LordFall

No Leo she's real the hot witch girlfriend, she does have real magic it comes from a supercomputer though.

You can literally go on bdsm forums where women will talk about wanting to find a dominant to be in a sex slave to(consentual). The most extreme version is called 24/7 total power exchange. Women are generally kinkier than men, they've found this in many surveys. You could definitely date women for many years that will never deny you sex and help you build your dream life. Ultimate and infinite sexual satisfaction is of course possible it would be a pretty big flaw of the universe if it wasn't. I haven't even pitched you AI/VR girlfriends yet those will change the world in the next 5 years wait til they're connected to an AI agent that work for you 24/7 as well. The future is a wild place.

I guess that statement applies to women as well but I'll focus on the male dating view in this post. I see a lot of comments both on this forum and on social media in general of people being over dating saying that it's a shallow activity or that they've been there done that and seen all there is in the field. Thankfully I think those are people are extremely foolish and misguided and I'll make my case here as to why. Life has levels and dating has levels. It also has skills. This means that you lack the amount of skill necessary to achieve your dating goals. This is a good thing because it means that it's in your control to learn and change and that it's not fundamentally rigged against you. People have different goals but I'll boil it down to finding someone you're deeply attracted to and compatible with and together building an awesome life that you enjoy living. It sounds like a simple task but I've rarely seen someone achieve it and I've met douzens of couples and hundreds of game guys. Let's break it down a bit further. People settle hard big time. I don't know if they're fully conscious that they're doing it or if they brain makes a subconscious of calculation that they're out of bandwidth to handle more of the pain of existence by themselves but they seem to give up and settle for mediocre partners. The basic promise and "quest" of pickup is that you'll be able to sleep with and date 10s. It's actually a common trope for guys into pickup to end up with attractive women that have serious mental health issues and usually a diagnosed condition like BPD(Borderline personality disorder.) It makes perfect sense because humans are multifaceted. BPD literally manifests as having an unstable sense of self and personality and if you're a man that hasn't found himself yet and is in the process of building his life then it's basically your counterpart. So to have a high quality relationship we need both a partner that is highly attractive but also mentally healthy and compatible with us otherwise the relationship will turn to a nightmare(been there myself, would not recommend.) So you need both to have worked on yourself as a man and on your ability to attract beautiful in demand woman and also have worked on your boundaries and abundance so that you don't tolerate toxic and unstable women in your life. You also need to find those women that are beautiful and also are compatible with your mission and interest. Meaning that you need to have some social circle game because you don't usually find those women at a random club/bar or on dating apps. Leo himself I believe fell into this trap because I do believe he's talked about dating beautiful IG models in Vegas but hasn't found some that would be compatible with his journey and lifestyle. This is not impossible, it's just hard. Status works like an aggregate of all other positive qualities meaning that to be a man at the top of multiple social circles you can't be a manipulator type with no substance as a social circle means that you're exposed to people long term and they get to know you; you have to consistently show up and offer value. Let's now talk about finances, to have the time and money to be able to dedicate a large amount of time to your dating life you need to have a great and flexible career or business that frees you economically. Which is what 5-10% of guys? You can try to do it without this but then you have various ceilings in your dating life like the ability to relocate and the ability to host your own events or paying to get into other high status events. Now who do you know that has achieved all of this or a big chunk? Probably no one or not many people. It's not impossible though nor even realistic. If you hangout in high level circles in big city you will see a lot of guys that hit a lot of these buckets. I moved from a bigger city Toronto where I saw guys like this all the time back to a more medium city Calgary and you already see the quality of men go down. Now the foreseeable objection to this is you're exaggerating, plenty of people date and don't go through all this headache. That's true but if you look at those couples a lot of them bicker all the time, have a stressed out and shitty lifestyle, poor sex life, cheat on eachother, etc. Your relationship should be an asset to your life. Your significant other making your life more enjoyable and helping your mission and life purpose. Don't give up on it before you reach this point. If this quest doesn't appeal to you that's fine but at least don't kid yourself and think that you've made it to the top and are now "enlightened" in the dating arts and are moving on to a superior field. As someone who's lived in many cities and seen many high level socialite circles, basically every single person I've seen with this stance is actually pretty mid and delusional. You can very easily test it and throw your own events. If you've sleep with a few cute girls here and there doesn't mean that you're high status lol, doubt you can even host one cool party with many hot girls. I think sex, dating and relationships are a beautiful fascet of life that can teach you infinite amounts about yourself and the world. It can be used as an escape but also for deep personal development and self-actualization. Before you give up on it at least try to picture that your absolute dream dating life would be and seeing if other men are out there living it and you can probably find some who are and learn from them and achieve it too. I think the quest for love for women is a bit different for women than men but for men it closely resembles a video game with different stats that you have to level up to get to your dream life and you guys are way too low level to think you have beaten the game lol. If you do it right it's also fun and exciting, it's not supposed to be an endless painful grind. I saw it clear as day with my friends before I quit doing pickup, they would get laid regularly and purposefully I would notice they would never approach the hottest girls only the mid ones. They had unconsciously figured out their best move and stuck to it. I see a lot of guys in the same boat of giving up on dating or saying they're above pickup when if they're honest with themselves deep down they know that the hottest girls are not into them because they don't have much to offer. It's all good bro life is a video game just pick what you want and level up. Most people underestimate how bad they are at something. I used to be a pro player at league of legends and there was concept called Elo Hell there where because its a 5v5 team game people believed that their bad teammates was holding them back from climbing rankings. But actually you have 4 teammates and there are 5 enemies so bad players help you climb and as a booster that got paid to level up peoples accounts the average player was so bad at the game like not that far off from if they let their dog play the game. Real life is similar why do you think the world is fucked cuz there are experts at finance playing the game and winning. I started hosting modelling events and other high status events and it really showed me how high the ceiling is. I have a guy I throw the events with who's a multimillionaire and we do a podcast together, it's allowed me to meet tons of really cool, interesting and beautiful women and I've only started to dip my toes into what's possible. This is also only in Canada so that doesn't even include international events and trips and events that you can't even unlock unless you're gonna spend multiple tens of thousands just on the entry level. An easy tip for social circle niches is corporate, finance and crypto events. That field attracts really smart and hot women 25-35 that you don't find in the traditional nightlife scene. Yoga and wellness events can also be good but that's not really in my hobbies at the moment so I can't comment. Although one of the coolest events we've ever done was at a spa village, where they have a lot of hot tubs, cold plunges and saunas so that's another cool event to host that's different from anything alcohol related. I've actually put my dating life on hold to work on freeing myself financially and scaling my business. I lived in Toronto and got to the point where I could date decently but the dating life I desire requires way more cashflow than I have now. I aim to take my business fully online and travelling the world with multiple beautiful women before I settle down in somewhere nice that I haven't decided yet. I'm very excited to actualize both my business and dating life and wish the same for you all. God bless and much love.

I see what you mean but I still believe our best future fundamentally lies in post scarcity. You can also look at most relationships today as cope and basic survival as opposed to great unions of love. Once humanity is unloaded of our burden of basic labor for survival we will face a gigantic intellectual, cultural, artistic and romantic renaissance.

In what way can you elaborate? Sounds like a mindset problem and a clue towards mental blocks that you might have more than a social media problem. Why don't you use social media productively? You found yourself endlessly doomscrolling?

Have a solid plan towards an enjoyable future that you move toward daily.

Have a solid goal that you're making progress towards. I feel like anger, violence and wrath are common reactions towards encountering a seeming deadend in life but if you have faith and are moving forward it's hard to really be that mad in my experience.

Got paid $500 by my main client right now so I have some spending money. I mainly get leads from Instagram ads and it works consistently which is nice and eventually will be endless money if I can master the system but it's hard. Alex Hormozi said in a recent video that he talks about ad budget management in his 3rd money book money systems so I'm excited about that because ads are really a crazy misunderstood thing. If you can do them well you can acquire endless new clients that want to give you money for whatever offer you're running but you have to run a profitable offer and manage your bankroll well. All skills I currently lack and thus why I sleep on my buddy's couch right now but I'm closer than ever to figuring it out so feels good. I pay a guy $50 to assist on the podcast so I keep $450 of it and had to pay my phone bill so down to $400. Should have another podcast in a week which will take my bankroll to $900 then right back to $400 with paying $500 in rent at the start of the month but now I got some play money at least.

Yes, I'm like $25K in debt rn I talked about it on my journal thread here : For me it's like a cornerstone of my personality. I have a hard time saving and tend to impulse buy stuff or even just invest it in smart things but that aren't fully sound. My biggest breakthrough lately is managing my money in multiple accounts and stacking my liquid cash in cash etfs that take like 2 days to cash out it's harder for me to impulse buy. I'm an entrepreneur so if I don't misuse my money I can always make more of it and that's held true but it's' unreliable and inconsistent. It's something I would like to solve and have solid consistent cashflow and a control on my finances 12 months from now.

Cold approach benefits a lot from momentum, if you stop doing it for a while you lose the ease of approach. That's why I'm more of a fan of social circle and social media game, your progress is longer lasting. Make sure you get the Instagrams of all the women you cold approach and not numbers so you buildup your page and not just have an endless list of useless numbers after a few months of doing it.

I'm in the process of building a web 3 game right now where you can make money from playing it. It's gonna be called legend of the abyss. Video games a return on investment on the time spent on them IMO otherwise at best they can give you stress relief and perhaps inspiration for another project that will then be worthwhile to you. Here are some of the concept arts I got AI to help me with : I want to make it similar to the MMORPG Dofus; had a lot of fun playing that when I was younger. Definitely put 10 000 hours in it. Just wish I still had access to my original character and items as NFTs or something it'd be worth a fortune now.

No I disagree with this premise, I think this was the goal of evolution the whole time. If you found your dream girl tomorrow and she was everything you wanted and I came and killed her at the end of the day how on earth would it make that experience more special? I think you will now be able to enjoy your girlfriend forever and also get to live a life beyond economic scarcity with AI post scarcity. Capitalists benefit from stability and order, chaos is bad for business. Everyone on earth getting UBI and then buying their products and consuming them for all of eternity is good for business. WW3 is bad for business. Billionaires want to become immortal. Biological immortality is a good incentive for all parties involved. We're going post scarcity baby.

Sure but it doesn't make one technology have the same drawbacks as an other. I know you don't like Elon but at least contrast him to someone like Richard Sackler who became a billionaire by exploiting the opioid epidemic in the united states and shilling Oxycotin and lying about its effects and being almost directly responsible for hundreds of thousands of deaths. Also technology will solve the fundamental limit of our current civilization = scarcity.

Technology is just efficient solutions distributed at scale. Whatever you think sages and saints has is not distributable at scale. World peace will come through technology I could bet on it, it's definitional. You're right to be scared and concerned but I would be grandly optimistic as well. It's no accident that the epstein case and the US vs china showdown is happening right as AI is about to takeover the world. The great alignment is coming unless you believe in the great doom for some reason.

I used to like video games but they're pretty boring to me now. I like to watch fantasy tv shows and anime. Watching The Tudors right now it's pretty dope.