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Be careful with Neo-Advaita trap
Be careful with Neo-Advaita trapWhat humans think of as observation is actually Absolute Truth.
What you see is Absolute Truth, and all there is. Stop making it complicated.
You see a coffee table -- boom! -- that's Absolute Truth.
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Math depends on axioms which are based upon fallible human observation
Math depends on axioms which are based upon fallible human observation@Romanov You are correct in noticing that no system of logic or knowledge can work without axioms and assumptions.
All formal logical systems are in fact constructed using a carefully selected set of axioms. These axioms are formally declared.
There are in fact an infinite number of possible logical systems based on an infinite number of various axioms.
There exist very unusual types of logics which do not correspond to the logic of physical human reality, similar to how there are various unusual types of non-Euclidian geometeries which do not correspond to our physical universe.
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There has to be a hack...
There has to be a hack...@onacloudynight You are developing wrong ideas about women and sex. You are getting too attached to outcome.
When you genuinely attract a girl, she will make it easy for you to sleep with her. She will come to you.
Be careful making this about sex. Enjoy the process of going out and growing your social skills.
You still don't understand how to communicate with girls. That's the core issue. Just grabbing some numbers is not enough.
Stop thinking about sex and stop chasing girls. Rather, focus on developing genuine socialization skills.
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Reality is meaningless
Reality is meaninglessThat formulation doesn't ring well.
More like: Reality is too profound for meaning.
If you are disappointed that reality has no meaning, you don't fathom how profound reality is. I would be disappointed if reality had a simplistic human meaning. Children want that. Adults want something deeper.
You think you want meaning in life, but you actually want something much more basic: consciousness of its Infinite Beauty.
When you see God in everything, you don't ask, "What does it mean?" You mutter, "Oh Wow! Oh My God! How could I have been so blind?!"
If you were wise, you would trade all the meaning in the world for awareness of Infinite Beauty. Human meaning is just a shitty substitute for those who are unable to see the raw Beauty of consciousness.
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How to get started with Pickup?
How to get started with Pickup?Dude, my How To Get Laid series gave you all the starting steps. Drop the Mystery bullshit, move to where the clubs are, start going out every night club is open.
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why psychedelics can allow some people to awaken and others not?
why psychedelics can allow some people to awaken and others not?Basically it's function of genetics, metabolism, and brain chemistry. You can't assume these are the same across people. They can be very different.
He has tried some. I think his problem is simply that his brain chemistry isn't suited to it or they have not much effect on him.
This does happen. Some people have very high tolerances or just not much happens.
Ralston is an unusual guy so you shouldn't expect this brain chemistry to be normal. He's basically a freak of nature. This can have its pros and cons. He has certain strengths and weaknesses, as we all do.
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How to deal with early success In cold approaching?
How to deal with early success In cold approaching?Solution is stop being silly and needy. Go get 10 numbers per night and don't stop going out just because some girl is texting with you.
Your mind will concoct every excuse imaginable to not do your daily quota of approaches.
You are not exclusive with a girl until she sleeps with you and asks to be your gf. Until such time you don't stop approaching.
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Transitioning Soon
Transitioning SoonThis is actually incorrect.
"Bodies die all the time" is your dream. No body has ever died -- you are imagining they did.
But this requires a level of consciousness which few of you here comprehend.
If you are deeply conscious enough, there literally is no such thing as death. Will this help you at the human level? No. Not at your level of consciousness. You are stuck in a dream, and your dream involves the death and suffering of bodies. But actually none of this has absolute reality. It is an elaborate illusion which you call life. And your mind clings to it.
Have you never died in your dreams? What happens?
Death is a dream. The reason this doesn't help you is because you're dreaming and terrified of the dream ending.
All this may should theoretical, but actually it is the opposite. Death is theoretical.
If you were conscious enough nothing could kill you. But you are not conscious enough, so you will die, cause that is your dream.
Realizing this is the whole point of spirituality. But it requires levels of consciousness which almost no one is capable of. From the POV of your current state of consciousness, you will die. But only from that limited POV.
As much as it might pain you to hear this, but terminal illness is still a dream. You cannot escape the fact that you're dream just by dreaming up something horrible. The most horrible shit in the world is still nothing but a dream. In fact, this is where you find salvation.
Notice that what I'm saying is actually very positive: death isn't real. And what materialism and the ego says is very negative: death is real. And yet people get upset when told the positive news that death isn't real. The reason this twisted reaction occurs is because the mind is so attached to dreaming that it would rather die a real death than admit that everything is a dream. It has to be that way because this is how your mind constructs reality. If you didn't honestly, fully believe that death is real, you could not have reality as you know it. Once you realize death is an illusion, all of reality falls apart and nothing at all matters. And this is what you're really terrified of, perhaps even more than death itself. You are terrified of losing the construction we call material reality.
The highest levels of awakening are so conscious that you are too conscious for even reincarnation because even that is realized to be a dream. At the highest levels of consciousness there is no past or future. There is only Absolute Now, which never ends. But this is not something your mind can comprehend or imagine unless you directly experience it. An integral part of what it means to be human is to be incapable of letting go of the imagination of your death. If you stopped imagining your death, you would stop being human and you would become immortal. But you are not conscious enough to do this through your will power. Hence you are stuck inside the human dream and you will remain stuck until some day you break out of it. This breakout will either happen via awakening or what you call death.
Yes, all this feels like a slap in the face to your mind because your mind needs to believe that suffering is real. Telling the mind that all suffering is just a dream, does not please the mind at all. Even though this is the greatest news. The mind is in the business of dreaming, not Truth. The quickest way to piss someone off is to invalidate all their suffering by telling them it's imaginary. That being pissed off reaction is the defense mechanism against Truth. Truth is much more radical than people expect, so they are not capable of accepting it. This is the very core of how selfishness works. The finite self cannot accept itself as an illusion.
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Transitioning Soon
Transitioning Soon@Jake Chambers Very sorry to hear that man. You're in a sad situation and I get why saying death isn't real would only add insult to injury.
Death appears real from unawake states of consciousness. But saying that doesn't help you. What would help is accessing those states in which death is realized to be imaginary.
Psychedelics have been shown to be very helpful and effective for helping people in terminally ill situations.
If it makes you feel any better, you're not really gonna die, you will simply change forms.
I would recommend psychedelics to help you gain hope. Not fake hope, but genuine hope, cause your consciousness truly is immortal. It's a question of what shape you take.
Basically, with "death", you melt into Infinity, then you can dream anything you want.
If you would like to discuss further, PM me.
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Andrew Tate - Good or corrupted message for society??
Andrew Tate - Good or corrupted message for society??- - - - - - -
What Tate and his followers should observe is, when one uses controversy as a marketing strategy, how it boomerangs and bites one in the ass.
This is the problem with devilry. It's self-defeating. But when the devil gets a taste of his own medicine, he comes crying. When Tate uses his power over women, he's cool with it. But when women use their power over him, via #MeToo, he's not cool with it. But power is power. If you play games of power, you should expect tit for tat. If you're gonna fight with women, expect them to fight back. This is the problem with Red. Fighting leaves everyone bloody. It's lose-lose. When you realize this, you outgrow Red.
If you're going to employ Stag Red as a marketing strategy in a 1st world democracy, you should expect to get cancelled. There's a reason why social media platforms aren't founded in Romania. You can run from the police, but you can't outrun a global platform or the public opinion of 1st world democracies. You shouldn't expect to get all the benefits of a 1st world democracy without playing by its rules. This is otherwise known as cheating. And of course Tate is a cheater. But the problem with cheating is that eventually you lose.
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Thoughts on doing psychedelics to get yourself out of a rut?
Thoughts on doing psychedelics to get yourself out of a rut?It can help, but it can also turn into an escape from doing important manual work.
It's easy to fool yourself into the thinking that psychedelics will fix up your life for you.
Ideally you should be combing psychedelics with serious manual work.
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Andrew tates final message
Andrew tates final messageHealthy Orange is very allowed. The problem is that Orange too easily goes off the rails into the unhealthy.
Tate could easily have taught men how to be "alpha" without all the toxic stuff.
I did a pretty Orange set of How To Get Laid videos and I got very little flack for it, because it was done in a healthy Orange way with concern for ethics.
The problem with all these male dating coaches is that they are fundamentally unethical people. They don't care about ethics at all. And when this backfires on them, they wonder why society hates them. Well, you can't scale unethical behavior for long. Which is fundamentally Tate's problem.
Toxic Orange is just overwhelming in the dating advice and business advice communities. Which is always what I've hated about those communities. Because otherwise there's good info there, but it's befogged by a cloud of toxicity.
People like Tate will keep emerging because most guys are stuck at crude levels of Orange development and below. Tate isn't just the perpetrator of low development, he's also a victim of it. He doesn't know any better, neither do his young foolish clients or his women.
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I have discovered a totally legal empathogen
I have discovered a totally legal empathogenIt is called PEA, Phenylethylamine, which forms chemically the backbone of all other phenylethylamines like 2-Cb, MDMA and others. It is sold as a supplement for energy and is easily accessible.
So what is my experience with this substance like?
First of all, PEA is molecule that is naturally found in our bodies and brains. It is degraded by MAOIs naturally in the body
it is a stimulant with massive head rush, some compare it to that of meth or cocaine ( I didn't try any of those ). The substance can produce very powerful euphoria and energy. It produces an increased sense of well-being and Love. Sometimes, I lost my control and started hugging my family telling them how much I loved them and how much I care for them, and I felt so loving and pure. It produced some serious spiritual insights and experiences at higher doses. I penetrated into the nothingness easily enough, I let go of everything, of shapes of colors, of concepts, etc... I think I will be able to penetrate into love too. No visuals The effects are short lived sadly, the peak is about 15 min to 1h and then there is a heavy crash unless you consume some coffee. You can redose with no tolerance I didn't feel any addiction for the substance despite taking it for a couple of months now but there are some reports of addiction online I tried it with syrian rue and I felt that the substance became different, as in more psychedelic but still I need to try this combination more The substance is naturally destroyed by MAOis so You need dosages above 1g of the substance for a serious effect. Higher doses, like 4g or more, cause psychedelic efffects with no visuals. It mostly was about nothingness and unity It tastes bad, Like acidic an chemical taken orally only it is relatively cheap, 20$ for 250g A non-affiliate link to the substance on amazon https://www.amazon.com/Phenylethylamine-HCL-Pea-Powder-Grams/dp/B08GK1JVV1/ref=sr_1_5?crid=3QSNGWDYCDH4I&keywords=pea+phenylethylamine&qid=1661375262&sprefix=PEA+phe%2Caps%2C255&sr=8-5
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Andrew tates final message
Andrew tates final messageI framed it as a lack of healthy Orange and excess of toxic Orange.
Millions of young people are struggling just to get a handle on Orange, and then guys like Trump and Tate exploit that by selling them toxic Orange and even Red. If Trump and Tate were selling healthy Orange they would not be cancelled and there would be no controversy.
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Shroom strains matter
Shroom strains matterI haven’t seen much discussion about this, but it’s important to know that some strains are 2-3x stronger than beginner friendly shrooms. So, 0.5g of Penis Envy will be as strong as 1.5g of Golden Teachers (although the type of high is different).
Beginner Friendly Strains: Golden Teachers, Blue Meanies, B+
Strong Strains: Penis Envy, Jedi Mindfuck, PES Hawaiians, Puerto Ricos
This list is not exhaustive. Those are just the strains I have experience with. Please feel free to mention which strains are strong and which are beginner friendly. I also find that different strains lead to different highs.
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Im speechless with super hot girls
Im speechless with super hot girlsHell no.
Force your mind not to think when you are out.
Talk about yourself, make silly assumptions about her, and riff laterally off her responses.
"Hey, you're cute. I just had lunch at Starbucks. It was delicious. Where you walkin all cute like that? You were just gonna pass me by and not even say Hi? "
You need to be very present and comfortable in your body in order to be able to riff. Anxiety and fear is your #1 enemy. You have to train yourself to deeply relax as you approach.
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Question about power of not knowing
Question about power of not knowingNot-knowing is also helpful with gaining 2nd order relative truths because your mind is open to fresh insight and new perspectives.
States of direct consciousness or nondual states are the merger of metaphysics and epistemology, where you know a thing by being it, not thinking about it.
Consider thinking about a fork vs becoming a fork. That's the difference.
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I went to a club to ask people out
I went to a club to ask people outPretty simple really:
Talk way less, do deep eye contact, and everything you say and do as you approach should be coming from a direct sexual intent. You are not there to chit-chat or be funny, you are there looking for your dream girl, and once you see her that is the frame for the whole interaction.
Deep eye contact.
Less talk.
Powerful and clear intent.
Make her feel that this is something different than empty, airheaded social chatter.
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Is this guy legit ? ( Michael Sartain)
Is this guy legit ? ( Michael Sartain)I see him out in Vegas clubs pretty often. He definitely surrounds himself with plenty of hot fake LA-style girls and he get access to the DJ backstage areas easily. Whether he can teach you to do what he does, I'm not sure. I don't know how scalable it is. From what I understand his programs are very expensive.
I'm sure you can learn something from him. I know a guy in Vegas who gets insane results from elite social circle. He's slept with 1000+ girls. It's way more effective than cold approach. But also, it's like a full-time job for him. You have to be managing that social circle all the time. Is that really what you want? For some guys it's what they want.
The bottom line is that if you want exceptional results you're gonna have to put in exceptional effort. You should expect a whole lifestyle shift to make something like that work.
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IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importance
IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importanceMost of the time girls will not give you IOIs. You must learn to run game on a brick wall.
The biggest IOI is simply eye contact and her attention. You should be getting that occasionally after approaching.
If you're never getting it, it's because your vibe is off: you're full of fear, you aren't relaxed, you're stuck in your head, you aren't smiling, you aren't in a good mood, you aren't having fun, you aren't direct enough with your sexual intent, you are too meek.
As you approach, command her attention. Force her to give you here full attention or blow you out. Do not do half-assed, meek approaches. When you approach, approach with 100% commitment and face her directly, with full eye contact.
It's okay if she blows you out. What's not okay are meek approaches.
The only importance of IOIs is to immediately capitalize on them as soon as you notice one. If you see a girl giving you eye contact, immediately approach and rapidly escalate. But never wait or hope for IOIs. IOIs are like finding cash on the ground. As soon as you see it, you grab it. But you don't rely on this to make money.
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IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importance
IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importanceThat happens very rarely. Maybe 1 in 500 girls.
Hot girls rarely give eye contact because they are already hit on way too much. If she was giving eye contact readily she would have 50 guys trying to fuck her every week.
You just need to stop waiting for her to make it easy for you. Just approach.
Challenge yourself with difficult approaches. Approach a girl who is there with her boyfriend.
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Extreme confusion on mushroom trip, scariest experience I had.
Extreme confusion on mushroom trip, scariest experience I had.Hehe, yeah... that's how mushrooms are at high doses.
What happened was your reality was deconstructed and you were left to realize that all knowledge is relative, and that in fact you don't know anything.
In my The Power Of Not-Knowing video I talked about how your whole view of the world is a house of cards that will one day collapse under the right conditions, and how psychedelics will leave you in a profound state of not-knowing. I also said how defensive you are precisely because deep down you feel that your worldview is a house of cards.
Of course you were. But your fear stopped you from realizing Yourself.
Do it again. And again. And again. Until no fear remains.
Facing fear is the bulk of awakening work.
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IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importance
IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importance@Karmadhi Funny enough, attracting a non-hot girl can be more difficult or just as difficult as a hot one.
You shouldn't expect average girls to give you eye contact more than once in a blue moon. Girls are not wired that way. It takes time for a girl to warm up to you and get sexually interested. She is not scanning the room the way a guy scans a room for hot girls. Girls are passive creatures. They don't bother themselves with approaching or initiating. It will happen once in a blue moon. Capitalize on it when you see it, but don't go out hoping for it.
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IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importance
IOIs in night game (and game in general) and their importanceYes, I usually know with 3 secs if it will hook.
But it's still good to train the skill of gaming a brick wall. Sometimes it takes a few mins for a girl to open up to you.
It also depends on how many girls there are out. If it's a slow night you don't have the luxury of burning through a bunch of girls. If there is a horde of girls, then you can screen for openness much harder cause all you're looking for is 1.