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Sure most people aren't willing to take responsibility for their lives, it's easier for themselves to be told what to do. Islam is not neutral though, it usually forces it's ideology unto people. What happens when a young woman or man wants to leave and find their own way? Is that encouraged or is that shamed and often leads to psychological abuse if not physical abuse? Does it teach you to pray to God or to have a personality relationship with God and connect with it yourself? I think personally it uses the concept of God to control and suppress the society it has control over. It's peak stage blue and tries to force conformity instead of empowering the individuals that it reaches. The other day when 50 000 Muslim Moroccans invaded Ceuta, I suggested that the Morrocan Monarchy should be take responsibility for its young men being desperate enough to flee their country because the condition at home are so shitty and they should work on elevating them and providing bright futures for its young people. A Moroccan told me that it was silly to expect such a thing from their Islamic government. In my experience, as someone who half of his family is Islamic, it's an ideology that encourages submission(literally the name) over growth and doesn't just suggest it's principles unto others but does so through shame at best and usually violent domination. It's a very cringe ideology and I think the sooner the world is rid of it; the better. It has some good general principles like mutual reliance and community but I think that's almost accidental and due to macroeconomics more than Islamic principles or the powerful Islamic leaders in the world pushing that view. Hopefully you're able to take the good from it and leave the bad out; that's not a possibility for a lot of people stuck in that cult.

Sure that's what I meant. I think 20% of dating is figuring out the unique wants and needs of each person. 80% of it is pretty standard. Be a man that offers value, that communicates well, has good logistics, looksmaxxes properly, is fun to be around and can connect emotionally while being safe to be around. The more I level up the more I've experienced individual women being into me to percentage of women being into me. Doesn't mean that there aren't a lack of alignment in our lives that would make us dating difficult, I don't claim to have maxed out what I talked about. I would say though at my peak something like 25% of women are into me and super receptive and when I day game about that amount to giving me instagrams and then 30% of those would turn into dates and I would fuck like 50% of first dates when I did it often and had momentum. Had this exact conversation with one of my clients yesterday. He's not comfortable being man to woman and leading interactions yet so he chit chats with women to build rapport instead of actually communicating properly which is building only the basic rapport then asking them out that same week. He met this girl on IG who's into kpop and he tried to build rapport over both liking another man who's cooler than him, it's not 100% a deal breaker but its a unnecessary move that kills all sexual tension.

Took this course while it was still in development in 2020, changed my life. If you DM me I can send you the link to the full version.

Absolutely. The more you unravel it and get it to work in your favor the sweeter the berries get though

That was more vulnerable than you were before. How come you hate being criticized?

How's this for non-duality and boundaries collapsing lmao, I'm into a lot of things but this one I have never done and am not planning to. According to the stats some of you on this forum are bound to have done it Kinsey Institute (1953): In Alfred Kinsey’s landmark survey, approximately 3.6% of women reported having had some form of sexual contact with an animal at least once in their lifetime. Modern Epidemiological Estimates: Contemporary psychiatric and sexological research estimates the prevalence of actual zoophilic behavior across the general adult population to be around 1% to 2% or lower. Kinsey Institute (1948): Alfred Kinsey’s data indicated that approximately 8% of men reported some form of sexual contact with an animal at least once in their lifetime. (Among men raised in rural environments, Kinsey reported rates as high as 17%, largely involving farm animals). Hunt Survey (1974): Morton Hunt’s study reported a decline in lifetime prevalence among men to approximately 5%, reflecting increased urbanization. Modern Sexological Estimates: Contemporary studies estimate current active or lifetime zoophilic behavior among men in the general population to be around 1% to 2%. These stats hold true in my experience, I haven't even been with 100 women and I've had one admit to getting head from her dog and one admit to fantasies involving horses. If any of you are dating dudes raised on farms then Godspeed, you need all the STD panels available to mankind In some cultures it's not even taboo, this vice news doc investigated a niche Colombian tradition where young men are made to lose their virginities to donkeys as a rite of passage to manhood.

I think this blog series perfectly encapsulates how to think about women as a man https://www.woujo.com/blog/2019/12/15/the-purpose-series-part-2-of-3-how-women-are-attracted-to-men-with-attractive-purposes The whole point is it talks about how journey pleasure is the most important thing to you as a man. Basically not being desperate for comfort or acceptance or safety or fuck even abundance. The whole point is that the journey is the destination and basically continual growth is the source of your power and attractiveness as a man. If you are able to make your life a continuous adventure that elevates yourself, the community and the women around you and have fun and purpose throughout it then there are not many more questions left to answer after that. So have have we conquered this week boys and did we enjoy it?

I don't know who he was but that's a moving piece

When he fucks that chick and then she goes behind his back and fucks the producer

I just heard Gary Vee mention it on a podcast so it made me remember how great that movie is. It's Eminem building himself up and going through so many of the areas of self-development. Confidence, art, entrepreneurship, upward mobility, game, parenting, etc. Highly recommend everyone watch it if you haven't and rewatch it if it's been years since you've seen it. Gary's point is that life is like the ending of 8 mile. If you're able to own your weaknesses and be transparent and vulnerable then anyone trying to shit on you will look silly and only make you look better. From this if you're curious. I also recommend watching it, so many businesses and marketing lessons. Goat.

@Ulax You recommend it? I've been watching a lot of war movies since the start of the ukraine war made it more real in our timeline. I haven't seen that show so might give it a go. This was my favorite movie so far It's about WW1; makes the reality of war so much more clear. The best part of this movie is at the start the dudes that sign up think they're in Call of Duty and it's gonna be fun and great. Then on day 1 they get shelled and one of their buddy dies immediately and they start freaking out and welcome to war.

Very good. Each rejection proves to your brain that you are an action taker and you go for what you want. Each time you don't get what you want; you learn something about the universe and how it operates. It's important to figure out what women want as a whole and not a singular women. Basically nothing can be guaranteed to work on a single woman. Women as a whole though much easier to figure out. Keep levelling up bro, you got this.

Of course it will, 100x over. First of all because social circle still can include all the cold approach you want; the reserve is not true. It's not because you cold approach often that you're building a high leverage lifestyle. Social circle also allows you to scale your social life basically infinitely. All cold approach allows you to do is meet women in the street and clubs and fuck. It has a very low ceiling. Which is why all the cold approach we know about have massive social circles, social media and use leverage in their dating life. The reason that we know about Owen Cook is not because he's the greatest at cold approach. It's because he formed a social circle of the all the dating coaches he knew, used social media to scale and started to create systems of leverage(travelling to different cities and charging high ticket prices for bootcamps to fund his lifestyle.)

The fact that you immediately reached for a body count flex and assumed I must be lying shows where your mindset actually sits. You're reacting to your own past burnout with PUA tricks by swinging to the opposite extreme. Integration means being honest, high-value, and socially calibrated all at once. Without needing to project your old habits onto me.

This is actually the crux of the issue why cold approach is fundamentally not a good technique. It doesn't offer value it's just a an outreach method. If 100 dudes start hosting event it would elevate the city that they're in. The more dudes cold approach(especially clumsily and without calibration) the more guarded and less trusting of men women get. I t's kinda like being a telemarketer and just brute forcing marketing, sure you can make some money but there are more effective frameworks that are more win-win for both women and yourself. I still think it teaches you stuff to do it for a while but graduating to other more powerful forms of social strategy is mandatory for a man that wants world class results.

I still think you're spiritually bypassing and by hoping that your authenticity is enough. I never said to not be authentic but I don't even know what that means, I've pretty much never lied to women in my whole game career I always made it a point to tell all the girls I've dated I studied pick up for example and that's never backfired on me. Offering value as a man is a different concept. It's like what does authenticity have to do with feeding yourself? It's tangential. Feel free to experiment with this style of dating for a few months and get back to us on how it worked out. I could be wrong and you could find what you want quickly but my guess is that it's gonna be a little harder than just trying to be authentic and hoping people accept you without getting down to the core of how who you are as a man and what you offer the women that you're hoping to date.

Couldn't agree more. I'll race you to $1,000,000

@Asayake I think honestly man you're right that this forum is not serving you well. If you hangout on the Roblox forum you should find more interesting questions that are a match for your level of intellect.

Feel free to correct me and point out exactly where I'm wrong. I think you're feeling triggered and cornered. If you don't value intellectual integrity it's indeed useless for me to point out the flaws in your arguments even if it is objective. If it was not objective and true feel free to deconstruct my points just like I did to yours

Love Eminem he's up there for sure. One of the top stories of the american dream. Also some lessons to learn for us to learn on love and fame. I took a girl to karaoke one time and chose an Eminem song. One of the biggest mistakes of my life, his flow is way too fast I looked like an autist trying to replicate it even with a song I knew well. The cheeks went unclapped that night

I disagree with the mods and Leo on half of my posts. Why on earth would your goal ever be to be liked by a conformist crowd, your goal in life should always be to add value to whatever environment you're in. Conforming to the status quo or crying about not being responded to are both non-value adding moves. The 3rd most watched video on his channel is about emotional control. Yet you spiralled and fell pray to victim thinking, seeking validation and didn't introspect on what was happening.

For sure man, you deserve the best dating life that you can possibly imagine. That's why I write these crazy polyamory posts because that's the most beautiful life I can envision for myself. It's sure as fuck not easy but each day one step closer!

I didn't feel like backing up Bryan once more after I did it repeatedly would more value to the thread, highlighting your blind spots is more fun for me I like to challenge people. With skillful rhetoric you should be able to turn any conversation into a valuable exchange for both parties. It's a good point though you need people to push the overton window for society to evolve even if they do it not perfectly. I love the fact that Bryan coined the slogan Don't Die; I think that with the way biotech, medical research and AI recursive learning is going there is a good chance that we do end up biologically immortal in 20 years. This point is hilarious but seems bit true in that I think Bryan seems to not be a breakthrough researcher himself but more of an entrepreneur/marketer who shares his personal health journey as a way to leverage his business skills to add value to the medical industry and create a strong brand. I also like how he went to India and humiliated them a bit on their air quality issue. It definitely lacked some social calibration but its a useful call out; apparently 2M die prematurely over there due to it thats fucking crazy.

Of course it's yours. You're pointing fingers instead of figuring out your own blindspots. Saying that you're beyond something instead of trying to understand it which is the easy way out and ultimately a critique from below. The mind likes to think that it's always right but for that to hold up consistently you must first understand the other party's point of view and steel-man it instead of straw-manning it. Leo points to a valid phenomenon in that marketers tend to overhype stuff and even truly competent entrepreneurs tend to underestimate the timeline it takes to bring stuff to market. So even though Bryan means well it's a fair critique of his brand. Elon Musk famously does the same thing and even though he usually delivers; it pretty much always never goes according to his promised timeline.

That truth should be your highest principle otherwise anything else that you try to value over it will be corrupted and rendered weaker if not completely useless if not completely backfire in your face because of it.