LordFall

Si tu le voit choses comme ca je dirais que la plupart des gens se mettent en couple pour se construire le style de vie auquel ils aspirent, donc je ne vois pas le probleme. Je recommende au gens d'utiliser toutes les dating apps a la fois sa rend les choses plus rapide.

Yes that's a good point usually they approach with choosing signals and making themselves available.

I've been going through another awakening lately that was triggered by my 30 day challenge and I noticed that men basically always react to eachother on the street. If you walk confidently you will notice that you will either puff up more or shrink down/move out of the day depending on which guy you see on the street and how much of threat you peg him at. I first noticed it years ago while taking shrooms at a club but humans are basically screaming at eachother 24/7 through body language, it's quite mesmerizing once you tune into it. So really the odd that you trigger another dude especially if you make eye contact and don't back down is quite high, much more that said random dude would go to the point of harassing/assaulting a woman. Robert Greene talks extensively about body language in the 3r chapter of the laws of human nature, highly recommend that book.

That's a really good video. It's accurate in my experience that most men suck at approaching women, no such thing as a natural they were just socialized better than you were in that context. I remember my mom teasing me about women in junior high but she never even told me to ask out a girl, nor did my dad. Had to learn it from pickup coaches. And even though I was not the most confident guy at the start you forget most rejections after 5 mins. Women definitely want to be approached. I got a great one on film, I was doing street interviews with my buddy and decided this girl was too hot to approach. Then I said fuck it lets do it anyway and interviewed her and you can see she was pretty receptive and happy to be talked to, got her Instagram after. You can see though my left hand is jittering throughout, I kept my composure for most of it but I was really afraid of talking to her. https://www.instagram.com/p/C947lEPpMkn/

That's fair, I would say keep the hobbies and vision alive though. I would say it's one of the best times in recent memory to start a comic book and basically create your own IP, with AI agents and generative media it's gonna be possible to create the most alive alternative worlds that humanity has ever created and to do it by yourself/with a small team. I'm actually working on one myself right now! For me I'm in a similar boat of focusing on immediate cashflow to fund my bills and then working on a few separate projects on the side like this Legend of the Abyss IP I've been writing for like 6 months and also want to start a media agency since I host a lot of photoshoots and know a lot of models that would benefit from help with their media creation/marketing so that seems like a big win-win leverage. Just moved to Montreal so gonna see where I can take this over the summer. A lot of pretty women here boys you wouldn't believe. It wouldn't be a good place go to full MGTOW but then again I think every place on earth is a terrible place to give up on women. There are good times for monk mode periods of focus though, I haven't dated in the past 3 years to focus on the ecosystem I'm building.

That's a very naturalistic way to look at it. I would say it comes down to strategy vs coping then. Humans are build around using our times effectively to secure a better future for ourselves, that's one of the main differences between us and animals that live mostly in the present moment due to lacking the cortex for strategy. I think it's good to medidate and always enjoy the present moment even when it's mediocre but not to forget long term strategy so you're not stuck in stagnant environments over the long term.

Do you watch porn regularly? Being used to being alone shouldn't have too much with sexual drive. Technology mostly hightens competition, it's like globalization. The women in your immediate vicinity are engaging with the content of people living across the world and in part other men with more resources living funner lives than you. If you have the drive to compete it's not an issue but if your brain chemistry is out of whack then yeah it's gonna be overwhelming. The dating marketplace becoming more competitive is why social media and social circle game are so important.

@Zenterus What are you working on apart from pickup? Life purpose is definitely a big part of the life puzzle and without it you’ll invariably be bound by chaos.

You could call complaints like this perfect natural selection. All our history has been forced to adapt to reproduce and survive. The black plague was not that long ago with half your village dead on the street and dudes were like alright we're gonna make it fuck it let's still get it and here we are. It's even more brutal in the animal kingdom. A cute girl with headphones is what's gonna stop your bloodline? I think not. Go get them cowboy. I recommend doing this newbie challenge it progressively acclimates you to bolder and bolder approaches. Think about it, how fucking boring is social media? I guarantee you that you can outcharm tiktok. Practice a few teasing gambits and banter. Modern women are dying to get seduced. If you go into interview robot mode though then of course anything is gonna be more useful than her having to exert energy to answer boring questions. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/

I mean if you're asking for my personal opinion 1) Obviously all men aren't trash perhaps only those who consistently inflict pain on those weaker than them. 2) Economic equality is a complicated subject that has to do more with macroeconomics and sociology than gender really. Men oppress eachother as much as they oppress women. It's the history of civil rights that feminism also belongs to. 3) Some men are loyal some aren't just like women. 4) Not true, in some aspects sure but most men I know aren't doing particularly well and for example now in terms of education and I think median income women in the west are doing better. 5) I don't think men fear strong women they dislike difficult women that create problems for no reason. Or they do sour grapes and hate on women they can't get . 6) Obviously not all men cheat I've never cheated and a lot of guys I know haven't as well. Truly a lack of character to cheat on the person closest to you, I wouldn't trust that kind of guy in business. 7) I agree with that one the most. Emotional mastery is complicated and something I struggle with daily to this day. Anxiety is a big one and misidentifying it and turning it into anger is common for me and other guys I know. Most women are also emotionally underdeveloped though.

It's a nuanced answer. Depends how you want to look at it. I think you shouldn't care what random people care about you and just reverse engineer the life you want. I agree that most men are underdeveloped yes but then so are most women so it's an irrelevant point. Men are trash. Men are the reason that equality hasn't been achieved Men aren't loyal Men as a class are completely privileged Men fear strong women All men cheat (This one is my personal favorite) Men are emotionally underdeveloped I'm just not really sure what some random women on an internet forum has to do with me building a harem with the most beautiful and coolest women I've ever met. I hope they use AI to fix their mental health and/or whatever other resources they have access to also achieve whatever goals they have is the end of my thoughts on men hating femcels really.

On what point precisely? I agree that most of a man's dating issues are self-inflicted yes. Up until you're an adult you're a result of your environment but nowadays with all the knowledge online you can definitely build whatever dating life you want. What action are you gonna take today to improve your dating life? I just moved to a new city and am currently broke and looking for a job and stressed with some health issues and I will still be continuing my cold approach challenge today. Feel free to join me and do it as well. The newbie guide I linked in that post is a phenomenal way to get into cold approach if you've never done it before. Each day that you fail to take action is one less stone in your empire my brother.

Don't take this the wrong way bro I love you and want you to become your most powerful best self. The whole problem with inceldom is self induced powerlessness IMO as someone who was one in my teens. You cannot equate women writing mean things on the internet about men to getting hit in the face with a lead pipe. That's insanity. Especially because a lot of times the women aren't writing it at men they're just emoting and sharing their feelings with what they hope is other women. Sticks and stones may break my bones But words will never hurt me. Another way to look at it is one of the core pickup principles is get better not bitter. Learn some game and go date 1-3 hot women, any other solution is coping fundamentally tbh. I made a whole thread on social circle game, I spend years learning that shit and spend thousands on some of the worlds best coaches on it. Trust me that will help more than any sort of complaining about women. If you just came in your perfect 10 this week I don't think you would've made this post.

Isn't that specifically a perfect textbook example of ego backlash? If you're a jew serious about deconstructing anti-Semitism and understanding the story of your people and those who opposed them, wouldn't Mein Kampf be at the top of your list? I think if you're a man that loves women you should specifically familiarize yourself with feminist literature. It's basically the story of your favorite group of people on earth no? If you're afraid of it it and attacking it out of hand it doesn't say much about women more that you feel powerless and attacked and don't understand why. I personally found it just as interesting as reading pickup advice or red pill philosophy. Lets you understand the sphere of gender interactions much better and ultimately bond with women more effectively.

The chemistry is usually done when you meet the girl in person. Sure do a few texts but for example if you literally don't know the girl as she's from online dating the sequence should be opener -> she responds -> banter for 1-2 lines -> ask her out. You basically never build chemistry over text in 80% of texts IMO from my own life experience and all the men I've known from many game communities it'll most likely bore her if she's a girl with a regular social life. If you're like on eharmony or meeting women through Reddit or something out of the norm then disregard this advice I have no idea how that works.

Just edited and released the vlog of the photshoot! Let me know if you guys have any questions on how to throw these types of events yourselves or other types of events and what the strategy behind it is.

Someone added me on Instagram and asked me social circle questions and I figured I'd make a post about it since that's been my area of focused for the past 5 years. Social Circle game is one of the most powerful way to gain value as a man and meet women because it recreates the original tribal/communal dating strategy but on your own terms. You're in no doubt in many various social circles already or possibly just friend groups(I define social circle as group where all the members gain transactional value from eachother unlike a friendgroup where a lot of times it's actually negative sum) but you're probably at the effect and not at the cause of them. The most powerful type of social circle is one that has some type of professional/business component to it because it can then tie into an overall lifestyle design strategy and combine business and pleasure unlike let's say an AI engineer that can make $30k/month WFH and not know a single woman. The goal of this social circle will be to create mutually beneficial activites that you host on your own turff(notice how a nightclub is a private venue owned by a group of men that charge you for entry, and for drinks and for bottle service for the privilege of courting the women they assemble) and to include that as a foundation of your dating and social life. The main leverage point of this social circle is to position you as a leader in a group of people(and of course attractive women) so that you're in a better position to hit on them without being gatekept, other guys having higher status than you or HR terminating your source of income. The second leverage point is to make female teammates from your social circle. These are women with which you have goals in common that you can transactionally help you achieve. This can be you going to events together and them getting you status/access and you helping them make connections, can be you supporting their projects they have as their own girlfriends tend to be lacking in that type of support, etc. Good example of this is Dan Bilzerian has a model manager named Masha Diduk who recruits models for his company Ignite and saves him from having to manually DM all the girls and who's probably gotten him laid hundreds of time. Myself I am a photographer that has hosted photoshoots with many models(shoutout to Luke Krogh and Michael Sartain for putting me up to this) and am now transitioning into operating my own media/modelling agency. Other examples that can work wonders for this can be a run club, entrepreneur club, investing group, college parties, parties in general, group travel, book clubs, etc. The key to this is to not fake it til you make it. You must create an actual group that offers genuine value to people and not try to pull girls on day 2 before anything of substance has been created. Think of the reaping too early before you've sowed enough and you've beared fruits. I'll write another post or update this one with Social Circle 102 on how to find a lot of women to invite to your social circle. In 2020 I moved to downtown Toronto and had the chance to live with and work with a few club promoters and learned their secrets. The teaser I'll give is it's mostly like sales.

I would try remote income, there's a few types of gigs like customer support, data triage/labelling, virtual assistance, or content moderation that are fully remote. You could also try carpooling networks. If there's facebook groups near you try that or marketplace. If you enter a relationship in a financially vulnerable position looking to manipulate someone usually that ends up in a toxic relationship with perhaps abuse against you as people can feel themselves being gaslit. There are also jobs where coworkers can pick you up type of thing and you give them gas money. If you're asking this I assume you don't have family that can assist you but if so that would then obviously be the first thing to try.

Love yourself and then find a great woman/man. It's a skill issue nothing to do with Hollywood. What part of it was so hard for yo?

Just visualize yourself as a caveman when you fuck. Our ancestroys have been fucking women since the dawn of time. It's what we're here for. Man fuck

I dated a BPD girl for about a year and she cheated me a couple of times throughout. I did cocaine and even meth with her. If I didn't move cities across the country I probably would be dead by now. I think a lot of it comes from self-esteem and abundance mindset. I was lonely and lived a boring life without her. First woman I loved and hopefully not the last. Boundaries are very important, now I have a very short patience for people that don't add value to my life. I'm both more confident in my own value and skillset now and not willing to be miserable for the sake of someone that's not gonna help themselves anymore.

@Lila9 Yeah that's fair. My only caveat would be to say that the patriarchy is not an unnatural system. It's just the extension of the dominance hierarchy of the animal kingdom. Kill or be killed or be enslaved basically. I do think it's time that we rise above it and finally bring our species globally towards stage green values. It's funny because I'm quite sure AI will have a lot to do with it. Women's rights increase dramatically the more stability the state has and the more effective law enforcement is. I think perhaps now we have gone full circle to @mr_engineer's point not in terms of both being hateful ideology but fundamentally both being about being able to thrive and be fulfilled and how hard that is in our current society no matter your gender. Interestingly Stage Yellow is the first stage that really combines both feminine and masculine polarity. Also I think a lot of inceldom has to do with fundamental immaturity and a lack of integration of stage blue and stage orange. A well integrated stage orange individual should have no issue dating as they have figured out how to be interact effectively with the markets that they are in.

What is the patriarchy to you? It sounds to me like you're lumping all of feminism together when it's separated by waves. 1st-3rd wave feminism seems way more legitimate to me than 4th wave feminism that we have today which is mostly femcels/anti-establishment socialists.

Sure you don't have to try it if you don't want to. Just realize that a lot of the shame comes from conformity and group think and if you accept the world that we do here and that fundamentally the whole universe is the same as you then no shame should come from sexuality or much of anything else apart from the wounding of others. The fact that sexuality is probably the most shamed concept on the planet but the most intimate is a deep insight as to the nature of what low consciousness entails. Not just in the way of you being ashamed if you wanna try some dick but also there's plenty of women afraid and uncomfortable with their own vagina let alone sexuality as a whole.

Posture is very powerful, it does literally change your state of mind. Kind of like when you're sad or depressed if you force yourself to smile your brain will release endorphins and it'll help you feel better. It's not the only thing but it definitely lowers your self-esteem to have bad posture. Dominant posture if you're a single straight male is especially powerful. There are often times I've noticed recently when I have quite good posture girls with boyfriends on the metro will eye me up and often times I see their boyfriends with a slouched back, they literally look defeated I almost want to tell them Bro straighten that back imma take your girl if you keep standing like this!