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Hookups are overrated but for most men you’ll need to work hard on your dating life if you want great results. Leo had an 8 hour series on getting laid and it included many action steps to consistently take and many self development steps. Not sure how you got from it just chill out it’ll come to you. In terms of specifically hookups though, once you’ve done it a few times it gets old in my experience. Relationships are more fun but more energy intensive.

You'll be able to buy a life size robot that looks pretty close to a real woman that has the most intelligent super computer in her head and can do your dishes and chores in 24 months. A mix of these 2. It'll cost about $30K USD from what I'm seeing but I'm sure you'll be able to pick one up for a payment play for around $8-12K USD. It won't be the same thing as live women but I mean if you guys have heard about gooners and goon caves you know some men are never gonna make it in the real world so this is not a bad alternative for them.

Porn is like fast food. It can satiate you for a while but if you're a straight male(or bi) you will not find much like a beautiful women that's really into you in this universe. Definitely would suggest you work on your game and social circle so you can sleep with women you're into on a regular basis.

Yes, I like to hangout with startup founders and entrepreneurs in terms of male friends. The people I know in real life into crypto and finance tend to be the smartest. I met this guy recently building his own liquidity protocol and I invested a bit of money into it, really excited to see where the financial world is gonna end up over the next few years. I just had a call with a friend I know from Calgary who's now in Madrid. We're gonna see if we can start a joint venture and work with high net worth individuals that are looking to more from North America to Europe. I really wanna spend the next few years of my life after this summer travelling and being a digital nomad so having a business in Spain would be cool. Seems like Europe would be a great place to build a setup and network over the next few years and you get access to so many countries with a nice lifestyle and beautiful women.

Yes it's great.

No I want an abundant dating and social life in multiple high level networks and industries across the world if I had to put it in one sentence. My dating life is an extension of my social life. I like to meet with people thinking and doing cool things. I went to blockchain futurist conference in Toronto in 2022 and I met and had drinks with Anthony Di Lorrio the billionaire from the Ethereum founding team for example and saw Vitalik Butarin speak on stage. There are also women that do cool things as well with the bonus that you can sleep with them and date them if that's your thing and your social circle gets to that point.

No you're just not in a high status environment. Where do you live? In big cities you find hot girls young girls doing pretty cool stuff. I cold approached Sara Waisglass when she was in Toronto for the film festival. Was a couple years ago so she was like 25 at the time? Actresses and influencers are just people if you live in the right places you can hit on them or invite them to parties and date them. What do you mean faking it and are a mess lol, I'm looking for cool attractive women to share my life with. Most people are not enlightened sages that's fine.

I enjoyed reading your perspective bro thanks for sharing, it's true I come at it from a north american dating perspective. Dating is super competitive in western big cities so you need to try hard. For the field reports I've read from SEA and south america it's a lot more chill to date attractive women there. If you date in Calgary, Vancouver, Toronto, New York, Miami, LA, Vegas, London or Paris you need some dang good game and status to constantly be around and pull top tier women otherwise you're gonna struggle for the scraps. The problem I find with going after women that don't like social media is you cut yourself off from culture. Social media is just culture at scale globally. I don't really like hanging out with hippie stage green type women, I feel like they just reject culture and think they're above it without having learned to navigate it.

@Meeksauce Use social media to meet more people and post about the cool things you're doing in life not for playing psychological warfare with yourself. Ask her out tomorrow if she says yes she likes you if she says no move on to other women.

I'm in a stage of my life where I value abundance and impact not so much childrearing so that's not the type of content I watch but I like what Jordan Peterson and Grant Cardone have to say and they have multiple kids. The life I'm suggesting for everyone is achieving abundance and intentionality in their dating life and business/career life.

@Valach Totally but we have to define what pickup is then. I define it as the study of seduction and improving you dating life. If you define it as cringe pickup lines and categorize trauma release as a whole other field then you miss the whole essence of it. Meditation and self development were at the core of the pickup industry since I got into it 15 years ago. Julien is a beautiful example because you can see his own journey from being the dude that thought himself above life and disrespecting women to having to rebuild himself and what he values and his woman stuck with him through it and now they're married. I love how he focuses on the core motivations and the feeling of not being not good enough in his clients. What sort of journey and dating life do you actualize from a place of love and self-belief? It's the journey I'm on and it's great to live through. The guys I see stuck in the toxic stages of pickup are no fun to be around and are quite limited in their mindsets. Some dislike women as people which tells a lot of about their understanding of themselves and life. Women are great.

Have you tried it? What were your experiences like? I've tried it and you will meet some cool people that have not done much in life and are at their starting journey with not much competence in their fields. That's great if you're inexperienced but I like more high status and established women in their careers that can add value to my life. I can coach people if they're open minded but that saps a lot of energy.

As I've said, that's what you call a cognitive bias and an assumption. Can you elaborate on why you believe this? I admire Julien Blanc and Maximilien Tornow who are pickup coaches who are in relationships. I like what David Bond teaches, he's not really into marriage but travels the world and has more shorter term girlfriends. In terms of high status men I like Alex Hormozi, he's the power couple type that does philantrophy with his hundreds of millions of dollars. In terms of ecosystem I like Hugh Hefner, he was never divorced but his ex girlfriends have some indeed shady things to say about him. Will and Ariel Durant are now dead but they are a couple who became some of the top historians on earth and ran a thriving business and life purpose together. The problem is you're speaking from theory man. I take from successful men in all niches and apply it to my life and share what I've learned with my clients and online. I don't need a flawless role model to learn from because I can learn from their mistakes. Michael Sartain is a great coach who I've learned form but he's not married. Leo Gura is also a great man that I learn from but he doesn't have my dream dating life. Learn from your other selves on what makes sense to you and build your dream life standing on the shoulders of giants; that's my philosophy.

That's the low level way to do it. It's a great way to dip your toes into different communities and flesh out your interest but you need to dedicate time to really bring value to a social circle and get all that it has to offer. For example Toronto has a big startup ecosystem and a thriving film community with hosting one of the biggest film festivals on earth the Toronto International Film Festival. You can go as a nobody and meet people that are passing interest in them. If you want to get invited to the premieres and meet the actors and directors you need years to network into the industry. Same with the startup and business ecosystem. I once hit on a Netflix actress on the street and got her Instagram but she didn't follow me back. This guy I knew has a penthouse and hosts big parties and ended up sleeping with one of them so I mean there you go.

No they're not assumptions, they're common landmarks that we can use as epistemology to validate what is said. Instagram is the app that pretty much all women are. If you don't have a presence on there then you will be irrelevant to a lot of them, no matter how well built your life is. I have clients that pay me to build their Instagram, it's called personal branding. If you don't know much about the field nor have any way to showcase any social circle you're a part of nor the women that are in your life then your perspective is limited. I'm sure you've dated beautiful women since you're aware of how compliant they get when they trust you and feel safe with you. It's indeed important to get them to help you build your kingdom as well and not just be entitled princess that you labor for, princesses love to work for the king what else is there to do in this universe. @Elliott Not at all, you can feel free to elaborate your perspective but I've just fleshed out your mental block. If you had some intellectual integrity and awareness you'd thank me for it. Feel free to introspect on it and if you're able to point out flaws in my arguments and ideology feel free but it's pretty solid, well researched and tested so I sincerely doubt that you can.