LordFall

You should add more than cold approach to your repertoire. Social media and social circle will help you bang hotties more than spamming cold approaches. In my experience cold approach works best on average girls and tourists.

Sounds like spiritual bypassing if you're too good for fucking because of karmic entanglement lol

@Javfly33 You arguing against duality itself. The whole point of nonduality isn't that duality doesn't exist; it's that it's not the ultimate truth. Some people like to fuck, others to get fucked and some people enjoy both. Those are pretty extremes modes of being though. Femininity definitely exists. There is a reason some humans like to doll themselves up and present themselves as a prize to be fought over by other humans. If I was a god split into various parts that would be a pretty obvious duality to take sweet advantage of.

If I were you at 21 I would tryout a serious monogamous relationship and see how you like it. Have the expectation that it won't last though and then go out to the field and figure out a way to get maximum abundance. Plenty of men never go through the pickup journey and don't sleep with 20 girls and end up married just fine. Then we also have the 53% divorce rate and deadbedrooms for the % still in their marriage. Having said that though part of the issue is not just cold approach skill but how high value/in demand you are in general. There is no reason you can't work on your social status and social circle while still in a monogamous relationship. Just don't be the guy that isolates himself with a GF and comes out 3 years later with no social network, destroyed confidence and no options.

Totally agree, there is a big gap in the market for a more holistic version of Andrew Tate. Humanity and young men in general need a new mission or purpose to rally toward. I think generally we are going towards world alignment in the coming decade so that is an inspiring mission to get behind; literally world peace.

@KoryKat I'm still in the research mode. I have a few projects going on but I wanna start selling these AI services by the end of November. I want to focus on the voice agents as they seem the most versatile to me and I can see that clearly being the future. The 5 niches he talks about are: 1) General automation workflows 2) Text based agents 3) Voice based agents 4) Zapier based ecosystems 5) Chatbot specific agents @Lyubov I think AI can be hugely paired along with life coaching. I think for example if you're a coach working with students you could set them up with custom GPTs that they can talk to and do self-inquiry on and you could have access to what comes out and be able to help your clients better and better as the AI gets to use them more. Eventually AI therapy services will come out and be commercialized for a subscription but this is a nice in between step where a human expert can just use the AI as an exploration tool to help their clients learn more about themselves.

I think social media breaks can be good for a few weeks. Not learning how to use it for your advantage leaves you really vulnerable in today's world though. I think anyone that's not actively working on making Instagram work to the benefit of their dating/networking/business life is crazy. I use it for business and pleasure daily.

I try to make my social circle very specific and hangout mostly with people that have the same ambitions I do. Back in my game days it was mostly pickup guys now it's evolved to mostly business people. I'm a photographer and starting a content agency so I hangout with a lot of women through that as well.

Would you make a video breaking him down similar to how you did with Jordan Peterson?

Seems pretty cool, I tested a few queries seem to be a good bank of information. Did you run into many censoring issues while getting it to focus on pickup topics?

I don't think he's fully a scammer, his content and courses offer good value. The deceptive and pushy sales strategy are definitely offputting, and specifically his NFT project is quite shady. I got a month of his Educate course and it was fairly solid for the $50/month it costs.

Unexpectedly great video on levels of consciousness, spiral dynamics, susan cook-Greuter's developmental levels models and AQAL by Ken wilder He made this simplified chart too, overall probably some of the best consciousness video I've seen outside of Leo's work

It wouldn't be fun otherwise

@Princess Arabia If we ever meet you'll have a good time

I didn't watch the whole video but I think she makes some phenomenal points. Relationships should be transactional in that most people should be satisfied with the experience and person they're getting. Biology blessed us this way like I'm very much a provider male. As my businesses grow any woman dating me would not need to work and would have their needs provided for. In exchange I want basically total compliance within reason and no disrespecting me nor toxic complaining or anything that would distract me from my purpose. I would say my relationships will be more transactional than most but also happier than most.

I didn’t watch it but you know that as much as 40% of relationships now start on dating apps? You have to put a bit of thought into your dating strategy to make it work like if you’re a guy you probably will need to buy a professional photoshoot and if you’re an attractive woman have a vetting or screening process. If used properly I think they work great.

I would summarize it as the burden of competence. Are you able to provide value and security to the women, friends, family and community around you?

@PsychedelicEagle Mother earth created every single part of the process involved with veneers. As well as cancer.

@Leo Gura Excited to see the new ones!

They call the switch in your interest of the two sexes the bi-cycle, it's fairly normal. It's also one thing to figure out your identity from mental fantasies versus doing it in real life and seeing how you really like it.

I would volunteer on one or a farm to see if your fantasy life is as pleasurable as you make it out to be. Also, I would break down which parts of modernity you dislike. Is it just a job? Start a business. Is it a lack of deep relationships? Start a cooperative project right now in your city. A lot of the lack of enjoyment in the current modern experience is probably in your lack of skill in navigating the system not so much the system itself. This is great news because you can learn and get better at the things that are causing you problems. For example, financial issues are a massive drain on 99% of society but there are precise ways to fix that.

I always liked the advice that you only need to be 2 or 3 steps ahead of the average person to be able to offer them value. Also, coaching is based on empathy and relatability so you could be a better coach than a billionaire if you're better able to empathize with people's problems and guide them through them. Also, AI will give you a lot of the answers so implementation will be a bigger piece of the puzzle than before.

I think the codependence, independence and interdepence model works well for life purpose in couples. Having an independent relationship where both people work on seperate goals and come together at the end of the day to relax and share accomplishments with another is one thing but if you can make these goals align and synergize with eachother that's most likely the best possible outcome.

I don't understand what you mean by this.

@Elisabeth It's definitely about relationships for me; not just sex. I'm a fan of BDSM so personally I would incorporate some elements of that into it. People have 4-5 children and love them so I don't know why you couldn't do that with romantic partners about it.