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You could call complaints like this perfect natural selection. All our history has been forced to adapt to reproduce and survive. The black plague was not that long ago with half your village dead on the street and dudes were like alright we're gonna make it fuck it let's still get it and here we are. It's even more brutal in the animal kingdom. A cute girl with headphones is what's gonna stop your bloodline? I think not. Go get them cowboy. I recommend doing this newbie challenge it progressively acclimates you to bolder and bolder approaches. Think about it, how fucking boring is social media? I guarantee you that you can outcharm tiktok. Practice a few teasing gambits and banter. Modern women are dying to get seduced. If you go into interview robot mode though then of course anything is gonna be more useful than her having to exert energy to answer boring questions. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/

I mean if you're asking for my personal opinion 1) Obviously all men aren't trash perhaps only those who consistently inflict pain on those weaker than them. 2) Economic equality is a complicated subject that has to do more with macroeconomics and sociology than gender really. Men oppress eachother as much as they oppress women. It's the history of civil rights that feminism also belongs to. 3) Some men are loyal some aren't just like women. 4) Not true, in some aspects sure but most men I know aren't doing particularly well and for example now in terms of education and I think median income women in the west are doing better. 5) I don't think men fear strong women they dislike difficult women that create problems for no reason. Or they do sour grapes and hate on women they can't get . 6) Obviously not all men cheat I've never cheated and a lot of guys I know haven't as well. Truly a lack of character to cheat on the person closest to you, I wouldn't trust that kind of guy in business. 7) I agree with that one the most. Emotional mastery is complicated and something I struggle with daily to this day. Anxiety is a big one and misidentifying it and turning it into anger is common for me and other guys I know. Most women are also emotionally underdeveloped though.

It's a nuanced answer. Depends how you want to look at it. I think you shouldn't care what random people care about you and just reverse engineer the life you want. I agree that most men are underdeveloped yes but then so are most women so it's an irrelevant point. Men are trash. Men are the reason that equality hasn't been achieved Men aren't loyal Men as a class are completely privileged Men fear strong women All men cheat (This one is my personal favorite) Men are emotionally underdeveloped I'm just not really sure what some random women on an internet forum has to do with me building a harem with the most beautiful and coolest women I've ever met. I hope they use AI to fix their mental health and/or whatever other resources they have access to also achieve whatever goals they have is the end of my thoughts on men hating femcels really.

On what point precisely? I agree that most of a man's dating issues are self-inflicted yes. Up until you're an adult you're a result of your environment but nowadays with all the knowledge online you can definitely build whatever dating life you want. What action are you gonna take today to improve your dating life? I just moved to a new city and am currently broke and looking for a job and stressed with some health issues and I will still be continuing my cold approach challenge today. Feel free to join me and do it as well. The newbie guide I linked in that post is a phenomenal way to get into cold approach if you've never done it before. Each day that you fail to take action is one less stone in your empire my brother.

Don't take this the wrong way bro I love you and want you to become your most powerful best self. The whole problem with inceldom is self induced powerlessness IMO as someone who was one in my teens. You cannot equate women writing mean things on the internet about men to getting hit in the face with a lead pipe. That's insanity. Especially because a lot of times the women aren't writing it at men they're just emoting and sharing their feelings with what they hope is other women. Sticks and stones may break my bones But words will never hurt me. Another way to look at it is one of the core pickup principles is get better not bitter. Learn some game and go date 1-3 hot women, any other solution is coping fundamentally tbh. I made a whole thread on social circle game, I spend years learning that shit and spend thousands on some of the worlds best coaches on it. Trust me that will help more than any sort of complaining about women. If you just came in your perfect 10 this week I don't think you would've made this post.

Isn't that specifically a perfect textbook example of ego backlash? If you're a jew serious about deconstructing anti-Semitism and understanding the story of your people and those who opposed them, wouldn't Mein Kampf be at the top of your list? I think if you're a man that loves women you should specifically familiarize yourself with feminist literature. It's basically the story of your favorite group of people on earth no? If you're afraid of it it and attacking it out of hand it doesn't say much about women more that you feel powerless and attacked and don't understand why. I personally found it just as interesting as reading pickup advice or red pill philosophy. Lets you understand the sphere of gender interactions much better and ultimately bond with women more effectively.

The chemistry is usually done when you meet the girl in person. Sure do a few texts but for example if you literally don't know the girl as she's from online dating the sequence should be opener -> she responds -> banter for 1-2 lines -> ask her out. You basically never build chemistry over text in 80% of texts IMO from my own life experience and all the men I've known from many game communities it'll most likely bore her if she's a girl with a regular social life. If you're like on eharmony or meeting women through Reddit or something out of the norm then disregard this advice I have no idea how that works.

Just edited and released the vlog of the photshoot! Let me know if you guys have any questions on how to throw these types of events yourselves or other types of events and what the strategy behind it is.

Someone added me on Instagram and asked me social circle questions and I figured I'd make a post about it since that's been my area of focused for the past 5 years. Social Circle game is one of the most powerful way to gain value as a man and meet women because it recreates the original tribal/communal dating strategy but on your own terms. You're in no doubt in many various social circles already or possibly just friend groups(I define social circle as group where all the members gain transactional value from eachother unlike a friendgroup where a lot of times it's actually negative sum) but you're probably at the effect and not at the cause of them. The most powerful type of social circle is one that has some type of professional/business component to it because it can then tie into an overall lifestyle design strategy and combine business and pleasure unlike let's say an AI engineer that can make $30k/month WFH and not know a single woman. The goal of this social circle will be to create mutually beneficial activites that you host on your own turff(notice how a nightclub is a private venue owned by a group of men that charge you for entry, and for drinks and for bottle service for the privilege of courting the women they assemble) and to include that as a foundation of your dating and social life. The main leverage point of this social circle is to position you as a leader in a group of people(and of course attractive women) so that you're in a better position to hit on them without being gatekept, other guys having higher status than you or HR terminating your source of income. The second leverage point is to make female teammates from your social circle. These are women with which you have goals in common that you can transactionally help you achieve. This can be you going to events together and them getting you status/access and you helping them make connections, can be you supporting their projects they have as their own girlfriends tend to be lacking in that type of support, etc. Good example of this is Dan Bilzerian has a model manager named Masha Diduk who recruits models for his company Ignite and saves him from having to manually DM all the girls and who's probably gotten him laid hundreds of time. Myself I am a photographer that has hosted photoshoots with many models(shoutout to Luke Krogh and Michael Sartain for putting me up to this) and am now transitioning into operating my own media/modelling agency. Other examples that can work wonders for this can be a run club, entrepreneur club, investing group, college parties, parties in general, group travel, book clubs, etc. The key to this is to not fake it til you make it. You must create an actual group that offers genuine value to people and not try to pull girls on day 2 before anything of substance has been created. Think of the reaping too early before you've sowed enough and you've beared fruits. I'll write another post or update this one with Social Circle 102 on how to find a lot of women to invite to your social circle. In 2020 I moved to downtown Toronto and had the chance to live with and work with a few club promoters and learned their secrets. The teaser I'll give is it's mostly like sales.

I would try remote income, there's a few types of gigs like customer support, data triage/labelling, virtual assistance, or content moderation that are fully remote. You could also try carpooling networks. If there's facebook groups near you try that or marketplace. If you enter a relationship in a financially vulnerable position looking to manipulate someone usually that ends up in a toxic relationship with perhaps abuse against you as people can feel themselves being gaslit. There are also jobs where coworkers can pick you up type of thing and you give them gas money. If you're asking this I assume you don't have family that can assist you but if so that would then obviously be the first thing to try.

Love yourself and then find a great woman/man. It's a skill issue nothing to do with Hollywood. What part of it was so hard for yo?

Just visualize yourself as a caveman when you fuck. Our ancestroys have been fucking women since the dawn of time. It's what we're here for. Man fuck

I dated a BPD girl for about a year and she cheated me a couple of times throughout. I did cocaine and even meth with her. If I didn't move cities across the country I probably would be dead by now. I think a lot of it comes from self-esteem and abundance mindset. I was lonely and lived a boring life without her. First woman I loved and hopefully not the last. Boundaries are very important, now I have a very short patience for people that don't add value to my life. I'm both more confident in my own value and skillset now and not willing to be miserable for the sake of someone that's not gonna help themselves anymore.

@Lila9 Yeah that's fair. My only caveat would be to say that the patriarchy is not an unnatural system. It's just the extension of the dominance hierarchy of the animal kingdom. Kill or be killed or be enslaved basically. I do think it's time that we rise above it and finally bring our species globally towards stage green values. It's funny because I'm quite sure AI will have a lot to do with it. Women's rights increase dramatically the more stability the state has and the more effective law enforcement is. I think perhaps now we have gone full circle to @mr_engineer's point not in terms of both being hateful ideology but fundamentally both being about being able to thrive and be fulfilled and how hard that is in our current society no matter your gender. Interestingly Stage Yellow is the first stage that really combines both feminine and masculine polarity. Also I think a lot of inceldom has to do with fundamental immaturity and a lack of integration of stage blue and stage orange. A well integrated stage orange individual should have no issue dating as they have figured out how to be interact effectively with the markets that they are in.

What is the patriarchy to you? It sounds to me like you're lumping all of feminism together when it's separated by waves. 1st-3rd wave feminism seems way more legitimate to me than 4th wave feminism that we have today which is mostly femcels/anti-establishment socialists.

Sure you don't have to try it if you don't want to. Just realize that a lot of the shame comes from conformity and group think and if you accept the world that we do here and that fundamentally the whole universe is the same as you then no shame should come from sexuality or much of anything else apart from the wounding of others. The fact that sexuality is probably the most shamed concept on the planet but the most intimate is a deep insight as to the nature of what low consciousness entails. Not just in the way of you being ashamed if you wanna try some dick but also there's plenty of women afraid and uncomfortable with their own vagina let alone sexuality as a whole.

Posture is very powerful, it does literally change your state of mind. Kind of like when you're sad or depressed if you force yourself to smile your brain will release endorphins and it'll help you feel better. It's not the only thing but it definitely lowers your self-esteem to have bad posture. Dominant posture if you're a single straight male is especially powerful. There are often times I've noticed recently when I have quite good posture girls with boyfriends on the metro will eye me up and often times I see their boyfriends with a slouched back, they literally look defeated I almost want to tell them Bro straighten that back imma take your girl if you keep standing like this!

Trans women can be really attractive, here's Hunter Schafer from Euphoria. Also most of them won't have bottom surgery but even so penises are not that scary, society has a huge phobia on that but it doesn't really make sense. I had my first bi experience recently was pretty cool, I'd recommend testing it if you're inspired to try new things in your dating/sex life.

100%. A lot of guys try to seduce a woman through text. It's basically chit chat nonsense that almost fundamentally can't do anything but lower her attraction towards you. Unless you're extremely suave at it then some guys are able to get some sexting going on and get the girl pent up to see them but that's clearly not what you're doing here. I would mostly let her be the one to message you if she's in the mood to chit chat and leave it at teasing and don't ask questions because you want her to open herself up to you in person. If she does it over text it's gonna be boring for her. "Whats been making you happy recently?" "Where do you wanna travel next?" "What are you looking forward to when visiting those countries?" "Are you always spontaneous or just with travel?" That's what I would aim to cut out. I would just ask her when she's free and do all that in person. Sometimes voice memos can work a bit better than just text but also not great. This of course changes if you're actually dating and she's your girlfriend but that doesn't seem to be the case. My feedback was for the courting stage. Also it sounds dumb but get AI to analyze your text. It's emotional intelligence is actually surprisingly high and it'll tell you stuff you hadn't considered. Here's what Gemini had to say about it.

You have to differentiate people venting online vs complex critique of the systems in our society. There are many in which women didn't really have rights until the last century and for example until 1965 couldn't open a bank account and manage property without their husband's consent. Marital rape not being recognized as a thing also being one. Also to this day in other countries women's rights are not great. You can also say that in general civil rights were not defended for men as well up until the 60s as well in the states which is a fair point. Now we go back to people venting on the internet and this is where I agree with you that it's basically a loser mindset from both men and women that are failing to get the life they want and instead of having the humility to get into self-development they will trash whatever is the source of their pain. Incels blame women, "feminists" blame men(considering incel means involuntarily celibate I would argue those feminists you talk about land right in the incel category too as femcels though) and you also have reddit left wingers/socialists/anti work people that blame rich people and the government for their lack of personal finance. Fundamentally it stems from a victim complex and learned helplessness.

If you're watching porn regularly that definitely doesn't help. Optimally for sex you'd wanna be on 1-2 weeks of nofap. That gets you to the point where you can fuck 2-3 times in a row no problem. Also helps if you're really attracted to the girl and not just like she's okay and you're sleeping with her because you don't really have other options. I literally took a 3 year break from sex because I realized I needed to level up to attract the women I was really attracted to and the last girl I fucked before then was just not it and I understood why my dick was not really into it. Regular meditation also helps, it lowers anxiety and being in your head and helps you connect to your raw primal sexual energy.

Immersion challenges are one of the top ways to make drastic improvement in a short time. I've always wanted to do a full on 30 day challenge but always procrastinated it. Ideally I wanted to wait to be a full on digital nomad with business income so I could do it stress free but I just moved to Montreal and the women are gorgeous here so I figured might as well start the process now. I'm gonna do this newbie starter variation from the GirlsChase forum since my cold approach is rusty and go from there. I like his idea that he presents in his blog here where overall all you need is to talk to 4 new women daily to overhaul your dating life in 30 days. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/ https://www.girlschase.com/content/can-you-approach-4-girls-day-30-days My personal weakness when it comes to this stuff is I tend to overationalize(I'm an INTP) and avoid talking to the women I truly want. I've been on a few years monk mode working on levelling up myself outside of dating so now I think is a good time to bring it back. I did day 4 of the challenge yesterday which was saying Hi to 6 women. I did about 8, felt good. There was a habs games yesterday with a lot of women wearing hockey jerseys so I used that as a crutch to do a few opens that worked probably the best, goes to show the power of rapport. Already a lot of lessons from the simple saying hi challenge, for example when walking around one of the best opportunities is stopping at street lights. I thought it would be really awkward because if it goes bad you both have to stand awkwardly and wait for the light to turn green but I did it it once and it wasn't that bad. I told this girl wearing a cool outfit that I liked her style and she said thank you; if anything I should've kept the conversation going since she smiled and gave me an IoI(played with her hair afterwards) but I'm trying to not pressure myself too much early on since that tends to loop me back into overthinking. I encourage everyone in the forum looking to actually change their dating life to do the same challenge. I see a lot of questions asked where it's obvious that taking action is the main answer. I'm gonna document the results in my obsidian notes, might share it as well in the journal section of the forum if there's interest in learning from my experiences.

Appreciate it guys, so far so good about to head off for day 4. Yeah I'm about to hit 31 and I do have decent results from other avenues but I always felt like there was something missing. The more I do the cold approach challenge the big insight I'm having is I've always been fundamentally scared of the women I truly desire. Most of my experiences have been taking what's there either women hitting on me or just whatever matches I get on dating apps. The women that really amazed me out and about though I would subconsciously avoid like the plague and I'm still getting to the bottom of it but there is something really scary about facing what you want in life, at least for me. Yeah I think it really depends on what MBTI personality type you are. For a lot of people a daily challenge structure feels quite strange and restrictive. For me it feels like a natural progression and just talking to people out and about feels arbitrary and draining. One of the hardest days was yesterday day 6 of the challenge where the idea is to get rejected intentionally. I figured out through the 1 hour of walking around before I made myself do it that I have a lot of ego still in my seduction. I want women especially the attractive ones to take me seriously and validate me so saying something really dumb to get rejected was quite difficult and I had to take myself out of fight or flight a couple of times. Literally felt like people were watching me and especially other men triggered intense momentary frustration. I went with a simple "Excuse me, are you looking for a husband by chance?" and all 3 responded really well giggling so that was encouraging. Today is the genuine compliment day so we'll see how that goes.

The best way to stop fearing something is to learn how to use it to better your life and your communities. Have you guys started using your own AI agents yet? I've been procrastinating it tbh but I'm watching content on it and learning to use them little by little.

It's not binary. Law enforcement and criminology have already reduced crime heavily these past couple centuries. We don't have that much farther to go to remove unwanted violence from our species entirely.