@ValiantSalvatore Sounds like you need to be more patient and do multiple dates with her. It is unlikely she will let you back to her place like that. Unless she really likes you and is desperate.
If you want to do same-night lays you gotta develop a better logistical plan, with something to offer the girl. Otherwise you're just throwing dice and hoping for snake eyes. You need to design the situation so that she doesn't feel like a slut for coming home with you. Having a cool place with some activities is quite important for consistent results. Proximity of your place is also important. She's not likely to drive to another city to sleep with you.
But also, there's nothing wrong with doing multiple dates. The truth is that most quality girls will not sleep with you on the first date. So don't be too desperate for it.

I rank it as irrelevant. Looks are important to gain her approval to sleep with you, but once she has decided to sleep with you, from then on looks don't matter. Looks are not determining whether she sees you as boyfriend material because if she has already decided to sleep with you, she already finds your looks acceptable. And that's enough. Women are not looking to maximize a guy's looks. They just need him to clear a basic bar. Looks is more like a pass/fail test.
Girls are not saying to themselves: "Well, his looks were good enough for me to sleep with him, but not good enough to make him my boyfriend."

I never slept with her so there was no relationship. Yes, she broke it off because I was both needy and clueless about escalating.
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I think you reduce being high-value mostly to money. But that's actually not it. It's more about having a cool lifestyle and stimulating her emotionally. Women are driven entirely by emotions in this domain. So if she's leaving you, that only means one thing: she didn't feel strong enough emotions towards you. Clearly it's not your looks. If you are getting so many online dates then your looks are above average. So it must be your personality or lifestyle.
It could also just be some bad luck. Sometimes you have a bad streak. To draw solid conclusions you need a large sample size.

Sounds to me like you're not offering enough value. Like you're not a high value guy. The girl is not that impressed by you and feels she has more value than you.
It sounds like you're fairly physical attractive, but then once the girl sleeps with you she sobers up and realizes that this guy isn't offering me very much. The other possibility is that you're physically attractive but you don't have much charm, humor, or charisma. You're not stimulating her emotionally enough to fall in love with you. This basically means your game is weak.
To really hook a girl you gotta sweep her off her feet by making her feel strong emotions and a deep rapport with you.
Of course online dating is not gonna be as great as approaching.
I've basically never had a girl end a relationship with me. Because she knows she found a rare gem. So the ultimate solution is to make yourself into a rare gem.

One time I slept with an Instagram model. A 10. She was complaining to me how hard it was to be her. Because she has to reject guys 30 times a day. This is the reality of being a 10. Haha!
I did not feel sorry for her. But I would not trade places with her. She will never be as beautiful as my mind.
My new pickup line for 10s:
"You are almost as beautiful as my mind."

I have an American friend who specifically moved to Poland to do daygame. He sleeps with several new girls a week and has a group of girlfriends. He used to game in Ukraine, but the war forced him to relocate. There are tons of opportunities in Eastern Europe. But really, any major city in the EU will have good game opportunities. You want to hit the most populated urban areas with good street life and nightlife.

No, and I have no interest in it.
Beyond amazing. It's super clean. No vomit, not nausea. And the dose is very precise, unlike ayahausca, which is a crap shoot. Having precise and consistent dosing is key.

I am sorta anti-human, because humans are so anti-truth. I've taken that a bit too far lately in my pursuit of truth. But I will dial is back.
Still, humans are a pretty ugly thing. Being mindlessly pro-human is nothing to be proud of.

Obviously she must feel attraction for you.
But girls are mostly attracted by how you make them feel. Talking to them logically about it does no good. This is why you develop game and why you talk to many girls, not one. You screen them for attraction very quickly and early on so you don't waste your time.

Meditation is just sitting and being conscious.
But formal mechanics and techniques can be a distraction from that.
The only meditation advice you really need is this:
Shut up, sit, don't move, and be conscious, for very long periods of time.

Why would you expect what is mostly as spiritual and philosophical discussion group to help you make money? That's not the primary focus on this place.
You should join some money-making forum in addition to this one, so it rounds you out.
Yes, making money is important, but do you really need to get your money-making advice from your rabbi?
What it sounds like you really need is to join a business mastermind group. Not as a replacement for this forum, but as a supplement.
If you are serious about success, what you need to realize is that success comes from specialization. You can't expect one person, group, or book to cover every important topic. Seek out specialists in every area you wish you master. This place is specialized for metaphysical topics. That's not a bug, that's a feature.

If you are like that:
1) You probably will not be able to meditate effectively at all, so brute forcing yourself with meditation will not work very well. You will probably not be able to sustain hardcore meditation, you will have a huge ego backlash, or even if you do manage it, the results will be weak because it's not enough to half-ass meditation, you must do it with quality. Meditation requires quality over quantity. You can't just sit for days in monkey mind and get good results. You might even get worse results like that!
2) You got more basic developmental issues which should be addressed with basic self-help. It sounds like you need to just start taking action on your life, through babysteps. If you cannot accomplish basic goals, you will certainly not stick with hardcore meditation.
I get the vibe from you like you are a newbie going to the gym and deciding to bench press 500 lbs in your first week because you're so fat. It's not gonna work. You need to slowly build yourself up. Years of neglect and inaction cannot be fixed quickly through brute force. If you want to learn how to meditate properly start for 30 minutes per day, do high quality meditation, and complete at least 1 year without missing a single day. Then we talk about hardcore meditation. Until then you're kidding yourself.

It depends on what kind of change you're looking for.
Be careful using meditation as some cure-all fix for all problems. If your problem is something in the material domain, you must fix it at that level, not with meditation. There is A LOT of development work which meditation will not address at all.
So be precise about what your problem is.

I can clearly tell. Which is why I'm saying it's not gonna work. You need to learn patience and consistency. It's hard to be successful from a place of desperation. Flailing your arms around is not how you do this work.
Meditation is a very serious affair and should be approached with the seriousness it deserves.
I cannot stress enough how much quality trumps quantity in this work. You must first be able to execute 20 minutes of quality meditation before you move on to 1hr, 2hr, 3hr. It is pointless to do 3 hours of low-quality meditation. You can do that for years and get nowhere!
Meditation is the antithesis of a quick fix. You are definitely not going to bull your way through into mastery of your mind. If that were possible all my work would be meaningless.

So many people live such shallow lives, without any sense of life purpose or philosophical depth. Of course you will be depressed that way.
What do most teens live for? Games? Porn? Parties? Sex? Online content? Likes? Approval from friends?
All of that is trash.

All things are ultimately One. Reality is composed of imaginary differences.
Yes, the difference between your Mom and a dog is imaginary. However, don't forget, imagination IS reality.

Def Canada. You can buy anything there legally pretty much 

Psychedelics moreso. I used psychedelics to build a rock solid inner game. Any insecurity about myself is gone and my state is much more consistent. I have better inner game than many coaches I know. Because while they were chasing girls, I was realizing myself as God.

There is a lot of overlap.
Ethics is usually rules of conduct for institutions and organizations whereas morality is more about your conduct as an individual.

No.
The notion of "matter" is a figment of Consciousness, so matter IS Consciousness.
However, what God can do it make you believe that matter is not Consciousness. So God can do the above as an illusion. Which is exactly what it has done.
Consciousness can never stop being Consciousness, however, it can forget that it is Consciousness. And that's the whole trick: forgetting.

If a girl calls you out for using pickup lines, you gotta stand firm and call her out on her shit. Like this: "Well, how else am I supposed to meet you? I saw you. I felt attracted. I came over. I'm a simple guy. And the opening line I use is irrelevant. I could have stopped you with the line: I love chicken."
Or, a dead simple alternative to all that would be: "I don't use pickup lines when I got real game. Pickup lines are for children."
But if you're gonna say that, you have to not be using canned pickup lines.
You create trust by being genuine. Have nothing to hide.

Simple:
Just focus on your ultimate vision: At the end of all this you will grow into a powerful, confident, high value man, and you will sleep with plenty of cute girls, and ultimately find your dream girl.
That's all you should be thinking about, not the negative crap.

Just remember that 99% of good news is never reported.
So your picture of reality is very skewed and untrue.

Absolutely.
But it is crucial to be able to maintain a conversation. The words don't matter so much but holding conservation is a kind of sub-communication and it is key to getting laid.
Developing that skill was one of my biggest challenges.

He's not wrong here. That's the most solid type of pickup.
Pickup is truly nothing more than approach, be in a fun mood, hold conversation, flirt, escalate, lead.