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5-Meo terror?
5-Meo terror?Be very careful with dosing.
Plug instead of vape/snort.
Always on an empty stomach.
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Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
Any Pick Up / Dating Success StoriesI've seen him game in-person.
He definitely gets results, but he is a dysfunctional, sociopathic rapist and so I cannot recommend him. He also games a lot while drunk. And the thing is, if you drink every night, you don't need game techniques. Being drunk IS the technique.
I'm sure you can learn valuable things from him, but I cannot in good conscience endorse his methods because they are sociopathic.
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Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
Any Pick Up / Dating Success StoriesI've basically seen every one of them game in person. I've casually winged with some of them.
I've winged with so many different guys from all over the place. Some great, some terrible, and all in between.
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Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
Any Pick Up / Dating Success StoriesHaha
That's so unnecessary. Of course you could do that. Or you could just square up to her, look deep in her eyes, move your face closer to her's, hold her hands in yours -- and you will see it in her eyes if she wants you to kiss her. If she is giving you puppy-dog eyes, you kiss her. If she flinches or recoils or darts her eyes as you move your face slowly towards her, you pull back. And if she allows you to stroke her face or the hair on her face slowly with your fingers, then she'll definitely let you kiss her.
And if you go in for the kiss and she pulls away, you just laugh it off and try again 5 minutes later.
Always assume the kiss will be successful unless she explicitly says No. If she agreed to go on a date with you, she's obviously already willing to fuck you. All you gotta do is not act weird or creepy and make her feel comfortable. You do this through lots of early physical escalation. Google Kino Escalation Ladder.
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Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
Any Pick Up / Dating Success StoriesWomen love to play coy and give fake resistance. Or sometimes she's just not comfortable and shy.
The man has to be persistent and break through her coy displays and make her feel comfortable.
If a woman resists your kiss, you butter her up with playfulness and wit, boost up her mood, and they try again 5 mins later when she's giggling. Never kiss a woman on a down-note. Kiss her on an up-note. Tickle her first, then kiss her.
Women are highly state and mood dependent. By learning to shift her mood you get her to open to you. Women are not like men. They need to be warmed up and turned on. And they will play coy.
Of course all this assumes she's interested in you. I'm not talking about raping a stranger while she protests. I'm talking about flirtation.
The hotter the woman is, the more she will shit-test you before she lets you kiss her and fuck her. Women need to test how seriously committed you are to them. This is part of her survival strategy. She wants a persistent man who knows what he wants and can cut through her token defenses.
One of the best tricks you can play on a woman is telling her this: "We are definitely not having sex tonight." Because that's usually her line. Then you have sex with her 10 minutes later. When she gives you the surprised Pikachu face, you tell her you were just kidding.
You have to stop being serious with women. Play with them without abusing them.
Push-pull is an important dynamic to learn. Stuff like telling her, "I hate you." and then kissing her. You need to be illogical to scramble her defenses.
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Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
Any Pick Up / Dating Success StoriesI shot a 3 hour video on How To Get Laid - Part 1. I just haven't released it yet.
But this stuff is sorta below me. Not to toot my own horn, but it's sort of like you're asking Albert Einstein to tell you how to get laid when he could tell you about cosmic physics. But you are too depserate to care about cosmic physics, you just want pussy like the thirsty dog that you are
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Any Pick Up / Dating Success Stories
Any Pick Up / Dating Success StoriesI don't recommend much of it. Date to build up skills and get a girlfriend.
One night stands are not quality sex anyway. You will have way better sex with a girlfriend. I also don't recommend keeping harems.
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Spiral Dynamics Stage Orange Examples Mega-Thread
Spiral Dynamics Stage Orange Examples Mega-ThreadRead, study, and contemplate it more.
Read the book
Tai Lopez is Orange.
People are complex and so is Spiral Dynamics.
No, he's Orange.
His book is helping people go from Blue to Orange. It's classic capitalist business/financial advice. It has nothing to do with Yellow or systemic concerns about "wage slavery" as a political or social ailment. He's just telling people how to make lots of money.
He's much more conscious and his material is not merely about making money.
I used to be more Orange. I've evolved a lot in 8 years.
Some topics I still cover from an Orange perspective because all the higher stages include the lower stage capacities within them.
When you become Yellow, you still have full access to the Orange abilities. If the topic I'm talking about is something like teaching incels how to get laid, then I will use a stage Orange approach because they do not need nor relate to Yellow. I am able to communicate from any color of the Spiral depending on what is appropriate to the situation. I'm not limited to operating from one color.
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Leo - breakups with a small social circle?
Leo - breakups with a small social circle?It stings like a bitch for a week. You feel it and go on with life. It helps a lot when you have built a good life for yourself centered around a life purpose and personal dev. Otherwise you will wallow in despair and depression because you got nothing else going for you.
When you are proactive about building a good life for yourself and doing spiritual work, you need other people less and less to complete you. To the extent that your life is not well put together, the loss of people in your life will lead to huge catastrophe and deep suffering -- because you use these people as emotional crutches to avoid doing serious work. If you take this work deep enough, you will not need anyone for your happiness.
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How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?When women get turned on by male stripper shows, it's not just the body. It's the emotional state the entire show puts her in. When girls go to male strip shows it's usually a pack of girls and they all drink and dance and get have fun together. This pumps up their state and then they get horny from that and want dick.
Pumping up her emotional state is the magic key. No woman will ever fuck you logically. If you cannot get her out of logic-mode, she will say No.
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How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?Hey guys, so I've contemplating a lot on this for a while now. Now, I don't mean to toot my own horn, but for most of life many people have told me that I look like model or a movie star. Hell, some girls in middle school, high school, and college liked flirting with me. Now, ever since my mid twenties I've put on almost 20 lbs. of pure muscle and I am on my way to looking like a fitness model or a Hollywood male celeb playing the role of a superhero. However, I've approached countless women in my life within all kinds of venues and have even learned so much knowledge on how to seduce women. However, I've only been able to have sexual encounters with 6 women in my life and have only been able to make out with about 20 women (including a lot of them being girls who were drunk to varying degrees).
I've learned that women aren't nearly as visual as men are and that looks are subjective especially to women. However, I am now starting to think maybe women in general are not turned on sexually to any significant degree by any male visual aesthetics. Sometimes I wonder if there was even any point in me working so hard to look fit and masculine. Do women even masturbate to guys who look hot to them? Do women only like a guy who looks good or sexy merely because they appreciate the fact that he looks socially presentable, cool, and appears to be their type physically?
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How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?
How much do women get turned on by a man's looks?There is nothing special about anyone. Or, to say the same thing, everyone is equally special.
The mind is bullshitting itself whenever it feels that one thing is more special than any other. That is ego in a nutshell. But you can't stop doing it or you'll die. So here we are, bullshitting each other.
And now you understand all of human life, especially dating and relationships. It's all 100% pure bullshit which is why it's so unstable. Ta-da!
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Have you ever tripped so hard to were at a state you weren't even "tripping" anymore?
Have you ever tripped so hard to were at a state you weren't even "tripping" anymore?That's the definition of a breakthrough.
You ain't really trippin unless your trip becomes more real than your past life.
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Who are the Best Pickup Teachers
Who are the Best Pickup TeachersAsking who's best is pointless.
Just learn the princples of attraction from various sources and hit the field. The field is really where you learn.
If you only use one source to learn a thing, you're doing it wrong. Learm from 10-20 sources.
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BUT Leo...
BUT Leo...Sounds like you got a lot of work to do.
Also, don't neglect mastering basic survival aspects of life:
If you feel lonely, make some quality friends.
If you feel horny, learn to date.
If you are struggling with money, master that aspect of life.
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It bothers me that I cant do nothing - Help
It bothers me that I cant do nothing - HelpIt's not possible to be satisfied with nothing without ego death.
The ego cannot do nothing. It needs to be constantly surviving.
You can gradually detox yourself from stimulation tho. But it won't feel good.
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Does an invitation to trip together imply sex?
Does an invitation to trip together imply sex?Order of operations in dating is crucial. If you trip with a girl for your first date, the order will be wrong and you will go too deep too fast and it will feel weird and creepy -- which is the last thing girls want.
If you want to sleep with her, you need to dial back the depth and seriousness. Tripping is serious business. You should not be doing that on a first date. Your first dates must be light, playful, fun, and as low-investment as possible. A coffee.
By setting up a trip date, you're actually being needy as fuck. Why are you sharing such depth with some girl you haven't even slept with??? It makes no sense. Because you're needy, that's why. And she will smell it off you and it will creep her out. Save the tripping for after you slept with her 5 or 10 times.
Order. Of. Operations.
Escalation. Ladder.
Learn it and follow it.
DO NOT FALL IN LOVE BEFORE YOU SLEPT WITH HER! It's creepy as fuck.
The biggest way to turn a girl off is by being creepy and needy. And you're combining the two of them into the ultimate Incel combo.
P.S. If a girl not willing to agree to a coffee with you, she will never agree to do anything else with you. There is no lower investment ask than a coffee. If she won't agree to that, she just don't find you attractive and nothing you do will change that.
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"Be yourself" is nonsense
"Be yourself" is nonsense"Being yourself" is not about adopting some material identity. It's about discovering your authentic personality by removing all your fears and bad social conditioning.
You are God, but your mind/body has a unique personality that requires discovery and alignment.
Being a millionaire is not a personality trait. It's just a material condition.
"Being yourself" is good advice. But you need to understand what it means. It's overly simplistic. There's a lot to it.
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awareness question
awareness question@levani If you want to really understand awareness, do the practice in my Mindfulness Meditation video.
Thoughts inside your head are also things you can be aware of.
There's no fundamental difference between your feet, ass, or thoughts. It's all objects within awareness. Thoughts are just more sneaky and seductive.
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is it true what JP says about career here?
is it true what JP says about career here?You totally misinterperated what he said.
He said, "The utility of your career (relative to family), maybe that peaks by the time you're 35 or 40 and then it starts to decline pretty rapidly".
He was not talking about your career declining at all. He was talking about the relative utility (significance) of family, love, and children.
Lots of older people have great careers that are peaking. That's not the issue. The issue is, will that career truly satisfy you?
He was basically making the point that being a workaholic is not a good strategy for happiness. Which of course is true.
Then again, having a bunch of kids is also not a good strategy for happiness. Most miserable people in the world probably have kids. JP has kids. Is he happy? Nope.
Happiness is not a function of material conditions. And kids are a material condition.
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Psychotherapy for improving my social life?
Psychotherapy for improving my social life?It doesn't matter. Pickup will increase your social confidence permanently across the board. You will become better at talking to strangers, barbers, taxi drivers, clerks, shopkeepers, etc.
Never
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UPSET STOMACH after 3g of Magic Mushroom Psilocybe cubensis Trip
UPSET STOMACH after 3g of Magic Mushroom Psilocybe cubensis TripAlcohol extraction is best for the cleanest mushroom trip.
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"I am That" - Another story of the ego?
"I am That" - Another story of the ego?You are EVERYTHING.
The only problem is when you think you are one thing to the exclusion of any other.
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Good Exposé Of Jordan Peterson
Good Exposé Of Jordan PetersonA shadow is any aspect of yourself/Universe which you demonize, judge, and hate because you think it is not your self.
For example, if you hate Nazis, you are not conscious that you are actually hating your own self.
Well, JP has done that with stage Green. He is waging a war on himself without realizing it. And it kills him inside.
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Good Exposé Of Jordan Peterson
Good Exposé Of Jordan PetersonIt's very simple: anything you don't like in the Universe and that you think isn't you, is your shadow.