LordFall

I mean bro that's the perks of being a passport bro you can find loads of women that are chill, loving and comfortable in SEA, Eastern Europe or south america. You made the classic mistake of trying to settle down too early without having really explored your options. I would talk to her about this honestly and see if she's open to an open relationship but if she isn't then I would break it off now and see what the women of the world have to offer before promising exclusivity to the first one you feel comfortable with. I don't know too much about you, feel free to elaborate but it's very common for dudes in the west that had a hard time dating and finding a woman that accepts them and they go overseas and all the sudden they find a girlfriend super quickly. It's probably not necessarily that this girl in unusually loving, its what happens when as a man you go to an even playing field where what you have to offer is actually valued. This is also the same as the starter wife phenomena where a dude gets randomly successful or gets more status then isn't satisfied with his girlfriend/wife anymore. It's an unlucky situation but welcome to the monogamy paradigm. If having a phenomenal woman that is your intellectual match is a priority for you(of which there are plenty of and I think it's important to go really long term) , then you really have only two options as I've said in the first paragraph.

Lol he's basically if the deal is true it's a joke and just gave up all american interests of the last 40 years.

@AtmanIsBrahman Club promoters sleep with way more women than looksmaxxers ever will. It's because they got a setup that's working for them. They have access to a valuable environment in which they have status and rare sources(they get a booth and free bottles worth thousands per night in a nightlife based city) and they practice their social skills each week. You call that either logistics or social circle and it will trump looks each time. It's not either or though you should get everything you can working in your favour but it's not worth overobsessing your appearance bro. Start working out 3-4 times weekly if you aren't right now, start to build a circle in your city that goes out with you and works on business, throw events like parties, photoshoots and music events and your life will scale exponentially.

It's true the more time I spend improving my life and myself the more women tend to want to spend time with me and entertain my videos. I haven't really experienced a diminishing return yet if anything it's getting to a point where I can do it across cities with my content and communities so I'm gonna triple down on what I've been doing. With those women before it was like they would value me enough to chill with me and sleep with me but if something got in the way they wouldn't put energy into maintaining the relationship so it was a fleeting connection.

What about incels in their basement with a job that don't wipe their ass like you said in the other thread. Are they well on their way to finding their perfect partner that won't use them? Or could it be that the other game involves a value exchange with others? Life is mostly boring and painful, you being a well put together man and having surplus resources, energy and time is gonna alleviate the suffering of the people that are in your life romantic or otherwise. The animal kingdom is the same way, peacocking in literal peacocks is a sign of value as it shows they can survive predators and the environment and thus would be good mates for females. How is your own dating life and business/career going? Seems that you're bypassing possibly because you don't feel up to par? Feel free to share and we can help you fix some blindspots perhaps. We all have some it's part of life.

Which part doesn't make sense to you? A 700 lbs dude is an extreme example not really worth addressing. I basically explained why softmaxxing makes sense here. Most men do not maximize the features of themselves that would be considered looksmaxxing. It's a great enough proportion that people have argued enough about it that's its on the wikipedia. Some people take it into a neurotic level and refuse to take action and because pickup and redpill are now outside the overton window the hardmaxxing part of looksmaxxing has surfaced in mainstream media because it's shocking to people. Shocking stuff makes for easy headlines. Dude smashes his face with hammer and gets famous vs 30% of men aren't dressed and groomed optimally nor workout enough.

No now you're projecting because your ego is hurt that I called you out on it. It has to do with improving your appearance to attract people. Stuff that is surgical is generally considered the hardmaxxing portion of lookxmaxxing. It's literally on the wikipedia.

What form did the disaffection take? Was it more like she wasn't helping you fulfill your goals or just in general you didn't enjoy her presence? I loved having a girlfriend last time I had one but she was BPD and made my life a nightmare so when I was with her I wished I was single but it wasn't the experience of having a woman in my life in and of itself that was lacking; that part was awesome. I think your instinct is correct that recentering yourself and knowing yourself better will answer a lot of the questions. Having an exploration phase afterwards makes a lot of sense especially if you've only dated that girl and she's your main reference point for women. You say you don't want kids now but later right? That makes a lot of sense. A lot of the world is stuck in an enforced monogamy framework where any dating has the implication of long term relationship and kids but that's a bit silly. There's nothing wrong with sharing your life with someone for a few months/years and then going apart. FWBs are great for that I had a few since my breakups. It lets you experience women and see what you like and dislike in a partner without the pressure of going all in. For example for me I disliked having FWBs where the woman was working on goals that were too separate from mine. It felt our lives were siloed or just being independent and then just getting together to fuck, hangout but working on different missions. Especially as an intellectual if I don't understand her pursuits and think on it with her I felt very disconnected from them even when that was the case with my 1 year GF. So for me developing general business skills/the money that would help my partner(s) achieve whatever goals they have is very important. @Hojo You're literally making things up, this is part of the community and the term. Google/AI it. I dislike when you butt in topics that you have no knowledge of, to me it feels very egotistical and like you're wasting my time writing stuff that has no substance. Especially with some certainty on things you clearly don't understand.

Thank you my friend. What does an ideal dating life look like for you? Clarity helps so much I find, the more I define mine the more my brain irons out the patterns to make it happen.

What you're talking about is very esoteric, it's hard to make sense of. Can you share some of your journey so we can better understand what you mean?

Both, they're pretty similar. A market is an interplay of wants and needs being met for a certain price. For someone to date you they are spending their spare time on you so you need to be valuable for them. The degree to which you wanna please people and who you wanna please is up to you my friend. Self-awareness is figuring out what you want and what's gonna get you there. I like sleeping with hot women and dating many of them is my goal as I've laid out in another thread. For me to do that and have a fun lifestyle travelling the world looks is a small part and being financially independent with a large disposable income is a bigger part. Ideally I want to find a corporate sponsor or a rich client that will let me lease their Sunreef 100 for a year and sail across the Mediterranean, Africa and Asia while I host events in multiple countries, network with cool people and start a polycule with the coolest hottest women(and some cute guys) I can find. I have a high drive towards sensuality and aesthetics and I like the fashion and media industry and find politics interesting so spending my life raising my status and thus access to interesting, hot and powerful people is fun and interesting to me. This will take a few years to accomplish but by this winter I want to be out of Canada and be able to live in South America/SEA as a digital nomad full time. That's doable on like $5K/month remote income and when I scale it up I'll head to Europe to actualize that dream above. Most people don't spend the time crafting an appealing and custom life vision and purpose they just react to their limitations and get mad at people living a life better than they do. That seems silly to me.

Pickup artists were doing softmaxxing, most of them talk about refining your appearance as much as you can. They also did peacocking which is trying to wear unorthodox stuff to grab attention and see if it works to their advantage or not. It is genuine science and truth because hypothesis cannot account for all unknown variables so you need to test it in a real environment to get accurate results. For example most experimental drugs act one way in a sterile petri dish and a whole other way in a live organism. It's the difference between a complex and complicated system if we use systems theory. I agree you improve yourself by 3-4 points very easily with all the things I've mentioned in this thread. Why not? The only way that you're separate from your spirit is with your material form and life. Being able to accomplish goals in a separate form is the gift of duality we've been given. To default back to the shield of the perfect higher self is coping and spiritual bypassing IMO. You can also say that the people of the opposite gender are here to experience what reality has to offer. For you to deny that to them and be offended to have to improve yourself to give them a great experience is selfish and egotistical. The whole point of materialism is that it's hard and presents challenges. If you cower from those challenges and call yourself spiritually superior as some people do on this forum I don't think you understand spirituality at all.

Okay I understand, yes the anti andrew tate video was good.

I don't think they traded brazilian and mexican support for the venezuelan operation. It was separate. Seems like Trump is going for the technate i.e. monroe doctrine 2.0 and for Mexico the main issue seems to be threats of intervening on their territory without their approval.

I don't understand this post?