LordFall

No I don't find much value talking to random people. My social energy is limited so I need to be selective otherwise I find myself getting angry at wasting my time and losing time on my goals.

That's fair, knowing your goals is important. I like what you're doing with your game idea and especially the finance field is usually quite lucrative. I like to correct people on this forum in general because their viewpoint seems to be very limited. I'm glad OP vindicated me on this thread but I could've been wrong. The dudes with the scarcity mindset are provably wrong though and it points to a flaw in their own dating strategy. I hope they fix it for their sake otherwise they will be part of the mediocre average.

Yeah that makes sense. I've started going to corporate events on eventbrite to meet more corporate minded women. They're also more logical than the average women so I like that personally. Crypto events have been good too for gen-z type women that are also into finance and money. What's your favorite type of event to meet women?

Sure but by approaching and being respectful I doubt you'll even hook a woman on the street without being particularly charismatic. I think at like a work function or speed dating event that advice could be sufficient but even then you have to be charismatic and interesting otherwise you'll bore an attractive woman with options and only get the more desperate ones.

Yeah I mostly figured out what I wanted to in terms of attracting women. I'm just correcting what you're saying because it sounds misleading to other people.

Yes that's what I said. In my direct experience what you're saying is not true and idealism.

Do you find yourself attracting particularly beautiful and overall high quality women?

I don't think it worst very well, most men are respectful by default and have mediocre dating lives and can't attract a woman that they don't know to save their life. That's the whole idea of the blue pill vs the red pill. Men offering the bare minimum which is having a job and being nice to women doesn't really work that well because the marketplace has globalized in competition and increased in complexity.

You're speaking in generalizations. I've already said I guess maybe but most men don't make compromises on actual real limits. This is what I'm trying to point out. We're debating multiple points or verticals of optimizations you can say. I want my dating life to be basically as perfect as it can be, you don't have to hold yourself to the same standard if you don't want to. We've talked about : 1) Partner attractiveness 2) Partner compatibility 3) The quality of your social circle 4) Your impact as an individual 5) And now we're talking about polyamory and how feasible it is. I am not in a polyamorous relationship so I can only point to the other people that have done it successfully. Sure but if you're single you can pick already optimal partner or growth based partners. It's hard to attract optimal partners so people usually cope and go full sour grapes mode.

Jealousy is very addressable solution in polyamory, it's an emotional intelligence skill as well as a communication one. You have to know your emotional triggers and soft/hard boundaries and how to communicate them to partners. There are whole books written on this. I read ethical slut, its pretty good I recommend it to people interested in the subject. https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/n4gban/the_brief_poly_guide_to_jealousy/ There is also the concept of compersion which is getting joy from seeing your partner happy so your multiple women should be happy to see you fuck the other ones. Some people also take it to you being happy when your women fuck another man. I don't know how I feel about this but I am bisexual so it shouldn't be the biggest deal. I also believe in hierarchal polyamory so if the men are in my polycule and benefitting to my life that's a whole other issue than my women spending their energy on a random dude.

This is a delusional mindset. Everything that's counter-culture has a bad reputation by definition. Pickup is a wide industry as well. Plenty of pickup coaches talk about relationship game as one of the most important things to master so you don't fuck it up with your actual wife when you get one. They talk about it in this polygyny conversation here at 4m40 seconds :

Wow it's almost like the universe is infinite and you have personal limiting beliefs that you keep projecting into our conversations. Self-awareness is key, if someone has some unchangeable life circumstances then they need to be aware of that and if they hire a coach their coach needs to be aware of it. Otherwise most of life is unlimited you just need energy and discipline. I've falsified my position many times. If you're satisfied 10/10 with your dating life then reading about some other dude online who's doing it in a different way than you are will be irrelevant to you. I don't really know anyone who's 10/10 satisfied with their dating life though and in my experience there are glaringly obvious issues they're having. There are some compromises to be had but most men settle way before they hit anywhere near a hard limit they just have bad frameworks to improve their circumstances or their ego can't handle humbling themselves to the process. There are some hard limits like in polyamory there is something called poly-saturation where at some point the more partners you have you get diminishing returns but if you use hierarchical polyamory and you do the children thing with only 1-3 women you can probably add 10+ either play partners or long term companions to you and your main wives.

So true fame game is exponential game. Especially if you own the platform. I knew a club owner that would DM girls from the official club account and invite them to the owner's booth with free unlimited alcohol. His booth always had more and hotter girls than even the best promoters I knew. There is a lot of truth to the saying women wait at the finish line and fuck the winners.

I don't think that's ever optimal. You should try a hair transplant especially if you like younger women. This came up in our friend group with an acquaintance that's balding that decided to shave it all off.

Fuck it I talked to one of my business partners, we're gonna organize a speed dating in Toronto a month from now to test it out. I'll let you guys know how it goes. Really excited I think I'll learn a lot in the process. I think there is a big potential to help the dating scene, it's a disaster worldwide so each time I get pulled away from the dating industry I feel called back to contribute to it.