LordFall

If you're a man, the last thing you should be worrying about is if women have been indoctrinated to find you attractive or not. Focus on building power, social leverage, and charisma and you'll laugh at these kinds of videos soon enough. Stop overthinking random internet videos and go out there and make yourself a valuable man. You'll see firsthand what women are attracted to soon enough.

Dude you know it, so much fun. My fellow summoners rifters all over, I dig it You don't have to view it as literally going out to pickup a mass of chicks but the people that got sold on the pickup train are generally pretty into self-development in general so it's a good crowd to surround yourself with IMO. Just have to sort through the ones that are toxic and find the ones that are into growth.

Second he Game Global recommendation, I'm in a lot of these groups as well. Ice(the guy that runs it) is pretty well connected in the game community and he is a pretty cool dude. He took over the mantle from the RSD Inner Circles when they shut those downs to get away from their game connotations. Leo is 100% right, if you're a shy/introverted/socially inexperienced dude, you HAVE to learn from men more experienced than you. That is a ritual going back to tribal times that we've lost in modern society for some reason. This is from my first Inner Circle meeting many moons ago. Shot the shit with the boys at a restaurant and they took me out to a club for the first time. I think I went clubbing 50+ times before being somewhat comfortable inside of one, good times. For the ones saying clubbing is not their scene; I'm an INTP that was addicted to playing League of Legends 12 hours a day in those days. Clubs are my natural enemy and I still went 2-3 times a week. I wouldn't be the person I am today if I hadn't been to that meeting, really thankful to those guys. I still talk to some of them to this day and this was maybe 2014?

Can you elaborate on this, it's an interesting point of view. Reminds me of Jennifer Moleski's idea that women fuck the war out of men as a way to pacify them.

What is the point of the PUA/Game journey then? Just a way to self-develop enough to get the relationship you want?

What do you think about his transition from the pickup content to the more all-encompassing self-help label? He mentions a lot of stuff related to spirituality too. Do you think he's actually becoming more conscious as he gets older or he's literally hamster wheeling to keep up with the times?

Yes. Women are naturally more collective and think more long-term due to(I guess) their bigger need for safety and direct danger if they make poor decisions. I work at a high-end restaurant and if I bring food to a table and one meal is healthy and the other one looks like a child's meal(fries and a burger vs lean protein and veggies) then 95% the healthy meal is going to the woman in the couple. Women also tend to have better spatial awareness than men( I've heard somewhere that they have literally more peripheral vision than us and it makes sense.) Most of the time when I deliver food I notice that the women notice me coming more than the men do. They literally speak and get lost in their monologues and get surprised when food magically arrives on their table.

Sorry to revive this but this is one of the best posts I've ever read on this forum, it's so interesting in so many different ways. @Emerald you did a really good job posting a real guide for women that have a specific agenda(finding a healthy compatible long-term relationship) and how to screen out the men that don't fit the agenda and the post was so good that it itself worked in screening out the men that replied to it! Holy what a loop, I'm impressed. This is a really great point that I see basically everyone(both men and women) ignore. Tribes are really important and your life satisfaction will be poor without it. Especially your point about women experiencing men in their natural context, that's a magical one. @The men replying to this post that are confused, this advice is not meant for you and you shouldn't take it. There is a reason pickup is good for men and not women, it helps you develop yourself beyond the women that would naturally be in your social circle. As a man, you SHOULD go for the spray and pray strategy, dating/sleeping with multiple women is a great way to develop yourself. But the obvious conclusion to this statement is that while you're doing this you are in your UNDERDEVELOPED PHASE and a woman who is herself developed should probably avoid you. @All the introvert on this forum(yes, SPECIFICALLY YOU) should develop your social circle to not only have 600 people in it but probably THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS. It is paradoxically the best way to develop a lot of social power without having to constantly socialize. The programs Social Circle Blueprint/Social Circle Blueprint 2 are amazing for men looking to achieve this. Basically, basic pickup is a really big waste of time and should only be part of your strategy, not the focus of it. You should develop a lifestyle that exposes you to thousands of different people and therefore sorts them for you. Combining this with social media and for the first time in history, you realistically have the potential to sort through the entire planet and find the best girl/guy for you on EARTH.

That's a fascinating point actually. I'm not an expert in evolution but basically what it tests is which males of the species are the most adaptable/strong/superior/etc and those are the ones that get to reproduce with more females. AFAIK with the bird species that you're talking about basically the most flamboyant male in a jungle must be one of the strongest ones because he has a huge disadvantage(being more easily trackable by predators) but still managed to survive. Humans are a little different because we don't really have a natural predator, we are apex predators. So the way to differentiate yourself from the other males is to be superior to them and rise in the human male dominance hierarchy. Absolutely man, I'd love to. Feel free to shoot me a message so we don't take this post too off-topic. From what you've said though, you're definitely on the right track, with good self-awareness. Low self-esteem is basically a huge counter to your relationship with females. I call girls specifically females because as a straight male, that's the most important part of your relationship with them. It's not a platonic relationship, it's a very serious biological and existential relationship that most people will never get to fully experience. As a man, the more you manage to conquer yourself and the world, the more your relationship will women will improve. That is because that is our divine purpose, to conquer the world for females to enjoy as we enjoy the fruit of our labors. If you view it this way it starts to become obvious why most men have trouble with women, they can barely figure out how to be functional and stop their minds from assaulting them, how can they be of use to a girl in that state? This is why Game is so profound, you use girls to basically trick yourself into conquering yourself. It's not about fucking lots of girls; that's just the bait you give yourself really. Quite genius if done right but pretty laughably toxic when done wrong. Anyway, I love this topic and could talk about it for days so yeah message me here or on IG, I'm always down to talk. I'm quite public with my beliefs and online persona so you can literally stalk my Instagram to see that I try to live what I preach to the best of my current abilities.

Yeah for sure, I think you're very right and that was also basically my journey. I had a lot of full-on Incel/Red Pill/Women hating ideas in me when I was younger. I didn't really understand women and they didn't seem to like me too much so I started hating them for it. Then as I started my self-improvement/game journey I kinda realized that this was just a random illusion and women never disliked me they were just mostly neutral and since I didn't offer them much value then they didn't pay much attention to me romantically/sexually. Now almost 10 years later on my journey, my relationship with women is amazing and it's probably the connection I feel/enjoy the most in this life. I feel like I literally have a spiritual awakening experience every time I look at/interact with an attractive girl, it's very magical and worth a lot to me. I don't think I could've gotten to this point without going through the first "anger" phase and if that's what it took then I'm eternally grateful for it. It's made me understand the world a lot better, my own place in it, and my relationship with the female gender. The connection between straight males and straight females is very sacred and the fact that's it's so toxic and misunderstood in current society is a great tragedy for everyone.

What are you trying to do on Tinder? Get laid easily or go on dates and meet a girl you actually bond with? They're pretty different processes tbh. If you're trying to fuck then basically your best bet is to invite the girl out for drinks within the first 3-4 messages you send her. You: In some form: hey, you're cute Her: Some kind of at least neutral or positive response You: Cool, let's get to know each other better have you ever been to X place(bar within 5 minutes of your place) Her: Some kind of open or positive response You: Sweet let's check it out, are you free X day? Then get her number and set it up. Depending on how attractive you are you might need like 1-2 more message exchanges to build rapport but basically, if she's attracted to you and open to meeting you then this formula will make it happen as fast as possible. If she says anything that's cold, fishing for attention, or wanting more investment from you then basically you are wasting your time and should move on to the next conversation. If you live in a big city then Tinder is 100% a numbers game. Your only goal is to maximize your profile and meet as many girls as you can as quickly as you can so you can actually get to know them/vibe with them/sleep with them. Trying to get to know someone through a texting app is asinine, don't get sold into that idea.

I don't think you mean that. You're just lazy and haven't put in the real work to cultivate your masculinity and understand women. When you actually become a high-value integrated man then women are a pleasure to deal with and give you very little bullshit. If anything men are way more annoying, more obtuse, and play status games that don't even benefit them.

It's a core game concept called abundance. You can be in abundance theoretically and watch spiritual videos that tell you to let go and tell yourself that it's a good idea but being ACTUALLY in abundance is a completely different thing. If you've proven to yourself that you can attract multiple women and have great connections with many of them then your whole perspective automatically becomes different. You aren't desperate anymore and it actually starts to make sense that if your woman wants to leave you, she should do it because it'll hopefully make her happier. If you're not in abundance then your woman leaving you is an atomic bomb to your life and your intimacy/sex life will be destroyed for the next few months/years and YOU KNOW IT deep down even if you try lying to yourself. This is why improving yourself/game/seduction is not a joke. You cannot fake it, either you can attract women in your life or you can't. It's very binary. If you try to magically convince yourself otherwise it's only gonna cause you pain.

Nightgame is just highly polarized in general. It's a fascinating display of human behavior. Nowhere else than in dark places with music and alcohol do you have girls telling you to fuck off and insulting you and other times basically falling in love with you and hooking up within 5 minutes of meeting you. Don't take it too seriously and man up. You're not hurt by girls being mean to you for 5 seconds, you'll be fine. If you ever hope to succeed in this pickup journey, you're gonna need a lot thicker skin. There are much worse things that are gonna happen to you than random girls finding you creepy lol.

That's a crazily profound point. What lead you to come to this conclusion? It's basically the cycle I've found myself in and it does seem like humanity as a whole is going through it as well. Yeah, the oppression is a huge flaw but I personally think women are designed beautifully and perfectly. The fact that they are generally smaller, softer, more gentle, and fragile is a huge turn-on in a lot of ways. I like being a bigger human watching over my girl and they usually like it too. Once the polarity is established in a mutually beneficial way it is a beautiful thing to experience.

Why not both? I heavily believe in integrating both your business and your dating life. Why create content around your business? Go out and join circles in your city related to your passion(IT?) and become part of that scene. This will put you in the social hierarchy of people(and women) that are into the same things you are. And from there start creating audio and visual content based on this(podcasts, youtube, TikTok's, reels, etc) which will eventually raise your status and value in that community even more which will make you very appealing to the women in that niche. We live in the best time EVER for both game and business. If your idea of Game in 2021 is walking in the mall and asking random girls for their phone numbers, you're missing out on a lot.

I'm down to help! I've done daygame for years, not doing it right now because I'm more motivated to work on my social media game but I heavily believe in the benefits of daygame. Not only am I down to keep you accountable but I can help you level up your IG game for free(I'm a photographer specializing in Online Dating and Social media shoots for men) which I believe is a way better way to keep track of your leads than just getting a phone number. Message me back here or on IG and I'll help you out.

Hey brother, do you wanna talk? Let's hop on a call, I'll talk to you anytime.

I think you fundamentally misunderstand what women are brother. Women are part of the aesthetic of this world. As we grow more evolved as a species, of course our females are gonna become more attractive. And as a straight man, you should get on your knees and thank God for that. If you think of a pretty girl getting her nails done and this annoys you/you find it stupid then you haven't gone through your spiritual masculine awakening yet. Nothing I love more than a girl dolling herself up, it's one of the best blessing of this universe.

@Hello world Message me if you really want help, I'll save you.

The 434 guy just released a super interesting video on water and what it means to us as humans His claims are pretty radical and out there so I figured I'd run it by my most trusted fellow self-actualizers. What do you guys think? It would make a lot of sense to me that the infrastructure we have to filter water is outdated and not able to really clean the chemicals in our modern water supply. Especially because it's managed by the public sector and not the private one so they really have no incentive to make it better as long as people don't start dying left and right. Clean water is something we take for granted but is it really? The incident in Flint was really shocking and showed how fragile our literal water supply can be.

So you think it's true or false? I don't know honestly.

Here's mine The biggest problem with this test I see is it doesn't seem to account for people lying. The best kinds of tests have multiple similar questions posed in drastic different ways so if people try to subconsciously make themselves look better it catches the lies.

@Leo Gura You won't need to, someone else will take on that torch for you.

I find it's easier if you know what you plan to do with these people. Do you want friends to go out with? To play sports with? To smoke weed with? People don't make friends for the sake of making friends, there is usually a goal. It's a lot easier to find friends if you have common goals and life situations i.e. you're looking for friends who are single and financially independent/can take long breaks from work so you can travel to different countries with and party/ meet girls or whatever your goal is.