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He's talking about inner game though not outer game in this instance. Inner game is just giving you the confidence and lowering your anxiety enough to get you to go up to women and be charismatic and not in your head. There are a lot of outer game techniques that do work consistently but it's not as important as inner game. I'm not a big fan of cold approach but an outer game technique I like is taking dating photography and shooting content to get laid off of dating apps and Instagram. I got all my FWBs from Tinder and Bumble.

100% thats why a lot of relationships end in dead bedrooms. Women can conquer men with their vaginas but if it works it turns off their sex drive.

@Inliytened1 We can continue our conversation on what women like on this one. We'll bring back our man Jordan Peterson with this quote he has which I think is pretty interesting "What do women want in a male hero? Well, he’s got to be a dangerous man... He’s a monster, but he’s a monster who can be tamed by the right woman. That’s the Beauty and the Beast archetype. That’s why women like pirates, vampires, werewolves, surgeons, and billionaires... A doctor or a billionaire is a dominant male in the social hierarchy. A pirate, a vampire, or a werewolf is a dominant male outside the social hierarchy." I think Twilight shows a lot on human psychology. It's an allegory for high status males. Basic girl literally gets two supernatural super men to fight over her. It's the equivalent of harem anime where a dude who's not that special somehow conquers the world and gets all the girls pining for him while the writers make him as bland as possible so as many men as possible relate to him. It's interesting human psychology on many levels. Teaches you what marketers know about all of us that we don't even know about ourselves. My own game Legend of the Abyss is a bit inspired by Twilight in that the main character is uses blood magic but it's more based on the bible and the book of exodus than actual Vampires.

Yeah when you put it like that I agree. You can't really practice sex outside of a relationship outside of doing a bunch of hookups which don't tend to produce great sex anyway from my experience so working on the package is the day to day logical move. When you're with a girl then yeah make sure she cums often and in varied ways and she'll feel like you're irreplaceable. Also being really attracted to the girl you're fucking makes for better sex I find since you become an animal and ravish her and that comes from having a high SMV to be able to pull hotties. I've banged girls I was not really into and like sometimes I can't even stay hard cuz I don't actually wanna be there and start questioning my decisions in the middle of it and it makes the process even softer . Also it makes it so I really want them to leave where as if I'm really into the girl I can fuck 3-4 times and afterwards we just collapse into bliss and pass out together even if I barely know her.

Sure I'm just saying that's a low bar. Go down on her or get a vibrator if the dick doesn't work. Like 70% of women can't cum from solely vaginal sex. I agree that cumming in your girl while she also cums is a deep bonding experience that weighs a lot I'm just saying there is more to it then that to be attractive to a wide range of women especially if you like women who are in demand who have access to all kinds of dudes like promoters, DJs, musicians, etc that fuck a lot but aren't great relationship partners.

No I think it's a pretty wide generalization. Women don't care that much about the destination they want an adventure. "Pack your bags baby, we're leaving for Italy in 3 hours!" An adventure with question marks along the way but she knows its gonna be safe and awesome with you because you're the man.

Plenty of dudes give women multiple orgasms every night and still get left, ghosted, or cheated on. Physical climax isn't a leash. If orgasms were what locked in a woman, no woman would ever leave a high-performing hookup partner. What locks a woman in long-term is high value, safety, and emotional investment. Not just dopamine from a good orgasm and great sex. As a matter of fact there is a lot of women that don't like it when men focus on them orgasming because it makes the process mechanical and too logical as opposed to a true roller coaster of emotions which is felt throughout her life. If you use sex as an analogy for a relationship, then bondage is kind of what they want. They want to feel an adventure that's a bit dangerous but actually safe and pushes their comfort but in way where they're in control. Just focusing on orgasms is like doing the missionary position over and over again and she cums each time but she still dumps you because it's boring.

Yes in one sentence a man that adds value to their lives and helps them solve their problems as opposed to adding new ones.

Reddit is an amazing place but the mod culture is very annoying. It gives power to individuals that seem to be pretty sheltered and not that socially calibrated so they get offended easily and it's not like here where we can talk about it and figure out our viewpoints; they just ban you. So annoying, what fucking losers.

When we look at the definition I think it's pretty easy to see that life has many purposes. Experiences, growth, love, evolution, cooperation, fun yes, etc. Whether or not you feel moved by any of these things is another thing entirely. Do you feel like you have purpose in life?

Dope excited for you. Get a picture! I went to an RSD Madison and RSD Alex free tours years ago, great experience. Phenomenal way to meet like minded friends. I haven't met Owen in person yet, one day I will. One of my top mentors for sure. Sartain has surpassed him in game but Owen is the one who created a movement around it. I met Mystery in person a few years ago, that was one of my favorite experiences in my life. Such a unique and poetic guy. One of my clients got his bootcamp so I got to meet him while I was helping him with content production.

The reasons introverts are worse at cold approach than extroverts is we think more. Extroverts go first vibe then think later. Introverts think and put themselves in fight or flight before the approach. Thus why meditation helps and being in a flow of presence. Hitting the gym before a cold approach session has always helped me, probably because of raised testosterone and then you meditate in the morning before the game session and you're primed for it. If you do a 30 challenge and game everyday you will gain a lot of momentum and almost turn yourself into an extrovert and your anxiety will drop massively if not disappear.

Twilight was never a movie. It was a warning

Its a wrap boys

Interesting, does make sense that criminals would have a higher tendency to push boundaries. That's why I linked the more recent studies as well that have found lower instances but still around 1-2%.

Usually when people link to outside authority, like a youtube channel, to make points they don't even understand the points enough to synthesize them so I'm gonna be a bit skeptical of your authority on the truth of this matter. I do think that there is a lot of great unfalsifiable wisdom in the Bible and other religious books but there are a lot of plot holes as well.

There was this really odd scene in one of the latest house of the dragon episodes where the reignant King Aemond kisses his mother. It was quite bizarre. How it's framed in the show is that his relationship with women and power is so twisted that he doesn't enjoy regular women and only his mom matters to him and his whole life is a power struggle for the throne so when he claims it and the pressure builds up around him he kisses his mom to grasp at power and control. Quite bizarre but here you go. The psyche is a strange place, some boundaries should stay as such!

Fair enough, and I respect your calm approach to the discussion. To quickly clarify the mechanics on the study so we don't leave bad data hanging: that observational study looked at a population in China where pork is by far the primary source of high-fat meat, salted pork, and processed pork. That's a confounding variable (high dietary fat and overall lifestyle), not a biological property unique to clean pork loin causing pancreatitis. It's not confrontational, I just want to make sure that we do indeed kill the bias where it stands and highlight the truth. There are multiple ways the immune system works that we don't understand. Some people get cured by prayer. Maybe God literally heard their prayer and magically cured them cuz fuck it here's a blessing for you. Maybe it was a new diet that they adopted that changed it that their doctor didn't see coming and they pray all the time anyway so they just assumed God cured them. To have a process that's consistent overtime and produces expected results in multiple different people is what medicine considers legitimate. You haven't shared your own dating story, how are you finding the quest for love?

Can you share some other health influencers or researchers that you like better? I like that he focuses on the future and big goals but I understand that it's not practically here yet and is pie in the sky for now but I do think we will cure all diseases in the next 15 years I would bet money on that.

It is 100% on topic, you just proved my point on dogma. Those books are by Anthony William apparently known as the "Medical Medium," who claims he gets his medical advice from a spirit. There is no documented legitimacy to it. That PubMed study is on fat intake/hypertriglyceridemia-induced pancreatitis (dietary fat levels), doesn't have anything to do with specifically pork being bad for the pancreas. See how quick it is to sneak up on you? My friend go date and fuck multiple people and have a great life. You seem to have a religious background and so do I my family on my dad's side is Muslim and my dad doesn't speak to my brother for being gay and I haven't told him I'm bi yet who knows what'll happen when I do. Fuck dogma and ideology.

Sorry even if you're a girl I don't let women gaslight me, it's against my values. I think you're cool though but you can't solve every problem with esoteric spirituality!

Always funny how the ego backlash happens directly when you call it out directly lol. What happened to the beautiful poetic language? Love you my friend but I am the one that is tired of tolerating BS posts. Ground what you're saying in truth or I will eviscerate it with beautiful logic. To me that is poetry.

That's how you experience it on a deep level or just your immediate gut reaction? I found it incredibly healing and refreshing to come across both the red pill and female dating strategies subreddits. I always felt like mainstream advice was shallow and blind optimism and my relationships with other humans didn't represent that. Only by breaking down all the manipulations of the other sex in that regard or by reading books like 48 laws of power and understanding the concepts of the jungian shadow do I now feel at peace with other human beings and understanding they types of manipulative and toxic strategies they use to get their wants and needs met. I even see it in myself and my group of friends where sometimes we act in ways that on a surface level makes no sense but now through my deep understanding of human psychology I can just immediately diagnose it as oh this person is anxious and doesn't know how to gain control of their life and is lashing out in X way, no big deal. Same with understanding trauma where sometimes people flip the fuck out in seemingly insane ways and you can just immediately spot it oh they have been carrying a lot of tension for a while and they feel unseen/unheard and now use this medium to unleash all this pent up energy. Whereas people literally labelled it as demonic possession before. I just read about this in Robert Greene's new book the Laws of human nature where this widespread demonic possession case in a small town in 1634 lead to a priest getting burned at the stake because the nuns were dreaming about him and it was ruled that he was using black magic to manipulate the church and it was just sexual repression and i guess he was good looking and they wanted to fuck lol. True story. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loudun_possessions I have a friend who refuses to read Robert Greene's books because they are too toxic(he was raised christian) and he has been trying to find a girlfriend for the past year and he literally has told about 12 women in the past year that he loves them and he wants them to be his wife and he is mind boggled and in a lot of pain because he continuously gets rejected and ghosted by women. He is integrating the abundance mindset and slowly getting rid of his conditioning but its ingrained into him, we had an hour call about it yesterday.

I mean feel free to be more precise and elaborate on why previous relationships you've had didn't work out and we can diagnose it. To me it helps to be very logical and not emotional when it comes to analysis otherwise you get bogged down in stuff that's not objective. What does falling out of fantasy/love mean? What was the fantasy? That you could make it work no matter what? Why do people fall out of love? Usually its because people grow apart in quite predictable ways like one wants to grind on their career and never retire ala Warren Buffet and one wants to chill out relax and go to the beach and read books. You can identify such patterns with MBTI and overall desired life purpose and desired lifestyle. My relationships that didn't work I couldn't offer the women the stability and life that they wanted plain and simple. We could chill, fuck and do random dates for a while until it eventually came to a head and we went our own ways. The longest relationship I had for 1 year my dad left the province and left me with the house so I could host parties and fuck girls and I ended up dating this girl that was the ex of my weed dealer and we bonded really deeply and had deep talks into the night and she was one of the smartest girls and coolest I've met to this day. Doesn't change fundamental transactional dynamics lol I got a cute girlfriend to fuck when I didn't have much abundance at the time so I ignored her toxic traits for far longer then I should have and she got a free place to crash as her home life wasn't great and she was escaping her problems with drugs and a dude that would validate her and give her emotional support. We fell out of the fantasy. It was awesome love while it lasted though. We used to write each other back and forth long journals of our love and our desire to be with each other and she would draw me these cute images. I didn't delete any of it though I keep it in an archive and look at it once in a while remising about my one deep love I've had in this life so far. That girl helped me through the most traumatic event of my entire life and stuck with me through it. Without her as a grounding force I might not be here that was some bad shit. I'm over it now but bro let me tell you I was fucking WRECKED when that relationship ended. Lasted from mid 2018 to may 2019 when we broke up and then we had a back and forth still hooking up and hanging out at times until I physically had to move cuz I couldn't resist her and thats how I ended up in Toronto in early 2020. Fuck I blocked her everywhere but left some niche obscure ways to contact me like whatsapp that I never use and she would hit me up after a few weeks and we'd hang out for a few days and then block each other again. Good times, bad times. Don't miss it but it was great at times. What I've experienced since then has been pretty awesome and I hope to keep building upon it and achieve a dating life that's beyond my wildest dreams as I've shared in other posts. We had a goal of starting a couples channel, got 1 video in but hey. That's why content is important. Priceless memories.