LordFall

What were the main points or market realities that got you to pivot? Do you still do music on the side or you're not that interested in it anymore?

So your investment strategy relies on timing the market? Good luck billionaires with 160 IQ and 50 quants working for them don't seem to be able to do it reliably. Most hedge funds do not outperform the S&P 500. Why do you believe in Cryptocurrency fundamentally? Feel free to elaborate on your thesis. Please don't say "Numbers go up"

I'm getting really fucking tired of these winters man, you could perhaps sell me on a Europe lifestyle I just had to stand up for our women. Nah it's not the same. I think that was Osho's move right? Being a community leader and isolating female followers with life problems and telling them you can help and it eventually boils down to get naked so I can massage you to release your energetic blockages and don't worry about my dick being here it grounds my chakra and then blackmailing and kicking out women that aren't into it from the community is different. Pretty close to Harvey Weinstein level of game or the Louis CK naked man move. I believe in using your social circle and brand to be well known in your city, country and then whole world and then just portraying yourself as an guy with sex appeal and publicly owning your sexuality. I have a dating brand where I talk about sex and relationships and I tell pretty much everyone that I want to date multiple women and love bisexual women. I think miss leading people about your intentions is where the problems lie. This is another example where the guy just posts with about being a dom and giving BDSM tutorials. Clearly interested women are gonna hit him up and I'm sure he gets laid from his brand.

How do you feel that fear has impacted your dating life previously and today?

Yes since I broke up with my ex in 2020 I felt like there were some flaws both in my life and my character as a man that prevented me from making that relationship work that I needed to fix to take my next serious relationship past that bottleneck and be able to find a true long term partner to raise kids with. That road has lead to me to focusing on raising my attractiveness as a man, working on my social circle and scaling my business. The overall bottleneck was basically being a weak man that ran away from his problems through that relationship instead of becoming a powerful man that is an asset to myself and others. There are more nuanced specific character flaws I had and some of them are fixed now and some of them I'm still actively working on. How did your last relationship end and what have you learned about yourself from it?

All investment industries are related since the money that goes into all of them is part of global financial liquidity. The 4 year cycle that Bitcoin is known for is based on liquidity cycles. If the AI bubble pops then people will panic and pull their money out of the market as a whole and since crypto is actually quite small compared to the overall investment market(Crypto market as a whole is $2.63 trillion, Bitcoin itself is $1.55 trillion of that, Nvidia itself is $5.2 trillion and the S&P 500 is $70 trillion.) An AI bubble pop leading to a market crash would absolutely wipe the crypto market down to $30K bitcoin and probably below even if overall crypto adoption into the US banking system is still happening.

Yes this is a hilarious dichotomy in nightlife especially for intellectuals or introverted men. Average extraverted woman -> Going to the club is fun and I'm dancing yay fun Average introvert doing pickup -> Going to the club to dance is one of the last activities in the world that would be fun. Hot woman spotted, target acquired, now engaging approach sequence I don't think it's realistic for introverted men to find an aligned parter in a club environment. You can use it to practice game but the odds of finding a girlfriend that you relate with deeply are less than a needle in a haystack. Self-awareness and knowing your personality type is so key. @Miguel1 likes the dance game but that will probably not work for a lot of men on this forum. I feel like I unlocked a cheat code hosting content creation events and photoshoots. It's one of the few environments I can interact with women in a logical mode and mingle with them in a way that adds value to both of our lives. As an INTP it unlocked a new way to game that I never aligned with in terms of nightlife and the club promoter type of social circle game.

LOL I mean Canada is experiencing a homelessness issue I'll give you that. Plenty of hot women in Calgary though, Stampede is filled with a sea of hot blondes, brunettes, etc. If you like particularly latinas though then it won't be the city for you. Yes a lot of attractive women in Canada right now are ukrainian refugees, I would say Ukrainian women were like 30% of the crowd at the events I hosted. Plenty of attractive Canadian women though. There are Latin clubs in Toronto. The bottle girls there are as attractive than any top tier Madrid girl I'd be pretty confident. If you don't do social circle game it's pretty hard to meet and sleep with bottle girls though. I worked at Cactus Club in downtown for a while so I met a lot of servers there and invited them to my events. That one was in Calgary https://www.instagram.com/reel/DIFE8QDxsfj/ And this one in Toronto I find when you host your own events as opposed to like cold approaching in the mall the attractiveness of the women goes up significantly. I actually plan to host some European events next year so perhaps we can connect there in person. Barcelona is one of my destination for Yacht/Modelling events I wanna host in summer 2027 and other places in Italy and the south of France.

Not at all. Fucking a bunch of women is very low drama, you have sex and cuddle and they go home or spend the night and they go home in the morning. Friends with benefits is specifically a low drama arrangement since it's not as emotionally involved as a full on relationship. They came over to my place, I fucked them then we went out for food or went to chill with my friends at festivals in the summer then we went back to my placed again, fucked some more, watched movies/tv shows and cuddled then slept. Then we went our separate ways when things fizzled out or one of my FWBs got a boyfriend while we were seeing eachother. Another one was actually too boring and we just chilled, fucked and played video games together which would've been my dream relationship at 15 but I got bored of it real fast. That's why I like more influencer type women, artistic women or corporate women now, I'm trying to conquer the world with my women not play call of duty mobile. My personality type is grounded and intellectual so if one of them raised an issue I don't usually get triggered my default response is like "Huh, tell me more about this" so I tend to be pretty good at interpersonal conflict resolution.

What? Lmao what did I just witness in real time. You just completely pivoted your point and what you were arguing before as I deconstructed it. Obviously I think you are right with this new comment but that wasn't your point at all previously.

Would you want to achieve something like that yourself? Don't give me the lazy answer you want a relationship more than sex. You can have sex with many attractive women and still look for and find an incredible relationship. It's a false dichotomy men on this forum often use for some reason. A lot of those women I met on dating apps that's why I started this exchange saying that I think your aversion to them is short sighted my friend.

No, it's building an incredible life. Having many amazing women being part of it both sexually and platonically as friends and associates is part of that of course.

Where do you see desperation? I like effectiveness and it's gotten me great results so I'm tripling down on it. I think your mindset and what you say in regards to dating are probably not effective so I'm curious if I'm wrong.

Got it. I asked you to elaborate and you seem unable to do so and your responses are always short and defensive it seems. What's up with that?

Trends are not the same thing as racism. I'm half black, my dad is fully black from Chad and so I'm a first generation immigrant. When I walk at night and a group of black dudes walk past me I feel more anxiety than if a group of woman walk past or if a group of asian men do it. Don't gaslight yourself into ignoring how reality is currently. It doesn't give you a open card to be racist and rude to people but avoiding reality is part of the reason stage green is so ineffective in the world because they use their feelings to invalidate reality. Doesn't work. It's a nuanced topic because stereotypes are not foolproof. The other way I was walking downtown and this white french chick with a group of dudes basically like swung at me randomly to impress her friends I guess? Sometimes life is just random lol

Got it so you're not interested in dating attractive women, you just like to chit chat with random people? I'm confused about your dating strategy and past experience my guy and you never seem to elaborate on it.

Your moral outrage is the thing that's disgusting. These trends that can be observed. Men and women have different psychologies and sociological strategies. They tend to be more collective than men. It apparently shows up in cases like this. Pointing this out is factual evidence. Being a triggered social justice warrior is anti-intellectual cringe. It's not about a culture war; it's about accurately understanding reality and making sure we don't fall for cognitive bias and cultural ideology that's not favourable to us as individuals. Falsely stereotyping people is a completely different phenomenon than reacting to what people are literally posting themselves and literal surveys that are coming out where women are backing her up over him because they relate more to the female experience than a random man. Women having a lack of empathy for men is a documented phenomenon. Men care more about women than women care about men. Plenty of hard data that backs this up. What you're doing is called benevolent sexism, it's also a documented phenomenon. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ambivalent_sexism https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect There is a phenomenal book written on this topic by a woman called the Manipulated man. Clearly you should read it.

What kind of results would you say that's getting you?

North America is much more capitalistic than Europe. If you don't have a good social circle you will be barred from the nightlife environment that the attractive women go out to. Bottle service culture is big in most cities here. If you don't know a club promoter you have to pay $1500-3000 to get a table and bottles to host women. Yacht culture is big in the summer as well. That's part of why I like social circle game so much. You can meet the right guys to get you access to the right places and then host your own events. If you do only street cold approach then I'm sure Europe is 5x better yeah.

You should approach them yourself! Everyone should get a girlfriend, women are great. No the default coping mechanism of men when they have anxiety or no success is to blame the environment or the women. I was out with my friend in Calgary a few months ago in a very busy bar with dozens of beautiful women and he said man there are no girls here we should leave. I had to literally physically shake him and tell him bro you're coping and lying to yourself. Describe in words to me literally the beautiful woman you want and I will walk around this venue myself and find your type and you will approach her. It worked he realized he was lying to himself and just scared to talk to them.

You seem to have extremely fragile confidence and a sense of self that just collapsed when your arguments were pushed back on. Typical for sheltered religious men to have a weak mind because they are submissive to daddy religion. Pre-rationality in action in a nutshell. I pity you. To start flipping out and painting me as narcissist once again shows your lack of intellectual integrity. I feel like I'm arguing with a child. I'm done with you. Good luck in life little buddy.

Good for you bro, happy you're liking Madrid better. I gotta back up Toronto though as you're saying nonsense, where exactly were you hanging out? King street and queen street in downtown has hundreds of beautiful women walking at almost all times of day in the summer. Women in Toronto have very high standards and its a status oriented city though. I had good success but I was tight with club promoters that took me into their social circle so that helped. King Street in the weekends has so many girls you don't even need to get into a club to cold approach.

Do you want to be a victim? Masculine accountability is a good thing. Do you want the moral support of random people or do you want inner strength and the ability to build unlimited leverage and power? Nothing great comes from a victim mindset. Talk to Gemini it'll help you make sense of your breakup and set goals to build a better life. You can find some more hippie circles that will tolerate and welcome you crying about your feelings and being vulnerable but in my experience those people actually won't have any solutions for your problem and they lack strength of character and ambition so it's not a valuable crowd to hang around anyway. Be careful with people that validate your vulnerability; it's sort of a faustian bargain. That's my view at least.

It's normal to feel upset when someone makes better points than you. It shows a true lack of intellectual integrity and weak character as a man and human being though.

You seem that you're not that successful at dating and being stuck in outdated paradigms is not helping your case man. 40% of couples meet on dating apsp these days. Feel free to date however you want but being rigid like this is not gonna get you better results anytime soon. If you have a decent profile you can go on a date each week from dating apps. When I was in my serial dating days sometimes I would go on 2 dates a week. Hard to get these results elsewhere unless you're gonna dedicate your life to cold approach or being a club promoter.