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The average relationship is a disaster, that's not really what I mean by this. This is the toxic relationship I was referring to before. I like the codependent/independent/interdependent model for this. Thank you for your response. I'm sorry you dealt with an unfortunate experience but I don't think that reflects the true potential for human relationships. You're right on the part where those relationships would be temporary anyway though, that's a good point. I think an interdependent relationship with a more developed being would be a 180 degrees completely different experience from what you've experienced though and might change your mind on the subject. I think a lot of spiritual people fool themselves on this subject and just end up disconnecting themselves from things they call physical and miss out on the best things in life. I don't believe my conclusions to be incorrect but feel free to elaborate. Elaborate on this, this is what I explained. I think I've done that to a degree but perhaps there's still more to get into on that end. I don't know if I agree. Friendships are fundamentally different from true relationships. Female-male childrearing is one of the truest alliances in this world, it's one of the only partnerships where your interests truly align. Most friendships are based on mutual benefit, companionship, and intimacy as you mentioned but those same people you don't really share a true purpose with. Your friends have different callings, businesses, purposes, etc then you so you're not really "together" in it apart from just being together in the game of life and having similar aspirations. Your woman is truly in business with you, you're gonna share genes/a bloodline and financially ally together. Even on things like finances your closest friends will most likely share a completely different reality than you whereas your partner will basically fuse with you on most aspects of life. Of course not in all ways and this can be fleeting in many regards but that is the core of the arrangement.

Don't really have time for a 36-minute video, what are his points?

Yes, exactly that or similarly traumatizing things. Not so much recently but I've had a lot of dreams where I get basically tortured or come into contact with what appears to be demonic entities looking to curse/infect me. What do you make of this? Subconscious manifestations that shouldn't be taken too seriously or something else?

Are these dreams generally positive experiences for you? I've had those but a lot of times my dreams feel like psychedelic nightmares. Traumatizing stuff that I need to wake up and take 3-5 minutes outside of my room to come back to a grounded state. Not sure how to interpret that.

Experiment with social circle techniques combined with night game. Pure cold approach is exhausting. If you go out with a group of girls/guys, you have the additional option of just sitting down and having a nice conversation in the club, that's always nice especially if you're introverted. Pure cold approach night game has a lot of limitations.

@How to be wise What do you think about it? Posting a video without your own thoughts is profiting off of others' opinions! Porn is a tool, depends how you use it.

Its the responsibility of the public to stand up for and protect this man, clearly the government won't do it. Any proponent of free speech and freedom of information should keep his name public so he can't he treated criminally.

Are there any politicians, military leaders, or other powerful figures that support your cause? I agree with @Fleetinglife, you can go out and protest for fun or to feel better but if these people have the military under their control you will not achieve much and at worse die for nothing. You can personally affect change and change/save your country but it will require decades of careful planning and life purpose. @Someone here made a post asking why politics is important, this is the answer. You won't change the world by being an artist singing a song about love or writing a book. You will need to make this your life purpose and study the most competent and ruthless leaders of history because you will be up against their contemporary counterparts.

Politics is one of the mandatory subjects to be involved in and understand. These corrupt people rule your life bud. Its about the same as not learning about business because Amazon is corrupt and then wondering why you're broke. There's a lot of effect you can have, especially on your municipal politics. Depending on where you live, you can book a meeting/call with your city councillor which is responsible for a lot of things you wouldn't think about. In a lot of 2nd/3rd world countries I'd imagine connections like that are even more important. Thinking you have no power over it is called learned helplessness, you could become the Emperor of the world if you really wanted to. The reason politics are so divisive is they cut to the core of who who are and what you believe in. You can have a pleasant chat with someone about coffee brews but you will learn a lot about the core beliefs of people if you investigate their political opinions.

I'm curious if anyone here is familiar with this and what you guys think of this. In my usual late-night weed-fueled internet rabbit hole research sessions, I stumbled onto one of the most interesting concepts I've ever found: DIY biology. There is a surprisingly big community of people that create home labs and conduct research and experiments both by themselves and on themselves. Here is an example where people implant themselves with a finger magnet to be able to develop the new sens of sensing electromagnetic fields: (Warning NSW, blood and a surgical procedure) The same creator has various projects and a current one where he aims to grow human neurons and connect them to a computer: To me, this field is beyond fascinating and I'll have to keep investigating this in the coming years. It closely intertwines with the transhumanism community that I'm also a huge fan of. It seems like it's very similar to the self-actualization work that we do here but much more up close and physical as opposed to experimenting with your consciousness with things like psychedelic work. In our current world of decentralization, I find it fascinating that things like this are not just left to governmental organizations/corporations behind closed doors. Reminds me of Steve Wozniak/Steve Jobs doing the same thing but with computers and electrical engineering to come up with Apple and the other people that did DIY engineering work. Very curious what you guys think of this and if you've ever heard of this before @Leo Gura.

This is actually in our evolutionary nature. Girlschase has a good article on this called lovers or fighters: who's your target audience, men or women? Tldr is that men evolved two strategies to be more competitive with reproductive success: a more fighter strategy to fight other males away from the females or a lover strategy aimed at directly charming women. In our modern society the fighter strategy isn't so efficient as you can't really kill a man that's courting the women you're into but you can imagine how in older times it's basically the most effective method. A big part of self-actualization is shedding our evolved nature and being intentional with our behavior by that's the principle behind fighting other men for access to women.

@Nilsi I'm honestly not familiar with CRISPR or the philosophy behind it, is it patented technology or open source? The main reason I like the idea of diy biohacking is you can bypass mainstream corporate agendas and take the matter (and your body) into your own hands. I don't really want an Amazon esque entity in my genes(I guess Pfizer already is.)

That's a good point, wage slaving for years and being broke taught me empathy. Without it I'd probably be just as heartless as any capitalist.

I'm with you on that one brother. I just thank God we don't live in the industrial ages and it's feasible to escape the system now. If I lived back then I would've flipped shit and killed the factory owner for sure.

You can add value by being a fun positive and non needy individual. What people call gregarious game. On a more tangible level though, there's unlimited value you can bring to a social group or a woman. Have a fun lifestyle, have access to exclusive events, have a cool circle of friends to do activities with, have the money to do cool things, etc. The general idea is the same as business, have a UVP(unique value proposition) that makes you stand out from other men.

@something_else I actually agree but it's important to be honest and precise with yourself about your goals. I know men that have been going out for years to "be social" and I guess they achieved that but their romantic and business life is in shambles. Are you being social to meet cool girls that want to sleep with you? To meet interesting and skilled men to add to your network? To find fortnite buddies? They're all very different things.

This is a weird perspective. How many years do you spend in school to be able to get a career and then you still end up not financially free. If more people took their dating life seriously, as it's probably as important as a career, the world would be a better place. The above poster goes a bit hard but for logical men breaking things down to find the most effective lifestyle strategy makes a lot of sense. I think he overfocuses on cold approach and not enough on social circle/lifestyle design. Even if it works, do you really wanna spend your life approaching thousands of women yearly; wouldn't you rather design your life in a way where you have high status in communities and circles where theres a lot women of the personality you like? For example crypto communities have a lot of smart and ambitious women, if that's your cup of tea it's very easy to apply the same game and status strategies to get a good dating life in that niche.

Do you have other women in your life that are showing interest in you and what value do you offer as a man besides emotional support? Sounds to me like she's not romantically/sexually interested in you and you're hoping to change her mind with being her emotional tampon. Beware, that's how the most toxic relationships form even if you do manage to convince her to date you.

The Chad/beta soy boy meme is a caricature of men's development but it's based on a lot of truth, be careful of just discarding it wholly. It's not so much based on being genetically superior(to be fair it did originate like that) but instead of maximizing your potential as a man. Plenty of ways to make yourself physically better looking but let's not forget socially, psychologically, and financially which will be way more important in your life.

What is a good guy with integrity? Is it the guys calling themselves feminists online? Is it the average guy on a college campus? Is it a guy that has his business/physical strength situation in order to protect her when shit hits the fan? It's a hard question and not so easy to answer.

Lookup social circle blueprint by Luke, Michael Sartain and Corey Chaloffs programs and content as well. Getting laid consistently with top tier women through cold approach solely is not possible anymore in most western countries. You have to combine social circle and social media for the best and most consistent results.

I keep seeing red pill figures and mainstream commentators being shocked and offended by the Lil Nas X devil campaign and how the global elites are trying to corrupt the children, blablabla. Isn't a gay black man making out with the devil literally the biggest meme you can imagine? It feels like God making fun of stage blue/orange people. I don't understand why the mainstream is pushing this, isn't it surprisingly high consciousness of them? It seems like they're sending a wrecking ball through the old limited paradigms that they've built themselves. Edit: Link to actual video by request, it is great I agree (: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6swmTBVI83k

Thank you for sharing brother Leo, much love and respect for opening up about that. I understand your point, it's a purely logical one and will definitely offend people but makes sense. All criminal actions and acts of violence are executed out of a sense of love, however, twisted it is. Interesting reality indeed.

Are you sure that you don't have sexual shame and spiritual ideology limiting beliefs? I call what you're talking about pseudo-spirituality, over-emphasizing what sounds like high consciousness, pure, uniting, etc. Unity is much more radical than two people being intimate with each other and being sensitive and opening up about their dreams or whatever meme you would make it out to be. Sure, all that stuff's great but it's a shallow form of what true unity would look like. If you consider your identity to be a formless soul experiencing this form-based physical experience then sharing that physical experience with other entities that you enjoy and reaching the boundaries that this physical reality can offer us together is a truly special and unique experience. You don't have to enjoy kinky sex/bondage and the theory that it's born out of trauma is an interesting one worth exploring but to categorize is as shallow, hedonistic, and unspiritual is a rookie mistake. BDSM and violent sex require a lot of mutual trust, understanding, and knowledge of each other and can be a very loving and uniting experience. It isn't always but it definitely can be.

Beautiful my friend, you've reached the anger phase(it's what they call this in Red Pill) and have the courage to admit it to yourself and the internet, you're at a great point. Now realize that those highly valuable, selective, narcissistic, pretentious, and elitist females are your gift from God. They are your proof that your God sees you and loves you dearly. These females are all yours for the taking my friend. Do you know what's the worse place to be when interacting with women? A low-value male. Do you know what's the best feeling in the world? Being with selective, elitist, and narcissistic females as high-value male because they LOVE you. They literally use those mechanisms to sort out other guys in favor of YOU. Try being in a place where you have abundance financially, a great social network, a good physique, worked out your limiting beliefs and trauma so you're always in a good mood and never toxic, have access to good venues and activities, etc and you'll see that basically every woman loves you and wants to hang out with you. You also live in the best(and only time) in history where knowledge and ways to raise your attractiveness, finances, and social status are abundant. Countless resources out there to become financially independent, better your game, get fit and learn social circle game. If you choose to(or aren't in a position to) take advantage of this then, OF COURSE, you're gonna suffer and be bitter when it comes to women. That's by design, it's not a bug. Stop listening to mainstream dating advice and philosophy. You're not a blob, you're a male trying to court females. So is every other straight male. Become the alpha male and heaven's gates will open up to you.