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There's a very strong case of unintegrated stage orange and overall spiritual bypassing on this forum. Most times I post something about real world results in any of the categories I get massive pushback that it's either all in my head and we are God why worry about results! Or caring about your life and high quality you make it is somehow shallow lol. @Inliytened1 addressed his poor phrasing of comments before page 10 and dudes spent literally 20+ pages trying to moralize and shame him because they have nothing useful to contribute to the discussion. Stage green loves moral outrage like nothing else. That's why I told him to just ignore them and not answer, when you feed the trolls they multiply because you validated their existence and style of communication.

@Inliytened1 Have you ever tried BDSM? Perhaps you'd like it since you're a more dominant guy. A lot of women crave a dominant guy that they can also trust. It's actually part of the reason we have a dating crisis, there are more submissive women then there are dominant men. Most men are not dominant, only 40% apparently where as 60% of women report being submissive. A lot of men have trouble taking charge in and out of the bedroom even when a woman asks him to. The sex statistician Aella did a massive survey on dominance prefence across tens of thousands of people and this gap in women's submissiveness and men's dominance came out. She talks about it here on her appearance on the lex friedman podcast at the 2h50 min mark. It's also why I think in the future polyamory will be even more mainstream because I think a lot of men don't want to compete in the dating marketplace and AI girlfriends will become a superior enough enhancement to porn that they will drop out of the dating market altogether. One man with multiple women will become one of the normal relationship formats in society.

Don't throw yourself under the bus before someone can even manage to do it for you. You're giving a lot of power to random dudes that offer this forum less value than you do. @Oppositionless Which part of leading a cult appeals to you? If you are looking to build a powerful community with members that value your input then you should look into social circle game and event hosting. Meditation makes you more grounded, it literally has been shown to lower the fear response from the amygdala. Most humans are like rabits they are overly anxious and flip flop in views every week. If you do a lot of introspection and meditate a lot I can see how just that alone would make a person with a deeper presence than most other humans. If you add rallying people together towards a cause that ignites their emotions then you're well on your way to becoming the next Jim Jones. Just leave the kool-aid at home and focus on bettering the world and not just creating a cult for the sake of feeding your ego and just having control over people. Also if it's just to have submissive women to fuck you and the idea of building a community doesn't particularly appeal to you just get into BDSM. Plenty of women are into it and there are popular events in most major cities in the world. Fetlife is a good site to find events in your city and Reddit has many good subreddits on BDSM. https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/ I used to be the manager of a coffee shop in Downtown Toronto that had a college in the same building. I talked to many girls from there and one of them spoke french like me so we bonded over that. I got her Instagram on a late afternoon when she popped by before one of her classes and we started talking and flirting over text. The next day she came over to my place after I closed down the cafe and she finished her classes. She brought a collar and a leash in her backpack to my place. Good times.

I came across this really cool channel where this guy is building a comics book startup called Venus Orion Comics where he's trying to launch multiple comic book series and build IP similar to Marvel. He broke down his costs in this video and I think how he's doing it is insanity He's paying thousands of dollars to hire an artist without having product market fit. With generative AI abound I think that's insanity. I commented on his video to point this out to him and he had typical anti AI crowd objections I will keep following his content as his project is similar to mine and I'm curious how his endeavors will end up. I think he will either embrace the advice I gave to him and hopefully I planted a seed in his head or he'll give up on it after spending thousands more and not getting far. Business is so hard that you have to cut your costs when you start, wanting to avoid criticism of using AI and ruining yourself in the process is not wise. He said his dad is retiring and investing some money in his comic venture; he owes it to his family to not let his bias hinder his business the way I see it. One of my entrepreneur friends in Calgary Keith told me this great line one day: "Would you rather be right or be successful?" I try to apply it to a lot of situations and it's helped me expose unhelpful dogma in both myself and others. The great thing about conflicting opinions like this is that numbers don't lie and time unearths everything. I'm writing this here to revisit this 1 year from now and see if my predictions were right or wrong and what I can learn from this. Every person has their own pitfalls and as an INTP I'm quite logic so I see using the right tools for the job as obvious but I have low industriousness so my work ethic is not the best so perhaps he will manage to outwork my system and build his IP before mine. I doubt it though.

Got it. I think that comes from the self-esteem aspect. You should always love yourself unconditionally no matter if you're currently reaching your goals or not. Basically the motto should be "I'm awesome only getting more awesome each day." So you can think of finding a girlfriend as an important goal of yours without tying it to your sense of self-worth. You then link it to an actionable system that you work on weekly and like I said I believe that in the next 6 months if you take consistent action you can find an awesome girlfriend to share your life with and build an awesome life purpose together. Being delusional and avoiding markers of success like dating success or business success it not that helpful in my view, if you want to have impact on your own life and be able to influence others positively you need to assess yourself accurately. To me it's like a video game, if you have low skills it's not a big deal you just find out how to level up the skills and work on it each day. I'm actually not a great businessman even though I've been hammering at my business for a while. It's not a big deal, each day I refine my life purpose and work on my goals and my results seem to be getting better each month that passes so I'm very excited for what the future holds!

Which part precisely do you disagree with? Feel free to flesh out your disagreement with my logic.

Man if you're a musician then social circle game will be easy mode for you. I've hosted a few open mics last year and I'm currently considering turning my content agency into a full talent management agency since I've met a lot of musicians and models that are talented but don't have the market and content production skills to take their careers off the ground. Uniting people together and offering value and scaling your lives towards a bigger potential than anyone thought was possible is what it's all about! Take it step my step; it all starts by organizing your first event. It could just be inviting a fellow musician over to rehearse a new song and post the reel of it on your Instagram and building up the complexity and scale of your social circle and brand from there.

Achieving your goals is an achievement. If you want to have sex with beautiful women and you achieve it then that's success. If you don't want to and you accidentally get laid then you're failing yourself I guess then I notice this in men that are not successful with women is they're afraid of confrontation. Intentional confrontation is good and usually leads to growth. The point is not to pick fights for the sake of it but to push the limiting beliefs of people that seem to be stuck in them to further the quality of the discussions on this board and also lead to insight for people that need them to be able to surpass their current limitations.

Yes you addressed it pages ago. That's how white knights work. Instead of providing genuine value they try to stir the pot and appeal to authority because they have none.

It's not what you're trying to say it's how you're saying it. We can talk about sex and fucking a lot of women without using derogatory terms. I love beautiful women with big boobs, it brings a lot of joy and peace to my existence. They are the muse to my masculine essence. I'm legitimately considering getting into poetry to express my love for women better, I think it will add to my game as well to be able to seduce verbally and poetically.

No way

Let's go through the socratic method and epistemic process to deconstruct this. What makes you think he didn't exist? Do you have similar doubts on whether George Washington existed as well?

Switching from work more to social mode is a common way for guys to experience approach anxiety since logic and free flowing conversations are pretty drastically different from one another. Having confidence in yourself as a man and what you bring to the table is also crucial. If you know that random women out and about would be lucky to have you in their life then you gain that masculine man to woman frame and it's easier to both not be anxious and also be playfully flirty in conversation because you aren't desperate for pussy.

No worries, thanks for being open. Keep doing your cold approaching. Host events in your city like music events or modelling based events and invite the girls that you meet to those events. Now you can not only get dates but you are building a social circle and status in your city. Post about it on social media and now you have a brand. If you utilize this strategy properly you can get laid and get a girlfriend as well as build a cool social circle and a business that generates income from this. I've slept with dozens of women with this strategy and made thousands of dollars from it. I'mstill low level at it as this framework can scale infinitely. I will keep building it throughout the next 10 years and will host my first US and European events hopefully next year. Here's a Youtube vlog of a photoshoot event with models I threw in Calgary a few months ago. You can look on my Instagram to find more examples. My favorite are dinner events because you can just chill and have great conversation with cool attractive women.

My guy you probably have narcissistic traits yourself that's why you are triggered with harsh criticism. Narcissists have a weak ego and can't handle friction from the outside world. I don't really mind insults or to challenge people, that's why I continuously grow and I push people around me to constantly grow as well. I never said I don't care about you I said I don't care about your trauma based excuses. The women in your life that you are trying to seduce also won't care. That was MY WHOLE POINT ABOUT OFFERING VALUE TO PEOPLE AND NOT EXPECTING YOUR VULNERABILITY to get you results and since you're a virgin it clearly hasn't worked for you. No shame bro I love you and wish for you to live out your wildest dreams; I just have no patience to humor weak men and limiting beliefs. It doesn't help them nor myself. I will only give advice that I honestly and genuinely think will lead to a solid conrete results and thus a great life. If for you that's too brutal then keep doing you bro.

It doesn't matter what you've been through. I'm not your mom I don't honestly give a fuck. I'm sharing what I think will lead to results. If you're not happy with it; keep living the life you've been living and getting the results you've been getting. This is the problem with being a soft man or leading with vulnerability. Nobody gives a fuck. I told you this in the other thread. If life is brutal then you make a castle to protect yourself from it and once you're in your castle you can offer other people shelter. You don't sit in the field and cry that life is hard, you will get nowhere and be attractive to no one.

Thanks guys Yes me and @Inliytened1 had a good call, it's important to realize forums are just an extension of real life and we are basically all an online social circle. The point of a social circle is to benefit each others lives so collaborating with each other and holding each of us accountable is so important, more than being right or wrong in a debate for sure. @Rishabh R My philosophy is that one's training should be brutal to make real life easy. If someone lets their inner beliefs win and takes it easy on their psyche then life will be hard to them. I don't like to let people off easy for the sake of social cohesion because I think it robs everyone of valuein the process. If I'm hard on you and it leads to a cute girl sucking your cock and you appreciating life more then I will take that as a victory any day. My purpose is to help mankind progress and to help love flourish so to me conquering ourselves is very important towards making that happen so we can overcome the challenges of material reality and become superhuman.

Nobody is perfect that's what being a human is. It's very frustrating to put a lot of effort into something and then have people invalidate it with platitude. Especially clueless people lol; what on earth are you talking about you don't know if Muhammad existed? So you have 0 knowledge of Islam's history and just watched a few videos on Youtube and are now writing many posts praising it? That's pretty wild my guy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muhammad Muhammad was born in a tribe of wealthy merchants called the Quraysh tribe who controlled the area around Mecca even before Muhammad's rise. He was a middle manager type merchant working for a a businesswoman named Khadijah who he later married. He was deeply troubled by the inequality of the world and the chaos of it and would at times isolate in a cave to meditate in a cave and find peace. At about 40 years old he had a vision of apparently the angel Gabriel and he embarked on his religious adventures and conquest that we know him from today. Were you arguing with me over multiple pages over if he's a warlord or not without even having researched the guy? Come on bro

Thank you for your existence and energy! Femininity is always appreciated. I think Socrates also said this one or maybe it was Aristotle, hard to be sure.

Natural doesn't work for non naturals otherwise they'd get laid well naturally. You need a simple system to track your efforts and growth so you can guarantee results over time. Overthinking happens when you think too much before the approach so you never get into the flow of it. A system is made to debrief only after approaches to know what went right or wrong. I talk more about it in this video here

Counting your approach is important so you can know if it works or not and change your style if it's not producing the results you want. Building systems for both your dating life, career and life as a whole is very important so you can scale and get results that the average man can only dream of. Cold approach is a hard skill to learn but it works. I've had sex multiple times with women I knew less than a few hours from it. It's sometimes awkward, sometimes boring and sometimes you hook them into you and start a romance or a sexcape right from the street, the mall or the club that you met them at. One of the wildest cold approach stories I have is during Covid I was living in Harbourfront Toronto and nothing was open so me and my roommates would walk around throughout the summer and well cold approach girls mostly. One day we were bored at this big square called Dundas Square in the city and we were about to walk back home and he had the energy to approach one more girl. It worked and he came back and introduced her to me and we went to the liquor store and got some wine and drank it walking back home with this new friend we got. As we walked back to our place we went back to my room and he started making out with her and I was sitting down and I almost left to give them some privacy but she was grabbing my leg too so I made out with her as well. Lead to both of taking turns fucking her while listening to some good music and drinking some truly foul wine. The one you get for like $15 that comes in a crate not a bottle. All from cold approaching a girl bored in downtown.

Debates about sex remind you of mac and cheese? You're a kinky one that's for sure

@AerisVahnEphelia Between 1978 and 2020 China has lifted 800 million out of poverty which was 75% of the upward mobility from poverty that mankind as a whole has made. I'm extremely impressed with how China run their country especially in the last 5 years when the west has devolved into a clown show. Chine was fear mongered for authoritarianism and centralized power but looks like their system works better than western liberalism and the west has just as much corruption if not more. In an ideal world you could have pure freedom and pure progress but in our world that seems quite difficult to achieve. I don't doubt that will be at the forefront of what humanity will achieve over the next 15 years and throughout the AI revolution as a whole. You're invested? I was a big fan of Crypto but the more I age and the more I talk to Gemini about it the more I realize some enthusiasm is valid but a lot of it is speculation for the sake of avoiding producing actual value through your own commerce or career. I still study macroeconomics and I'm curious how it will move over the next 6 months but I'm much more dialed in to my own business now instead of hoping that by studying 200 hours of crypto theory I can 100x my money.

Why don't you try creating a circle of high quality people where you are? You seem to be good at meeting people, so the organization seems to be the part that you struggle with. What are you into in terms of hobbies? What skills do you have? If you create regular meetups where you are in 6-12 months you'll now know many women that you can choose to date/sleep with if they're down.

Do you control a relationship to get your needs met at the expense of your partner or do you do it to guide both of you towards achieving your needs and wildest desires? I think that's the crucial difference in paradigms. High level of interdependence in a relationship can mostly only be achieved through healing your shadow and achieving great self-awareness. From this vantage point then your leadership becomes a transformative experience for others in your life as opposed to just the blind leading the blind.