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Yeah its called passive income. Although some type of maintenance is usually necessary. You could also create a business and later sell it for enough amount you can retire and never work again. This is best said that done lol

I don´t think you are ugly, but even if you are an ugly dude doing effort will get laid more than an attractive georgeous dude that doesn´t do shit

@28 cm unbuffed Amazing dude! See that´s why I love no fap!

Here are some things to reduce neediness. Internal: - Discover your inner self-worth - Work on your self-love and self-acceptance External: - Meet more girls. Like x10 more.

I´ve been there. Ime, you need to take action if you don´t want to keep suffering and make this obsession something worse. Ime, you will not be able to remain friends and have feeling for her. So just basically keep hanging out with her (with the intention of dating her, of course) until she literally says to you NO (Or YES, you could never know ). But don´t just leave this "on hold". Because these things never end well if you do. Feel free to DM if you want more detailed advice.

You are not your unconscious inner workings. Realizing you are not that, you can set you free to observe them calmly and withouth judge them and heal them with your compassion and love to all things and beings.

If Reality is Love, and Being is Reality, does that mean that Being Is Love? If that is true, that would mean that a broken old chair of crappy plastic in the middle of garbage is actually Love

I read it, but it's just hard for me to understand it. Only experientially will do @allislove

I see. @Carl-Richard I got it ❣️

@James123 So there wasn't anything before THIS?

the body is not the same as the ego. The ego is an idea. The body is "physical"

We are have heard "Past times were always better" but I think this goes deeper than the usual idealization of the past. Since some time ago sometimes memories of the past arise and I feel every moment I've experienced until now it's actually been totally perfect. For example memories of times were I would complain or suffer a lot, anxious times. Now I remember them and I have this sense that those times were just as "cool" as any other moment . It seems when I lived them a sense of "this present moment is not worthy/is not enough", was creating the suffering, and now remembering them I can see clearly those moments were grandiose. They were created by Reality. Those weren't "lesser moments" that those of fun, happiness or relaxation. What is this?

Nothing, basically. Just the 4 encounters I´ve had with them he just treats me with disrespect and aggresively. For example last wednesday I was going down the stairs and he was going up. He started saying, "come on come on we don´t have all day" like I was supposed to get of the way

@Leo Gura are you sure that is really possible? Have you achieved those levels with DMT?

@Inliytened1 Sure. But what I don't get is why Leo is making the simplistic distinction between being lost in ego or being absolutely consciouss of infinity. There are "medium" stages, and some of them enough "pleasurable" (to be honest for me Infinity is terrifying Lol) to call them Nirvana. In this states you are still *in* a human form , that's what I describe enlightened beings. They are consciouss but of course not so much to leave the body. But those states are still very "blissful".

Yeah, of course I want to do that. The thing is I am evading doing that because I'm concerned of retailiation. He's not going to take it well. He is always in a bad mood. But I'll have to probably do it and let's see how it ends.

That's the one million dollar question. See, imo, if God really, really, really, wakes up, I don't see how the fuck he could forget it. Why would he? The fact that he remembers doesn't mean the person is going to be dead. That's supposedly the state where "enlightened beings" are. The knowing is fully Consciouss of itself, and everything else keeps moving. The body moves, the mouth speaks. "You" as an entity is dead of course. Only You as your true Self is there. Fully Consciouss. So what , not necessary to annihilate the world. Like I don't get why Leo compares it to that such radical degree, like there's no necessary to be that consciouss to be in Nirvana anyway ? @Leo Gura

Imo they work as placebo and/or as anxiolitic effect mainly

Hehe...and what does it mean that something has "happened"?

@allislove Self-realization, uh? That damn thing.

damn, something to inquiry about. Thanks for your view

Nonsense. An Awakening is an Awakening. Doesn't matter how it happens. What I do think it happens is that Awakening via sober methods is more possible that the person was ready to experience therefore the ego might not have such a big ego-backlash. With Awakening via Psychedelics, a lot of people might pop them, have a realization, but since it was "forced" the ego might not be ready and ego backlash and "retention" might be lower. However if you use Psychedelics as potentiator they will be very useful. Incredibly useful. Just make sure you are not self-deluding yourself.

I smell something, yes! Well I want the whole thing! Who took the other piece of the cake? @traveler That´s nice to hear. Some of it was smelling like kind of Spiritual insight thingy @mandyjw

Welcome to the Truth

Hell yes, go for it. I instinct you could be great at it.