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I'm learning to be more effective in my rhetoric and not as aggressive. I'm an aggressive person by nature but I think it needs to be transmuted to a higher form of energy to be effective.

Why use that over Obsidian?

Tell us about you then, I think you're an interesting person but I don't know much about you apart from the rebellion against Trumpism tidbit you shared the other day.

Truth stands above authority in the values hierarchy. That's Leo's own principle.

You locked it at the best part without reading the character development we all went through! Everyone apologized and we reached a cathartic bonding moment. The next thread is gonna be about looksmaxxing again now

You're into Hinduism? I've been studying it too. It's actually the narrative plot of the harem of the main character of the story I'm writing. It's a video game and anime based on world domination and also spirituality. He represents the devil and the 2nd coming of Jesus christ and is the manifestation of Bhairava that dates multiple women that represent Shakti energy and his most powerful concubine being the incarnation of Mahashakti and basically the divine feminine. @Inliytened1 Hire a dating photographer. It'll cost you $200 and you'll have top of the line pictures. I'll help you edit the pictures and plan the shoot. It was literally my business before I got hooked writing this story and now dating photography is boring to me but I'll get back to it; I feel like it was helping a lot of people and I can probably make millions from it.

Dafuq the poor lady has no place to stay now! He should've fucked them all and now have 3 roommates that he has to provide for. True alpha male provider male game. Build a castle and host all ladies you can find homeless or princesses. Let's tango. You can also buy a castle in France or other european countries for not that much money probably the same price as a decent house in Toronto or Vancouver with our fucked real estate market.

I feel like this thread has been very cathartic for the forum. As I assumed being direct and going direct for the jugular with topics like sex, money and power unveils a lot of shadows. I hope we can all unite sexually platonically in this. The point of sex is to love not fight. Interesting, I'm happy you put some thought into it. It's basically impossible to win an argument against me because I'm both honestly seeking the truth and will admit being wrong but I also am very competitive and aggressive and will eviscerate someone logically if they offend me. I hadn't spent as much time on this forum before the last 2 months but I'm glad I put more time and effort into it. I learned a lot from everyone I discussed with and I am more confident in sharing some of my more risque ideas more publicly on my own public channels like my Instagram and my Youtube Channel. I do appreciate all the debates we've had and honestly don't care that much for being the one that's right as long as there is some value gained by people involved. I do believe in infinite scaling and I think we have infinite potential so we should be obsessed with value and how to cultivate it in ourselves and others. Just social cohesion for the sake of it has a lot of flaws in my view. Sorry back to our AI conversations but we live in the best times humanity has ever experience and we will live through the glorious ascend of the human race towards post scarcity and overall becoming superhuman. I'm having more fun each passing day.

Equating non-monogamous women to being helpless victims from a developing nation isn't an argument—it's just your own sheltered projection. Real-world relationship dynamics are far broader than your narrow moral panic. Exploitation does happen but to default to that when the subject is brought up highlights your shadow and operating paradigm more than being a valid critique. That's like someone saying they're gonna start a business and you default to accusing them of starting a sweatshop and dumping toxic waste in 3rd world countries. Relax Sherlock Holmes.

You went from calling alternative relationship formats an 'ego trip' straight to defaulting to racist exploitation tropes. Claiming you're protecting women while assuming they have zero agency to make their own relationship choices is peak hypocrisy.

I wasn't even gonna gonna bring Valach into this but yes exactly what you said. This was my favorite interaction with him when he tried to school me in spiral dynamics while clearly never having read the book and not understanding it beyond vague surface level.

@Natasha Tori Maru I appreciate your response and forgive you. I apologize as well for my aggressive attitude at times. That's also what I like about them, true little tigers. I'm not really into helpless princesses, I want warrior queens at my side. The problem with calling my perspective a common red pill trope is that one it's not and 2nd you fall into the trope of being the small minded sheltered man. Polyamory is a well practiced thing with multiple different variations in how people arrange their relationships There are cases of one man dating 3 woman. Cases of one women dating 3 man. Cases of two couples dating each other. Cases of kitchen table polyamory where everyone is involved and cases of parallel polyamory where it's more of a kiss but don't tell type of thing. Feel free to read through the polyamory subreddit to familiarize yourself with alternative dating lifestyles because you stereotype me inaccurately. https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/

It's definitely a common pattern for her. She also used push-pull against @Inliytened1 to pick apart his worst moments and then play nice afterwards. Be careful with women gentlemen, they are ruthless.

Well if we're gonna go full analyzing people's shadows here I wanna make a complaint against you as well. I feel that many times you don't engage with the points said and run away when challenged with in depth arguments that invalidate your opinion. You try to turn it into tone policing when insult was never meant but your status was challenged and you resort to literal insults yourself. You did it to me in this thread invalidating my points by calling it Dunning–Kruger effect and refusing to elaborate when challenged You did it to me in this thread as well; accusing me of being condescending while being condescending yourself. And multiple users have complained you backhanding insulting them on this thread here @questionreality Appreciate you my man. I try to add value and be objective.

Appreciate you too bro. Believe in yourself and make the dream happen! That's what it's all about.

Nooooo, you were supposed to be the womanizer; the chosen one! They got you too! In all seriousness I think the move is to have both. AI companions are gonna take off massively in the next few years as they are so versatile. Dating, personal finance coach, therapist, watching movies with you, etc so many use cases. Every time I watch a TV show or movie now I have like 15 mins of debrief with AI to understand deeply what went on and how they portrayed different aspects on the show and if it was accurate or not and how I should use these concepts in Legend of the Abyss. I think there will be a dating utopia happening in the next 10+ years and everyone will have access to their dream dating life. A lot of dudes don't have the capacity to date a woman nor do they want to learn and grow into it. They would much rather have an AI girlfriend. I'm actually kind of a simp, when I like a girl I really wanna dive deep with her and provide for her and never leave her. So I'll gladly take 3 of them and I believe that we will become biologically immortal with biotech in the next 20 years so I will explore the infinite universe forever with my 3 wives. It'll be glorious. We will start with a more realistic target and do a Eurotrip though. I've been to France and the UK when I was in my teens, really wanna check out Italy next. I'm dying to host diner events all over Italy and France. That will take my connection to the modelling industry to the next level.

LGBTQ BDSM is on some next stuff that your stuck up monogamous sex ONLY in the MISSIONARY POSITION with the lights TURNED OFF will never experience lmao. LGBTQ people are usually way better communicators and have done a lot of introspection so they understand themselves better in general than people that don't fit the label. Better communication leads to better sex. Using AI for introspection is goated. It's highlighted a lot of my flaws and strength in an in depth way that actually no one else has been able to do. I use it for many hours each day.

On the point towards owning your more feminine or submissive side, a lot of men callout MGK for wearing nail polish or basically a dress at times. While he sleeps with and dates like stunning model celebrity one after another and these dudes are random nobodies with probably a non existent or mediocre sex and dating life. Another solid proof of why offering value is so important to dating. It's easy to just boil it down to fame but there's a precise angle that's missed here. Musicians are more attractive to women than most other types of celebrities since they are more personally engaged with them on a week to week basis. Most celebrities are irrelevant to your life. A lot of these dudes make music that these girls listen to each day. How many attractive women are thinking about you each day? Increase that number and your dating life will flourish.

There's a very strong case of unintegrated stage orange and overall spiritual bypassing on this forum. Most times I post something about real world results in any of the categories I get massive pushback that it's either all in my head and we are God why worry about results! Or caring about your life and high quality you make it is somehow shallow lol. @Inliytened1 addressed his poor phrasing of comments before page 10 and dudes spent literally 20+ pages trying to moralize and shame him because they have nothing useful to contribute to the discussion. Stage green loves moral outrage like nothing else. That's why I told him to just ignore them and not answer, when you feed the trolls they multiply because you validated their existence and style of communication.

@Inliytened1 Have you ever tried BDSM? Perhaps you'd like it since you're a more dominant guy. A lot of women crave a dominant guy that they can also trust. It's actually part of the reason we have a dating crisis, there are more submissive women then there are dominant men. Most men are not dominant, only 40% apparently where as 60% of women report being submissive. A lot of men have trouble taking charge in and out of the bedroom even when a woman asks him to. The sex statistician Aella did a massive survey on dominance prefence across tens of thousands of people and this gap in women's submissiveness and men's dominance came out. She talks about it here on her appearance on the lex friedman podcast at the 2h50 min mark. It's also why I think in the future polyamory will be even more mainstream because I think a lot of men don't want to compete in the dating marketplace and AI girlfriends will become a superior enough enhancement to porn that they will drop out of the dating market altogether. One man with multiple women will become one of the normal relationship formats in society.

Don't throw yourself under the bus before someone can even manage to do it for you. You're giving a lot of power to random dudes that offer this forum less value than you do. @Oppositionless Which part of leading a cult appeals to you? If you are looking to build a powerful community with members that value your input then you should look into social circle game and event hosting. Meditation makes you more grounded, it literally has been shown to lower the fear response from the amygdala. Most humans are like rabits they are overly anxious and flip flop in views every week. If you do a lot of introspection and meditate a lot I can see how just that alone would make a person with a deeper presence than most other humans. If you add rallying people together towards a cause that ignites their emotions then you're well on your way to becoming the next Jim Jones. Just leave the kool-aid at home and focus on bettering the world and not just creating a cult for the sake of feeding your ego and just having control over people. Also if it's just to have submissive women to fuck you and the idea of building a community doesn't particularly appeal to you just get into BDSM. Plenty of women are into it and there are popular events in most major cities in the world. Fetlife is a good site to find events in your city and Reddit has many good subreddits on BDSM. https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/ I used to be the manager of a coffee shop in Downtown Toronto that had a college in the same building. I talked to many girls from there and one of them spoke french like me so we bonded over that. I got her Instagram on a late afternoon when she popped by before one of her classes and we started talking and flirting over text. The next day she came over to my place after I closed down the cafe and she finished her classes. She brought a collar and a leash in her backpack to my place. Good times.

I came across this really cool channel where this guy is building a comics book startup called Venus Orion Comics where he's trying to launch multiple comic book series and build IP similar to Marvel. He broke down his costs in this video and I think how he's doing it is insanity He's paying thousands of dollars to hire an artist without having product market fit. With generative AI abound I think that's insanity. I commented on his video to point this out to him and he had typical anti AI crowd objections I will keep following his content as his project is similar to mine and I'm curious how his endeavors will end up. I think he will either embrace the advice I gave to him and hopefully I planted a seed in his head or he'll give up on it after spending thousands more and not getting far. Business is so hard that you have to cut your costs when you start, wanting to avoid criticism of using AI and ruining yourself in the process is not wise. He said his dad is retiring and investing some money in his comic venture; he owes it to his family to not let his bias hinder his business the way I see it. One of my entrepreneur friends in Calgary Keith told me this great line one day: "Would you rather be right or be successful?" I try to apply it to a lot of situations and it's helped me expose unhelpful dogma in both myself and others. The great thing about conflicting opinions like this is that numbers don't lie and time unearths everything. I'm writing this here to revisit this 1 year from now and see if my predictions were right or wrong and what I can learn from this. Every person has their own pitfalls and as an INTP I'm quite logic so I see using the right tools for the job as obvious but I have low industriousness so my work ethic is not the best so perhaps he will manage to outwork my system and build his IP before mine. I doubt it though.

Got it. I think that comes from the self-esteem aspect. You should always love yourself unconditionally no matter if you're currently reaching your goals or not. Basically the motto should be "I'm awesome only getting more awesome each day." So you can think of finding a girlfriend as an important goal of yours without tying it to your sense of self-worth. You then link it to an actionable system that you work on weekly and like I said I believe that in the next 6 months if you take consistent action you can find an awesome girlfriend to share your life with and build an awesome life purpose together. Being delusional and avoiding markers of success like dating success or business success it not that helpful in my view, if you want to have impact on your own life and be able to influence others positively you need to assess yourself accurately. To me it's like a video game, if you have low skills it's not a big deal you just find out how to level up the skills and work on it each day. I'm actually not a great businessman even though I've been hammering at my business for a while. It's not a big deal, each day I refine my life purpose and work on my goals and my results seem to be getting better each month that passes so I'm very excited for what the future holds!

Which part precisely do you disagree with? Feel free to flesh out your disagreement with my logic.

Man if you're a musician then social circle game will be easy mode for you. I've hosted a few open mics last year and I'm currently considering turning my content agency into a full talent management agency since I've met a lot of musicians and models that are talented but don't have the market and content production skills to take their careers off the ground. Uniting people together and offering value and scaling your lives towards a bigger potential than anyone thought was possible is what it's all about! Take it step my step; it all starts by organizing your first event. It could just be inviting a fellow musician over to rehearse a new song and post the reel of it on your Instagram and building up the complexity and scale of your social circle and brand from there.