Don't qualify yourself or seek to impress. Rather deflect her trap by saying something like, "When I crash, it will be all passenger side, Don't worry, your death will be quick and relatively painless."
Do not fall for a girl's trap where she tries to get you to sell yourself to her. You are the prize, not her.
Don't do these serious talks on dates. This is awful.
Instead ask her something like, "What weapon would you select in a zombie apocalypse?"
"If you were an animal, what animal would you be?"
"What is your favorite part of your body?"
WTF is this??! Get out of that car and get your hands all over her body and kiss her.
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Overall you are too serious. Be more playful and fun and illogical and nonsensical and emotional. Turn on some dumb music in the car and sing and dance with her. Tell her stories. Be dumb, in a clever way

Best pickup technique: approach 5000 girls.

No kiss? So the fuck what? Carry on business as usual.
P.S. Driving around on a first date is terrible.

@Ghost
A) Stop dating girls that young. 25 at least, preferably 30ish. What do you expect from a 19 year old? She'll be as dumb as a coffee table.
B) Of course you should be screening girls on more than just looks. Sacrifice a few points on looks to get a better personality and higher wisdom/maturity. Game can certainly help you with this since it will give you more options and screening is an important part of proper game. The mistake is thinking of a 10 as purely based on looks. 10 means the whole package, which includes personality, education, cognitive development, spiritual development, career, finances, etc. All that stuff matters. Settle for a 7-8 on looks.
C) And of course society's 10 scale is totally irrelevant. Make your own scale.

Nothing you say in online game matters. It's 100% looks. If you got the looks you don't need to try to open her with clever lines or game her. All you gotta do is say, "Hi, I'm _____ . What's your number?"
And no amount of clever texting is gonna get her to like you if your looks suck, so don't waste your time.
If a girl has an active online account obviously she's interested in sex.
Offline game is very different because the girl often isn't even actively trying to date and the competition is way less.
The problem with online game is that it's so explicit and lazy that the competition is too steep. You have no edge. There is no reason why the girl would not select the hottest guy she can see. Zero reason. Offline game is totally different because she has way fewer options. She cannot compare you to 100 other guys. Don't put yourself into a position where she can compare you to 100 other guys. This is a losing position. You might as well bend over and let her stick a carrot in your ass while you're at it.

Lol
The most conservative women on online dating sites are the biggest sluts
Whenever a girl writes in her profile:
"I'm not looking for causal sex or hook-ups."
That's how you know she will fuck you on the first night.
It's all bullshit. Stop buying it when these girls peddle you their virginhood and saintliness. Stage Blue people are sexually repressed freaks and that sexuality is just waiting to explode like a Champagne cork.
Don't be surpised with your virgin girl comes to Vegas and gets banged by 3 strangers in one night. And then the next day acts like she's still a virgin. It's all an act. And she bullshits herself as much as she bullshits you.

Well, if that's true, the ultimate rule in game is this: not everything will make sense. Sometimes a girl is just acting dumb and deserves no further analysis. Don't take too much bullshit from girls. If they are acting weird, move on to the next who will appreciate what you got to offer.
Your attitude should be like this: if this girl is not excited to be in my presence, she doesn't deserve what I got.
Not everything in game is your fault. Have standards. One of my standards is that the girl should be excited about being with me.

@kras Dude, she clearly wants to fuck you, she's just shy and uncomfortable. You are the man! It is your job to make her feel comfortable.
This situation could have been avoided with proper kino escalation. Google kino escalation ladder and follow it next time. You need to get her comfortable with your touch from the first second you meet up with her, otherwise things will get uncomfortable. You also need to charm her with humor, music, etc. And don't give up after one rejected kiss. Just butter her up some more and try the kiss again in 5 minutes.
Also, you need to bounce her around to multiple locations. The more locations the better. Don't close at the same location you meet and date.

If you're already at an advanced level of consciousness and development, then you don't need it from the outside.
But if you're not at that level of consciousness -- which 99.999% of people are not -- then you need love from others because you don't know how to access it otherwise.

Observation means any form of measurement, which of course is ultimately happening within your consciousness.
So of course QM only works within consciousness, but the scientists are not conscious enough to understand that, hence they say dumb things.
What scientists don't understand is that to measure a quantum particle using a laser or bubble chamber, that requires the scientist to be conscious! For fuck's sake they are so dumb. As if a laser can exist outside of your consciousness.

Change your baseline state of consciousness via hardcore practices.

@Vytas She could still go out with you. Your texting is just not the best here.
Don't ask girls to plan out dates and logistics. Instead, tell her. You should have told her: "Good, let's go walking tomorrow at 7pm at place X."
Just assume she is free. If she's not, she will tell you and you can say, "When are you free?", she will tell you, and you will adjust the time. You should also pick dates and times when she is likely to be bored and free.
Wait a day or two and ping her. Sometimes girls are just busy with life.

The Buddha did 7 years of hardcore yoga practices, all of which he aced. That's before his ultimate enlightenment.
Jesus trained with John The Baptist. Baptism was a technique of holding your head under the water until you nearly drowned, and then in the last second of your life, pulling you out. That was Jesus' teacher. That was Jesus' analogue of a psychedelic experience. Jesus also did a 40 day fast and vision quest int he desert. I'm sure you've heard of it.
If you hold yourself under water until you're nearly dead, you'll have some trippy experience Be careful what you wish for, though.
If I told you guys to do what Buddha or Jesus did to attain enlightenment, you would call me a madman and a criminal. I'm coddling you here like puppies
Psychedelics are what I tell you to do when you're too meek to do a 40 day vision quest in the desert.

In a sense I don't struggle with friends because I'm so introverted I don't keep them.
I enjoy my own company more than that of any other human. Many people don't understand such a lifestyle.
The struggle was three-fold:
Simply learning to be social at all Getting over my insecurities and limiting beliefs that any hot girl would want to date me Learning how to flirt and attract women When I started I had big problems with all three.

Lolz
That's your absurd idea of me. You might as well have photoshopped my face onto Arnold Schwarzeneggar's body. That's what you've done in your mind because you idolize me.
The truth is that I have been insecure my whole life, I've struggle enormously with being social and attracting women.
When I attract a hot woman, she has no idea who I am or how much I make.
Yes, I'm 6'2". But... I don't have a square jaw. I'm not classically good-looking. I'm skinny. No girl gives a fuck about my spirituality, knowledge, or wisdom. She has no idea how much money I make and I never tell her. I can be socially awkward. I'm highly introverted and don't like small-talk.
1000s of hours of work went into making me dating-material. And much of it was invested into improving my inner game.

Also, dude, don't forget, most women are short! You can easily find gorgeous women who are in the sub 5'5" range. So ultimately height is irrelevant.

Don't bullshit me. Being bald is certainly a disadvantage in dating hot women. Don't use this as an excuse. You can still date hot women while bald. But it's harder. You will have to have better game.
1) Although I am very introverted I really enjoy deep intimate relationships. It's a bit of a paradox, but not really. Introverts like few relationships but they are deeper. We trade off breadth for depth.
So while you may think that I don't go deep with intimacy, the opposite is the case. When I'm with a girl, I give her my full attention because I don't scatter my social energy around in 50 different ways. And I'm not with a girl often so it feels much more special.
2) As an introvert you need to make plenty of space for alone time. Don't constantly be together for long periods of time.
3) Dating an introvert is helpful because she too will appreciate her space and alone time and she won't be interested in highly social activities like clubbing or partying. Two deep introverts can make for a great combo. And there are plenty of introverted girls.

Sure it is. My first two wingmen were two black guys in Dallas. Both of them got laid more than me because they were more experienced and had better game.
Will you have a disadvantage with white girls? Sure, probably. But it doesn't really matter when you talk to 30 girls a night. You don't need to bang every girl you meet. You only need 1 per night to be down.
If you're a black guy and you want a hot white girlfriend, this isn't a problem because all you gotta do is filter through 500 hot white girls until you find a few that love you. Is it worth it? Sure it is. You can do that in a few months.
Remember.... you're not out to bang the whole female race. You're just looking for a handful of women. A handful out of thousands. This makes your goal much easier.
When I was practicing game, it's even worth it to approach 300 pound whales. You are just being social and having fun. Lower your standards for socialization and approach. Just because you approach does not mean you need to end up having sex with her. She might have a cute friend.
APPROACH ALL! -- should be your motto. Young, old, hot, fat, man, woman, gay, straight -- doesn't matter. Just approach and socialize. Sort the wheat from the chaff later.

Depends. When I was doing it seriously I would go about every night that clubs were open in the city I was in. Sometimes 3 nights per week. Sometimes 7 nights per week for a whole month. It all depends on what opportunities are available in your area and how serious you are. 2 nights per week should be minimum. That's typically Fri & Sat. You'll need to check your city and venues to see if it's worth making the trip out there on weekdays. Many times it's not worth it if you live in a small city.
Typical night: 5, 10, or 20 girls. Depends on how busy the venue was. Some nights are just slow so you can't approach 20 girls. Sometimes you only get 5 or so. 10 per night is a great number to shoot for. But some nights it will only be 3 or 5 just because it was slow or you were chickening out.
The #1 to doing massive approaching is that you need to find specific venues and cities that offer that opportunity. Your average bar does not have 10 girls worth approaching.

The peak of my game was a Vegas 30-day challenge. I beasted full-time for 30 days straight in Vegas, 5 hours per night. I did something like 750+ approaches in that month. I even approached with a cold fever and dripping nose. In fact that night I got laid. I was having sex and wiping my snotty nose on the rough sofa pillow because my nose would not stop running in the middle of sex. It was unreal and not so pleasant. But it was training. My wingman was nailing her friend in the same hotel room. The four of us slept in the same bed.
Yeah... that's beast-mode in Vegas. Off the hook. Crazy shit goes down here.
I did it all 100% sober too.

One of the hardest things I've ever done. But also one of the most growth-catalyzing for me.

I have not found any methods that work well for me other than long and tedious-as-fuck full-time meditation retreats.
Realistically you need 100 hours straight of uninterrupted mindfulness concentration.
But even then, you will fall out of that state once you stop the retreat. Changing one's baseline is the hardest thing.

Indeed it won't.
What it will do is show you how deluded you are to chase after those things.
You are confusing spirituality with an activity of serving the ego's survival. Spirituality is the opposite of that.
Your mindset is: "Why should I do spirituality? What's in it for me?"
To which the answer is: "Spirituality will fucking kill you. There's nothing in it for the ego. If you want to keep being an ego stay as far away from spirituality as possible."

Indeed, you do not yet understand
You don't get how deep this goes.
Death is imaginary.
When you realize that. EVERYTHING changes. Yet nothing changes.
If you have cancer, enlightenment will not cure your cancer. But it will allow you to be happy regardless because you know that you'll just reincarnate as soon as you want because you have infinite lives.
Imagine if you were playing a video game like Mario Bros and you believed you only had 1 life vs playing the game knowing that you can play it as many times as you want. What would that change? It wouldn't change Mario's world. But it would change how you play the game. All the sudden, Mario dying is not a problem.
See, when I die, I will just reincarnate as something else. I know that but you don't. That's the difference.
Yes, enlightenment is technically useless. Because use is an illusion. Enlightenment is prior to usefulness, which is exactly what it's so powerful. It frees you from the enslavement of utility.
What you're also missing is that Beauty and happiness are useless. And yet it's the greatest joy of life. So in practice what you're missing out on is infinite joy, beauty, and love. All totally useless, yet life sucks without them  
What you really want from life is not usefulness, you want LOVE and Beauty.

Yes
You can get so used to it that it becomes enjoyable. That's how it is now for me.
First time I had a panic attack though. So yeah... it's gonna mindfuck you a few times.