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I used to believe in aliens due to like the sheer vastness of space and the complexity of the universe perhaps there are other beings. I don't really now though it doesn't make sense when you consider how evolution has been going. If there were species more advanced than us they would have an ethical obligation to intervene in earth's conflict. I think it's much more likely that we are the first aliens and when we reach world peace our global technology culminates into being able to reach speeds faster than light and colonize other galaxies throughout the universe. It just makes too much sense, we are finally reaching stage green as a species where we sort of aim for sustainability and the good of our species. Stage yellow and tier 2 will make us a multi planetary species by increasing our technology with AI to the point where space travel and tourism are actualized. Also why would Aliens fundamentally shake up our economic system? The time I believed most in aliens I was pretty broke and wanting a way out of my boring existence so I entertained those thoughts, be careful of that same cognitive bias.

I love this guys's reels, everyone needs a good call to adventure. It's more of an example of frame than state. State is a flow state where you feel good and not anxious about talking to others. Frame is controlling an interaction around your worldview and emotions and not letting it get overpowered by another person. So random person's frame walking down the street is probably like being stressed and slightly angry, wanting to get home or to x store to get groceries and not wanting to talk to be bothered on the way there. By using novelty and storytelling this guy uses frame control on them and theres one where he goes Karaoing with a random dude, it's actually a good example of the idea that strangers are not really strangers and you can just invite them out to listen to music or to the bar or to fuck you if you just ask and have good social skills. This one with Bingles the elf cracks me up lmao reproducing his species, seems like it worked! Classic opener. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVgyEBNDxwZ/

What about in your own experience? Why are you using some random other dude who's life you don't know the details of to make your case on seduction? Comfort and empathy come after she's already attracted to you. Being safe and comfortable but not attractive is a quick route to most likely not having many friends at all or if you're really charismatic being a beta orbiter. It does not lead to attractive women wanting to fuck you and date you in general.

I think having goals in common with people helps in forming solid friendships. I've had a few friendships fade away in the last 10 years because we are in different stages of life and have different value and goals. If you are into pickup it's easy to make guy friends into pickup. Making friends into business seems to be a bit more difficult because it seems to be a more individualistic endeavour so I haven't had as much luck with it but I do have a solid network of acquaintances from it. I would say pick 5 things that you have interest in and go to 5 events in those niches and at each one try to add a few people on Instagram and plan to meetup another time outside of where you met them if you get along with them. If it's a mutual sports league then ask one of the guys to come workout with you. If it's a business club ask one to do a mutual co-working session with you. I'm quite sure that those 25 outings you will have created a solid circle based on people who have compatible values and goals as you; or your money back.

I think it's important to recognize when WE are the problem as opposed to when the world is the problem. If the world, or women in this context, are the problem then we're kind of fucked(not literally unfortunately) as it's hard enough to change ourselves let alone change the world. You're very lucky in that you are clearly the problem so you don't need to worry about the world and women being cursed. Your second line that you've repeated twice in this thread is "I'm not doing anything wrong." You obviously know that not the case otherwise many attractive women would be wanting to date you, this is an objective fact. Here are the obvious pitfalls I can spot myself from this post along your other ones in this thread: 1) You have a needy entitled mindset. Who gives a fuck if you like a girl, dating is a market. That's like saying man I've been really eyeing up this AI engineer job, it pays $20K a month can you believe it! "How much AI engineering experience do you have, or relevant experience at another AI company or at least are you top graduate at a top school in the field?" "No but I really like the job and why should I have to try so hard, can't I just be myself and that's enough?" No fuck off some other guy wants that girl or she wants to spend her time with herself, that's what you call a market as in different players who are bidding on a product or an in demand dating partner. 2) How much action are you taking? Flirting with one woman is a fool's errand. If you are in a college campus there are 1000 girls just as pretty as her on campus. If you are in a big city you probably have 10 000 attractive women walking around whenever it's sunny. If you cold approach 50 girls per week for 6 months you'll forget about this one girl not wanting to go out with you and you'll stop making cringy venting posts like this and just be busy with your 4 new friends with benefits. 3) You didn't talk about the things you have to offer. You know like what you bring to the table. You said you like her and you tried flirting with her. Women care about your value not your intent. Your intent means that you're interested in fucking them. Good fucking job. Once more to use a financial analogy that's like you going to a bank or business and saying you're interested in them giving you money for free. Like are you serious? Fuck off. Are you hosting some cool events regularly that this girl has attended? Are you particularly social and have a cool group of friends? Are you particularly jacked? Do you have a big following/are posting content often? Have you done a professional photoshoot or at least are shooting pictures with your friends often so your social media and dating apps pictures are top notch? Are you particularly wealthy? Notice these are quantifiable metrics. Mainstream media loves to keep things pure feels before reels and not quantify anything like just be funny and be yourself! Everyone makes jokes that's part of human communication. If you want to have that as your dating selector trait good fucking luck, better have a solid thing that you're better at than most other guys. Some guys get into relationships just not really trying and it does happen. I would say good for them but that's not really actionable advice regardless and also a lot of these relationships tend to be either mediocre and/or toxic since they're not really intentional. Just like some people get jobs through friends of friends even though they're not really qualified. It's still better to be a top operator in the market and not rely on luck and fate to make money and so it is with your dating and love life which are equally important as your career/business. See how we went from fuck women are against me and it's not fair to you seem to be an average to possibly under average male who has a weak mindset and doesn't use proven dating strategy. You are actively doing many things wrong and it would be hard to succeed in achieving a high quality dating life for anyone using the strategy of not doing much, crush on a random girl and complain when she's not heads over heels into you. Work on your game, social circle and social media and in a few months you'll have many girls showing you signs of interest and being open to going on dates with you. Then go on dates with many girls and pick the one you like from the ones that are open to dating you or be polyamorous and date many of them. You got this cowboy.

Red lasers are a good analogy for social dynamics and power games I might steal it. Usually most men don't really play the social games of society they mostly just labor so they don't have to learn social dynamics quite as much as most women do.

Emotional intelligence is a wide set of skills. Emotional self-regulation is just one of those. Understanding your impulses i.e. wanting to go jump and date random women and where that stems from and how to do it in a productive way is a component of it. Understanding your ability to be alone with yourself and understanding if you want a partner for a constructive reason or just cuz you're bored, anxious and low self-esteem would lead one to have more intentional relationships and not a string of breakups. Also goes full circle in why emotional intelligence is an attractive trait in both men and women. Someone who doesn't understand their own emotions let alone yours will be a nightmare to deal with. They will constantly invalidate you and not be there for you when you're stressed/anxious and good chance they will throw it back to you and make it worse. Plenty of women have low emotional intelligence as well and would make a bad wife as a result.

Perhaps but to make this a useful exercise in understand human psychology we have to ask ourselves why does someone choose the wrong women to partner up with continuously. To me that screams lack of self-awareness and a stripe of impulsivity which are the cornerstones of lack of emotionally intelligence which is where my assumptions came from.

Great job on the anti-intellectualism. What's your theory; he was so good at communication and being a romantic partner that women just broke up with him out of low self-esteem?

It's a good case to talk about. Clearly with his relationship track record I'm sure he struggles with emotional intelligence and communication skills. It's not because you a lot of women want to sleep with you that you're a great partner. A lot of these high status guys make the lives of the women they're dating more difficult and stressful, not more pleasant. I get why they experience a lot of breakups after the novelty wears off.

Thank you for sharing friend. I agree with it, people should embrace themselves as the hero of their lives and not give so much importance to celebrities apart from learning mechanisms of success from them. For me the most interesting part of looking at my life as a story is looking at today as mid chapter of it and looking back at the early chapters to hypothesize where the later chapters end up. I've recently moved back to my childhood neighbourhood and house after living away since being 10 years old and it's been trippy exploring my old neighbourhood and old city after being away for about 20 years. I both feel a sense of failure since I've moved away to different cities in my 20s and worked hard on business and still had to move back but also a sense of safety and profound looping. I read the book Mastery by Robert Greene a few years ago and he talks about going back to the basics to things that you enjoyed in your childhood in order to inspire your masterpieces as an adult. I've been keeping that in mind and thinking about which part of my life are desperate overreaches for things that are not really important to me and which parts are authentically beautiful that I resonate with without needing to derive an outcome from them. I'm working on making my own video game and anime and that's the most fun I've been having these past couple of years so perhaps that will be part of my life purpose in the end. It's still a work in progress and I'm thankful for the deep introspection that's common on this forum and the opportunity to get to know myself deeper by getting to know you guys deeper.

I don't know what kind of godlike image of Brad Pitt you have in mind but he's had 9 high profile breakups including 2 full on divorces. Being high status doesn't save you from the reality of human relationships. A lot of these actors have very bad communication and emotional intelligence skills and they wind up entangled with partners they are not really compatible with.

One of my old business partners went last year. He said it was really cool and allowed him to relax and get work out of his head.

Well there are plenty of issues, in Poland for example the anti-ukrainian sentiment is rising and some assaults are occurring because of it https://www.infomigrants.net/en/post/72703/polish-prime-minister-warns-of-rising-antiukrainian-sentiment-following-attack To go back to the Morrocans migrants, what do you propose they do with them? They can't stay in Ceuta there is no work or lodging for them. Even in Spain as a whole there isn't really capacity. Are you going to house and employ them? Spain is one of the least racist countries in the world. They just gave legal status to over 500k undocumented migrants just a few months ago

Offer a lot of value and connect to her emotions. Give her a wide spread of emotional experiences like a roller coaster, probably mostly positive but some negative ones are inevitable. Offer value like good experiences but also legitimate guidance and structure in her life. A lot of men are a net negative if you did a spreadsheet of the good and bad they bring you would realize your association with them is negative and you need to get them out of your life for the sake of your flourishing. A lot of women do that same calculation and tend to stay away from the majority of men. It's hard to continuously offer genuine value but it's one of the only roads to keeping people around long term. It's one of the core aspects of leadership as most people either don't offer value/leash it or are fake leaders aka the blind leading the blind.

It's interesting that you phrase it in the context of homophobia like you're scared of turning gay. You're treating understanding the feminine as a threat to your masculine identity, rather than an expansion of it. I've taken a decent amount of psychedelics and it served me to not tie my identity so strongly with my current sense of self. It allowed me to experience a greater spectrum of emotions that I usually felt in my daily life. Women tend to experience a wider variety of emotions and especially neuroticism so perhaps it helped my capacity as an event host. A lot of women have told me they feel comfortable around me and the events I host. Men especially straight men tend to be pretty aloof sometimes lack empathy which is defined as being able to understand and SHARE someone's feelings, thoughts and experiences.

Of course. This is the point of lifestyle design and where this goes to stage yellow and systems thinking. You're using your energy to create the best life as possible just like anybody else but just way more efficiently and with social circle knowledge that's not known to every man. The idea is that you should align your dating/sex life goals, business/career and your hobbies and interest. For example RSD and the cold approach teachers tend to be extroverts and like going out to clubs often so they base their life around cold approach and going out 3-4 times a week if not 7 days a week. Then they build a business around it so instead of their career suffering from being a wanna be socialite, they start a new cashflow vertical and a business around it. You must know yourself, your skillset, how you like to spend your time and your goals. I don't like to go out that often so I like building systems that make my social life as efficient as possible and let me meet a lot of people and be high status by going out only 1-2 a month. You can easily throw events based on fitness and training. Run clubs are good example or you can do a group workout in the park. You shoot content and make reels out of it so now you're scaling your reach. Hot girls will go to events the more high status they are/the more money you spend on them. So if you host a free group workout at the park you might get 2 random guys and one 38 year old woman to come. If you spend 1000 euros on a luxury dinner then you'll get hotter girls in their 20s but you'll lose money and not get laid. That's fine these are just acquisition funnels. You can try different types of events until you get the outcome you want. Monetizing it is crucial because otherwise you're operating at a loss and spending money to meet women which the average guy is also doing but more cheaply than you. If you build a brand you'll be able to meet women for free or eventually profit while doing it. I'm slowly getting to this point. Calibration and not developing a bad reputation while increasing your status is important as well. When I was doing social circle game in the nightlife scene I slept with like 15 women from it. Got also a few FWBs out of it. I combined it with online dating as well. My income fluctuates from it, I had a client paying me $5000/month a while to help him shoot content and host events and I charge $500 for photoshoots for guys that want dating pictures in Canada. I'm still working on my marketing and brand so my income is not consistent but I'm trying new formats like this Speed Dating event I shared here that show some promise I'm documenting the business side of what I'm doing on this thread here. I started in February after I lost my $5000/month client so my income took a dive so this was part of my education in diversifying my streams of income and not rely on one client for my standard of living. Business has been hard for me, I'm not as industrious as most entrepreneurs as you can see I like to mix business and pleasure but it's been a fun journey so far and hopefully in a couple years I'll reach more consistent cashflow verticals and be at a more solid 20-30k/month and with how system based everything I do is I'll have a lot of free time for hedonism and focusing on building a BSDM polycule ala Christian Grey.

Highly recommend watching this podcast to learn concepts that aren't known widely in the dating industry, you will learn more watching this than from Mark Manson or other random red pill influencers. What Sartain teaches on game and social circle is world class, it's how I throw a lot of my events alongside what his old business partner Luke teaches. Sartain has learned all the lessons from RSD and refined it into an impressive evolution of game and business. Some good highlights from his game philosophy: - Female friends will help you get laid and also protect you from toxic men in your life as they will tell you if they talk shit behind your back. - You should avoid overtly flirting with women in your social circle besides fun teasing and flirting as it's a reaping too soon type of thing and it'll damage the integrity of it and also prevent you from greater opportunities in the future. - Using your girlfriend for threesomes is extremely effective and they talk about how to do it without being creepy or boring. A few other good episodes worth watching are his pod with Ryan Pownall, Hoe Math, Casey Zander, Orion Taraban and his own personal inspiration Dr David Buss

The Strait of Gibraltar has lead so many fun times in history. It's only about 14 KM and the shortest point between Europe and Africa so it's served for mutual conquest from both territories many time in human history. My personal favorite is Hannibal sailing war elephants across it and then traversing the Alps to attack the Roman Republic in the 3rd century BC. Spain was conquered by the Moors and was Islamic for almost 800 years from 711 to 1492. The current cities Spanish cities in Africa of Ceuta and Melilla come from their counter expansion back in the 15th century. The people from there have lived there for hundreds of years, calling it imperialism at this point is a bit silly in my view.

It is speculation but not pure speculation without ground. Israel has deep security/intelligence ties (post-Abraham Accords) and they gain moral ground with their Gaza fiasco by also now throwing Spain into the neo-imperialist boat which makes Spain’s hardline stance against Israel's actions in Gaza look silly. The Trump family and thus the current US administration have already made their plans to parts of Gaza into a luxury resort so stirring up trouble and painting arabs as violent migrants that don't respect property rights is in their short term advantage as well.

I never said I used my systems only in my favor. I benefit the models in my community as well as everybody in my community, there are male photographers, male models and business owners of both genders in it. I run business clubs as well, creatives is just one of my niches. I'm the owner of it so I benefit the most but that's a function of me having created communities that give value to others. Be careful of spiritual bypassing that is common in stage green circles. They can't offer value because they reject stage orange so they demonize anything business or value oriented because well sour grapes and grab in a bucket and end up massively virtue signalling while hurting people with their lack of action oriented beliefs. Why can't a dev host a business meeting with models? He would just need a context and something valuable to share. If a dev can learn to make great websites en masse using AI and has a way to get increased views for their content and get them paid sponsorships then he can do the exact same thing I'm doing. Value is universal it doesn't depend on your job title but what problems you can solve in other people's lives. You can host this exact event if you want to : I came up with it out of thin air. Jeff the guy at 1:10 I throw repeated events with and he has a nice house that we used for the photoshoots and I decided to make this one a Content Mastermind instead of just a photoshoot so people shared on their content strategy and I gave a speech before it started. Since I've done a lot of these I get repeat models that come but you can do this in your own cities by dming them on Instagram or running a Meta Ad.

It's like a soft invasion. It's not meant as hostile but for the people living there it must feel like one which is why I linked the Reddit thread where a woman was talking it from her perspective experiencing it. I'm left wing as well but we can't be ignorant to realities. If we don't follow due process we end up with violent anarchy soon enough. Those dudes seem to be willingly going back home but humans are humans. Give them no food for a few days and access to weapons and they will kill their own people and take their house soon enough. Let alone the ones they see as colonial occupiers like the residents of Ceuta and Melilla. Even though those countries have been a part of Spain for hundreds of years before Morocco was a country.

Highkey same, I love performed femininity it's divine.

Why? Stage yellow is based on systemic understanding as well as multiperspectivalism. If you can make the systems of the world start to work in your favor rather than against you which they are by default I would say that's a stage yellow strategy. In which part do you think it's reductionist? No I operate a media agency. I do both B2B contracts and b2c personal branding & dating photoshoots with it. Royals Agency is my Media Agency https://www.instagram.com/royals__agency Royals Dating is my dating brand https://www.instagram.com/royals.dating I organize photoshoot events and own multiple online communities with models in them so I'm considering it turning it into an influencer agency and helping the models and influencers in my communities shoot content and find affiliate deals. This is one of my communities in Toronto. I have a few different ones across Canada and soon the US and Europe. https://www.instagram.com/creatives_toronto

@Hojo Our bodies are right now made of about 60% water that doesn't mean that our lived experience is that of an unconscious wave. Money is the culmination of organized chaos, you can definitely make the argument that making a lot of money is the ultimate expression of art since it organizes all of the universe into a universal currency of value. @Inliytened1 I don't know if I would call it a bias, it's clearly divine will.