Javfly33

which one?

We are not caring about alternate realities. We care about Absolute Awakening in THIS REALITY and in THIS LIFETIME. Some of us are not letting death decide destiny. We are writing it in this lifetime while we are alive. Not at all. The point of the work we are doing here is that is the only thing that is not lost. All your mental stories will be lost, as well as your physical body. Your process of Evolution will not be lost. It transcends birth and death. Birth, death, and this reality belongs to a certain dimension. The Awakening that we are seeking is the ultimate dimensionless. It is beyond what you think is possible. You say this because you just haven´t tasted yet anything beyond your psychological process or mystical peak experiences. All of that belongs to the relative and indeed it will be lost. Speak for yourself. Spiritual truth is not a dogma or belief you adopt. Is a state of consciousness and deep transformation. It doesn´t have anything to do with intellectual knowledge. wtf? This Reality is meaningless. 'This reality' is the bondage itself. The point is stopping reincarnation as a limited thing (a form-a body- a mind that thinks) and going to back to unlimitation so your "act" on Creation number 84 can end. This is not a matter of choice, you already are looking for unlimitation through new endless sexual partners, career adventures, opening business, reading books, watching movies, playing sports... Your nature is such that you are constantly trying to break your limitations. The question is, do you want to do it in a conscious and direct way or do you want to spend 3 more lifetimes doing the outside circus ? What message is that?

Yes, I agree is very easy to bullshit oneself. Honesty with oneself is crucial.

Evil is a bit a negative word, but overall in any occasion that the girl does not feel better after you do that. Just do this equation before doing anything with a girl: After i do with her X, Will she feel more elevated/happier/ than before i did X with her? If you answer that question No, then do not do It. Of course we are not talking about just mere physical pleasure or short term excitement. Im talking about actual Well being for her. Is she a better person after she is with you?

Lol.

I´m not sure if I understand what you mean but I´d say the energy is flat. They flat everything. Not that at this point I use them seeking for a high, but more just like a coping mechanism. Life sober is more or less stable (thanks daily Yoga) but if I have a bad week is sooo temping to go buy some and enjoy 4-5 days of just not thinking about anything lol. I say 4-5 days because after that tolerance again raises up and you don´t get much high anymore. At that point is when I again get tired and stop/throw the shit. Boring cycle

Yes, but we are cool weirdos.

@Someone here Nice one! Breathing is a function of the body, is not your 'function'. Is not something fundamental of you. The body needs to Breath to exist. You do not need breathing to exist. You can try this several times: for 20-30 seconds notice how the act of breathing is happening and nurturing the body. Then, take a big inhalation, and then a big exhalation, and stay there in the emptiness of breath, for 10-20 seconds (whatever is comfortable for you). During this 20 seconds, keep looking at your body. Notice that during those 20 seconds, you Exist. So during this 20 seconds, breathing didn´t happened. Yet You exist during those 20 seconds. This simple realization just tell us that we exist even when there is no breathing. Yes, if you exist as something fundamentally independent from the body, you are Liberated. But we must remind ourselves, that for it to be Liberation it must be a living experience, not just a belief. To experience this body as something that is ours but is not us, then if body is gone, what is the fear? If clearly one is stablished in something beyond the body, death of the body is not a problem.

@OBEler Nice! Damn man, Today after 2 damn years of practice I think i did ardhasiddhana in a perfect way for the FIRST TIME. My body became a perfect Triangle, i felt how the energy of reality was entering through my right leg going through my body and exiting through my left leg, amazing. Just incredible. Perfect Unity and consciousness 😍 It takes time to master this , people just judge it because they do it once or twice or even a couple of months and if they don´t experience anything they just tell to themselves it must be fake What did you experience when doing AUM part ? Im curious

Since all Infinity Exists, every action that every being has done has been fundamental for the Evolution of every other being. This makes the hallucination of superior-inferior to be a total illusion of the comparitive Mind. The words you said to someone 10 years ago, become part of the life of that being, and helped in its own evolution. And viceversa, you (as a self) is a result of the love and creativity of the rest of Infinity. Nothing in reality is better, superior or inferior than anything. Everything needs the other thing to exist, all beings compliment each other. The nucleous of the ego is formed im comparisons, in superior or inferior. Reality is not like that. Is Perfect Balance. Anyone that makes the mistake to think is above (or below) pays the price of an un balanced view of Reality.

If the point of relationships is to find fulfilment and love, I call this a tragic endeveour which never ends good. Seeking love through relationships makes you a beggar, one betrays his own self doing this. I realise, I will never ever try to find love or fulfilment in the outside, the quality of my Being is Love. So I´m complete by myself. I will never be a beggar again. 💪 At the other hand, if one is fulfilled within and chooses to form a relationship to share the joy, I see no problem in that. That would be beautiful too.

@Osaid I´m not talking about psychological memories or thoughts. The fact that you have a human body now is because of karmic memory. Your body is a certain patter of energy and memory written in Creation. How come you can not explain to me why you experience a certain body? Your non duality narrative can not explain why, can it? I can explain to you why exactly I have the body I have, I was born with a certain parents, why my skin is white...everything. Is not random. Nothing is random. I know you are very sure you have understand what this game and dream is, but I´m telling you is not as simplistic as you think it is. Nowhere near. No, my idea of Liberation is stopping the cycles of entanglement with memory. But you are not nowhere near this level of understanding with your simplistic non duality. Is Ok, everyone goes at his own pace. No. Is not like that. You still think I´m talking about something psychological. Your body IS KARMA. That´s what duality is. You can not be preaching about my statements being 'duality' or not, yet you do not understand what really your very human body is.

What do you think Reality is?

@Schizophonia I have been on and off all this year, I just stop it when I get tired of it and come back when I miss it. Next week im going holidays for 2-3 weeks so ill be clean, but probably when I come back ill buy again...lol, is just what it is. The thing until I don´t I completely clean certain karmic issues I will keep using, both are just too intimately related. Something really transformative has to happen within me to completely quit. Im close but not there yet

Is a good point you are making. However I wouldn´t say is necessary to say mind is sick. Mind can be more integrated or less integrated depending on the consciousness, on how it is conduced. At the same level of low consciousness, every being will be compulsive to what the imprints of their minds are. However, the more consciousness happens, the less impact whatever the mind has, the better it can be conduced. Nice one. And I don´t see this being said a lot in the forum. Remember you have the keys though.... everyone can leave at their own pace.

Don´t get triggered by the message of the other day. If is working for you and is helping you in a true way forget what I told you the other day @NoSelfSelf Yes, in a way is a strategy to avoid suffering @integral But apart from that, you could say that entering a relationship looking for external love is already from the minute 1 entering a relationship where you vibrate very low. When you are not complete by yourself, you have to go make a 'transaction' with the other genre. This is a miserable way to live, thankfully I know all of my being is complete, so know things have changed. No more begging, or I will pay a high price. That´s the work I´m doing, becoming internally more and more satisfied, just existing, so I don´t have to depend on people to give me entertainment, love, or excitement. From a point of completion, I can truly offer a woman something really high. Not from a point of lack but of joy of raising the feminine to his highest possibility. And if not, me by myself is enough. But Im a radical, is because I have suffered a lot being a beggar, I understand some people don´t want to play it some radical and I respect that too.

Thanks bro ! 🤲 I Will. ✊ And yet in those moments of despair and infernal thoughts the suffering and rejection feels so real, but there is a certain intelligence there that makes him keep going, by some reason there is an intuition that underlying the substance must be still intact, ready to be discovered. Is the thing that keeps him going, probably all of us looking for the same thing.

The irony is that you are going to that retreat to be free from those kind of thoughts LOL.

Ok, you know what? I think im not that serious about enlightment anymore...

@-Rowan Make sure you are doing Shukya Kriya right (the pranayama part). Is crucial to set the ambient and intensity for next steps that come in the practice. The trick for Shukya Kriya is, focus absolutely on breathing, and make sure you are doing really really slow. Also make sure your back is completely straight and your arms are aligned as they should.

Why you assume what you have is a 'Subjective experience'? @Someone here Where you are in right now is the whole of reality, stop thinking that other realities exist. This is the only one. Where you are right now, is ALL that exists. And no, I´m not imaginary, I exist, but exist in your present moment. I am not somewhere else. I am inside you LOL Truly the trick is really grasping that this present moment is truly infinite, it has no borders, it extends infinitely. If you get this, all beings, humans, creations, realms, and whatever you can imagine, is held Here.

@Keryo Koffa Don-t listen to people who are gaslighting you here. I don´t see anything abnormal in your posts more than someone writing about stuff in an enthusiastic way. People can not diagnose anything good or bad from these messages. What is happening is that some people need to bring other people down to feel good and special. I won't mention the usernames but they will know that have posted in this topic.

not true in my experience .

This Evolution is of your Being, is not about your mind. Whatever you reach by your own means, it is written forever/realized within You. It is not Lost. Whatever the mind reaches/realizes/understands, it has no significance for you. It will be lost. Is relative. The Evolution I´m talking about happens in the core of your very Being. It transcends and goes beyond mind, body and death.

You have the choice at all times, but it can be useful to have little spaces of Awareness to accelerate the process. I´m not talking about losing the body Don´t kill me just yet @Keryo Koffa I´m talking about Experiencing yourself as something Independent of anything relative. Now...what is relative? Everything that this mind can think and this body can touch. Now imagine a freedom where you exist beyond anything physical. Is the core of what your consciousness is doing. You could ask yourself this questions: Is Your consciousness absolute or is entangled with anything that it touches? Do you Exist as You, or do you seem to exist 'all over the place', a bit in the mind, 'sort' of in the body, ...etc?