - - - - -
    Overall you are too serious. Be more playful and fun and illogical and nonsensical and emotional. Turn on some dumb music in the car and sing and dance with her. Tell her stories. Be dumb, in a clever way

  10. The best pick-up techniques
    The best pick-up techniques
    Best pickup technique: approach 5000 girls.

  11. Another date, another fail
    Another date, another fail
    No kiss? So the fuck what? Carry on business as usual.
    P.S. Driving around on a first date is terrible.

  12. Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    @Ghost
    A) Stop dating girls that young. 25 at least, preferably 30ish. What do you expect from a 19 year old? She'll be as dumb as a coffee table.
    B) Of course you should be screening girls on more than just looks. Sacrifice a few points on looks to get a better personality and higher wisdom/maturity. Game can certainly help you with this since it will give you more options and screening is an important part of proper game. The mistake is thinking of a 10 as purely based on looks. 10 means the whole package, which includes personality, education, cognitive development, spiritual development, career, finances, etc. All that stuff matters. Settle for a 7-8 on looks.
    C) And of course society's 10 scale is totally irrelevant. Make your own scale.

  13. Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Nothing you say in online game matters. It's 100% looks. If you got the looks you don't need to try to open her with clever lines or game her. All you gotta do is say, "Hi, I'm _____ . What's your number?"
    And no amount of clever texting is gonna get her to like you if your looks suck, so don't waste your time.
    If a girl has an active online account obviously she's interested in sex.
    Offline game is very different because the girl often isn't even actively trying to date and the competition is way less.
    The problem with online game is that it's so explicit and lazy that the competition is too steep. You have no edge. There is no reason why the girl would not select the hottest guy she can see. Zero reason. Offline game is totally different because she has way fewer options. She cannot compare you to 100 other guys. Don't put yourself into a position where she can compare you to 100 other guys. This is a losing position. You might as well bend over and let her stick a carrot in your ass while you're at it.

  14. Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Online dating destroying the principles of game
    Lol
    The most conservative women on online dating sites are the biggest sluts
    Whenever a girl writes in her profile:
    "I'm not looking for causal sex or hook-ups."
    That's how you know she will fuck you on the first night.
    It's all bullshit. Stop buying it when these girls peddle you their virginhood and saintliness. Stage Blue people are sexually repressed freaks and that sexuality is just waiting to explode like a Champagne cork.
    Don't be surpised with your virgin girl comes to Vegas and gets banged by 3 strangers in one night. And then the next day acts like she's still a virgin. It's all an act. And she bullshits herself as much as she bullshits you.

  15. Feeling awkward and strange after a date
    Feeling awkward and strange after a date
    Well, if that's true, the ultimate rule in game is this: not everything will make sense. Sometimes a girl is just acting dumb and deserves no further analysis. Don't take too much bullshit from girls. If they are acting weird, move on to the next who will appreciate what you got to offer.
    Your attitude should be like this: if this girl is not excited to be in my presence, she doesn't deserve what I got.
    Not everything in game is your fault. Have standards. One of my standards is that the girl should be excited about being with me.

  16. Feeling awkward and strange after a date
    Feeling awkward and strange after a date
    @kras Dude, she clearly wants to fuck you, she's just shy and uncomfortable. You are the man! It is your job to make her feel comfortable.
    This situation could have been avoided with proper kino escalation. Google kino escalation ladder and follow it next time. You need to get her comfortable with your touch from the first second you meet up with her, otherwise things will get uncomfortable. You also need to charm her with humor, music, etc. And don't give up after one rejected kiss. Just butter her up some more and try the kiss again in 5 minutes.
    Also, you need to bounce her around to multiple locations. The more locations the better. Don't close at the same location you meet and date.

  17. Do we actually need to receive love from anyone but ourselves?
    Do we actually need to receive love from anyone but ourselves?
    If you're already at an advanced level of consciousness and development, then you don't need it from the outside.
    But if you're not at that level of consciousness -- which 99.999% of people are not -- then you need love from others because you don't know how to access it otherwise.

  18. According to quantum mechanics observation creates reality+quote from Einstein
    According to quantum mechanics observation creates reality+quote from Einstein
    Observation means any form of measurement, which of course is ultimately happening within your consciousness.
    So of course QM only works within consciousness, but the scientists are not conscious enough to understand that, hence they say dumb things.
    What scientists don't understand is that to measure a quantum particle using a laser or bubble chamber, that requires the scientist to be conscious! For fuck's sake they are so dumb. As if a laser can exist outside of your consciousness.

  19. Identification with the body after non dual awareness
    Identification with the body after non dual awareness
    Change your baseline state of consciousness via hardcore practices.

  20. How to ask a girl out in a lost situation?
    How to ask a girl out in a lost situation?
    @Vytas She could still go out with you. Your texting is just not the best here.
    Don't ask girls to plan out dates and logistics. Instead, tell her. You should have told her: "Good, let's go walking tomorrow at 7pm at place X."
    Just assume she is free. If she's not, she will tell you and you can say, "When are you free?", she will tell you, and you will adjust the time. You should also pick dates and times when she is likely to be bored and free.
    Wait a day or two and ping her. Sometimes girls are just busy with life.

  21. Are psychedelics ULTIMATELY a distraction?
    Are psychedelics ULTIMATELY a distraction?
    The Buddha did 7 years of hardcore yoga practices, all of which he aced. That's before his ultimate enlightenment.
    Jesus trained with John The Baptist. Baptism was a technique of holding your head under the water until you nearly drowned, and then in the last second of your life, pulling you out. That was Jesus' teacher. That was Jesus' analogue of a psychedelic experience. Jesus also did a 40 day fast and vision quest int he desert. I'm sure you've heard of it.
    If you hold yourself under water until you're nearly dead, you'll have some trippy experience Be careful what you wish for, though.
    If I told you guys to do what Buddha or Jesus did to attain enlightenment, you would call me a madman and a criminal. I'm coddling you here like puppies
    Psychedelics are what I tell you to do when you're too meek to do a 40 day vision quest in the desert.

  22. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    In a sense I don't struggle with friends because I'm so introverted I don't keep them.
    I enjoy my own company more than that of any other human. Many people don't understand such a lifestyle.
    The struggle was three-fold:
    Simply learning to be social at all Getting over my insecurities and limiting beliefs that any hot girl would want to date me Learning how to flirt and attract women When I started I had big problems with all three.

  23. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Lolz
    That's your absurd idea of me. You might as well have photoshopped my face onto Arnold Schwarzeneggar's body. That's what you've done in your mind because you idolize me.
    The truth is that I have been insecure my whole life, I've struggle enormously with being social and attracting women.
    When I attract a hot woman, she has no idea who I am or how much I make.
    Yes, I'm 6'2". But... I don't have a square jaw. I'm not classically good-looking. I'm skinny. No girl gives a fuck about my spirituality, knowledge, or wisdom. She has no idea how much money I make and I never tell her. I can be socially awkward. I'm highly introverted and don't like small-talk.
    1000s of hours of work went into making me dating-material. And much of it was invested into improving my inner game.

  24. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Also, dude, don't forget, most women are short! You can easily find gorgeous women who are in the sub 5'5" range. So ultimately height is irrelevant.

  25. Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Height-ism and the double level hypocrisy of feminists
    Don't bullshit me. Being bald is certainly a disadvantage in dating hot women. Don't use this as an excuse. You can still date hot women while bald. But it's harder. You will have to have better game.
    1) Although I am very introverted I really enjoy deep intimate relationships. It's a bit of a paradox, but not really. Introverts like few relationships but they are deeper. We trade off breadth for depth.
    So while you may think that I don't go deep with intimacy, the opposite is the case. When I'm with a girl, I give her my full attention because I don't scatter my social energy around in 50 different ways. And I'm not with a girl often so it feels much more special.
    2) As an introvert you need to make plenty of space for alone time. Don't constantly be together for long periods of time.
    3) Dating an introvert is helpful because she too will appreciate her space and alone time and she won't be interested in highly social activities like clubbing or partying. Two deep introverts can make for a great combo. And there are plenty of introverted girls.