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I think a lot of times people over-romanticize connection. In my opinion deep connections comes from relatability and understanding how someone sees the world because you see it the same way as them so you feel a deep sense of being understood when being with this person. That can just as easily lead to massive codependency, trauma bonding and karmic attachments as a lot of times people that see the world in the same way as you have the same blindspots and are stuck on the same video game level of life as you are. The more I grow up and self-actualize the more I'm able to connect with a wide variety of people that don't fit my perspective and paradigms and that's lead to a breath of new experiences. Throwing game knowledge and building social capital lets you then be able to attract a wide range of people that want to spend time with you because you've now surpassed the paradigm that they are stuck in but can also relate and bond from it without being judgemental about it.

Have you read the game and the truth by Neil Strauss? I find they are great books to inspire a man on his journey towards learning to become more attractive and mastering seduction. The Truth especially is not as well known as the game but it's much better imo, makes the story come full circle and goes over his sex addiction after meeting his model wife and how she dumps him for a while and they reconnect. It's also very fun to read as Neil is a fantastic author, it reads more like a thrilling action novel than a boring self-help book.

Two main things come to mind after reading your post 1) You seem to shame your own sexuality a lot. I would argue you seducing a woman is a gift to her, as long as you don't lie about your intentions and lead her on. Life is boring and stressful and you don't need to marry a girl for 50 years to offer value to her life. A fun night of kissing and bonding refreshes anyones soul, you don't need to see them for a long period of time afterwards to make that a mutually beneficial exchange. 2) You seem to lack a container in your life for women that you're not massively into but are still friendly with. That's where the power of social circle game and container events shine. You can organize a monthly or bimonthly event that aligns with your interest where you invite all the women you know and your friends and use it as both a testing ground for how these women align with your life but also as a way to keep in touch with women that you wouldn't necessarily ask out on a full date but also aren't already part of your social circle. I'm in the creative industry so I've done this with photoshoots and open mic events. Dinner parties can aslo work well for this.

Right but that's a correlation, not a causation. Meaning if you marry a woman with a 100 body count she's more likely to divorce you than a woman with a 1 body count. There are many reasons for that, the common one touted by the red pill sphere is that her body is now used to men and releases less Oxytocin and thus reduces the strength of her pain bonding ability and makes her more likely to jump ship. I'm a bit doubtful of that explanation, I think it's more that when you reach a high bodycount you're not paralyzed by the societal shame that comes from a divorce and you're more likely to leave a relationship that doesn't work to find another one that suits your wants and needs better.

You're a wizard now Harry!

There are so many good ones, I printed a crypto one for an investing meetup I held last year and people liked it a lot so it gave me all kinds of ideas. Sleeping with me resets your bodycount Stop grabbing my crotch ladies Rated best kisser 2025, let's make 2026 count Me, you and your bestfriend is a true lovestory Endless possibilities

I did read it AND I gave you a framework to reach YOUR stated goal that should help make the process better and add more value to your life. Which is why I'm calling you out for proselytizing your philosophy as the one true way instead of having the humility to think of it as your own conclusions that fit your desires.

Plenty of good and bad audiobooks that have varying degrees of accuracy in the opinions they put forth. A warlord is a political leader who derives his authority from his military forces as opposed to other institutional powers also known as a military dictatorship depending on how wide of a region he controls. Mohammad's actions of imperial expansion into the Arabian Peninsula and the Maghreb make him both a military dictator and a warlord by definition. I think your enjoyment of Sufism is giving you massive bias into understanding history and the story of Islam and the reason it's still around today. Not solely due to wisdom but due to its cult properties and their viking like rhetoric in promising a glorious afterlife to their followers that then violently impose their ideology on outsiders they conquer. Leo himself has been known to be quite bloodthirsty in how he tears down ideas he doesn't agree with but I think the infidels are physically safe for the time being!

Yes understanding the history of religious wars in Europe and the middle east helps us understanding a lot of what religion is about : shaping society and control. Not so much the comic book control from a place of grandiosity but more about creating a stable paradigm for society where violence is monopolized by the state and upstarts can't easily wrestle power away from them. Understanding the Catholic Church as the more advanced successor to the Roman Empire is a key insight in seeing how this has unfolded throughout our species. Islam being its main competitor just like China is opposing the west today. Two different cultures, ethnicities and systems of governance fighting for hegemony.

I've been wanting to try a gambit for a while, print a t shirt that says "I eat pussy better than any lesbian" or something funny like that and see if it gets a lot of chicks to approach. I think not taking yourself seriously and having fun when you go out can be a secret weapon. It's not part of my regular game but I think it would be funny to try out, usually I just dress well and go for a direct opener to hook quickly or go to the next set if one particular girl isn't interested.

The main idea is to be interesting and learn to hook strangers attention quickly in a chaotic environment like a busy street or a club. That's why the better or more striking you look the more you have an advantage as well as if you have a good opener that makes for interesting conversation since they'll give you like 2-3 seconds before you register as a boring stranger annoying them if your opener and frame is not on point.

You can have many life partners, if you'd only like one that your personal desire not a reality of how a lot of human beings arrange their life on this planet. I think understanding the nuance in dating and that the one true way is not a realistic holy grail to find, it's more of a learning a bit of everything from how other humans shape their life and having the self-awareness and willpower to build a beautiful masterpiece in your life from all that you've learned from others.

I raise you a Royal Flush! Casino Royale is a masterpiece.

This is a quick video that showcases an easy way to understand frame control. Inducement meaning seducing someone into your way of thinking instead of gaslighting or bullying them into it. A good healthy example of frame control is your girlfriend coming home from work in a bad moon and starting to vent and ramble about her day. You bring her in for cuddles on the couch, tickle her and makeout with her and make her forget all about the worries of the day and bring her into your grounded masculine playful and warm masculine frame.

Nah, I had some 5-meo-dm5 last year. It was beyond anything that you can experience by just self-inquiry.

I agree, some guys I know are very stubborn and just refuse to back down and to me I don't experience it as confident more like cognitively limited and a bit dull. Delusional confidence is only a virtue to a point, it hits it's ceiling quite quickly.

Yeah I've only seen the ones with Daniel Craig. James Bond taught me that having an elite skillset, pulling baddies and saving the world is the best life purpose there is.

If you've never taken psychedelics before the difference between theoretical awakening and a direct mystical experience is like reading about water in a novel vs being thrown in an arctic plunge. You'll like it a lot, it feels like an orgasm of the soul. Or like watching James Bond movie where you realize when you connect all the dots you figure out somehow you were James Bond the whole time.

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Calibration is important, the woman responds to your interest in her but what she really values is the emotional experience that surrounds it. That's why studying game is important so you can understand the mechanics that most people take for granted. Push pull for example is a mechanism at the core of most human interactions and in terms of dating it comes across as flirting where you pull her in with your interest and you push her way with your lack of neediness or funny break in rapports comments in response to shit tests. There are a few other concepts worth learning like the man to woman dynamic that is the core to keeping the magic alive in long term relationships.

He was literally a warlord my guy. He was at times more diplomatic than others but he waged many wars of expansion and conquered, killed and many of his forces raped and enslaved people In January 627 at the Siege of Banu Qurayza he had hundreds of men executed and the women and children sold into slavery https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siege_of_Banu_Qurayza I know you like the poetry but let's look at the pure facts here.

Yes I think good game is the behaviour being behind appearing high value. Some people call it situational status. Learning to have low approach anxiety so women you encounter feel you talking to them as a confident and grounded man for example. Then you can work on your business, your career and your social media reach to become actually high status in society.

Yes most men are stuck in a passive mode version of living life, they don't take massive action towards their goals consistently. We used to call it being at the cause and not the effect of life.

@Thought Art He was a caravan merchant in Mecca, a major trade hub at the intersection of Christian, Jewish, and Pagan trade routes. He was exposed to those theological ideas for decades before he started receiving visions in his 40s. You're familiar with his story right? Leading 20+ military campaigns, conquering the Arabian peninsula, and executing political rivals is literally the definition of a warlord. You can respect his political organizational genius and respect his contribution to human history without needing to mythologize him into a flawless saint.

For sure, come by Montreal! We have beautiful women and delicious food, it's a sweet city to checkout especially if you haven't been. We can see if @integral will come out he's from here too, maybe there are others on the forum as well.