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Business, marketing, content creation, audience/community building Those are the core skills to create a big scale life I think

Woman approaching their dream guy and putting a lot of effort making the first move = a quick 1 second glance lol

I like this mindset. It hurts to see yourself as unskilled and not good enough but if you have a victim mindset and blame the world for your shortcomings then it's even harder to fix. Personally I'm not that great at content creation and work ethic, I need to level up on both to accomplish my dreams.

I would say go for quantity over quality, AI content is a great start. Your own standard is always biased but what the market values is predictable so as long as you post regularly and iterate you'll eventually hit it. Video editing for hours even weekly let alone daily is a recipe for burnout if you're not passionate about it, it's such an unfun activity.

Good stuff bro. If I were you I'd focus on monetization verticals it's the most important concept to understand in business. You can have many interests that you want to both scale and also share with the world but your bottleneck is always gonna be is it monetizable? Alex Hormozi is quite good at breaking things down. There aren't that many different ways to make money, only basically 4 ways split into 2 categories business and investing. You start with nothing(boot strapping) or if you have a great idea and professional credibility you can raise capital. Once you have money you turn into an investor or you start a fund and invest money for other people. If you're broke without connections you're pretty much stuck bootstrapping which is fine then you have to look at it in terms of how do you use your time effectively to make a product or service that other people would pay for. Usually freelancing and doing a service for people is the simplest way. So Leo put his love of knowledge in the form of a life purpose course because it's practical people are looking for money and purpose in life. You can try doing the same thing around a field of life you like and that people need. Selling your time or even giving it for free at first until you find product market fit is a good way to get a start in the industry.

You do, it's called a content strategy! If you start posting reels and shorts a few days a week you'll get to 100K+ monthly views pretty quick. I'm in a slump right now but I get around 10k monthly views on my IG. It's exhausting to stay consistent though. We should start a content creator accountability trend on the forum, it's one of the lowest friction ways to take an idea to market and refine your marketing skills.

Why do you consider the Aghori to be particularly advanced people? They are like homeless monks. It's great to meditate and ponder the mysteries of the universe and bliss out on it and then you come back and you're still living your life. The dudes spent their whole life meditating I would hope they have had mystical experiences and are not super shocked by 5 meo. It's people that are able to take their high consciousness and help transform the world that really impress me personally, like Bryan Johnson. He loved 5 meo dmt so much he got it tattooed and is living his life daily to further humanity and our whole medical apparatus not just sit around in a tent doing nothing.

You see yourself spending the rest of your life with 1/5 of 1/4 women you meet? That doesn't sound right and if it is why are you single? For me I like to be picky because then you don't have to settle on characteristics like for example I would never date a smart woman that I connect with intellectually if she's not too affectionate or not that sexual of a person. There are too many women in the world to settle. My true number is way less than 5%, that's still 1/20. I remember I had 3 FWBs when I was in Toronto and if I was more in scarcity I could've dated any of them but I wasn't really compatible with any of them. Most men are really low effort and don't put much thought into their lives so if you really tryhard for a few years like I have and build a fun, free and abundant lifestyle then only really massive outliers can compete with you and THEN it really becomes about personality and preference. You have to know which game you wanna play and which game you can play at though. I just turned 31 last week and I don't really plan on having kids before like 37-42 years old. Probably gonna freeze my sperm so I can take my time and really fulfill all the sexual experiences I want until I look to settle down. They're making breakthroughs in biotech so in 10 years age when having kids won't matter as much anyway so that whole timeline is pretty arbitrary.

Small town's demographics tend to skew older so walking around there would be mostly older people not young attractive women. Also people tend to stay at home so when you go out to a busy spot you see a tiny percentage of them. And even if you're aiming to date the first attractive compatible woman you find(which I would recommend going out with multiple ones even if you'd like to only date one seriously at a time) you're gonna get along/be compatible with probably 5% of them at most and that's if your social skills are practiced otherwise you'll need to talk to dozens/hundreds of women to calibrate. All this to say it's quite hard to date in small towns at least like you said there's less competition so if you're a reasonably well put together dude you'll have a nice shot. In big cities you take a walk and see 50 hot women within 10 mins like here in downtown montreal, it's a different life. There are always problem in life but if you love women don't add to it living in the middle of nowhere lol, maybe money and see the world is my motto.

He's excited to try and find a cure to also help the other millions of people with it. That's the right mindset!

Do you meditate a lot? I'm getting a lot of sporadic energy from you when reading your posts like you can't stay still and need constant stimulation. This can be a great strength of yours but only through being channeled like a powerful laser. You haven't talked much about your life outside of pickup but what does your career and/or business look like? Lack of life purpose makes pussy super appealing.

I've met many women like this and even dated one, do not recommend. How some women are into bad boys some men are also into bad girls. Lucky you didn't fuck her that would just make her emotional reactions more extreme, sounds like she could fit into the bipolar/BPD mold. Another lesson is that you can't really help people if you don't have systems built for yourself. I feel bad at homeless people as well and perhaps you can give a few dollars here and there but unless you're gonna build a whole organization around it there isn't much you can do to fundamentally change people's lives. I have modelling chats and a couple times girls asked if I knew places they could stay temporarily but I couldn't do much apart from hit up another girl to ask. You need a lot of capital to be able to house and feed people. I think people especially in spiritual circles hate this answer but in life most problems can be solved by just making more money. A lot of times getting involved with partners that require saving is mostly procrastination to avoid fixing your own life because you get validation and dopamine much more reliably that way.

You can talk to women and make pleasant conversations for a few minutes and then go off with your day. If you find that unethical I think perhaps your mindset is a bit off. As for experience, I’ve pulled from cold approach, used it to promote events and transitioned those lessons into building actual social architecture. I’m not claiming to be a world champion, I'm only pointing out how to get more leverage from your time for someone who seems to be hitting a roadblock. Also when you focus on cold approach without creating systems around it you introduce burnout because it's not a really fun activity and also you're not working holistically on the other areas of your life whereas with social circle you can do it all at once.

No problem. It helps to remember that cold approach is just one way that was popularized to deal with the fact that the establishment doesn't give you easy mates anymore as was the case pre 1960s sexual revolution. Now that you can host your own events and post your own media for basically free the best route is to become the establishment yourself. With Instagram you can literally message every single attractive woman on earth so you don't actually live in Tbilisi my friend you live in a global dating marketplace i.e. planet earth.

It's a legit problem. If you have to twist your life in all kinds of ways that you don't desire to make dating work then whether it works or not you're not gonna be satisfied. If you were making $20k/month online you would not run into this issue. You could relocate to a new hub or move countries each 3 months however you see fit. That's what abundance looks like. How you manage your lack of abundance with your current resources is what we are talking about here. You should approach women that you're not into because you're practicing social skills, you don't have to try to pull those women and then when you see women you're really into then you'll have momentum and not be anxious. That will help extend your pool but it won't solve the problem entirely. Running events is the best thing you can do this month to level up your social skills. It teaches you so much about what hot women respond to and need. https://www.instagram.com/icmodelmanagement/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/natalimodels/?hl=en There are apparently 10-15 modelling agencies in Tbilisi. Models are a good niche to start with because they're hot, post themselves online so are easy to find and have an easy to fulfill value model meaning that it's easy to host a photoshoot or media networking event and get them to come because all of them are looking for the same thing. Photoshoots are one route but you can host a book club, food events, run club, etc. It's all about standardizing a group hangout that attracts the people that you want i.e. attractive women that would be open to dating you in this case. Social circle game is a bit different than cold approach since you won't be anonymous while throwing events and thus have a reputation to maintain and can't escalate like a madman but it'll teach you calibration and regardless this is a more valuable skillset to develop that will help all areas of your life rather than just approaching women on the street. Feel free to DM me on Instagram and I can give you more advice on how to throw events. This is one event that I threw a couple of months ago : Once you throw events regular and know a lot of women then your whole life becomes a warm approach. Most women are gonna be single and if you get along with them you can ask them out and then boom you're dating models and if it doesn't work just be pleasant and professional and it won't really affect your ecosystem. Where you take it from there is up to you and your life purpose. You can do a Hugh Hefner and try to build a global media brand or just date 1 woman and use your newly acquired social circle skills more for business purposes. I like more the Hugh Hefner route but to each their own.

You have two simple options the way I see it. For the short to medium term focus on hosting events and social circle game. Then you can you'll have all the women in the region to pull from and you'll level up your status over time. Message @jacknine119 he's also from Tbilisi perhaps you can link up and throw some events together. The second option is medium to long term but get your income up(especially online income) and move, travel and date women from the whole world. That takes more work but is the best option that will solve most of your life problems. You can start by building an Instagram and personal brand which will help your dating even in Georgia but as you learn to monetize it then the whole world opens up to you.

The paradigm of biological death is so deeply entrenched in society that it requires aggressive marketing to get biological immortality to register as a possibility. Autoimmune disease is tough, best of luck to Bryan in his quest to figuring it out.

Cold approach was apparently a lot easier before in the 90s and the 2000s. It's still doable but now more than ever you need status, social circle, etc to get the hottest women. It's partly because of the financial crisis that reduced the income of people and made the average man less attractive as a mate and also the advent of social media that globalized the dating scene that created a situation where now I can run an IG story and instantly women that I know in different cities in the country think of me as opposed to the dudes they have access to. It rewards increased effort and makes laziness even more deadly in dating.

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I think dancing is very important. As an INTP I initially found it very confusing and it doesn't come naturally to me but the more I grow the more I appreciate it. I'm usually quite attracted to people that dance, it's a nice energy that counterbalances my more logical systems mindset well.

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I highly respect that guy for having the confidence to say his opinions publicly. That being said he's still a disrespectful clown.

I think it's a great topic to discuss. Boundaries are the very foundation of any relationship otherwise we're all in an 8 billion person relationship, we are but I think you obviously mean interpersonal boundaries. To me I like the idea of separating boundaries into soft and hard boundaries. Soft are ones are for things you're uncomfortable with and can push past and hard boundaries are just red line that you're not willing to move past as they're core to how you choose to live your life. If someone disrespects me first of all I like to address it right away or sometimes I get too volatile and it's better if I reflect on it first. Then I go into I don't appreciate you speaking to me this way or saying X. That's a soft boundary. If they do it again you can say, if you speak to me like this again this will be the last time we speak. That's a hard boundary. I had it with a buddy that kept making black people joke and I gave him the hard boundary and he never did it again. We fell out of touch for different reasons but usually when you give people hard boundaries they respect it or if they don't either way you clear yourself of people you don't wanna be associated with it so you win in both cases.

That makes sense, we each have our way of understanding love. I personally like the Helen Fisher model which separates the romantic love into three parts: lust, attraction and attachment. Looksmaxxing helps mostly in lust and attraction and the money part in attraction and attachment. I find the idea that money doesn't matter to deep love to be deeply misguided. Financial issues rank always in the top 2-5 reasons for divorce with whatever survey is replicated. Money is not superficial it's very deep. It's how you impact the world as a whole, how your skillset impacts other humans, how you're able to get over your mental blocks to serve your fellow humans better. Being financially independent is one of the best gifts you can give your potential partners and a journey I work on daily and I recommend each one of us here prioritize.

I do it most of the time. A lot of my conversations with my close friends are in the form of debates like you see me interact with people on the forum. Some people can't handle it but I mean well and my life is built to offer value so ultimately the right people say in my orbit. I've lost friends because of it but some others come back around and I've made new friends that are more aligned with my vision. Some others have a growth mindset and aren't offended and like my honesty and I like theirs and we grow together and do cool stuff. There is no other way to live in my book, catering to normies is more than draining it hurts the soul. Trust results, not the mind. Approach 10 8s in your city this week and see how it goes. Status helps make the process effortless and scalable but you can do it without it. For me I like women to interact with my mind and ideas, that's what I identify most with. If my ideas do not work they are not attractive they are random trivia facts or the ramblings of a madman. The more my ideas concretize and scale the more baddies and people as a whole enjoy them and I enjoy creating avdentures and scaling together so to me cold approach is not in the same dimension of what social circle and social media game can create for you. I made a reel for my dating brand the other day mentioning the new reality show Canada Shore and one of the girls from it replied to it a couple of times. It's not like she's in my circle yet nor am I dating her but it shows you can access people of all kinds of status if you put yourself out there on social media and produce quality content. https://www.instagram.com/p/DY8LcNnockL/ https://www.instagram.com/ryleighgregory/