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Whereas the provider means experiences, a good friend, money, emotional security (a rock, a leader, etc), good sex, etc... Men on the other hand can actually get infatuated in an unriddled, irrational, insane way to a femenine figure. I got infatuated 3 times in my life with 3 women, not because of what they were proving to me (basically nothing) but because a mixture of IQ, spiritual affinity and beautiful body just created in me a feeling of Love and Admiration that just felt like 'I love Life because such a being can exist, the mere fact that she exists is fucking amazing'. But it seems women NEVER can have that feeling to a man. And that crushes the man. I NEVER experienced from any of these 3 women not even the 5% on intensity and admiration for me that I projected to them. Even though I´m also an interesting male. Only if I provide them what they need in terms of pure survival then they will 'like me'. Of course is not Me who likes, is what I provide. They don´t understand the infatuation and love the masculine has in the femenine. They completely don´t give a fuck about this, about true love, they only interested in fucking utility, is so incredibly dystopic and sad.

🤣🤣🤣🤣 Definetely not, just as a possibility

What the hell does he mean in the part of "if you really tell them what they are supposed to swallow, they will just say this is impossible and run away" Fucking mysterious dude.

Sadhguru affirms he has seen yoguis making trees bleed 😵‍💫🤯

My father died 4-5 years ago but today i found out my family didn´t tell me the truth about how he died... (when it happened i was living abroad). This has shocked me a bit. He had quite a consistent habit of smoking dope so I assumed he had just simply overdosed. But to hang yourself? thats some next level of determination. im not sure if to feel sad for all the times i treated like he didn´t meant anything for me, he did, but There was always a inmense barrier that blocked a real honest emotional communication. I could never open up to him because i did not feel safe around him. Im so confused, is not good to quit the responsability to people for their acts but its like i want to extract something of value of this event so his pain that led him there was not in vain 😤

https://youtube.com/clip/UgkxmnkoR1JFSTQXHESZ-lUXcZKZCxjy7qXp?si=5ZIdL5wjgDl49Zc5 what about this clip, is pretty crazy too

damn, this subforum lowers my vibration every day more and more, do not call harsh truths to the lower vibratory thoughts of you guys mind... No wonder you call them 'harsh'. If they feel like that we keep creating in your mind? What you produce in your mind you create in the world, but seems few people have that consciousness right now.

@Elisabeth I agree I think I know what Leo means to say but attractive does not neccesarily mean you will be with that person. I know some 9-10 women that are in relationships with men which as an hetero male i find them 'atrractive' yet these women exhibit cheating behaviours because they felt attracted more to other males in that moment. So basically attraction/desire does not neccesarily mean long term healthy partner compatibility. One has to decide, are we talking about high intense desire/attraction or about estability and connection? (being a couple) Is veeeery different.

interesting post. The solution is to be with a person not to extract something in return but to share and include them on the Love that you are already able to produce within yourself, therefore you can include anyone in that Love that is mature enough to receive it/share your life with. In the rest of times relationships and a never ending game of unsatisfaction because of the very good points you said, those were just examples but im sure more can come up if we think about it

thanks all of the messages 💙 @manuel bon thanks bro @Sincerity yeah im pretty confused right now to be honest lol @Hardkill the issue is they didn´t felt ready, i had to ask them again yesterday and then they told the truth. If i never asked maybe i could not have know it, is crazy. I think they also lied because they had guilt about it. His own father used to abuse it (physical abuse) when he was young, and the family acted like nothing never happened. And when my dad sometimes would bring it in a family conversation, he would get gaslighted by the rest of the family. @Atb210201 Yeah thats what i suspect. Is like i feel the need to make something out of this

Is very difficult to think it but i think you have a great point, is important to realize what is trying to think it is the limited form, yeah My suspiction is that Reality moves forward, the new born babies are the result of the past memory of the reality, so maybe if I die murdering someone with a knife, the implication of that murdering somehow energitcally keeps surviving and maintaining itself, and since reality keeps reproducing itself, the newborn babies are a result of the past memory. So maybe all Reality Infinite does not end until all form dissappears, as long there is form there is reproduction of the reality

what am i, im not the form. But Im not sure why form happen in the first place. Is form neccesary? It shouldn´t be, if i am really not the form, form should not be neccesary to exist. why forms exist, that would be a good question to investigate. And if there a possibility where forms do not exist?

so the existence is not really the form, Maybe form does not really exist, maybe form is a thought or belief, a proyection of the mind? @Breakingthewall

Nice, is important to realize you are not in the form, or are the form, or are inside the form, or that the form contains you. The point of Enlightment is for perception and a body to keep existing, but 'You' is completely gone because 'You' can not die or be alive, since 'You' is something beyond birth and death. At that point the body and mind works for 'You', Life becomes the celebration it was supposed to be 🎉

how to connect to the desire in a pure form instead of being sensessly being driven by the desire?

If you want advice, just forget completely about understanding Love in that way. If you find a girl that you match with then Love Will happen between both of you too. Saying i Love you might happen but It should happen as a natural way, It Will be true. Your example Seems a classic issue of trying put her in a pedestal, apart from being dependent on her answer. Think It like this, if you really loved her you would not care about what ever she replies. You clearly were dependent on her reply. This kind of dynamic with women (or with men for that Matter), Will always Crush you. You Will always always lose, trust me.

@numbersinarow I think Leo by pig he meant desperate piggy behavior towards women, that which makes you seem like a degenarate, on a different vibration that just a healthy woman to man etc

You having problems with girls and with leo's phrase comes from the same place that makes you ask that question. I never said I was better than you.

Your problem with girls is the same as why you are getting triggered with Leo's pig thing bro...

Yeap, thats true, states of consciousness differ. You can go to a very Deep state of perception but dont stay there for too long. Is OBVIOUS sadhguru is not a Magical being guys...he is a human as us, and he constantly dances around between being more conscious or engaging in more materialistic activities. Is like ANY OF US when maybe we go 1 month retreat and start going super profound towards reality and Awakening but then we go back to the materialistic dream. Or when Leo did that psychedelic marathon and then stop the Dissolution.. At the end of the day sadhguru is just another character of God, another character of the dream. If It raise your vibration use It, if It lowers It discards It.

ego is the pain you feel when girls reject you The mind will distract you to not want to look straight into that pain, instead it will tell stories the problem is in girls loving other guys... Is never on the outside, always internal...look finally within or suffer eternally. The choice is obvious.

Nice one. Because pleasure is a low vibratory state... is one of the arms of the devil... Pleasure tells you, You are empty at the source...You need to me to feel good. Seeking pleasure still happens because of disconnection, thats why the other side of pleasure is pain as you have said.

I agree. If you are on that level no tools are needed.

Nobody knows if those fundamentalist suicide terrorist actually achieve Nirvana doing that. Every day in more suspect of how this dream actually works...