You have to commit to living for more than survival.
For Beauty, for Truth, for Good, for Love, for God. And you gotta be real serious about it, like your life depends on it.
You gotta say NO to the easy life. It's just not worth it to have life so easy.

What bollocks!
I have an American friend who moved to Eastern Europe just for all the sex. He picks up 2 new girls a week. Ukraine then Poland.

Women also don't want solutions to their problems. They want to be heard, empathized with, and validated.
Truth would solve their problem, but they don't want that. They want emotional support for the same problem that never ends.

That's exactly what makes transcending Maya so difficult for a woman.
Escaping Maya's snare requires a cold detachment which favors the masculine.

Of course there is that feedback loop. But it's so easy to get lost in the illusions of social survival.
The social domain is a quagmire of human noise, drama, politics, self-deception, and evil. It is wrestling with pigs. You will walk away soaked in shit. Truth will be the first casualty. Which is why people are so disgusted with politics.

I have a controversial take on the matter.
Human mathematics is actually not grounded in axioms. It is grounded in the empirical workings of material reality. The axioms are a post-hoc rationalization.
Humans invented multiplication long before they understood what axioms or formal systems were.
The reason basic mathematics is the way it is, is because that's how it works when you count your chicken eggs.
If you added up two chicken eggs and they amounted to eleven eggs, then our math would be 1+1=11. But this dream doesn't work that way.
Actually, you do.

No. Just date and have relationship until it stops suiting you.
Not every relationship needs to last a lifetime. You can enjoy a relationship for some years until it has naturally exhausted itself. And if it is good, just keep it going.

The feminine likes to be lead and to follow playful energy and to feel strong emotions.
With pickup you are leading her to feel emotions, which most men cannot do. That's why it works. It also just works because you are actually talking to hundreds of women, which gives them a chance to know you even exist.
80% of game is just putting yourself in front of a woman so she knows you exist.
If you just talked to 100,000 women, 100 would sleep with you for no reason at all other than they were lonely, bored, horny -- and you happened to be the closest guy around.

Truth is co-opted by ego for survival.
This is a nuanced issue.
Hitler failed precisely because he was disconnected from truth/reality. Which is why he's dead.
Do not be so simple-minded about truth that you forget that truth is necessary for successful survival. Self-deception and bullshit only works up to a point. Eventually you have to be connected to reality to live.
Winning a war requires quite a bit of truthfulness, despite that selfishness and lying that war always includes.

That's life. Don't make it personal. None of life is about you.
Life requires letting go of romantic fantasies. Letting them go makes you more grounded and stronger.
Life is not about pleasing you. Life is about survival.

It won't lead to Awakening. But relationship does yield many profound insights about people, relationships, communication, sex, feminine, masculine, emotional mastery, and yourself and your values.
Dating and relationship pushes you to grow and learn more than you would otherwise. You discover aspects of yourself which you wouldn't have alone. Is it a huge distraction from pure truth-seeking and Awakening? Absolutely. But Awakening and pure truth-seeking is not the only game in town. You still gotta live.

Of course. That's how all politics works. Society has worked this way since the dawn of time. The purpose of most politics is to get rich by getting special treatment for your friends at the expense of the general public. The party in power serves it own small in-group at the expense of everyone else. This is the essence of corruption: self-bias.

@Daniel Balan Because the less conscious a mind is the more it operates on group-think. Group-think is an unconscious survival mechanism. This means group-think rationalizes unconscious survival activities like theft, exploitation, abuse, illusion, falsehood, lies, propaganda, indoctrination -- as good.
An unconscious and selfish mind calls whatever serves its survival as "good" and anything that threatens its survival as "evil".
That's what every religion does. Religious morality is a rationalization of human bias and selfishness.

Of course. Like I've said elsewhere: don't chase women. This is a huge turn-off. You must do the minimal effort possible when attempting to date them. The more effort you do, the worse they respond. Women want to date men who are too busy and too serious to cater to them.
Be so serious about your own life that you simply don't have time or desire to chasing down a girl. You just invite her for a drink and if she doesn't agree you don't engage in chit-chat, you ignore her.
Girls who are attracted to you do not need to be convinced to meet you. They will agree with very minimal work from you. Working to get a girl to like you does not work and it makes them like you even less.
If you make the girl feel like she is the prize, like you are the lucky one to date her, she will not sleep with you. She has to feel like she is the lucky one. To make her feel that way, don't contact her too much. She needs to feel like she will lose you unless she acts to meet you.
The girl needs to feel: "OMG! If I don't act quick I'll lose this amazing guy."
Therefore: DO NOT CHASE WOMEN.
You invite her and then you wait for her to come to you. You do not desperately message her to be with you. And you do not chit-chat aimlessly with her, and you do not befriend her with rapport-building over text. Do not try to butter her up to like you. Maintain a detached frame.

Of course girls make your survival harder because you gotta take care of them and protect them.
But in return you get sex, intimacy, love, emotional support, companionship, children.
It's a trade off.
It's more worth it for the personal growth you get as a man rather than the pleasure of sex.
The amount and quality of sex I got was not worth it. But the amount I grew myself in the process was worth it. The growth would be worth it even if I got zero sex. The sex lasts for minutes. The growth lasts a lifetime.

I don't see a systemic solution. Mankind is in still in the dark ages and will be for a long time.
Individually you can try to minimize your involvement in it, but that won't scale to most people.
Ultimately you gotta accept your pig-like nature.

Fucking. Fucking never changes.
It's always been about maximizing value. Deny it all you want but survival runs you through and through.

I didn't say there was no good in humans. I said it only goes as high as their level of consciousness.

Mostly by speaking truth to power.
All power sits on a foundation of lies and falsehoods and unconsciousness. So shedding light on that is how power ultimately loses. Which is why all power is obsessed with suppressing truth.
Which is why I focus on truth rather than leftist loyalty.

Christianity is an idol-worshiping personality cult.
Worshiping a human is evil.

It took a lot of deep soul-searching and painful truth-seeking.
Because I was so involved in pickup, I had some untrue ideas implanted into my mind early on.
In pickup it's very important to believe that looks don't matter at all. Because this increases your results.
The more you think looks matter the less laid you'll get. This is what blackpillers don't understand.
Pickup requires delusional confidence, as Owen likes to say. It's very true. You need to believe you are the sexiest guy in the world regardless of objective reality. I drank from that poisoned chalice.

No, it's more profound than all that.
It's Love because the difference between killing a dog vs not is relativistic and imaginary.
Love is the realization that all difference is imaginary. And since all difference is imaginary, nothing can ever be wrong, because the notion of "wrong" is imaginary too!
There is literally no difference between right and wrong. That difference only exists from your biased, finite, relative POV. Which means it isn't absolutely true. Which means it's false. Which means it does not exist.
So... the difference between right and wrong simply does not exist. To realize that, is Love.
You only think it's wrong because you are selfish and biased. But God is selfless and has no bias. Therefore nothing is wrong for God. Therefore God is Love.
Contemplate this: Why do you assume cruelty is wrong? Who told you it's wrong?
Realize that it isn't wrong. That's just your bias. If you were honest and objective you would admit it's just your bias.

I don't know why you call morality that.
Morality is your sense of right and wrong. But your sense of right and wrong are shaped by what you need to survive and what your social group needs to survive. Emotions play into your sense of right and wrong and are also biased to serve your survival and your group's survival.
So there is this layered sandwich of factors what all work together to serve your survival: emotions, thoughts, beliefs, cultural conditioning, right/wrong, self/other, biological instincts.

Seriously developing yourself as a man will never be as popular or mainstream as stuff like blackpill, redpill, incels, etc. Because the most popular stuff is designed for lazy people who don't want to do any work. And becoming a powerful man requires enormous work.
Of course you can teach whatever you want. But just understand that real success cannot be turned into a meme or an ideology.
It's the same problem as trying to popularize God or enlightenment.
Pickup is not dead. There are more guys doing and teaching pickup than ever. Just don't go about it in a toxic way.
All the core principles of attraction and how to be a man have been discovered and articulated long ago. The problem is that it's so challenging that most guys don't want to do the work to actualize it.

Most blackpill guys have serious childhood trauma, abuse, broken families, missing parents, evil mothers, drug addict parents, poverty, depression, mental illness, chemical imbalance, low education, low IQ, low physical appearance, terrible social skills, profound introversion, autism, Aspergers, zero social experience, bad ideological indoctrination.
Yeah, you cannot imagine how bad it is. It's way worse than what you imagine. If you knew their childhoods and life experiences you would be horrified and their beliefs would make perfect sense to you.
These people live in hell and depression and dream of suicide or killing women. It's a sick, sinister, dark form of consciousness. You could almost call it satanic energy.
Blackpill is built on a painful toxic upbringing that creates seething anger and nihilistic apathy.
Normal social guys cannot understand such things. It's like another world. A dark bleak world of trauma and misery with no hope, no redemption. A black hole of self-hatred.
Your life has been too good, too loving to understand. No one hurt you enough, young enough. You had a decent family. You had good genetics. You had a social life.