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Yeah, you can post pictures with random people, that's fine. In general, though, don't post pictures of you with girls on your IG unless there's a lot of context there. Basically, 90% of the time if it's not organic it looks like you're really excited to show that you have pictures of you with women and women smell that from a mile away. If you lookup Personal Brand Creator Pro, it's a program made by the content producer of RSD Luke, one of the best social media game guys in the world IMO. I have my IG in my bio here, its worked well for me to get girls in the past and it's not even optimized properly but I'd say it's way better than most guys. Here are a few examples of top-tier IG profiles that are heavily based on travel pics. Corey Chaloff - The guy whose program I mentioned. He's worked and helped most of the RSD guys on their content creation. Ryan Pownall, he's a local influencer in my city that's killing it with his IG game. Jay Alvarrez - A mega influencer that started out as just a videographer/photographer traveling around, basically the single best IG profile I've seen for a straight male looking to showcase his life and attract girls with his profile. I would call his IG a 10/10 profile.

@Flowerfaeiry Why the regret on the degree? I did a similar path and never even graduated high school but I think I made the right choice. Curious about your thoughts on it.

Oh yeah, of course. I live in Toronto, which I believe is the most multicultural city in the world and probably one of the least racists and racism is still alive and well here. I just don't know what the solution is man, I just know we have to keep talking about the issue. The people attacking you in this post are wrong, this is your perspective that you're sharing with them and you have 600+ comments so clearly you're a worthwhile and invested member of this community so this whole division and attack is sad for me to see. Racism is just a forced division. I don't consider myself different from my white, brown, or Asian friends but it doesn't take away from the unique and different situations we have to deal with. It is an issue we have to stand united to fix and the people saying you're a triggered snowflake have this point going way over their head. Are you satisfied with Leo's response on this? @Preety_India Thank you for the compliment, much obliged (;

Levels of consciousness have 0 correlation to one's ability to socialize, they're not related concepts. You could be stage blue and have terrible social skills or be stage turquoise and have amazing charisma; it's a separate skill tree.

I'm black and this phenomenon is quite interesting to me. No thoughts one way or another though for what it's worth. Racial slurs are an interesting concept, are saying them from an investigatory perspective still considered hurtful? This also ties into historical contexts, 2015 is a different time than we are now. We're in an era where we seek to find objective morality; is such a thing possible? What if our actions/words/thoughts today are considered intolerant 20 years from now, does that make us objectively intolerant today?

When I was maybe 10-11, I got scammed out some gear in a random MMORPG at the time. The guy offered me to be in his powerful guild if I gave him the stuff, he invited me in then kicked me after. It was the first time in my life that I can remember encoutering a scammer and I'm very thankful for that guy. Taught me a lot and I'm a lot harder to scam today About two years ago, I was walking early morning in a less than great part of town near a Mcdonald's when this homeless-looking guy came up to me. He said he was in a tight spot and he needed some quick cash. Offered to sell me his sterling silver ring for 50$, when it should easily be able to be pawned for a few hundred dollars but he didn't have an ID so the shops refused to deal with him for fear of being a stolen item. I didn't really buy it but decided to go along with it because I thought it was an interesting story. I talked with him for about 20 mins as I went to an ATM and took out the money. We had actually similar experiences and we related on some stuff so I actually got convinced that he was telling the truth, he was telling me about his ex-girlfriend and tough times that he's had. I also do a lot of games and usually have a great read when it comes to people's motives and lies so I was pretty confident I could tell a scammer apart. 100% scammed me with a ring worth 2$ at best after I took it to a jeweler. Also a great lesson and made me a bit scared that my so-called social reading skills could be so off. Made me a lot more understanding of the nuance a character can have. People are very multifaceted and a person can seemingly bond with you and relate with you while ruthlessly be trying to take everything from you they can. Cool life lesson.

You should be ashamed of yourself for such a thought. You would choose to be a toxic peasant for fake peace of mind? If your owner is efficient then it can be pretty fun to be an oppressed peon. @Thought Art Let's talk man. I'm also 26, broke, in debt, and struggling but have never been happier. The power that I'm cultivating is magnitudes higher than any other human being I've met in real life so I feel pretty damn good. Let me assist you, DM me and I'll share some thoughts. @kieranperez Be careful of the social matrix. I was at a mansion party last night and this 23-year-old girl that was into me, eye fucking me and literally offered to come to my place one time ended up fucking a 42-year-old dude because he had way more masculine energy than me at that time. I'm 26 btw so that would be way more "appropriate" for her to fuck me but he was more attractive to her than me. As a male, you'd be very shocked to really be able to understand the female agenda.

I have a friend that I've been having a lot of cultural and political talks with and it's been super fun but it always feels needlessly confrontational because he comes at it from the Libertarian label and I come at it from a more socialist label. I don't think our ideas are that far removed as he essentially believes in cooperation and the end of tyranny but the labels are keeping us at odds. I've watched Leo's video on Libertarianism so I'm stuck in a bit of an ego loop of thinking my ideology is superior but that's the trap isn't it? How can I marry our ideas and/or camouflage them in Libertarian sauce so we can start bonding more instead of feeling like we're at odds with our beliefs?

Wait are you sure? I've followed him for so long but never heard of this, that'd be a hilarious plot twist I can't picture it

Professor Timothy Fortin is filmed here talking about relativism and although his view on consciousness and objective truth are a bit off, he correctly accesses the huge implications of relativism in the world today. The reason why we have so many wars, conflicts, and plain old interpersonal issues today IS actually that we all fundamentally believe that our own version of reality is the truth and we engage in a constant battle against others to maintain that vision. "What objective truth says is that there's one you. There's one reality and truth for me and truth for you are bound to that same reality. If that's not the case then we have our own truth and therefore and we each have our own reality the consequence of that is that ultimately communication itself becomes impossible." This is really funny to listen to because yeah, that's exactly what's going on right now! People today do have terrible communication because they end up having different definitions of things like what the right thing to do is and thus we end up with a disorganized and divided world.

This is a good response. I'm very heavy on social media and if you're in a big city/travelling then it's a godsend. I can keep up with dozens if not hundreds of different girls/guys that I meet. It does tie into my social life, dating life and business though and is a huge investment. I do enjoy it a lot too, if you sit down and figure out that you hate social media then don't invest in it but to me, it's like a video game, really enjoyable. Keep in mind though if you're prone to the negative effects of it. I don't really compare myself to other people or even spend time scrolling it. Some people have reported bouts of depression from comparison or spend multiple hours a day. That's insane if it gets to that level you have to be self-aware enough to protect yourself. Also worth considering world trends, social media is clearly here to stay and is only gonna be more ubiquitous. Believe it or not, we're still in the early days of social media. If you look at it as the modern form of human communication then it's literally a skill to be relevant and to utilize it effectively and I'd say it's a pretty damn useful skill that's gonna keep paying off for years to come.

@StarStruck Depends on how you choose to look at it. People pay thousands of dollars for 3-week long vacations all the time. I would consider it 10x more fun/productive to pay 3k to fly to Vegas/LA with Owen for a few days and party with guys that literally do this for a living instead of getting drunk on a beach pointlessly.

Whatever feels right to you IMO. Just take out all the shame of it and the pressure to conform to this idea of truth that you have. Take a deep breath, give yourself a break and do whatever you wanna do.

The point of it is to do it in an environment you're not naturally confident and comfortable in. Imagine you're literally developing the skill to go out in the streets and strike up conversations with strangers and if that's not awkward enough, your aim is to seduce those strangers and to go out with them from a random approach on a street corner! Trust me, when you develop this skill coming back to an environment you're already comfortable with and naturally relate with people will be like shooting fish in a barrel. I've done probably 600 cold approaches and I still consider myself beginner level but I still got two girlfriends, not off of cold approach but after that experience going to a social circle it was really easy to talk to, flirt with, and ask out the girls that were already a part of my daily life.

Unless you're going overboard with all these things, I think she's right. What would dealing with it without coping mechanisms look like, just taking a deep breath and being okay all the time? Your fantasies about this guy don't seem too weird and outlandish. You're really just imagining a loving figure comforting you, we all do that in some ways. I do it with random cute girls in my life that I imagine myself dating in the near future and it gives me something to look forward to when dealing with tough times. And my basic understanding of tarot and astrology also makes me think that you're fine there too. Isn't the basic idea of it that the universe isn't random, has your best interest at heart and you can use the cards/charts/moons to learn to read it and predict it? I'd say that's about aligned with the rest of what we study here. Seems to me that your coping mechanisms aren't too intrusive and just based on painting yourself a promising vision of the future and a belief that life isn't out to crush you and that there is positive hope in the future. That does seem healthy to me, find what works and what's reliable and aligns with your life, I don't think you should think of it any further than that.

A woman needs a man who grounds her; literally being a man for her. You've heard of the expression "If you can't handle her, you can't handle the world for her." , I'm sure. Her response is very honest and candid and much better insight into female psychology than any other girl would give you, you being triggered at her is very unfounded and rude.

What would you like the solution to be, in an ideal world? Be very honest with yourself, don't lie. What do you really want to happen from here on out? Do you want her to never have had sex with another man? Do you regret getting her pregnant and wish that didn't happen? Do you wish you had more sexual experience? Do you want to accept her past and move on with it? Do you want to break up with her? Do you want to have an open relationship and fuck other women to get experience while still dating her/raising your child? I find it nice emotionally to first really not lie to myself and ask myself what I really want before what's possible. Then I figure out how to marry what's possible and what I want. Just make sure not to judge yourself or her too much and then accept what reality is and you'll probably find that this situation will resolve itself.

Cold approach is not an option for you then. Cold approach takes advantage of two fundamental things: volume and anonymity. In our current mega cities, you can take advantage of the system and practice your seduction skills by approaching dozens of women daily that will not remember you and you will probably not run into again. That's the basic idea. If you remove those two things then you end up with either a variation of a warm approach(which is basically a very extended social circle if you think about it) or you just walk around endlessly looking for an attractive girl to hit on which both defeat the purpose. You can still learn game in a small town though. The same principles you learn through cold approach, you can learn and practice anywhere. You just have to be a bit more strategic about it. IMO now you need to figure out what your goal in this journey is. Do you want a solid girlfriend? Do you want to be a seducer of women in general? Do you want easy sex? All these goals are VERY different and they have different optimal ways of reaching them. I'd have to know you more to give better advice but I'd say that if your main goal is to get a quality long-term girlfriend then a social circle is your best bet. If you want to get many options with many women then your best bet is to use the next two years of your life to become an online influencer. If you manage to find a way to make a location-independent income and have a public persona attached to it then after your two years are up then you can basically travel the world and have sex with as many women as you like, if that's what you want to do. Every other goal is a variation of these two ideas really. Relationships are based on intertwining your lives together so a social circle is the logical conclusion of that. Being a "fuckboy" is based on value and access so making money online while being a recognizable figure is the best way to achieve that in 2021.

What makes you think that there is such a thing as something that's right only for you? I have seen escorts a few times personally and I now regret it. It's great in the moment sure and it will give you that easy dopamine and release that you are looking for, short-term. Fundamentally though it is a pervasion of the relationship between men and women and it will hurt you to go through with it. This is coming from a non-PC/feminist/empathy perspective, don't think that's what I'm arguing for here. I'm telling you this as a pure hard fact. If you do this you will be hurting yourself, I 100% promise you. But do it if you want to, there are no rules in this life. Just my $0.02.

It's not really about the act of having sex. That's great but indeed not putting thousands of hours into. The part that's fascinating is that game fundamentally teaches you that you can control everything about your interaction with women, it's all arbitrary. If you start it off with sex then you can see how game allows you to basically have sex with any kind of woman you want. Any ethnicity, age(obviously within reason), body shape, etc. Then you can see how adventurous that sex can get. Fucking in a bed? Boring. Why not find a girl that wants to have sex in a car, in the woods, by the beach, etc. Throw in some toys/BDSM into the mix and that can get infinitely interesting as well. Now throw relationship styles into the mix. You can use game to find a long-term girlfriend. Or one-night stands. Or sexual and romantic relationships with multiple women(and men I guess?) at the same time. You could date two girls at once. Three. Twenty-five. You could date two bisexual girls that are dating each other and you at the same time! Combine entrepreneurship and passive income into the mix and now you get some really crazy possibilities into the mix. What if you could spend the next few years of your life travelling the world, dating and seducing women from all continents all the while creating content and working from all around the world doing it WHILE exploring all the sex/relationship dynamics I talked to about before? That's the true potential of game IMO, true freedom. As a straight male, I don't see what could be more interesting to you than the females of your species and the infinite adventures you could have with them. If you have other ideas, please share them and I'll add the to my universal bucket list

I think the question you're asking is if it's possible for humans to keep themselves accountable at all times and constantly take perfect moral decisions that won't harm other people. If you phrase it like that then you see how it's obviously impossible, even if all of us were enlightened and actually trying to act out of love all the time, we'd still accidentally hurt ourselves. See laws and the government as set in stone guidelines that try to prevent that from happening. Government ideally makes us freer, not less.

Female butts. The deeper my contemplations on life get the more confused I get about reality and my place in it. The only thing that I really can count on to ground me is a cute girl's butt, that has always has made a lot of sense to me.

Society is really killing us with sexual shame. I've had that same thought before, a girl rubbing herself against me will find it creepy if I get hard/horny. Obviously, that's what she wants though. Would you get offended if a cute girl that you wanna fuck got wet thinking about you?

Because sex is the sorting mechanism of human natural selection. It's not really supposed to be a random fuckfest. Nature is literally evaluating if you're worthy of fertilizing human females. The whole point of it is women select the men that are the best in their generation and breed with them to create better humans. If a woman mates with an inferior mate then she's making the human race go backward and she's failing evolution itself. If you look at it in biological terms then you should be really offended if you can't get laid. It's nature literally telling you that your genes should die off. I'd take game/self-improvement pretty damn seriously because subjectively the consequences are pretty grand. If you wanna put it on a universal scale then I guess it doesn't matter too much but personally, my ego gets pretty offended when the female of my species don't wanna mate with me. This is why incels sometimes literally shoot up schools. Because reproduction is not a joke, if you can't get laid then it's basically like the human race in itself is giving up on you. Porn is giving peace to your brain and telling it that you're doing fine; you're seeing naked females so they must be okay with you.

It's hard not to feel jealous if your sexual experience doesn't compare to hers. That's why I find it hard to see how a man could settle down without fully satiating his sexual appetite. If you commit to this lifestyle enough then most of the things any club girl has done will pale in comparison to your experiences so instead of being jealous you'll understand where she's coming from. Most of the girls I meet have fewer sexual experiences than I do so all the judgement goes out the window really. Most people tell you to get hypothetical abundance and get over it, I think that's nonsense. If you've been with 5 girls and your girlfriend has slept with 20+ people that's gonna bother you for sure and you can't think your way out of it. I'll disagree with this one. You should fully own your woman and her past and fully not judge her for all the sexual escapades she's had, even appreciate her for it. If you can stomach that then the level of trust, openness and freakiness that you will unlock in her will shake the heavens itself and you'll unlock heaven for your own sex life To fully appreciate your woman you have to be okay with the fact that she's interacted with many other penises before yours and not run away from that fact. Most men subconsciously(or very consciously probably) judge all women for sucking dick/getting fucked. As long as you do that you will never truly bond and connect with your girl as you'll always look down on her. It's kinda like how women want men to be vulnerable and in touch with their emotions but will judge them for it. You want a slut but every time she sucks your dick you judge her for it. Humans always hate the things that will make them most happy, a strange loop indeed.