Hello. I've been together with my boyfriend for almost five years now. In the beginning we had big commuanication problems and I was disappointed and confused most of the time. Now our relationship is much better than it was then. But I still struggle with things in this relationthip.
Since I got really serious with my personal development I feel like I must intergate it in my romantic relationship as a natural part of daily life, especially now when we're living together. My boyfirend isn't really into personal development - as a concept at least but when we talk about stuff it seemes like he's into it. He is very addicted to distraction, especially watching television, which right now feel like the only activity that is a natural part of our daily life. But I always end up discussing about what we're watching - that it should be meaningful or we shouldn't watch at all. And he gets dissapointed and tired of these endless discussions and doubts - as do I. I want natural, daily routines of meaningful activities to do together. Or doesn't it have to be meaningful? Am I supposed to go away and be by myself as I'm doing the things that's good for my soul? And keep being diplomatic and low counciouss in our shared activities? What do other spiritual people do with their partners on a daily basis? Help...
