Javfly33

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  3. Posted

    The best advice regarding parents is, absolutely let go of the attachment of validation to your parents.

    You think the problem is your parents, but the problem actually is you. Is your neediness and attachment to your parents.

    You don´t easily change a person´s behaviour. I´m sure you have encountered plenty of people that would give you advice and you would think their advice is useless yet you didnt become triggered emotionally inside. 

    So the actual solution is to let go of the belief that your parents opinion are important. At this point I basically treat their advice or words as any other person. They have not more truth in their words that anybody else and you don´t owe them a-ny-thing

  4. Posted

    I agree, friends are great, but the reality is also is that if you start self-actualizing a lot, it´s not easy to find friends that are going to be in the same "boat as you".

    For example, all of my friends usually use alcohol as a socializator or an excuse to hang out. I think alcohol is against my development. So I either abtain and be like weird or just not hang out.

     

  5. Posted

    On 24/10/2020 at 5:00 PM, meow_meow said:

    I'm a developer.

    Which programming languages have you practiced during these 2 years?
    To how many job interviews have you actually been to?

    With 2 years of learning, and 5-10 applications per day ... somethings fishy..

    @meow_meow I have practiced Javascript and Java. I have practiced the most React framework, but basically I have developed several full stack aps in Javascript, an app on aws, I know sql. 

    I have attended about 6 jobs interviews if i remember correcly. I´ve been applying maybe since -9 months ago to jobs

  10. Posted · Edited by Javfly33

    15 minutes ago, Someone here said:

    How do you know THIS is all of existence?  How do you know if you are not experiencing something that it doesn't exist?  Is that an experience or a belief?  Does your experience alone tell you that nothing is outside of it or is that something you are adding on top of it? 

    Ok, I know what you are trying to say.

    Let me ask you this question: For you, what is existence?

    I think that you are asking me that question because for you, existence is that which IS (Isness) + that which you think IT COULD BE (Inevitably future, because if you say "it could be that this thing is existing outside of THIS.", you eventually would have to go to that place and be aware of that thing. By which at that point, that thing would exist of course ;)  )

    For me, existence is that which IS. 

    For me, that which IS + that which could be (a possibility that i can´t verify) is Existence + Me imagining that something exists outside existence.

     

  13. Posted

    44 minutes ago, Someone here said:

    Because it's a concept. So only your life as Javfly33 exists? 

    My life as Javfly33 is also a concept.

    What it exists are appeareances and awareness of this appearences. Lately I´ve found I am literally this appeareances because there´s not an "I" so I am whatever exists right now.

    Right now exists colours and forms which my mind label as = screen, light, table, hands, glasses. That exists. Therefore right now I am the screen, light,  table, hands and glasses since there´s no separtion between reality and "I" since "I" does not exist.

    Obviously a concept such as "There must be another person experiencing another appearence right now with different colours and forms" is a belief and a thought. 

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    21 minutes ago, Someone here said:

    So I'm imagining others is not true in the absolute? Only relative to a specific state of consciousness?  Which is what I tried to tell Leo but  he keeps saying that as an absolute Truth. But the absolute Truth can't be "said". 

     

       Well you made a thread asking if total awakening means you will live every life to infinity.. So are you just speculating?  Did  you have a direct experience of such things? 

    I just answer it in the post you just quoted.

    I'm speculating with the theory that I will live all possible life's of each human possible.

  15. Posted · Edited by Javfly33

    56 minutes ago, Member said:

    It's selfish to want to be healthy and live forever? And wish the same for others? Maybe God wants its creation to become Holy, so it gives admin privileges to become Creator itself. But that comes with a price. Giving up the devil or delusion and see the true nature which is Life. Death is the devil's ego.

    @Member Wanting reality to be a certain way and therefore limiting it to not be other way, it is selfish, yes. 

  17. Posted

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    Meh...I don’t know what everybody has. I know these my thoughts thingys though. If everybody has “FOMO”, then to you, I am a liar when I tell you I do no have “FOMO”. Had you not written the acronym full stated, I would’ve had to google it to know what you’re saying. 

    Most people have. You don´t obviously because you are enlightened most of the time. 

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    First and foremost, if you ever notice that I have fallen into the deep sleep of a ‘my teachings’ dream, please do me the favor of a solid zen like face slap. 

    Cool I will :D

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    Yes. You are infinite being. You do not need. There is no ‘other you’, the “ego”. Like time, ego is the thought, ego. If time & ego ‘work for you’, roll with it. It does not sound like it’s ‘working’, as in resonating. I suggest it’s because it was never true in the first place. 

    Yes, I think that dynamic works-  It sometimes works but other times dont. 

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

    Because it’s the belief you made a comparison, but you didn’t directly experience any comparison. This is tricky to hear perhaps... you made a comparison between the thought “my life” and the thought “someone else’s life”. No comparison was actually made between two “lives”.

    You have never directly experienced a “my life”.  Even more so...one thought arose “my life”, one thought arose, “someone else’s life”, and one thought arose, “comparison”. The thoughts are not connected. Another one thought may arise, “they are connected”. As to more precisely why that doesn’t feel good...source might say “I am right here bruh. What do you want? I am unconditionally loving you. Name what you want and I am on it. We shall create!”    

    That´s true. It´s probably another story of the ego fueled by resentment, self judgement, comparison...etc. Far from the fact that my life was love. I must confess it seems enlightment path has been a trip motivated entirely by the ego to make enlightment the answer to all of his delusions (The ego actually wants enlightment to confirm that his delusions are right. When it fact is totally the contrary isnt??? :D . I can see im still doing it LOL. Thanks for pointing it out.

    13 hours ago, Nahm said:

     

    What is the difference between a human thought (so to speak), and a condition? 

    I dont know. That the condition is a thought too?

  19. Posted

    10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Same exact thing.

    No cause = infinite cause = everything causes itself

    Everything is equal to everything else.

    The fact that a chair can cause itself to be a chair is because the chair is just a part of Infinity (is infinity itself, just an apparent form of it) ?

    Since Infinity is unlimited it can create itself to be a chair in a nanosecond effortlessly @Leo Gura ?

  22. Posted

    15 minutes ago, Shin said:

    The only way you're gonna burn impurities like sex, is not by avoiding it.

    You just do it and remember to stay very conscious while you do it, before and after too.

    Then see if it really is that fulfilling as your mind makes it to be.

    Again, I do not want to avoid it per se.

    The problem is not been attached to an impurity like needing to have a social life or sex life. The problem is on top of that you got an ego that hates itself so have to do shadow and healing work for years to even beging to start satisfaying that need. 

    See the problem? I as the awareness trapped in the illusion dont really care if this body have sex or not. That is not the problem. The problem is the ego first saying "i want sex" and then saying "but now let me create a false belief about myself to actually prevent myself from having sex".

    Is that double-suffering which makes it particularly outrigheous

  23. Posted

    10 minutes ago, Hello from Russia said:

    @Javfly33 You seem to guilt yourself too much. Why not just go for these tities and "own" it if you desire them that much? B| I love tities too. It can actually be the most spiritual thing to do at that time. Why think of them as something dirty?

    Imo, true spirituality is more about flowing than adhering to some rules of what is good or not. That is usually ego-construct and not much fulfillment can be found here. Unless, you can find the flow in the rules and totally enjoy them (which you totally can do). 

     

    Oh no, don´t worry it doesn´t have to do with guilt. It just more of a dissapointment with Spirituality. Or a rage towards the ego. Or a deeply hate of survival and illusion. The hate of seeing the truth and then suffering deeply with the same survival shit when your state changes. When i see an attractive hot girl I basically see how everything and every hour I have spent doing Yoga, meditation, and all psychedelic trips, all difficult moments, all good moments, all realizations, all the boredom, all the confusion, all the work, and all the introspection, all the awakenings, all the states, FOR NOTHING. Because when i see a hot girl all that matters is how much i want her and how i am suffering if i dont approach her. And knowing that is an illusion and at the same time suffering is even more fucked up. 

    So its more of a dissapointment. It just tells you an idea how deeply important the illusion is. How little one is awake. I actually doing spirituality because of the fun of it but to be honest I am at point I am pretty clear there´s no way I am going to be awake unless I go to a retreat the rest of my life. Like, there´s no point. I think psychedelics are useful for self development but meaningless for having conscious life. Meditation and yoga the same though unless you do 4 hours daily of it which nobody has the time to

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    Right now, however, you seem to really authentically want those tities, why not get some?

    Yeah, I´m in the process. 

  25. Posted

    @Dodo You are not getting it. If rape and murder would be prohibited Love would not be possible.

    After God would hear you and remove rape and murder to happen, you would probably ask for more and would say "But please kill Wasps and Snakes too. Wasps and snakes create tremendous suffering because sometimes they kill humans who have families and even babies. How that helps Love?"

    So God goes ahead and removes Wasps and Snakes from the possibilty of existing.

    What is the next thing now, @Dodo , for reality to be truly "Love" ? Will you ask now that all ugly girls are not permitted to exist and only hot woman will exist? Would that make reality "Love".

    Are you getting it? Your version of Love is BIASED. Is purely survival. What you call Love is the world being totally fit to your desires and survival agenda.

    See, if you would be God and you would not have ANY agenda, would make sense that you precisely design life only to serve humans?

    Can you see that God literally could be RAPIST because it does not have a form. If you one day will be a RAPIST, how the fuck could you prevent yourself to exist? Of course not! You would allow yourself to exist! 

    In the same way God has ALLOWED EVERYTHING and ACCEPTS everything. It permits everything with open arms. That is Love. 

    The problem is you think the Love leo talks about is the same biased, survival-based Love humans usually know.