Javfly33

Life

Yeap

right, I got ya. Congruence within, staying the source.

Ok, Ill try those advices I dont understand what you mean by that

I don´t think feminine manner matches neediness. By that logic most women should be needy, but that´s not the case. Something in my energy system clearly does not work right, I think you guys are right in that masculine energy is partly shut down in my part, probably going to stop doing spirituality the next couple of years. What you mean with that?

Lol

@NoSelfSelf Yeap man, totally resonate It with the last thing you said. I have to be source, not her 💪 Whatever It takes brother. Thank you

Good point brother, im taking advice @NoSelfSelf 💪💪💪

No, i understand you, when i connected to her equal to equal was precisely because i tapped in that attitude of trying to see her more than his looks, seeing an interesting person

@NoSelfSelf Funny thing is, as always happens with this women, when I stop caring about her/ignore her (not consciously, just because i was focused in other things) SHE WOULD COME BACK!!! And when i would start to grow attachment again, she would run. lol What im getting about this is, there is no shortcut with this scenarios, either one maintains itself in a place of equality or one suffers. But the Worst thing is that to really be succesfull to this women one really have to see them as a bag of meat with no value at all. Then they come to you craving your attention because they see you are the few guys you are not giving attention to a 10/10 This women was not Only physically very attractive also high IQ, i had learned a lot. Do not project value to anyone because we are all beings of equal value. The moment one projects value one is fucked.

It was beyond a bomb. It was a fucking nuclear bomb man @Someone here @Buck Edwards good words ☝️

Yeap , genetics is a type of karma LOL

@Salvijus im actually never Heard sadhguru talk about solipsism, you remember which video is?

Lol

Sure, sadhguru has many type of characters depending on the audience. Try to Watch the really old videos of his Channel in YT. Those of 12-13 years ago recorded in Spanda Hall. You Will be surprised, is a whole other teaching that those of today (which are adapted for the masses and "practical" Spirituality)

@Ramu @Leo Gura Isnt understanding intelectual by itself? IMO is more of an experience or not. Either you are now experiencing solipsism/oneness or dont. If you dont you are in duality. If you are you are Awake.

I guess is in doing it in the most conscious way possible. But regarding the externality thing, I personally have no interest at all in what society has sold me. I would love to have courage in go live in the mountains and drip in the bliss and perfect oneness and loneliness, is not because technically I can´t. I can, I have a free house, remote job, and tools to achieve that and make it stronger and stronger in intensity the more I focused I do it. But the focus is not there because the collective virus of externality has been programmed in the mind. So I say no to that and keep running the wheel, and for this I will pay a price I know, it will take me x20 more time to get to the same place im going, just because I keep taking detours because of society and collective virus of trying to achieve completeness from external outcomes, because everybody within feels weak, the being within feels like is never enough so you have to go extract value and love from the outside. And so the wheel keeps going.

Yeap thats why i was saying, ukranian war is the storm that makes the previous Sunny day be complete forgotten But is true that ukranian war probably happens because of the colletive contraction and closure. When success or feeling enough means i have to be above other being, we end Up with this issues. That with our mental intelligence get much worse in proportion, compared to 2 tigers which the worst thing Will be slashing each other throats, but not wars in the proportions of humans. @Breakingthewall Thats why I see the issue in accepting not being able to feel completely satisfied within without any external influence, that means you are going to have to get that satisfaction in the outside, and that means getting that job while the other Guy doesn't. And to get that women to the bed the other 20 have to stay at their home jerking off to porn. Thats where i see the issue with the perspective of external.

Yeah one can survive without the need of the unnecesary barriers. I Talk about stopping the wheel but that do not come from evasion but from mastery of Life mechanics. Once the wheel is stopped doesn't Matter if one is in the world or not, any way one is beyond it.

The end of the game. But for that you have to stop seeing value in the game at all. Personally I don´t think this is worth anything. I don´t think this Is worth anything but because certain maturity is not there in the intelligence, this keeps going. The wheel keeps rolling. I mean the day the sun shines you think the game is wonderful, but the next day the storm comes and takes away everything and you realize, what is the point of this endless ups and downs.

Not really surrender to life but surrender the animalistic forces. Nobody wants to accept though that the evolutionary force is guaranteed suffering. To win and raise you have to walk on others that lose. Some day you win, but next year you'll lose, because the other also want to win. In even if you win always you are crushing someone else life for you to raise yeah I agree in that It definetely exists, because we are maintaining this circus. Consciousness has the possibility but we have chose to fall into the compulsive evolutionary forces. The price to pay is never experience a moment of absolute ease within. So called millionaires hustlers and super confident people get dopamine kicks only by crushing others and making themselves more rich. They can not experience complete within just being. They have to become 'big', 'confident', 'important'. Of course at the expense of comparison, for you to be big the other must be small.

not easy to surrender, too much invested on the illusion, and yet everyday one is near to the inevitable truth, death of this mind and body, going straight to the grave yet the ego wants to fight it, how nonsensical.

yeap Is so deeply ingrained in the collective consciousness to both sides, some days ago some beautiful intelligent women confessed to me that she has fantasies of being raped or forced. Not that is nothing new for women´s fantasies, but it just confirms the consciousness structure of the dream, not good still.

Thank you CHATGPT

@Keryo Koffa never had the luck to try those but I´ve heard DXM is really good-euphoric and trippy at the same time! yeah I see thats the real spiritual work