Javfly33

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  1. On 18/9/2020 at 3:11 AM, Khr said:

    @Javfly33 practice your interview skills, there are lots of books on how to ace the interview. If you’ve been getting the interviews, but not landing any jobs that means you don’t know how to sell yourself. I’ve met so many brilliant/technically strong people who suck at interviews.

    Yeah I will do that, I definitely feel I suck at interviews

    @meow_meow Yet when I get the email saying I wasn't selected they always has said it was because I lacked experience in the field 


  2. 24 minutes ago, outlandish said:

    The more common psychedelics like mushrooms or LSD are better suited for improving quality of life IMO. They tend to give more down to earth, practical insights.

    @outlandish I am the only one who thinks that after trying 5-MeO all of the "insights" from Lsd or mushrooms just seem like a refined-level of delusion and more story-making of the ego?

    Honestly nowdays when I do the classic psychedelics, I try to go straight to the chase (ego-death/surrender..etc) and avoid all of the "aha moments" or even the "brilliant instrospection" insights. I am not talking about direct insights from high state of consciousness of course, but this one are direct, not "language-like" so there is no trap for delusion here.

     


  3. The best advice regarding parents is, absolutely let go of the attachment of validation to your parents.

    You think the problem is your parents, but the problem actually is you. Is your neediness and attachment to your parents.

    You don´t easily change a person´s behaviour. I´m sure you have encountered plenty of people that would give you advice and you would think their advice is useless yet you didnt become triggered emotionally inside. 

    So the actual solution is to let go of the belief that your parents opinion are important. At this point I basically treat their advice or words as any other person. They have not more truth in their words that anybody else and you don´t owe them a-ny-thing


  4. I agree, friends are great, but the reality is also is that if you start self-actualizing a lot, it´s not easy to find friends that are going to be in the same "boat as you".

    For example, all of my friends usually use alcohol as a socializator or an excuse to hang out. I think alcohol is against my development. So I either abtain and be like weird or just not hang out.

     


  5. On 24/10/2020 at 5:00 PM, meow_meow said:

    I'm a developer.

    Which programming languages have you practiced during these 2 years?
    To how many job interviews have you actually been to?

    With 2 years of learning, and 5-10 applications per day ... somethings fishy..

    @meow_meow I have practiced Javascript and Java. I have practiced the most React framework, but basically I have developed several full stack aps in Javascript, an app on aws, I know sql. 

    I have attended about 6 jobs interviews if i remember correcly. I´ve been applying maybe since -9 months ago to jobs


  6. 15 minutes ago, Someone here said:

    How do you know THIS is all of existence?  How do you know if you are not experiencing something that it doesn't exist?  Is that an experience or a belief?  Does your experience alone tell you that nothing is outside of it or is that something you are adding on top of it? 

    Ok, I know what you are trying to say.

    Let me ask you this question: For you, what is existence?

    I think that you are asking me that question because for you, existence is that which IS (Isness) + that which you think IT COULD BE (Inevitably future, because if you say "it could be that this thing is existing outside of THIS.", you eventually would have to go to that place and be aware of that thing. By which at that point, that thing would exist of course ;)  )

    For me, existence is that which IS. 

    For me, that which IS + that which could be (a possibility that i can´t verify) is Existence + Me imagining that something exists outside existence.

     


  7. 44 minutes ago, Someone here said:

    Because it's a concept. So only your life as Javfly33 exists? 

    My life as Javfly33 is also a concept.

    What it exists are appeareances and awareness of this appearences. Lately I´ve found I am literally this appeareances because there´s not an "I" so I am whatever exists right now.

    Right now exists colours and forms which my mind label as = screen, light, table, hands, glasses. That exists. Therefore right now I am the screen, light,  table, hands and glasses since there´s no separtion between reality and "I" since "I" does not exist.

    Obviously a concept such as "There must be another person experiencing another appearence right now with different colours and forms" is a belief and a thought. 


  8. 21 minutes ago, Someone here said:

    So I'm imagining others is not true in the absolute? Only relative to a specific state of consciousness?  Which is what I tried to tell Leo but  he keeps saying that as an absolute Truth. But the absolute Truth can't be "said". 

     

       Well you made a thread asking if total awakening means you will live every life to infinity.. So are you just speculating?  Did  you have a direct experience of such things? 

    I just answer it in the post you just quoted.

    I'm speculating with the theory that I will live all possible life's of each human possible.


  9. 56 minutes ago, Member said:

    It's selfish to want to be healthy and live forever? And wish the same for others? Maybe God wants its creation to become Holy, so it gives admin privileges to become Creator itself. But that comes with a price. Giving up the devil or delusion and see the true nature which is Life. Death is the devil's ego.

    @Member Wanting reality to be a certain way and therefore limiting it to not be other way, it is selfish, yes. 


  10. 13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    Meh...I don’t know what everybody has. I know these my thoughts thingys though. If everybody has “FOMO”, then to you, I am a liar when I tell you I do no have “FOMO”. Had you not written the acronym full stated, I would’ve had to google it to know what you’re saying. 

    Most people have. You don´t obviously because you are enlightened most of the time. 

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    First and foremost, if you ever notice that I have fallen into the deep sleep of a ‘my teachings’ dream, please do me the favor of a solid zen like face slap. 

    Cool I will :D

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    Yes. You are infinite being. You do not need. There is no ‘other you’, the “ego”. Like time, ego is the thought, ego. If time & ego ‘work for you’, roll with it. It does not sound like it’s ‘working’, as in resonating. I suggest it’s because it was never true in the first place. 

    Yes, I think that dynamic works-  It sometimes works but other times dont. 

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    Because it’s the belief you made a comparison, but you didn’t directly experience any comparison. This is tricky to hear perhaps... you made a comparison between the thought “my life” and the thought “someone else’s life”. No comparison was actually made between two “lives”.

    You have never directly experienced a “my life”.  Even more so...one thought arose “my life”, one thought arose, “someone else’s life”, and one thought arose, “comparison”. The thoughts are not connected. Another one thought may arise, “they are connected”. As to more precisely why that doesn’t feel good...source might say “I am right here bruh. What do you want? I am unconditionally loving you. Name what you want and I am on it. We shall create!”    

    That´s true. It´s probably another story of the ego fueled by resentment, self judgement, comparison...etc. Far from the fact that my life was love. I must confess it seems enlightment path has been a trip motivated entirely by the ego to make enlightment the answer to all of his delusions (The ego actually wants enlightment to confirm that his delusions are right. When it fact is totally the contrary isnt??? :D . I can see im still doing it LOL. Thanks for pointing it out.

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

     

    What is the difference between a human thought (so to speak), and a condition? 

    I dont know. That the condition is a thought too?


  11. 10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Same exact thing.

    No cause = infinite cause = everything causes itself

    Everything is equal to everything else.

    The fact that a chair can cause itself to be a chair is because the chair is just a part of Infinity (is infinity itself, just an apparent form of it) ?

    Since Infinity is unlimited it can create itself to be a chair in a nanosecond effortlessly @Leo Gura ?