LordFall

Haha yes the classic whipped husband that only gets blowjobs on his birthday A fate worse than death if you ask me

Why does it abuse so many people and leave them with cognitive dissonance if not straight up trauma then? You judge a tree by it's fruit not by how poetic it sounds.

Yes most people settle for the first relationship that's semi stable even if they're not super into their partner or they aren't really compatible in terms of their desired life purpose. Abundance is a concept that sounds simple but goes very deep.

Different things each time. Recently it was helping my dad doing construction work in the house. Last time it was doing squats. I'm quite sure I had good form but since my injury when I was like 19 it hasn't recovered that well.

I think this can happen but not as described. A lot of career women become high income and then their dating options because a bit limited as usually women like to date men that earn more then them. It can also rub off men the wrong way that have a victim complex and default to sour grapes and disliking those women as opposed to just learning to seduce and attract women that make more money than them and offering value in other ways than financial or just working on their career/business and levelling up their income potential.

I see what you mean yeah polycules have a lot more dynamics to manage over a regular regulation. For someone that really enjoys systems like me I'm quite compelled by the idea. I don't think power dynamics have to be unethical, depends on the level of development of the people person that are involved in it.

I don't think Owen's game relies on him being particularly attractive as an individual. It relies mostly on lifestyle design and aligning his business with his social life so he makes money going out 4-5 days a week and being an online authority for men. I'm sure he's dated plenty of attractive women from it but there are other aspects of self-development that he ignores that should be paid attention to as well. His lifestyle makes it easy to meet a lot of women, he makes millions of dollars travelling all the time without being stuck at a job all day .

What does that mean to you being a selfish bastard? Like you're not good at compromising? Can you give us some examples, I think that will help a lot to break it down.

Wow you're very precise here and really encouraging high quality conversation.

In what way? I think you're just shallow in your views man. He is not the best at expressing himself but what he says is not insane. He never said he wants to mislead women, he just said he wants a relationship on his terms in a way where he is a dominant man leading a woman that appreciates him.

Sorry to hear. Good of you to already have someone else though. I would get on Feeld, I get an ungodly amount of matches on there. Way more than Tinder.

Are you on dating apps? Feeld has a lot of women into alternative lifestyles.

Swinging sounds like the polyamory equivalent of one night stands. No it's not for me. I rather do polyamory as a polycule in a hierarchal polyamory type of setup where I invest into different partners depending on their levels in me and how aligned their life are. I host a lot of creative events and what I've started doing last year is small concerts so for example I'm sure I will get some more fickle FWBs that I invite to fun events like this and then have a more consistent partner that is intertwined in my business and finances. A lot of people are a fan of parallel polyamory where your partner never meet and you just date multiple without intertwining lives, I can understand why that is appealing as you avoid the friction of group dynamics. That doesn't really appeal to me though I want 2-3 girlfriends that are also bi and date eachother.

Interesting, thanks for sharing. Were these women into polyamory or were these girls that you picked up through game? Also how did this open relationship progress, how long did it last and why did you guys break up? I think open relationships make the relationship 3x more intense and there a lot of dynamics involved. A common trap I hear is after opening up the woman has a lot of the options and the man struggles to get laid, resents his partner and eventually tries to close the relationship and the woman now resents him for limiting her freedom and it falls apart.

Appreciate you, stay tuned

Same bro I’ll race you to it. The last one to achieve it owes the other one a beer 🍻 @something_else I don’t really like speaking in generalities. Which part of this idea do you think for yourself personally would be hardest to achieve and we can discuss from there.

Simply not true my man. You can be in a ethically non monogamous type of polyamorous relationship one main pivot and still fuck other women on the side with or without your main girl. You can do so in way where your main girl doesn't see other men or have it to where she does, depends on what she wants. It's absolutely possible to have deep emotional connection and safety and have sexual abundance. This is a false dichotomy.

I like your mindset, your ego is one of the smallest on this forum. Everyone else fights me vehemently when I deconstruct their points. I have two main posts that mean a lot to me on this forum. One is my quest to become a millionaire here. The other one is my passion project and perhaps my quest to becoming a billionaire if it works. My own worldbuilding project, Legend of the Abyss.

Why not? This is demonstrably false in many ways. Why do you care if people blast you? It should make your vision and thoughts way more powerful. Echo chambers are very dangerous to one's philosophy and overall epistemology. I'll repost this image as I think it illustrates the concept so beautifully.Being antifragile is one of the most powerful self-development concepts I've ever encountered. Steel is extremely solid, it can bend and resist all kind of torsion. It is one of humanity's greatest invention. Muscle is antifragile, if you tear it it grows back stronger. Same with breaking bones. Organic beings are unique in this property, actual dead matter doesn't seem to have this quality.

I've now decided to ban Judaism in Legend of the Abyss until the war in Gaza is over and Israel follows up on reparations for the war. If the game pops off there are good chances I will get banned from going to Israel in real life for this but I don't really care, their religion will be banned from the best game concept in the world so checkmate religion. As a matter of fact I've recently decided to make the entire lore be based on a critique of religion so people on this forum will particularly enjoy the plot. Stay tuned. I won't say too much but the Pope is basically the antichrist in the story and his actions compel the main character to conquer the world in revenge.

Shame that he went the rapist route. 30 seconds to mars was such a good band with a good message.

That was a few years ago, I'm 31 now. I also don't have a cat anymore, it was my roommate's girlfriend cat and she cheated on him so we don't talk about Mango the cat anymore

Got it makes sense. How is your search for that soul make coming along and do you feel you have any bottlenecks stopping you from achieving that goal in the near future or you think if we talk in 6 months it'll be done and you'll be dating her?

Appreciate it. I'm 31 now so my body doesn't seem to heal as fast as before but I'll figure it out eventually even if I have to become a cyborg in the process

It's not about humiliation, it's about intellectual integrity. Your post was condescending and of course since you lack aforementioned integrity you back down from a good faith intellectual exchange in a format where we can actually exchange ideas in real time while meeting eachother instead of keyboard warrior back and forth. No worries if you aren't interested in having the debate. I would be careful with being jumping to conclusions when encountering ideas that surpass your level of knowledge, as it opens you up to all kinds of intellectual blindspots. Posturing is never good for growth.