LordFall

What would you say the problem is then?

I had this insight one day when I went to get coffee and my roommate walked the other way to go and buy weed. I guess that's how life works and how human history unfolds? People taking different paths and then reconvening to tell ourselves how it turned out. Coffee walk is nice, there are usually cute girls walking around the lake it's a good heavenly area by Toronto Harbourfront. If you go the other way to get weed you have to walk by the highwalk and it's noisy but it's also cool to see cars go past you in high speed. A lot of homeless people by that dispensary, it's a bit sad to see but also gives you insight into the unfortunate economic situation our society is currently under. I'm sad I had to move away from there. I was too much of a brokie and I had to take another job elsewhere. I will level up my business to the point where I can live anywhere I want to in the next few years. I swear it.

Who's your favorite character from those movies? You didn't end up enjoying the prequel movies?

Yes, that's fair I was never addicted that badly. How come you don't get into pickup? If you know you can meet women to fuck semi-consistently then porn becomes less of an attractive product. If you're a virgin or have a low body count and you don't know how to hookup with women then of course you're gonna pedestalize sex and watching other people have it is gonna become one of the highlights of your life. I used to have this routine when I was depressed where I would wake up, go out walk by the lake and get a coffee, then smoke some weed, watch youtube videos for intellectual stimulation then watch porn when I got bored and take a nap. I would repeat this 2-3 times a day until tomorrow came and would burn days without doing anything but still having more or less a good time. I got out of it well because literally I was gonna get evicted and stopped having enough money to pay rent and my roommate had to cover for me a couple of times and the shame got too much so I stopped coping and got on top of my shit. Are your parents funding your lifestyle? That's an extremely tricky situation that I see a few men fall into and without survival pressure there is really no big pressing need to stop the loop of coping and self-destruction.

I mean yes it literally is? You have to be competent in many areas of life to make such things happen. You need a comfortable space for people to feel good about letting their sexuality out. You need to be able to find and attract multiple people that are down to have group sex. You need to understand their psychologies and insecurities to be able to do it repeatedly without the polycule collapsing. You need to have a pretty high level of career and business development to hold the whole thing together financially. Most people don't understand that their dating life relies upon many other systems in their life that seem unrelated at first. For example stress tolerance and the ability to deal with problems under pressure will reduce your likelihood of divorce. It's not immediately obvious why mastering emotional intelligence and understanding the wheel of emotions would lead to a better sex life but it's clearly related. It's a long distance relationship? How come you haven't met women locally in your city?

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Just finished watching this, it was a really high quality deep breakdown of Deedra Meero from Andor and why she is obsessed with control like she is. He also breaks down the psychology of Thrawn and the toxic workplace culture of the Empire. Worth a watch!

Feel free to lay out your argument if you believe it has merit. I've already debunked it thoroughly, or so I thought. If polyamory is not for you then that's fine but some of the claims you made around it are demonstrably false.

How exactly is this causing you to suffer? I got a girlfriend and slept with dozens of women while still watching porn daily at times. I think in general not accomplishing your goals will make you miserable, blaming porn as a scapegoat for all your life's failures is inaccurate in my experience and a weird fixation of the NoFap crowd. I've tried going off of it for 75 days was my longest streak and I was happy I could prove to myself I could quit but I didn't notice any significant difference in my day-to-day life. I was promised boundless energy and laser-sharp discipline by the NoFap crowd but I think it was about neutral for my work ethic since it made me jittery and anxious without an easy way to release that stress.

You ended up getting a girlfriend? That's sick tell us about that. I put that business on pause for the moment to recenter myself and recreate my life purpose from scratch but I do still believe in it. There are good photographers in every city. Every single person should try hiring one a few times. Your online image and presentation is the difference being between a random irrelevant dude and being known by thousands of women and being able to go on dates like a conveyor belt. It's the equivalent to us being on actualized.org a global platform instead of hanging out with our local meditation hippie group. Each person that has ambition should become a global institution. Last time I went to Europe I was 13 years old and obsessed with playing Pokemon Black on the 3DS. Next time I go I will similarly be having a lot of fun but it will be a co-op game played in a hot tub this time.

With a powerful muse, a man can create masterworks of art. Women have inspired men throughout history to create greatness. With 5 powerful muses, a man can create an empire.

I'm clearly more mature than you in terms of my approach to understanding dating and creating a high-quality dating and relationship life. You admitted that your approach is trying to fuck everything that moves and being sad that it didn't lead to long-term mutually beneficial arrangements. Put the ego aside and look into the resources that I've laid out for you. Before I pivoted away from that business model I taught men dating as a job and helped a few get into relationships and some lose their virginity.

My mind is not juvenile, I think perhaps yours is closed off and you're falling for the trap of pushing limiting beliefs onto others. First of all why do you default to pornstars are desperate people getting paid for sex? What a lazy bias, plenty of porn actors love their job and have more money than you and I combined many times over. Second of all, deconstructing scenarios and recreating them into your own life is not juvenile. It's systems thinking. It's based on understanding the situations and factors that make a scenario possible and what resources and lifestyle you would need to recreate it in your own life.

It's not too late, I would read one over the next few months. If your career is on point then might as well get obsessed with your dating life and fixing your blindspots so you can make your wildest dreams come true. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Manipulated_Man This one is really good quite a short read. It's written by a woman who wrote it from the perspective of being ruthlessly honest about all the ways women take advantage of men. It'll help you understand the underlying principles behind arguments in relationships and how to not let your boundaries get crossed. This one is also pretty classic and also great to analyze our own psychology as men and why we are drawn to dysfunctional relationships.

To me if some random porn actor can fuck 4 gorgeous women at the same time, there is no way I will not experience that in my life and multiple times and with women I'm really into. I don't understand how men don't think about it like this. It's like becoming a millionaire, if it's possible then why not go for it?