LordFall

Psychoanalysis is a cool concept to bring into this. Unintegrated sexuality and shame always brings up quite a range of responses from people. That's why I avoid spiritual bypassing, when you talk about direct subjects that rule our world like politics, sexuality and money you expose the parts of reality that still scare most people and their shadows are exposed very quickly. I think that's fine, it's good to break relationships that are not based on alignment sooner rather than later. For someone to be a solid companion to us for many years they need to be self-aware enough to know what they want and have needs and desires that align with our own.

That's super interesting, did you guys talk about it afterwards in depth? What came up for her in that moment? Seems common from what I've researched about polyamory. Common grievances with open relationships on the women's side is they underestimate the intensity of the emotions that come with it and the men regret open up a relationship because they can't get laid while their woman starts sleeping with other men left and right lol

A lot of women want to have them too but they are too shy or just don't know how to make it happen. Some dating coaches like RSD Luke and Michael Sartain base part of their game on getting a bisexual girlfriend and having regular threesomes. I wanna get to that level, seems like a very fun life. Regular polyamorous couples do it as well but because they don't understand game I think it'll be much less often and with less attractive women. When you know game and are in a polyamorous relationship I think a whole new world of dating options open themselves up to you.

I'll let you know in the next few months, should be able to have a threesome by then and maybe even start a throuple. Last time I tried was when I was doing the group dinners and podcasts. I've never had a threesome yet, it's been on my bucketlist for a while. Tried to link 2 of my fuck buddies together a few years ago to make it happen but I stopped seeing one of them before I could make it happen.

Do you find this user to be adding value to your life? You are adding value to his by entertaining his points, giving people free value when they don't offer it back is how you are dragged down into the mud by people that don't make conversations higher level. I see that we are going for the pubic forum angle and back to looksmaxxing and grooming strategies. Personally I like to keep a low vegetation so that the tree has room to shine and leave the crowd in anticipation of the festivities.

Don't respond to low quality perspectives, it only validates them and makes you lose frame. Insults are not a valid perspective to share in a debate, you should not even respond. Be at the cause and not the effect.

I think having strong core values that you stick to is what invites the right kind of women into your life. I hosted a podcast with hot girls talking about their dating and sex life and everyone enjoyed it. I never apologized for my beliefs and stuck true to my identity throughout and some women shit tested me but I'm pretty comfortable with myself and I know what I want so it rarely manages to affect me. I remember two particular incidents while we were throwing events in Kelowna. We host group dinners and invite girls we've never met so they naturally ask us about ourselves and our dating lives. I usually answer exactly like I do here that I want 5 wives and am polyamorous. I've had to learn to calibrate saying this as it is not part of social norms so one time at a wine tour the girls that kind of annoyed at it and started flirting with the guy pouring the wine for us and that was awkward for a few minutes but not too bad. One of the following nights I did it in more of a flirty way and turned it back on them like wait you don't like women? That's weird! I think Millie here likes you though and the girl I mentioned started blushing and it was almost a threesome vibe for a while. I haven't gotten to that point yet but each time I talk about marrying multiple women in front of multiple women it acts as a unstated frame that if it came down to it I would fuck them all so I've found it either gets flirty or awkward real fast lol

Up is where you want to go, your desired life, life purpose and infinite possibilities! You don't have to betray your values to sleep with many women, it's a false dichotomy setup by people that aren't in an abundance mindset and are trapped in society's default dating paradigm.

That's sweet did you get girls dming you from it? If you manage to hit strong numbers on multiple reels then you'll become a local celebrity and can leverage it for your business and life purpose endeavours as well.

Concepts is how we turn bland conversing into masterful and enriching dialogue that leaves both parties feeling like they learned something new. A good guy can have a fun, varied and thrilling sex life, why are we putting ourselves into a corner here?

I'm already quite enlightened lol, you're the one that needs more concepts grandpa!

I would deconstruct the urge. What specifically calls you towards it? Weed is mostly a shortcut to inner calmness due to flooding your brain with dopamine. If you meditate a lot you can find similar peace but it'll just be way harder. I also struggle with a weed addiction and I go on and off by the week. You're not missing out on too much, it's nice but is mostly a coping mechanism.

You don't need to go full MGTOW to be happy lol. Why not work on yourself and solve your core neediness and codependency and in the next 6 months find an awesome girlfriend? Are you on dating apps now?

True on the crypto one, it's not September yet it could still go up a bit but much higher is gonna be a hard hill to climb. I think overall my macroanalysis was mostly correct. I think the K shaped economy one most of all and there will probably be a stock market correction but enterprise and government AI contracts will boom and flourish.

I really like this saying, I think it's quite deep and teaches us a lot about human nature. I don't think it's fundamentally true though. I think psychology goes beyond sex and a lot of men and women live their lives disconnected from their libido and thus life force and don't live their lives based on sex. If we combine sex, companionship, love, identity and power then I think we have a complete reduction of human existence into 5 main concepts though. Love and companionship are two facets of a same concept and identity completes the psychological depth that the adage is pointing to. How do you interpret it?