LordFall

Money is vital for lifestyle quality. I don't want my women to need to work for example. I agree fame is great for attracting many attractive women overall. If you're famous and have location independent cashflow that's playing the dating game on easy mode.

Are you talking about your own personal feelings or the basis of it being a valid critique? That's more so the latter I was talking about. Your feelings are your own.

Sure I think it's a totally valid dating strategy. Treat people well wherever you date them but foreign women are beautiful and fun as well. Especially when things get long term I don't think there's any ground to judge people based solely on having a global dating strategy. Colombia is a common country for this as well as Argentina. Going to a place with weaker currency is one strategy but making a lot of money and doing the reverse strategy is equally valid. I feel like Dubai would have very cool women for example. I'm a bit unique in that I don't mind transactional women, I had a multimillionaire sugar daddy as a business partner for a bit and he was telling me that the women you meet through sugar dating are much higher quality than what people stereotype them for. Getting rich and dating the best women across the world is for sure the best dating strategy there is. Anything else is a stranger idea. You can do it in your own country but the world is so big might as well explore what it has to offer.

I think it's totally fine to have your own boundaries wherever you want but linking the concept to red pill negativity is just not true. Academics use it all the time. There's a few good books on it that help deconstruct the concept. The Red Queen by Matt Ridley on Leo's book list talks about hypergamy extensively for example. There's assortative mating that's basically looksmatching and dual-mating strategy as well. A lot of these terms are used in the red pill but they are just observed phenomenons by researchers over time.

Easier to support multiple women over there. I think it'll work for your brain that the women in your harem are new when you fuck them on a rotation especially because you wouldn't be seeing most of them daily. Let alone if you travel with women and fuck new women together. I think if you make decent money it'd be pretty easy to pull this off. My game is pretty good now so I think it'd be pretty easy for me to make this happen. The financial component is most of what I'm working on at the moment. My business is just starting to look like it's gonna start to pump out online cashflow consistently. Having sex 2-3 times a day for multiple decades seems feasible to me. I have a way higher sex drive than most men though. Usually when I sleep with a girl and I'm really attracted to her I can go 3-4 times each time we see each other easily.

They appreciate the effort though and then you can switch to english. They also are more tight night in terms of friend groups. Clavicular is used to Miami where offering women to the club works really well, I think that's more common in North America. It's common in Toronto as well. He should've hosted his own events and invited women and their friends and he would've gotten laid easily especially if he did multiple across days and reinvited women since hookup culture is less extreme in Paris than in Miami.

Yeah you can, it's documented extensively across both humans and different species https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

I will actually make a video critiquing Clav's game I think there's a lot for people to learn. An easy one is when dating abroad at least learn a few lines from the other countries language. He tries to speak to french women only in english that's kinda rude.

Hypergamy is often used derisively to shame women but I think it's a healthy drive. Like I said without women with high standards we'd still be living in caves or in a big field. It's not a red pill concept originally it's documented science in terms of evolutionary psychology. Women tend to like men that earn more than them or at the same point at them. Men tend to mate across and down. These are statistical trends not true for everyone. @Valach I agree I think frame control is a useful concept to understand so people don't use it on you in unhelpful ways. In general having collaborative frame is the way to go or I like to think the win-win mindset.

I mean the Coolidge effect is a documented thing. If you have access to many women sexually then your libido will be much higher than a man with only access to one mate. Women love sex too especially if they're not stressed all the time. 7 is a lot though that guy is a legend. I think they all live in his house too. I like the having hierarchical polyamory where you only liv with 2-3 primary partners and then have other ones that either have their own partner or are single. I read this harem game blog series a few years ago it was interesting to read a breakdown of a guy that had something like that. His was compartmentalized though the women didn't meet each other. His biggest conclusion is that societal shame will be your biggest problem to making work. https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-build-harem-pt-1-queen-theory

I would say more it's a cultural narrative and partly brainwashing but mostly it's an efficient system for humans to mate as a whole. When you don't enforce it by social shame though it people tend to be more serially monogamous as in date multiple over years but one at a time or have more various arrangements depending on their lifestyle preference. Some polyamorous people live as like multiple men and women in a polycule in one household. I'm not saying that's polyamory is for everyone just that monogamy is not perfect either. Standard monogamy assumes one single human being can and should fulfill 100% of your emotional, intellectual, romantic, and operational needs for a lifetime, while rigidly suppressing natural biological variance. I think it shows that you're projecting a lot of your beliefs into the situation and judging people without knowing much about them without knowing about the actual reality. Tony has children with multiple of the women in his harem. They are not prostitutes they are women he's met over there organically or on dating apps.He's intertwined his full life with these women and to my knowledge most of them are happy and having a good time. I'm sure there are problems in their relationships and it does come up but he has the bravery to put himself out to the world and show the good and bad sides of his relationships. If a lot of perfectly ordinary monogamous people put their whole lives on the internet some problems would appear as well I'm sure. Tony is a particularly out there case he's like a full scientist and love to push his life to the limit he's really into body building and biohacking. I don't envision myself building exactly a life like him but it is cool to see someone work on his life enough to become financially independent and travel the world and be able to live his hobbies and passions and invite other people into it. Andrew Tate is a whole other case entirely. He has multiple women accusing him of rape and coercion and he documents himself online admitting to scamming his own women on taxes and working hard to to rinse men of tens of thousands of dollars by lying to them through his webcam girls.

@Valach If he can live according to his values and impact the causes he care about then yes sure I'd say he has fulfilled his stage orange needs in the business and impact areas of stage orange. Someone who is Stage yellow is continuously self-improving and building systems that allow his or her to have an impact on the world. They can use the tools of Orange to do so. I think a good litmus personally for stage yellow is when one does not judge the stages above it or has a strong reaction to them. The pickup part of stage orange is to me a great way for a man to bridge his gap between a stage blue dating system with the people he has organically met through his life and then when you learn to go out attract people independently of that that's more like orange, when you do it with integrity and looking for win-win situations thats stage green and when you build your own systems to work for yourself and others then that's stage yellow. Thinking about those ideas is one thing and actually living them in a day to day is another. Different people have different visions for their goals and what people they wanna align with to make that happen so it looks different for different people.

That's a limited explanation of frame. Your frame is your view of the world, the framing in which you operate and interact with others. If you don't care you can hack frame because you're not invested in what people say or do but obviously that will lead to some roadblocks in your life. Frame control is when you dictate the interaction in that it operates inside your view of the world and not that of another person's.

Thinking the values and embodying them in reality are different things. In the spiral dynamics video I think on Stage Orange mention that you can be a dude that cares about people but working as an aerospace engineer at RTX Corporation making missiles that kill people. In my opinion your thoughts are cool but you are mostly the impact that you have on the world. So if you can't build your own personal power then you can't really move past stage orange no matter how many cool Stage Turquoise mystical experiences you've had. You're gonna sober up, have to get back to work and do whatever your boss tells you to do or choose to exist outside the system like a homeless guy or an amish guy or whatever other model people come up with. In my opinion the power of the model lies in how it describes both people and societies. If we do not move the whole world towards better systems then doesn't matter how many people with a superior perspective there are, it will still be materialistic and violent. How you change the world starts with how you spend your time each day and then eventually what organization you build around yourself to scale your impact. > Or if @Leo Gura for some reason decides to quit his work around actualized.org and goes back to game development, does that mean he regressed back to orange? If he's stuck by the confines of money then in a sense yes. You can become very financially free with game development and make games that impact people towards powerful change and to improve their lives and not just rince them of their money and time. I don't see why you can't be a stage yellow and above game developper. I'm trying to do this with my own game Legend of the abyss, check it out here! One of my core concepts with this project is that web 2 entertainment companies trade the money and time of their viewers for money. I think with a web 3 approach you can help empower people and give them financial abundance from playing your game. As well as having some learning elements in the game that are based on real history and our real reality instead of learning about Mordor or the Galactic Empire.

Lol im seeing your perspective explode in real time I love it bro! I mean watch the video he says he lost some weight and gained confidence to go after what he truly wanted in life. Society is very stuck in its paradigms but that’s not the only way to live. Humans are not monogamous by nature. They’ve had to enforce it quite harshly to make it stick. If you provide a good environment for women you can get a massive amount of them. It’s unclear where the limit is, brave men must experiment and figure it out!

Totally. I think there are a few ways to look at it but when you provide genuine value women will be a lot more forgiving of your shortcomings. If you are creating a cool lifestyle for the both of you and you get stressed and burnout then your girl will cuddle you and make you feel better and you'll be energized to conquer the world for her. If you're stuck in complacency and slowly let yourself slide over years then she will start to resent and ultimately be disgusted by you. Of course the maturity of the woman matters here but what you are building as a man will be the core of it for sure. That's why I have problems with the just being frame in terms of dating philosophy. Just be yourself and confident and women will love you! Cool bro aren't you God if you believe in non-duality? Where is this great life you're building? If people use their identity as a shield from competence and real world results then actually that does speak very clearly as to who they are. This is what I call spiritual bypassing. This works best in terms of social circle game I find. That's when you can really actualize stage yellow into your dating life. For example when I throw photoshoots with models I usually get exhausted in the middle of them since I'm an INTP. It's a lot of effort to plan and coordinate and on the day of make sure people are there on time and happy and everything is running smoothly. When it passes a certain critical point though I tend to just go outside on the patio, smoke some weed relax and basically ignore the event. Usually some girls come and talk to me and smoke with me. The friction starts to work in my favour whereas if you don't have a system and are a random burnt out guy then well nothing happens you're just sad.

Instagram is like a resume and is the core of your brand outreach. Youtube is the highest ROI and where you get the most loyal fans/customers due to long form content. Twitter is cool if you can get a foothold on it, lots of ways to connect to the startup/finance/gamedev ecosystem on there.

Why guilty? Do whatever works dafuck lol. If you mean that you're scared that you'll run into some more complicated issues later on that vibe coding can't fix that's another thing but make your dreams come true fuck whatever the AI naysayers think.

Good stuff brosky congrats! I still have not finished high school to this day lol. I dropped out in grade 11 when I started making money playing League of Legends and then went back to adult classes and finished it and did half of grade 12 and then dropped out to start a web design business after I got the tai lopez SMMA course. Formal education will make you a living, self-education a fortune . Hard af though I don't have my fortune yet but each day closer.

In my experience those women tend to be very loyal and appreciative of the quality men they find because they are disappointed by what most men have to offer. @integral There are plenty of co-op businesses, most of them fail and are not competitive against corporations because it's not an efficient way to produce value in reality. Capitalists are not taking your property, they are making it. You don't make phones, they do. There are plenty of products without subscriptions, usually they suck. Resources should not be pulled together in a business that's a terrible way of doing things. Employees always think CEOs are useless. That's delusion, technically everyone is a CEO. Everyone should start their own business and see how hard it is. When you run your own business you dictate how much you get paid. You can pay yourself $1,000,000 tomorrow, just go sell a $1M product or service to someone. I've went to many communist events. A bunch of smart people with a lot of good knowledge that are very delusional and lack critical thinking skill. If you have time to be part of a communist organization and meet each week to read communist theory together here is an idea, start a business around it and make it very profitable and since you like giving money away give it all away! Most of them don't get to step one let alone being an actually skilled business person or executive. @Schizophonia I see it the other way, first of all there are always an abundance of women for any man who actually works on himself and puts the work in. For the men that don't though I would be saving women of having to date a low value male so all parties win. @Miguel1 No I disagree, there shouldn't be really any other man higher value than you at your own game if you're systemizing it well. In the plan that I proposed you where you are self sufficient entrepreneur with a homestead that's well developed and a fascinating human being to be around there are very few men on earth if any that can offer a superior experience to the women that cater to that. Any random billionaire will just be a random nerd that doesn't process emotions well. Any athlete will be a dude that can't really offer her the same experiences you can. If you check the right boxes value is quite hard to replicate. Also there becomes sunk cost where if a dude can offer the same thing then there is the risk of branch swinging in and of itself where by betraying you she doesn't guarantee his commitment. Even if she does get it she doesn't have the shared bond that you have. When women ditch their partners for hypergamous reasons the difference in value tends to be quite severe and they've tried to make it work for a while but their partner refuses to improve. Case and point with this post where she tried to make it work and communicate her issues and fix them and her bf was gaslighting her that he's a great communicator and she must be the problem.

Of course they know about eachother. Trust is very important in ethical non-monogamy, you should never lie to your women. Guys do it in different ways. The most interesting example I've seen is Tony Huge. He's doing it in Thailand and is a bodybuilder really into biohacking so he gets all his girls to workout and be really healthy and he made a reality show out of it. Google is trying to sabotage harem game so they took it down but here is Episode 1 on Rumble https://rumble.com/v78sdmw-building-the-perfect-girlfriend-the-tony-huge-biohacking-experiment-episode.html If you do it around a common objective it seems to make more sense and if the women are aligned with the goal they also work with you to make it happen, cool setup.

Of course, it's easier to take care of children with more women in the house. They help each other with the housework as well. And if they're bisexual even more fun. You work hard on business and provide. This is truly the best life I believe.

No I think communism doesn't work because it's a bad idea and it doesn't understand human nature or biology. Sexual selection is one of the top primary driver behind status competition. If women selected for the most passive, lowest-status, least-resourced men, male behavior would instantly shift to match that incentive structure. The competitive drive to build, accumulate, and dominate would completely vanish pretty quickly. Karl Marx forgot to consult the cavewomen. And the animal kingdom. It's not anything to do with human females, most animal species do this. Seals take up a whole beach and mate with 60 females if they win the battle. It's why christianity was such a stabilizing force for human civilization. Without enforced monogamy some males hoard up all the resources and the females.

Well communism relies on the premise that human beings will willingly flatten all competitive hierarchies and distribute resources perfectly equally, removing the drive for individual status. That could expect for the fact that women reward the exact opposite. So in a way even here when people tell me to stop trying and working so hard I feel gaslight by my competition. It's so much fucking work to put in to create events and media and cool stuff but it does get rewarded by women. That's why I do it otherwise it would be insanity to keep up. Communism is like all the unsuccessful men trying to convince each other to stop working hard. Except when you stop working hard your life gets worse. It's a reductionist view but it looks at core human incentives. Even if all humans on earth got $3000 USD/month with AI UBI singularity the women would still gravitate towards the dudes that got more scarce resources. I think if women had low standards we'd still be living in caves today, it's the mechanism that drives most of evolution. Dudes would fight here and there but there would be no reason to go to another cave and take out the dudes there to get double the caves. Now I'll get a summer cave though cavewomen love that. Natural selection baby

Yeah I would target ads towards these countries below and maybe even in general the richest cities in the world and pitch travel packages. You can't really sell high ticket to locals I imagine they got cheaper ways to find cool stuff.