Brittany

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  1. The thing is, why aren't these men seeking out single conservative women? There are a lot of single conservative women. Some of these women are marriage-crazy. And husband-crazy. And many of them are so desperate for a husband they are losing their minds. A lot of these men who want to get married and live by traditional values, are chasing women who want nothing to do with traditional values. So then the agenda becomes "How can we control and manipulate free spirited Liberal women to do what we want them to do? How can we make Liberal women behave in the way we want them to?" Of course they should be frustrated doing this. You cannot force a woman, or a person rather....... who doesn't want anything to do with tradition, religion or people controlling their life, to just bend to your will. Especially if they are an Atheist. Now I could see the government trying to work on indoctrinating children/teens/college students raised by Liberal parents or indoctrinating children/teens/college students raised by Atheist parents. Change what is being portrayed in the media, on TV, what goes viral, etc. so that Liberal children/teens/college students become indoctrinated at younger ages into wanting traditional values. But you aren't going to indoctrinate and bend the minds of a full blown adult Liberal or Atheist women past a certain age. If you want to manipulate, control, radicalize, brainwash, re-program, condition, make someone bend to your will, *all of the synonyms of controlling other people here* etc. ....you have to do it when they are younger. But is this something we should do to the youth? Will this really end up "making people happy and end societal decay" as you claim?
  2. I can't speak for homophobic Atheists. But for homophobic religious people, their religion views it as a sin. And when you view something as a sin, it is automatically demonized in a way. It's not that they just hate homosexuals.....they also hate themselves for their own sins too. It's not a specific attack on gay people, necessarily. It's more like an attack on human nature, in general....and that includes gay people.
  3. When you focus on "why doesn't this book include_____________________" or "why doesn't this teacher teach _______________". it can consume a lot of your time. You won't find all the answers in one place. Sometimes the answers I was looking for were found in books on Philosophy and Psychology, not in the Spiritual community.
  4. I am assuming "bits of cheese" = oxytocin and dopamine? I think Neville Goddard was above the chase of bits of cheese, maybe? He still enjoyed earthly life and relationships but he had full control over his dopamine/oxytocin levels. "When you can call up at will whatsoever image you please, when the forms of your imagination are as vivid to you as the forms of nature, you are master of your fate." - Neville Goddard I feel as though if you have mastery over your imagination, you will have more power and control over the "bits of cheese" that the ego can experience. You won't need to go to the external world to generate oxytocin and dopamine......you will just be able to go into your imagination and generate it whenever you want. It kind of destroys the world before your eyes, but in a more pleasurable way than other spiritual teachings. So it feels good cause it puts your oxytocin/dopamine back into your hands. And you still participate in the world and with people, but you have more access to your own oxytocin/dopamine while doing so, which feels awesome. I guess, God is transcended beyond even the preference for oxytocin and dopamine? and also beyond the desire to even bother transcending the craving for bits of cheese? in that, there is nothing wrong with depending on the external world/other people for bits of cheese. and that earthly love/romantic love is the same as self love....if there is only one. haha I don't know.
  5. Same here. This is a beautiful description of unconditional love. Almost like a heaven or utopia. A place of rest. Home. But in casual conversation, the common person would see this as the void, emptiness, depressing, nihilism, dangerous, a threat to society and a threat to hierarchy. This description, is received with terror.....as the implications of this causes all of the walls of the psyche to have an error message. As the psyche is built primarily off of separation, division and judgements. But even the rejection of the description. is within the love. Even the terror of hearing this, is within the love. Even the "limited biased selfish human shit" is within the love Everything gets swallowed in it.
  6. You can do both. You don't need to choose 1 or the other. I love Leo's teachings and I love Christianity. I love both. I read Christian books, listen to Christian music, go to church every Sunday ..........and still watch Leo's videos. haha Christianity has some gold mines of wisdom that you don't get from non-duality/new age/spiritual circles. Some Christian books are more calming than a meditation retreat. haha What you really need is freedom from fear. Fear leads to psychosis. Fear based new age teachings can lead to conspiracy theories about aliens or dark secrets in the government that make people loose their mind. Fear based Christian teachings can lead you to nightmares about demons and hell. When you are freed from fear...... you can learn from Atheists, you can learn from Christians, you can learn from New Agers, you can learn from Pyschologists, you can learn from Philosophers, etc. Right now, you are actually scared of Christianity....... You think you are scared of Leo's lamp.... but it's actually Christianity that is scaring you. Find ways to be less scared of Christianity. What helped me with psychosis is reading books like "I Hear His Whisper: Encounter God's Heart for You" from Brian Simmons..... or watching sermons from Christians who were more loving, kind, and more Christ-like. And what helped others is watching a ton of Atheist videos that debunk Christian theology....which reduces fear. There are some Atheists who debunk demons and hell very thoroughly.
  7. Stage Blue conservatives have been going against the manosphere/red pill lately. Because I think the manosphere/red pill is actually Stage Purple mixed in with Stage Orange. They aren't truly Stage Blue. They kind of skip Stage Blue........but mix Stage Purple values (women giving up their body to sacrifice for the tribe) with Stage Orange (money, success, individualism etc.) values. And Stage Blue conservatives are noticing this lately.........and they are trying to create distance from the Stage Purple/Orange manosphere. Stage Blue conservatives and Stage Purple/Orange red pillers have a lot in common, when it comes to women submitting to men. This makes Stage Blue conservatives very confused because they want to support the manosphere....but can't do that because the manosphere men are having sex outside of marriage, not valuing marriage, not practing monogamy, not commiting to 1 woman, etc. What is arising is a combination we haven't seen before haha which is a Stage Purple/Stage Orange mix.
  8. It doesn't work like that. The clarity, happiness, love and bliss you had before is still within you. It is metaphysically impossible for it to go elsewhere. It's more so that you "gained" more inner noise. Not that you lost anything.
  9. This reminds me of Jordan Peterson. Your entire post, actually, reminds me of Jordan Peterson. Jordan sees through a lot of lies. But he purposely holds unto lies and mythology to "create order in society"....even if he doesn't fully believe in them himself. He thinks none of the Bible/God is real but that the Bible is the best book for fools to follow. Alex O'Connor called him out on his bluff:
  10. A lot of stay at home mom's are millionaires, nowadays, due to social media. haha
  11. No one will ever see who you are. Whatever they see, is not actually you. It can never be. Not to sound scary. haha But on a metaphysical level, no one can actually see who you are. Also, you don't "create" who you are. Because who you are never changes from the day you were born. It doesn't ever change. We all have the same identity ....... in the ultimate truth of things. We share the same identity. However; you can shape an identity to engage in the human world haha with I AM statements. How do you currently see yourself, right now? I AM ___________________ (Ex: I am an avid reader. I am loved. I am whole. I am beautiful. I am caring towards others. I am anxious but take risks. I am good at math. etc.) Who do you want to be in the future? I AM BECOMING ____________________ (Ex: I am becoming a great chef. I am becoming a parent. I am becoming a more patient person. I am becoming more aware.) And then be proactive on your goals. However; none of this is who you are. This is more changing the human conditioning..... than changing the human identity. The human identity can not actually be changed from birth. We just usually identity as a million things that we are not.
  12. I don't think you move "beyond belonging". When you were born, you already belonged. You can't escape or ever leave belonging. Belonging isn't something you "gain" or "lose". It's always present.
  13. Maybe I am wrong but I think it's possible to be even Stage Turquoise and conservative. The higher the stages .... the more you see the grey in Liberal vs. Conservative. It's not this Black and White thing. Good vs. Evil thing.
  14. "Value" and "Worth" doesn't exist. They are illusions of the mind. Hierarchy of worth and value creates seperation and distortion. Levels of Consciousness like the LOC system and Spiral Dynamics are also an illusion. But people use them as a tools in the world of duality to make sense of what is happening. But even these tools are illusions and not ultimately true.
  15. What are they doing that is worrying you? My parents are Stage Blue but I've never seen them as "something that needs help".
  16. The Law of Attraction works in the material world of duality. I actually think the Law of Assumption by Neville Goddard is even more powerful. Neville Goddard's teachings on the Law of Assumption almost remind me of witchcraft because of how much they can control reality. But I agree with what Ken Wilber said about ego and narcissism. Law of Attraction's weakness , in my opinion, is the topic of death. None of these teachers go deeply into how everything we manifest into our lives will decay and die. Realizing that all manifestations end in death is not a hot topic for the Law of Attraction. The ego/narcissism hates talking about death. But you can't really avoid death. So the Law of Attraction is an incomplete teaching.
  17. These videos below are a more accurate description of what a "younger" Christian church looks like in 2022: White, Black, Asian etc. Christians worshipping together like one family. The "white is better" Christian churches you are referring to are decreasing in numbers amongst Millenials and Gen Z. This is why white Christians might vote either Republican and Democrat. You can't assume they will always vote Republican - especially Millenial and Gen Z white Christians.
  18. The Daily Wire is Stage Orange, in my opinion. I am very surprised by the success of "The Comments Section with Brett Cooper". I thought they would never pull off targetting to Gen Z but her channel is blowing up more and more every day.
  19. I agree. Teal just takes on a very unique approach of saying "having our needs met by others, is having our needs met by ourselves".
  20. This is a tricky topic with Teal Swan. She is actively against hyper independence in the spiritual community. Teal doesn't like the whole "All I need is myself" mentality in spiritual circles. Her teachings encourage emotional dependency on others. In my opinion, emotional dependency causes you to need another person in order to feel peace within. Without their support, you are emotionally starving and start acting manic.......which can be seen from the documentary. But I also understand where she is coming from. If there is no seperation, and there is no self and there is no other...... then our division between "my love" and "their love" collapses. It seems like her shadow work integration and non-duality integration is strong. But her awareness vs. object integration (stuff Rupert Spira teaches) is weak. With awareness vs. object integration, emotional dependency will literally turn off. She is also weak in the metaphysical stuff that Neville Goddard teaches on imagination. Because this also shuts emotional dependency off. Some videos where Teal promotes dependency: Video teaching that you need external love from others: Video on "Using People" to Get your needs met: Video on "Resourcing People" in order to get our needs met: Video on how wanting to be alone is often unhealthy: Video against hyper individuality in the spiritual community: Video on the trap of spiritual teachers attempting to transcend their humanity (which I respect her take):
  21. 1. Law of Attraction/Law of Assumption does not prepare people for death. The Law of Attraction/Law of Assumption ignores death almost entirely. They are a denial that "bad things" DO happen...and WILL happen. It doesn't matter how great of a manifestor you are, the human body will most likely die. And the houses, money, and relationships that you manifested will change form one day. 2. The Radical Non-Duality community avoids seeing the Shadow of the psyche: The message of radical non-duality says that "it doesn't matter if there is an apparent person who is angry, bitter, dreaming or sees seperation etc. it's all the absolute. There is no one who is angry. There is no one who is bitter. There is no one who is dreaming. There is no one who feels seperate. It is all just happening. " In the satsangs, I sometimes see the teachers loosing patience with people, showing signs of narcissism and pride, pursung their own survival strategies and self security etc.. But according to radical non-duality.... you don't need to do any shadow work, heal anything or be aware of anything ..... because it's "all just happening. It's all the absolute." So anything goes. They mock spiritual practices and healing work while simultaneously saying "even shadow work is allowed, even healing is allowed, everything is allowed". In the Sam Harris interview, Jim Newman said that he gets mad at bad drivers on the road. And that anger still arises in him after liberation. But in my opinion, and I think Sam Harris' as well, this anger at bad drivers is conditioning that can be changed through spiritual practices and meditation .... so why not teach this as well? Why choose to live forever with the habit of anger at bad drivers? I can hear all of the typical non-duality responses in my head: "Conditioning is what arises in THIS for no one. There is no person to forgive. There is no right or wrong. There is no person to meditate. There is no one to teach. There is no do-er or choice. There is no time and no one who lives in time. Habits just arise in this for no one, there is no one who has a habit. There is no habit. There is just this. There is no anger. Anger is just a concept. There are no drivers." haha 3.Saying positive affirmations are still ego and puffing up of the self image. Anything that you add after I AM __________ and I HAVE ____________ is puffing up the self image. It doesn't matter how positive it is. - I am awareness- adding to the self image - I am consciousness - adding to the self image - I am God - adding to the self image - I have a beautiful new house - adding to the self image - I am a good person - adding to the self image - I have amazing friends - adding to the self image - I am happy - adding to the self image - I have a high vibration - adding to the self image 4. When people are spiritual bypassing, it's not always the kindest thing to force them into seeing their shadows. Sometimes spiritual bypassing is what they need at that time. Which kind of contradicts with my #2. haha Shadow work is an endless pile of digging into crap. And so I think there should be more compassion for people who spiritually bypass. People are spiritually bypasing because shadow work is painful and seemingly unending. Sometimes people just want to fall asleep in the boat of heaven.... even if there are holes all over the boat. 5. Western teachers often grab some parts of the Eastern teaching and then combine it with Western values It's not that Eastern teachings are untouchable. It's just that our western versions are not always an improvement on them. Instead of trying to focus on "what is true?" we often focus on "how to make this relatable to people?" and relatable is not always synonymous with truth.
  22. It doesn't matter. Heaven will be there when you are single. And heaven will be there if you decide to become a spouse and parent. Regardless of what you choose, heaven will be there.
  23. I don't think this is more twisted. I think this is actually "playing it safe" so you don't scare yourself too much.
  24. Brutal love , to me, is when I first realized that the mind can't own love or any other positiive attribute. It's not "my" love or "your" love. Same thing with owning any other positive attributes. "My kindness" or "My compassion" or "My happiness" or "My high vibration" completely drops. That's when things start getting scary haha
  25. You are whole and complete, right now. With or without the course. The anxiety and fear of abandonment is not being caused from Leo. The fear of abandonment is coming from the belief that "I am incomplete and I need to find my fullfillment in the external world."