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Interesting, does make sense that criminals would have a higher tendency to push boundaries. That's why I linked the more recent studies as well that have found lower instances but still around 1-2%.

Usually when people link to outside authority, like a youtube channel, to make points they don't even understand the points enough to synthesize them so I'm gonna be a bit skeptical of your authority on the truth of this matter. I do think that there is a lot of great unfalsifiable wisdom in the Bible and other religious books but there are a lot of plot holes as well.

There was this really odd scene in one of the latest house of the dragon episodes where the reignant King Aemond kisses his mother. It was quite bizarre. How it's framed in the show is that his relationship with women and power is so twisted that he doesn't enjoy regular women and only his mom matters to him and his whole life is a power struggle for the throne so when he claims it and the pressure builds up around him he kisses his mom to grasp at power and control. Quite bizarre but here you go. The psyche is a strange place, some boundaries should stay as such!

Fair enough, and I respect your calm approach to the discussion. To quickly clarify the mechanics on the study so we don't leave bad data hanging: that observational study looked at a population in China where pork is by far the primary source of high-fat meat, salted pork, and processed pork. That's a confounding variable (high dietary fat and overall lifestyle), not a biological property unique to clean pork loin causing pancreatitis. It's not confrontational, I just want to make sure that we do indeed kill the bias where it stands and highlight the truth. There are multiple ways the immune system works that we don't understand. Some people get cured by prayer. Maybe God literally heard their prayer and magically cured them cuz fuck it here's a blessing for you. Maybe it was a new diet that they adopted that changed it that their doctor didn't see coming and they pray all the time anyway so they just assumed God cured them. To have a process that's consistent overtime and produces expected results in multiple different people is what medicine considers legitimate. You haven't shared your own dating story, how are you finding the quest for love?

Can you share some other health influencers or researchers that you like better? I like that he focuses on the future and big goals but I understand that it's not practically here yet and is pie in the sky for now but I do think we will cure all diseases in the next 15 years I would bet money on that.

It is 100% on topic, you just proved my point on dogma. Those books are by Anthony William apparently known as the "Medical Medium," who claims he gets his medical advice from a spirit. There is no documented legitimacy to it. That PubMed study is on fat intake/hypertriglyceridemia-induced pancreatitis (dietary fat levels), doesn't have anything to do with specifically pork being bad for the pancreas. See how quick it is to sneak up on you? My friend go date and fuck multiple people and have a great life. You seem to have a religious background and so do I my family on my dad's side is Muslim and my dad doesn't speak to my brother for being gay and I haven't told him I'm bi yet who knows what'll happen when I do. Fuck dogma and ideology.

Sorry even if you're a girl I don't let women gaslight me, it's against my values. I think you're cool though but you can't solve every problem with esoteric spirituality!

Always funny how the ego backlash happens directly when you call it out directly lol. What happened to the beautiful poetic language? Love you my friend but I am the one that is tired of tolerating BS posts. Ground what you're saying in truth or I will eviscerate it with beautiful logic. To me that is poetry.

That's how you experience it on a deep level or just your immediate gut reaction? I found it incredibly healing and refreshing to come across both the red pill and female dating strategies subreddits. I always felt like mainstream advice was shallow and blind optimism and my relationships with other humans didn't represent that. Only by breaking down all the manipulations of the other sex in that regard or by reading books like 48 laws of power and understanding the concepts of the jungian shadow do I now feel at peace with other human beings and understanding they types of manipulative and toxic strategies they use to get their wants and needs met. I even see it in myself and my group of friends where sometimes we act in ways that on a surface level makes no sense but now through my deep understanding of human psychology I can just immediately diagnose it as oh this person is anxious and doesn't know how to gain control of their life and is lashing out in X way, no big deal. Same with understanding trauma where sometimes people flip the fuck out in seemingly insane ways and you can just immediately spot it oh they have been carrying a lot of tension for a while and they feel unseen/unheard and now use this medium to unleash all this pent up energy. Whereas people literally labelled it as demonic possession before. I just read about this in Robert Greene's new book the Laws of human nature where this widespread demonic possession case in a small town in 1634 lead to a priest getting burned at the stake because the nuns were dreaming about him and it was ruled that he was using black magic to manipulate the church and it was just sexual repression and i guess he was good looking and they wanted to fuck lol. True story. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Loudun_possessions I have a friend who refuses to read Robert Greene's books because they are too toxic(he was raised christian) and he has been trying to find a girlfriend for the past year and he literally has told about 12 women in the past year that he loves them and he wants them to be his wife and he is mind boggled and in a lot of pain because he continuously gets rejected and ghosted by women. He is integrating the abundance mindset and slowly getting rid of his conditioning but its ingrained into him, we had an hour call about it yesterday.

I mean feel free to be more precise and elaborate on why previous relationships you've had didn't work out and we can diagnose it. To me it helps to be very logical and not emotional when it comes to analysis otherwise you get bogged down in stuff that's not objective. What does falling out of fantasy/love mean? What was the fantasy? That you could make it work no matter what? Why do people fall out of love? Usually its because people grow apart in quite predictable ways like one wants to grind on their career and never retire ala Warren Buffet and one wants to chill out relax and go to the beach and read books. You can identify such patterns with MBTI and overall desired life purpose and desired lifestyle. My relationships that didn't work I couldn't offer the women the stability and life that they wanted plain and simple. We could chill, fuck and do random dates for a while until it eventually came to a head and we went our own ways. The longest relationship I had for 1 year my dad left the province and left me with the house so I could host parties and fuck girls and I ended up dating this girl that was the ex of my weed dealer and we bonded really deeply and had deep talks into the night and she was one of the smartest girls and coolest I've met to this day. Doesn't change fundamental transactional dynamics lol I got a cute girlfriend to fuck when I didn't have much abundance at the time so I ignored her toxic traits for far longer then I should have and she got a free place to crash as her home life wasn't great and she was escaping her problems with drugs and a dude that would validate her and give her emotional support. We fell out of the fantasy. It was awesome love while it lasted though. We used to write each other back and forth long journals of our love and our desire to be with each other and she would draw me these cute images. I didn't delete any of it though I keep it in an archive and look at it once in a while remising about my one deep love I've had in this life so far. That girl helped me through the most traumatic event of my entire life and stuck with me through it. Without her as a grounding force I might not be here that was some bad shit. I'm over it now but bro let me tell you I was fucking WRECKED when that relationship ended. Lasted from mid 2018 to may 2019 when we broke up and then we had a back and forth still hooking up and hanging out at times until I physically had to move cuz I couldn't resist her and thats how I ended up in Toronto in early 2020. Fuck I blocked her everywhere but left some niche obscure ways to contact me like whatsapp that I never use and she would hit me up after a few weeks and we'd hang out for a few days and then block each other again. Good times, bad times. Don't miss it but it was great at times. What I've experienced since then has been pretty awesome and I hope to keep building upon it and achieve a dating life that's beyond my wildest dreams as I've shared in other posts. We had a goal of starting a couples channel, got 1 video in but hey. That's why content is important. Priceless memories.

Sounds like you're spiritually bypassing, doing some solipsistic nihilism and overall are a bit confused. If what you are saying is real then why do you have almost 3000 posts on the forum and engaging with others? Stop trying to be deep when you just don't understand the topic at hand and want something to say lol

I agree, sexual dimorphism is great. For a lion to be a lion there must be lionesses And humans are even more of an apex than Lions. Life is good.

Where did you get that from? Pretty confident that lean pork is not inherently more harmful than other red meats like beef or lamb. From a nutritional and medical standpoint, pork is just a red meat. Like beef, the health impact comes down to processing (bacon/sausage with high sodium and nitrates vs. fresh pork loin) and fat content. I couldn't find any medical evidence that pork specifically damages the "pancreas or adrenal glands. Sure that's a fair statistic to consider. I think a of it has to do with conservative and religious people are shamed from divorces even if the relationship is toxic and people with higher partner counts are more confident in their ability to find another partner to build a relationship but there is also a case of hedonism and hoping ship when little issues occur. It's worth bringing up and understanding though.

1/20 of adults in the United States are currently engaged in some form of consensual non-monogamy. I just named famous examples that you can lookup to know that they died satisfied with their choice. I also showed you a study showing that the rate of success of monogamous relationships and polyamorous ones are the same. That's such a confusing sentence to me. If you like having sex with women why would you not want to do it with multiple at once? And multiple at the same time? I can understand not wanting to juggle the complexity of dating multiple of them but sex is pretty straight forward. Are you low libido?

@Leo Gura What's your favorite video that you've ever made? I'm curious which part of your body of work you enjoy most.

Ultimatums can be toxic if used in that way but that's literally the foundation every single relationship is based on. Why on earth would people stay in relationships if they don't get their desires and needs met? That's codependency.

Not implicitly but fundamentally yes they are. You are choosing to invest your time with someone and their actions throughout the relationship will dictate if you will stay in it or not. It shouldn't be a continuous frame battle and a healthy relationship has baked in alignment with personality, communication and goals but it remains a transactional arrangement at the end of the day. You put in yourself and they put themselves and when problems occur you try to fix them and if there are irreconcilable disagreements you cancel the transaction and each party goes their own way. It's great to romanticize it and I love love but that's what it is. You are right that you can use the walking away in toxic ways and ideally you should talk about it and understand the other's position and try to accommodate it if you want to. At the end of the day it's still the same mechanism though the more desperate and needy you are the more you will compromise on your wants and needs for fear of losing the other and the more in abundance you are the more you will be willing to walk away and find other partner that are more aligned with you.

1) You accused me of replying quickly and thus not deeply checking what I say or what AI responds to me. I think that's a false assumption and if you can point out how that lead to me saying something false then feel free. 2) I don't think I'm falling pray to recency bias. Elaborate. 3) I take guardrail and AI bias into account. I ask questions in a way that gives me info I can cross reference if it sounds off. I do it all the time since it does hallucinate at times.

Feel free to point out if I fell into a trap and said something false. I have studied polyamory and it's part of my ideal lifestyle so I find it disappointing when people attack it with lazy points like @Jirh did. I reply quickly because I get intellectually stimulated by engaging conversations and put a lot of thought into my arguments. I don't think I've made any lazy points on my whole time on this forum, it's against my identity and life philosophy. I could totally be bias and welcome being proved wrong.

You seem to have a picture of pickup in your head that's more like a caricature and stereotype of it than what it really is about. You're looking at it in a very shallow way. Abundance is deeply rooted in human psychology. Walking away from a negotiation works against all kinds of humans insecure or not because it's not fundamentally a technique. It's an honest signal which is biology not pop culture PUA stuff. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Signalling_theory An honest signal is a behaviour that is hard to fake because it requires. characteristics that are hard to acquire i.e. abundance in this context. Abundance is not a technique. If you 20 apples and someone threatens to steal your apple and you say ok bro that's not a technique that's you having a lot of apples so you don't care if you lose one. It's a reality you first experience as a mindset/paradigm and then actualize in real life.

lol Natasha is gonna roast me for this one I wanted to use Gemini to my own meme where its a women screaming at a dude to do the dishes and he says yes honey but the sink is already empty but I ran out of tokens

Sure I guess the definition of manipulation is pretty nebulous. How far would you take this though? Being a nice person and in a good mood is more likely to get people to agree with you and comply. Is that manipulation? I think manipulation has to include the intent to deceive. If you want something and ask for it in a weird way unnecessarily that's more like bad social skills. I think women in particular can make you feel great about spending time, energy and money on them or they can like nag you or be ungrateful and ruin the whole thing; which is why I linked it to femininity. A similar concept can be used to describe two men interaction so I guess charisma and charm can also be used in this context.

Who's grasping at assumptions now? I promise you : no AI involved.

Sorry I just don't agree with this characterization of femininity as machiavellian and manipulative. I know really feminine women that get men to do all kinds of things for them just by being nice and pleasant. I don't really see it as manipulative, that's just basic social skills. Especially sugar dating is the least manipulative type of relationship there is, it's literally both parties laying out their cards on the table and asking for what they want. A woman that wants a provider male but isn't able to ask for it with tact is not enviable in my books but feel free to indulge in that demographic.