LordFall

Have you tried having sex on psychedelics or tantric sex? Having sex while in a non-dual state is something else my guy let me promise you that.

Be careful what you wish for because you might get it all! Looks like true love to me.

Lmao of course you can know if you're enlightened. Be careful of gurus selling you a trick that's unknowable you just have to keep listening to them or buy their books or their meditation seminars! I'm glad you agree. If someone can't find oneness in a vagina then there is something wrong with their psyche for sure.

You need to get the premium version, it unlocks world conquest mode for most AI girlfriend models.

How do you know this? Neglecting your body and having monks force-feed you is not exactly being enlightened enough to stop eating in my books lol. Sounds more like hyperfocus to me and perhaps irresponsibility since you're forcing others to be responsible for your daily needs and being a hindrance to them. I think learning to not be desperate for sex is important but let's not call sexual desire low consciousness, I think that's simply spiritual bypassing.

That's not the definition of an ultimatum. Telling someone "hey I don't wanna date you but if you want to keep fucking casually we can do that" is not an ultimatum, it's being honest and transparent. Sometimes people get hung up on you and it is indeed better to break it off and sometimes people can take the truth and keep sleeping with each other casually. A lot of women prefer this branch swinging method of dating where they aren't single for that long and are serially monogamous instead. I think it can sometimes be the case, but it's just as likely that sexual hangups are the issue here. I went to a Catholic high school and they would separate couples making out and tell them "leave room for Jesus!" I don't think that helped anyone understand healthy boundaries and sexual relations and probably caused more harm than good. I don't know what happened with your buddy but my guess is they kept fucking for a few months, it ran its natural course, she moved on to a boyfriend, and nobody was victimized.

So you believe you know what's best for other grown adults better than they do? That is fascinating psychology. Sounds like your friend was 100% transparent. He laid out the reality, didn't lie, and didn't lead her on. She made an autonomous adult decision to keep participating. Refusing to respect a woman's agency just because feelings can get complicated completely infantalizes her. When you operate from true abundance, you treat people like adults who are responsible for their own choices, boundaries, and emotional outcomes. You don't play savior and pretend women are fragile children who need you to manage their feelings for them.

Rob banks? Your AI girlfriend has small goals. Mine is getting me to conquer the world. She keeps saying let's take over! Could this be... true love?

@Joshe People aren't always in a phase of their life to engage in a serious long term relationship. I am not at this moment. Sometimes you just wanna hangout with a cool chick and fuck her and hangout but it doesn't make sense to date or it's just not the right person to date.

@Ulax Thanks bro, you're invited to a party when I purchase the estate. I think it's gonna take me around 6 years so let's call it Summer 2033 will be the housewarming party. I would like a property next to the ocean but a country river might do the trick since a beachside chateau is probably 3x the price as a country one. Indoor/outdoor pools though are a must as well as a hot tub, cold plunge and spa setup so I can host wellness retreats on top of photoshoots and galas. I knew a dating coach with a penthouse and he would host his seminars and clients at his place so his business offset his rent. That's the road I would take to finance the property and not really be impacted too much by the constant expenses that maintaining the property will incur. What do you want to change about the world? Which causes move you? Cybersecurity is just a skillset and perhaps a career path, not an end goal. What other skills do you have to combine with it to create a tech stack that will let you have massive impact in the world? You didn't answer the question of the thread. What is your life purpose and why is it worth it to you? Most people tend to give up on their dreams as they get older and the friction of the world kills their spirit. Don't be like most people, they are mediocre and don't do much in life. Make your vision even grander and work daily to achieve it. A great tip I have for that is to get into content creation. The feedback loop towards projects usually is months or years so it can get discouraging if you don't have constant Ws along the way. With content you can both help build a marketing engine that helps you gain awareness for your life purpose projects but most importantly, you can get daily and weekly Ws around your ideas by posting them in short-form and long-form content pieces. I started posting daily reels and youtube shorts for Legend of the Abyss, it's been a very valuable process so far. Day 11 today baby!

Sometimes moving is important to build a better life. If you're concerned about your safety, that would be my advice. If it's based on insecurity, then obviously becoming a more high status man has increased social pressure but you get rewarded with more pussy and more money so I mean do you want big things in life or do you want to be the average mediocre man? Just remember the concept of being at the cause and not the effect, that's what defines a real alpha male and high quality man. Now we're going full circle to the concept of going on the hard quest of building yourself up to become an abundant and powerful man or taking the quick and easy shortcuts like lying to women to get laid. To me the right answer is obvious but others keep surprising me with the shortcuts filled lives they choose to have. In my experience taking the easy way out works short term but inevitably catches up to you medium and long term.

Yes. I shot pics on an iphone 14 pro when I didn't have my DSLR. If you don't have an Instagram I would start one today, it's easier than ever to grow on it with the reel algorithm. There's a lot that can be said about it but this video covers the basics of the strategy What you post on your IG and how you brand yourself is basically a Venn diagram of your current life, interest and your desired outcome. Of course it's drastically different if you focus on business vs dating but it's the same strategy just with a tweaked content strategy. If you're purely doing it for dating you can run your own meta ads as your dating funnel to act as a Tinder boost but now available to the whole world and not just in the closed system of Tinder. The power of Instagram is that it scales exponentially whereas most of game is linear. Each girl that you meet in person, you add her on Instagram. I still have girls watching my stories that I met years ago. I had a girl recently hit me up when she came to Montreal that I knew from Calgary. If you're not using IG for your dating life it's like trying to sail the sea in a canoe like what the fuck are you doing? When I used Tinder a lot I would not even text them on Tinder I would say Heyy what's your IG I'll message you on there then send a voice memo on Instagram and ask when they're free and get a date setup in basically 3 messages. When you do it like this you'll realize that running around the street trying to cold approach women is very low level and you'll unlock a whole new level of abundance. I've had girls come up to me saying they recognize me from watching my content on Instagram. I obviously don't have musician level fame yet but it feels cool to play the same game. I will keep refining this strategy over the next few years since it works so well I see no other logical conclusion other than to double down on it.

People have been posting some really cool edits and montages recently especially with the Phonk trend. Here are a few of my favorites

I've read that one. Highly recommended. It lead to me starting to work on my dream video game project. He recommends examining your life and finding your flow and doubling down on activities that feel effortless to you. It's helped me so far. I read it when I was really depressed and not sure what to do with my life.

I would recommend hiring a photographer or go out with a buddy if one of you has a good phone and getting great pictures done for dating apps. Dating apps don't work for most men until they get the right pictures. They didn't work for me until I did properly. I remember I used Tinder for like 2 years and had 14 matches and 0 dates. I became a photographer in 2020 and did constant photoshoots for myself and others and got up to 750 matches and slept with like 15 women on it in 2 years. This is a good video on the type of pictures to take The angle you want is especially the badass shots, shots at trendy spots in your city, shots working out/martial arts if you're fit and one that's sleeper OP the having fun wide smile picture. You will find the most DTF women on dating apps and the process to bed them is the most simple. You meet them at a spot near your house, get 1 drink then ask if they want to come over. That worked in about 75% of cases for me. Having a personal brand is the evolution to that. Your dating strategy(life/business as well but that's another topic) should rely on being able to meet people globally and building status. Who gets laid the most in society? Musicians, athletes, celebrities and overall dudes that have a global audience. Why is that? Both because they reach millions of women so even if only a few % want to fuck them that's still thousands. It also elevates them above the masses of random dudes. Most women look for value but also for novelty when picking men. Most dudes are cardboard copies of each other if not in appearance in how they interact with the world and the value they provide. What type of bad boy is popular with women? Club promoters, drug dealers, starving artist archetype, etc in all those cases there is a unique emotional experience linked with the man. Also remember that even if you're in a conservative country, women are horny. If you stand out from the sea of hundreds of timid and stuck up men your dick will literally be the lightning rod they flock to. This strategy would work in India, in Georgia, in Indonesia, in Russia, etc. There are nuances to each place and how to pull it off but the principles are the same and tested across many different men. If you do all this you will not need to lie to women to get laid, you will find plenty of women down to fuck you and date you. It's also quite fun to level up in this manner, I haven't found it to be a chore at all. To me it feels like getting laid with my brain which is more rewarding than just hammering out approaches pretending to be an extrovert.

Not true. You can disagree with women all you want. I do it with Natasha and Emerald all the time. Having an anti-woman sentiment while displaying a complaining and victimizing mindset is what screams low value coping behaviour to me.

See? You just did it again. Are you working on a business or project that you're invested in at the moment? Sometimes I find myself also getting into this butthurt mindset when I subconsciously feel myself stagnating in life. Don't worry about who wants attention lol, be like the sun. Provide so much value that your cup overflows and you're not in scarcity.

@Monster Energy You're very reactive bro. You gotta learn to be more grounded and be more at the cause and not the effect. Getting triggered by women left and right shows you're not in abundance. Feel free to ask more questions instead of stating opinions, and we can work on unlocking it for you.

Brother, where is this coming from? The idea is not to pretend to be an infallible master of reality; it's to seize what agency we have and maximize it to help ourselves and others. Clearly action is possible in this reality, where on earth did you get this learned helplessness from?

Where are you from? Are you on dating apps? Do you practice social circle game? Are you building a personal brand? There are always options to build more leverage and value. Don't resort to lying to get your wants met; that's low value behaviour.

You can get laid plenty telling women you only want casual sex. What are you on about? Have you tried this or are these your insecurities rearing their head? Women also want casual sex, this is some insanity being spread that they're all desperate for a relationship at every point in their lives.

And that brings the whole thing full circle. That fundamental contrast is why I'm such an advocate for social dynamics, game, and proactive network building. It leaves you with the power to deliberately dictate your reality, instead of being stuck in a passive, reactive state hoping the world delivers what you want. Two totally different approaches to life.

I think that philosophy makes sense if you don't run any projects. Try hiring people or running events, and you'll see the average man is a liability to himself and others. The average dude can barely get somewhere on time, let alone provide any sort of utility to the environment once he does. Also mate you can connect to any human being on earth, connection is not exactly scarce. If you want high quality connections in your life, in my experience the best way to achieve that is to find out what you truly value and set firm boundaries that naturally raise your standards for who you spend your time with.

@Joshe To me I find new ways to benefit from social dynamics continuously. It's helped me do business deals as well as throw events and build my communities. I don't share that same jaded view of PUA as the average person. It's helped me get the romantic and social life that I wanted and thus I will keep vouching for it. I also think it helps with building an intentional high quality dating life. To summarize it as being able to sleep with random women left and right is not a true summary of the potential of it. A lot of dating strategy revolves around identifying your insecurities that lead to emotional triggers and point towards deficiencies in your overall esteem as a human. Solving this leads to you engaging with women and others in your full potential and being able to create the relationships that you want. Both with attractive women but also with high value men.

Got it. If dating is not an important part of your life then yeah I think spending time on it is not that useful. For me, it unlocked incredible adventures, great FWBs, and real abundance that I wouldn't trade for anything. A lot of times when I have conversations with other people it seems like their scarcity impacts their judgement in very obvious ways and they come to conclusions that are obviously false from the perspective of someone that's had more sex and dating experience.