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It's impossible to get more accurate than this. It was just an idea. Holy shit!

What is prior? Science or direct Experience?

It's the opposite of escaping ?

@Recursoinominado Seems great advice. I just need my ego to let go to try to be perfect ??

@Shin And what it is?

Unfortunately it seems it works like this yeah lol

Not a good idea to suggest such high doses for newbies.

@justfortoday So how does it feel to talk to yourself? ?? Top of the world 'Ay??

I think I got something. That analogy seems very solid. So then when I watch the movie of the character "X" the rest of the characters don't exist but at the same time THEY DO. Since if they appear there must be some day I as God will play the movie of the character doing exactly what it's doing to the character "X" of the first movie. For infinity, uh?

@justfortoday But thanks for trying ?I'm sure one day I'll get it

I must confess that that for me is a belief. Do you think that I can have an Awakening where I can verify this for myself?

All I see is a great "trip" withouth taking anything ! How could you ask for more? ? Honestly, man, reading some paragraphs of those made me a little sad (in the empathic way, I mean, not judging, like, at all). Amazing how we end up believing stories from our thoughts and making ourselves such fictional hells when reality is always Ok... I can empathize.

I think that's the million dollar question...the funny thing is only you can only answer it.. because why would you believe a dream character...

@justfortoday Hm still not consciouss if they are other POVs or not . If I as God live one dream at a time that means I'm just taking to myself right now. Damn still not awake.

For no other reason that because of Love. Each second of Tucker's dream was an " inevitable" of love Your whole life was perfect and love. Ta-da!

I just woke up from a dream. I usually don't give much attention to dreams but thought to share this one since it was pretty insightful. In the dream I was walking by and suddenly an attractive girl walked pass through me. In that instant I thought to approach her but then I didn't. And immediately afterwards I said this phrase: - "Actually, this is me just being biased towards one form or another. -Me looking at a plastic wrap on the street, 'If I would be *truthful in life, I should give the same importance or unimportance to this plastic wrap (a certain form that is appearing) than to that women (another certain form that appeared). It's just another form". Note: * This word (truthful) I didn't said it in the dream, but it was like an "attitude" the character of the dream was having that was alluring to truth. Yet the word truth or spirituality or Non-duality wasn't really used at all. Then i was walking with my father and a guy appeared on our back and start Fighting us. He was much younger and he started wrestling my father and was hurting her. I remember I joined the fight and I end up beating this guy to death to save my father from dying. At the end I thought "what a mess/disaster". But then I woke up from the dream and I realized it the angustia i felt when the guy was attacking my father was totally an illusion since the difference between my father and the guy who attacked us was just held in my imagination, not in the dream. The dream was just One substance of mind with several forms in it! My father never really "happened". Nor a an attacker..nor a fight! And of course I realized too how true the character was about the plastic wrap vs women insight. Damn! If only THIS world would be just like that! ?? A dumb dream what I will soon wake up from it ??

@LfcCharlie4 Oh no, I'm not referring to his Enlightement or Awakening. I mean mystical experiences, or at least mystical glimpses. He declared in one video he would get them when he was as young as when he was in primary school. I can't recall what exactly he experienced but it looked it was kind of some high awareness state when he would be the "observer" for the whole day. With 8 years old. Yeah, that's why I think using an example of someone who has awakened through meditation as a point to prove Psychedelics are not neccesarary is naive. Maybe the one who awakened thorough meditation had a very particular brain chemistry than most people brains don't.

It seemed that the usual narrative is to "debunk" the ability of Psychedelics to produce Enlightement. The truth is no practice or substance is a warranty for producing Enlightement. There are only tools that can help more or less. For some minds meditation it will be all of takes. For others not even hundreds of trips will produce an Awakening. (Let's not even say a permanent non dual state) Adyashanti did not spiritual practice before his first mystical experience. Should we infere from that that we should just drop the practices and just watch TV for a Enlightement to happen?.no. because adyashanti mind is different from your mind or mine

Looks like you are over simplifying different people's minds. Frank Yang might have a certain mind, very different from other type of mind, and so on. Psychedelics usually cause changes outside the trips, just as any sober practice. Awakenings and non dual state are usually temporary, no matter if they happen chemically or "naturally" induced. Not sure what is being discussed here to be honest.

Lol talk about rapid growth! Thanks for sharing

A dumb question: Have you ever been "called out" by a girl that saw you approaching other girls in the same city you approached her in the past? Is just a dumb fear I got since LOL and since you said you were in a small town i wonder if that happened to you. Probably its a dumb question.

@vizual I already agreed with Preety India that is totally possible. What you guys miss is that to get there, you have to be able to: - Approach - Be assertive - Have a decent amount of confidence - Know how to socialize Etc ... For some people, this things are not given. They have to go out there to gain it / grow/ actualize it. And here is where dating advice and "rationalism" survival talk enters. You guys are not "trascending" survival status or value by that romantic love. You are just building it on TOP of the basics. A lot of people DO NOT have the basics That's the thing you are missing.

@Preety_India I do think that that sort of deep connection you are talking about can happen, but I also think that for that to happen, the man and the women must have some survival dating attractive values on them. If you are an awkward insecure low confident guy, I find it it hard that a minimum atractive woman will "trascend the rules of survival" for you because you happen to have his particular x tastes or values that she usually would look for for a long-term partner . In the same way, I find it hard that I will be ever be atracted to a low value girl even if he's into a lot of rare niche things I might be into and has an amazing personality. Will I want to be friends with her? Of course, yes. Will I want her to be my sexual partner or have kids with her? Nope . Why for women would be anything different? It's not. We both are interested. And also note that you say "the love can last even if the attraction is faded". So you accept that attraction must be there. The attraction is the Pilar of the house. Then you can build that deep connection that you say is "real love". But you can't build "real love" withouth attraction in the first place. Because real love withouth attraction is just friendship. And everyone knows friendship is second order priority versus romantic partner.

The interests or agenda that you mind has in order to choose one man or other. It doesn´t matter if the guy was broke. By some reason, you found it atractive. The WHY of why you found it attractive, that´s survival. Not mere coincidence.

You are not getting it. All of those logical explanations are the self deception of the ego mind at play! Haha. You want to practice unconditional love? Love the garbage container as you love your parents. That IS unconditional love. If you prefer your parents to a garbage can I got news for you; you are biased. In the same way, you are clearly biased regarding sexual or romantic partner. There's no such a thing as romantic love. Is just survival. But the ego mind plays very well the self deception card. It will take a long time probably to realize this .