LordFall

Yeah crypto is tough, some people win big most people lose out. I don't like mentionning Andrew Tate I think he's a dishonest sociopathic rapist. I like more what Tony Huge is doing just living with and dating multiple women and building a cool life together, like a more intentional version of polyamory. I'm not doing it myself at the moment, building up to it. I did regular game back when I lived in Toronto and it was fun but to me at least I ran out of what I could do without a large amount of cashflow and my own systems built. I would just date women and/or FWBs and hangout and that's fun but I wanted more and I felt like I hit a wall in the quality of the women I could attract. Then I started doing photoshoot container events after learning the model from social circle coaches. It's fun but the programs are designed for high income professionals to reinvest their disposable income into their social life to attract more women than they otherwise could. That's not a bad plan but I like the idea of building a business around it and scaling it globally. That's what I'm working on right now. Also with all the models I get I see a common theme where they are down to go to events, photoshoots and shoot content but they have a hard time managing it all by themselves. A lot of modelling agencies are scams and make their money charging the models for expensive shoots. I'm working on my own agency to help them automate a lot of their brand outreach and standardize content production. I think the way Hugh Hefner did it with his setup being buit on top of a media agency is the way to do it to get global reach. It's also quite fun to work with women and "conquer the world" with them so I'll keep going down that path and seeing how it goes. You still need game to optimize it and be in a genuine relationship with the women and not just manipulate them to get what you want. It just structures the relationship in the right way if you come at it from a provider angle after you already have the lover one secured imo. Financial issues are one of the top causes for divorces and even in marriages that stay together a lot of couples are just stressed and barely surviving in life. I think putting the cart before the horse and setting up your business properly is so key to a high level dating life and relationships.

I fear you're gonna get quited bored of programming if you're not particularly into it, it's a very high competition niche now with AI automating a lot of it. If I were you I would probably keep in mind a travel business if that's really your passion. Start it right where you are in California, make videos of the surrounding areas around you and use AI to figure out the highest value travel packages you can sell, I just did one search quickly and it gave me this Napa Valley Wine Tour A lot of times you can call these places and make a deal with them where you become an affiliate for their services and they give you a 20% promo that becomes your margin and then you resell it on their behalf. Or you charge extra for putting a particularly cool tour together. You can also do the opposite and find for a cool tour at the place you want to visit and then make call those places and get the same deal. Now to sell the tours you learn how to take organic b-roll and turn it into engaging organic content. As well as running ads. If it's local you have the adantage of being able to film stuff yourself instead of having to repurpose content that you find online for your own brand. You can also become a tour guide and start a company around that, do like Hollywood tours if you're LA or ideally something more niche and high ticket. Better be high ticket than mass market but doing a lot at the start to learn the industry is fine as well. Buy Alex Hormozi's books and learn what a high quality offer is and how to do lead generation effective. You make money by saving people time or giving them access to something they didn't have before. It's usually done by having an unfair advantage, secret knowledge or just pure willingless to labor so it's easier to do it in something you enjoy doing and thinking about. You can start the pages and the content strategy pretty much this week though a lot of this stuff you can learn how to do on Youtube and it'll be up to you to find a profitabe niche and offer and keep on throwing stuff at the wall until it works and you have something worth repeating. Good luck, you're thinking along the right path. Just study people that have achieved your lifestyle before you and reverse engineer it.

Yeah you are right that building status is harder it takes time. The ceiling is much higher and if you combine it with entrepreneurship then you don't really have a ceiling. I'm still working on my setup daily and it's taking time to actualize to my full vision but everyday closer. It was a dining event we put together last year. How come you don't use Instagram? This Youtube edit is from 2022 and the events I was a part of that year. It kind of shows your point better actually because I have been recreating the access and status I had back then from the ground up since I had access by proxy by being friends with club promoters at that time but now I'm creating it as the sole owner of it and it's harder then I thought but is coming together quite well.

Sure but if we're coming at it from what should men spend their time learning, I think charisma and social skills are important but financial abundance and status are equally if not more important to build and they're usually not talked about as much on here. https://www.instagram.com/p/DI75zcsRAEl/ When you have money you can also buy dating bootcamps, match makers and just pay to host top VIP events so your ease to meet women is much increased.

Are you working on a business now? You can start today and be quite successful in a few years. Every man and woman should work on their own business to become financially independent and be able to share that gift with their friends, family and lovers. I share my own journey on this journal thread here : My philosophy won't work for everyone but it's built on avoiding the mistakes and pitfalls I see others fall into. I don't think I'm self-deceived but feel free to point out some blind spots if you believe they are genuine and not stemming from your own spiritual bypassing.

I mean you can think about it in whatever way you want to. For me I like the harem builder game where I work on my business and date multiple women and subs that live under me and I fund their life and lifestyle while they chill and/or work for me and my business. The problem with not funding their lifestyle is your woman will end up working for another man or a system that probably exploits her and she'll come back home drained and not giving you and your children together her best. I think most women would rather be stay at home moms if their man could afford it but it's become too hard due macroeconomics and thus 90% of men in America can't fund that lifestyle for their partner.

I think it's good to try different stuff from like a test perspective but I wouldn't do it long term, it's more of a gimmick than something that will genuinely raise your value and you'll eventually have to explain that you wear a fake wedding ring to approach women it's a bit cringe. Nofap is good for increasing sexual chemistry, usually when I go out I try to be on 1-2 days of it.

No that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying the more value you offer the more you get in life and the less bitter you are because you get what you want on your terms without exerting waste energy. I'm from Canada and I dated some women where they paid for dates but I didn't like that feeling I rather be able to pay for everything and also I do think you get hotter women this way. I think every job is transactional and sex workers get to the crux of the issue but a baker similarly sells their body to the marketplace to be able to live. If you have a lot of value you are able to create relationships with a wider type of partners. Economic value is the most universal form of value but there are broke funny guys with good quality relationships. Their lives would probably be better if they made more money but that's for them to figure out. For myself the higher status and more money I get the better relationships with hotter women I've gotten. A lot of debates are quite useless if they don't end in you having a higher quality life as a result. How is your dating life going?

I think evaluating the quality of your relationship someone can be in part measured by it's yield, yes. Some people are satisfied with coping with other humans against reality but I rather team up to accomplish our goals. Having sex with them is one way of doing that but you can start a social circle and do music or business together, up to whatever goals you have. Just being friends with them can lead to resentment in some men though which leads to the friendzone meme. Also I wanna separate objectification and a value exchange. You need to offer value to others to live unless your parents are gonna support you and you got a trust fund waiting for you. Mastering value arbitrate lets you do so outside of the usual confines of society, social circle game and social media game are forms of that. Objectification is thinking someone is ONLY their value offering or reducing their identity to strict confines. Haha she came up when I googled girl strawberry cosplay but it didn't hit the visual I wanted, Gemini got my back with this strawberry waifu though. Bro so much of it is tied directly to social capital and status. It's why the passport bro strategy works because you take the exact same dude in the west and put him in south america/thailand and now the macroeconomics switch in his favor and now he's getting laid left and right. Pickup and entrepreneurship are the free market tools that we now have to free us to achieve the financial and dating outcomes that were previously only possible in wild dreams.

No I think that pushes past the rules of reality, or at least I've never seen one

No that's an incorrect use of the term, what I said is valid deductive reasoning. Most men are not successful with women and the sour grapes phenomenon is a documented psychological effect so it stands to reason that most men that dislike women are not successful with them. I think that's true but that stems mostly with men not understanding and making the systems of society work in their favor so they have to expand a lot of energy and feel like a dancing monkey to get laid. Which is a valid point and why I stopped cold approaching for the past few years to focus on social circle and social media game which makes the leverage game finally work in my favor.

Maybe but to a point. Charisma is linked with inspiration and influence. I have had some homeless people with whom I've had a pleasant 5 min chat and then I left and did not want to be near them because they are a living proof that their life philosophy and strategy doesn't produce enviable results. People that are ultimately charistmatic make you want to be near them for a long period of them because they figured out life and your life will be better around them than away from them. Which is why often times it's linked with business leaders, politicians and rebellious figures because they tie their social skills with a grand vision that you should follow them in to get to the promised land. Hitler was a charismatic homeless man which makes sense since he had an ideology and a step of actions to share with the lost men stuck with him at the homeless refuge.

Disliking women is a strong sign of not being good with them and a lack of understanding of social systems. Usually when men dislike women it's because they feel like they are better than them or they're just not getting laid. If you start to understand how the status and dominance hierarchy work and position yourself at the top then women go from adversarial and cold to friendly, collaborative and well very down to fuck you. I would highly recommend you put some work towards figuring that out instead of having a passive-aggressive relationship with women, what an unfortunate place to choose to experience life from. Women oftentimes serve as a universal mirror to point your blind spots and show you where you are weak and not contributing enoug value to other people. Women are obviously much more valuable to your life than strawberries ever will and much more delicious as well.

Sure which is why you should create systems in your life that create an overabundance of value so that you have women and paying customers in abundance. Creating value is hard but quite simple, you just solve people's problems and make their lives more fun. It shouldn't be that much energy when you do it right, that's what building leverage is. Which is why strategies like building a brand and posting content are so effective; you eventually build global leverage with it.

I think it's gonna be quite good, Robert compounds on himself and the concepts he introduced in the 90s he has kept refining in the one I'm reading now so I assume the book on the sublime is gonna be beautiful. Curious how his thoughts on the brutal systems of life, intrinsic beauty and aesthetics will end up reconciling.