Javfly33

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  1. Great great post. I think you explained it in a detailed and brilliant wat yet so simple! Just a personal question, are there other Conscioussness/Infinities experiencing THIS creation from other imaginary bodies? That's the million dollar question. And of course one that I never won't be able to answer. Since whatever people will reply to me I'll just project my own authority / belief on to them.
  2. I just think also it boils down to pure chemistry in the brain. If you have to wait 3 months for the brain to stop having urges, then doing noporn why having at seconds away the possibility of watching porn it just seems unrealistic in the most optimistic sense. That's why addicts go to rehab, literally so they can't access the drug while the they have urges. Because if you have urges and you can get the drug in minutes then its just not possible Lol. @LfcCharlie4 I have tried porn blockers but I always find a way Lol . By no means I'm playing the victim thing of course thought. I do plan to quit porn soon I just think I need to do some action in the social life / gf and then I will go strong on quitting porn.
  3. Find refuge and peace in the present.
  4. I tried exercising a lot. It definitely helped a LOT. There were times (like 90% of times) where I would feel bored, depressed or anxious and going out and doing a long run would just make me feel very good and make watching porn unappealing. Yet there were times where no matter what I do the anticipation of euphoria that my brain would produce would be just unbearable. To test myself I actually went up to 14 days resisting urges of watching porn. There were times where the promise of euphoria would be so high that it made me think if porn is really a drug. Like, I haven't done crack or cocaine or meth or anything like that, but the urges I experienced on those 14 days would be so strong it felt like a teaser of what a meth addict experiences. I don't know..maybe at 30 day mark a switch happens on the brain, and you no longer have to fight those urges. But it's definitely a challenge knowing that you are just a SECONDS apart from that world. And you have to have faith that you actually will reach that point. In my conclusion I'll just work on my social and sexual life and I'm sure quitting porn would be a more realistic choice by that time for me then.
  5. Great challenge, I should add myself to it but I must confess I have tried to quit several times and I have come to the conclusion that if I don´t have a gf or active sexual life is like an "impossible" (this exageration, of course) to not watch porn. Like my mind kind of says "Im gong to get sexual stimulation, if you don´t give it to me in reality, i´ll get it on porn". What do you think? I think you just can´t quit the mind something and don´t give it anything in return.
  6. Lol. You say it like it was nothing. Looks like somebody else too have fallen into another trap...
  7. Loved it. Good advices there! But this made me laugh because you write it like it is nothing :
  8. Does it really matter? The fact is to have a deep understanding of reality you must go beyond the human mind and human form. So whatever you experience, you actually never can't really explain it in words, write about it, ir even THINK about it. Even talking about Truth is not really truth. If not you could just trigger Enlightement just reading books The map is not the territory
  9. A good inquiry would be "What do I mean when I say "matter exist"". What is really "matter" for you? Something that cant be changed? A material that is outside of One´s control?
  10. As I said other times, illusion is all there is. So saying "you don´t exist because you are an illusion" or "there´s no duality world because duality is an illusion" doesn´t cut it Accepting that the ego doesn´t have control in wheter God is lost in ego or not, is actually the a bitter pill to swallow, but it´s a step forward to liberation, I believe.
  11. The irony is that since nothing is permanent, not even the truth of non-duality is permanent. So you can go back to duality world, as most of us do.
  12. In spanish, tapas mean free snacks that are usually served with a Beer, a Mosto, or a even a Coke.
  13. Yeah but how much time that phase last? They are like glimpses which of course are beatiful but 99% we are stuck at ego-mind
  14. Thanks for idea that seems a really interesting good combination LOL. Please explain i dont get it.
  15. Tantra is not like any kind of those type of sex you have mentioned. In fact tantra is not even sex. Its the use of sexual energy for healing, opening of chakras, and non-duality states. It´s way beyond any practice for sexual pleasure like those you have mentioned.
  16. Lol I don´t know why but once i read your OP I knew it was lsd this vibe and insight was coming from
  17. If you are in a new city it can be a great opportunitty to do pick up and make friends and a girlfriend.
  18. The irony is that by "surrendering to the One" you just created Duality. You (the dream character) and the One reality. So actually all of these things you are doing: surrender, fear, pray... they are ego in disguise
  19. From the relative point is whatever your ego wants to. For low Consciousness ego will be to amass power and control, safety...etc. For high developed egos will probably be to spread love and compassion between humans . And from the Absolute sense there's no purpose whatsoever. Being is prior to purpose Being is Love. But I wouldn't call Love a purpose. Love is more like the material or building blocks that Reality uses to create life.
  20. I know but I don't like them that much tbh. If I want to get a treat I'll get a snickers bars which I love ?. Actually there's something about this chips (or in general about potato chips I guess) which makes me suspect and is that they are tremendously fiendish. Like I start eating some and then "I have to" finish the damn bag. I used to think that feeling was because of addictives and chemicals in candy bars or processed foods. But this potato chips only have those 3 ingredients. So maybe either they processed method is sketchy or either potato chips has a weird thing that makes them very fiendish (maybe is the combination of carbs+fats+salt which makes it very palatable for the organism?)
  21. @Michael569 Man, your post deserves a golden medal. Thanks a lot for all of that information and surely I know that. I won't be buying those chips again. Topic closed ?
  22. Awakening is Awakening. Whether it happens on weed or taking a shit or meditating. The Truth is what matters. Not how you got there. In fact once you are there you will know it because you won't be able to hold as a ground the fact that you have taken a Psychedelic ?