LordFall

@Inliytened1 is not a bad guy, he just shows a lack of calibration. The objections raised towards some of his language are valid but his aim in starting this thread are as well. I do think in general people on this forum are not comfortable with sexuality and us discussing it is adding value to the community. We are all on the same side and should just be looking to have the highest level discourse possible to elevate both the board and our individual lives.

Sure but joining in times of conflict to protect your people and joining the armed forces because you don't have another career choice or want the perks it comes with and making your life purpose being an armed man that solves problems with lethal force is not a moral way to live your life in my opinion. You can make money and contribute to your community and country in other ways.

No a national guard and border patrol fulfill functionally different role than an army infantry in a country's protection. Offensive and defensive warfare I think should be understood differently if we're gonna talk about what is noble and what is foolish in terms of joined the armed forces of your nation.

You can have some positive feelings towards someone while questioning their life choices. Beta Infantry will not accomplish much in life and probably get killed in the process and kill other people and possibly innocent civilians. It's not exactly a stellar career choice. @Yimpa 3 + 4 +1 is only 8. You need to increase your standards and add at least a 2 to your polycule to be dating a 10!

Leveraging personal information as a peer pressure tactic? He quoted a user who is is flailing out of control not being sure of his own points; I don't think quoting him makes someone utilizing a peer pressure tactic lmao. Can we tone down the performative moral panic on this thread at least by 30%, it makes productive conversation quite difficult.

What do you mean by respect? I think it's brave what they're doing and I hope they don't die in the process. I think it's also stupid and they can use their life for better purposes than shooting at the bad guys that their political elites tell them to kill.

The beta infantry lol I mean it's dark but it's necessary true. The elites raise funds for the masses and build beautiful war monuments to honor the mostly low and middle class men that go to die in wars that protect their capital while they sit as high ranking military officers or just in their own house chilling as civillians while they lobby the government. One of the guys I threw a fashion show with quit his modelling agency to join the Canadian Military, I wish him the best but sounds like suicide and foolishness to me.

Where have I engaged in bad behaviour? If you perceive me talking about my sex life as toxic behaviour then that just serves to expose your shadow and is a pretty cringe example of limiting beliefs and crab in the bucket trying to shame other men that are living the life you want. A thread that gives a safe space for people to share their sexual experiences on a dating forum seems pretty standard to me. You see that all the time on Reddit or other internet discussion boards. It should also help to normalize sex for people that have grown up in an environment that shames sex and that puts barriers on sexual expression like religious communities for example. Here is a thread on the front page of Reddit right now by a woman asking for tips on how to keep up with her boyfriend sexually https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1vs635n/my_boyfriend_has_a_lot_of_stamina_and_although/ The easy stage green moralizing tactic by men uncomfortable with sex is be a social justice warrior standing up for women but women are just as interested in sex if not more then men so it's usually a very shallow point.

I like war movie analogies. A social circle is like being part of an elite troop of marines instead of being on the wheelchair or the regular guys with a basic gun that's gonna jam after 1 rainfall. Having high status is like being the admiral commanding the operation. It's not automatic sunshine and rainbows, you still have to write the casualty reports for all the low value dudes that had to be basic infantry and died to secure the victory.

Wouldn't meditation under anti-psychotic medication be perfect for you? It stops you from relapsing into another psychotic outbreak while still being able to integrate your psyche and explore nonduality. Just stop doing crazy shit like running naked into the street. It's just bad gameplay. Think of yourself as God playing a human video game chracter. If you fuck up your human's life you are fucked, doesn't matter if your ultimate self is not affected in the grand schemes of things. If you meditate under anti-psychosis you will probably still experience a sort of mini psychosis because ultimately the experience is not caused by chemicals going haywire in your brain; it's due to awakening. Just integrate the lessons sober before you go hardcore into meditation. Someone completely sober can induce psychosis in themselves just by what they think about. Just be careful of having already figured out grounding mechanisms before you start to engage in spiritual practice. It sounds silly but masturbating is one of my mechanisms. As long as you do it privately it will ground you because it will reinforce the paradigm that we are currently operating under i.e. we are both human males and woman are sexy and you wanna fuck them. If you deconstruct it further then you can realize that women are just a figment of your greatest self but that doesn't really matter since it's a great part of reality and you should accept that boundary to remain a sane human being able to function in reality.

You're welcome to pop by one of these days! This thread is a masterpiece in showcasing why social circle game is so powerful. When you host real life events you don't have to entertain or engage with low value people. You cater a crowd with the people that you desire to engage with and you build an awesome life and let keyboard warriors bicker on the internet.

Thank you. I'm very blessed to have learned game early on in my life as I'm naturally quite introverted. It's allowed me to have beautiful experiences with many amazing women and I can't wait to have many more as I embark on a polyamorous journey over the next few years!

Somewhere around 50 I don't count precisely. What about you?

LOL we should make it a psyop anime scene where a bunch people furiously type on their keyboard as a meter for control of the thread goes in one direction and the other. Come on guys, sexuality is not that scary. We are just humans bonding on our beautiful planet playing an eternal game of love. Thankfully God loves us enough that you can master the universe and get threesomes as your reward.

Being foreign only helps you with women if you have the status to back it up. You women line up to fuck migrants lol? Dance is a good form of game because it's an honest signal that shows confidence. If you step up in a circle of men and women for a dance battle you can't have much anxiety so it's attractive to women. It's for sure a game skill.

Makes a lot of sense. Emotional maturity and self-awareness are the key to thriving relationships; monogamous or otherwise.

Psychoanalysis is a cool concept to bring into this. Unintegrated sexuality and shame always brings up quite a range of responses from people. That's why I avoid spiritual bypassing, when you talk about direct subjects that rule our world like politics, sexuality and money you expose the parts of reality that still scare most people and their shadows are exposed very quickly. I think that's fine, it's good to break relationships that are not based on alignment sooner rather than later. For someone to be a solid companion to us for many years they need to be self-aware enough to know what they want and have needs and desires that align with our own.

That's super interesting, did you guys talk about it afterwards in depth? What came up for her in that moment? Seems common from what I've researched about polyamory. Common grievances with open relationships on the women's side is they underestimate the intensity of the emotions that come with it and the men regret open up a relationship because they can't get laid while their woman starts sleeping with other men left and right lol

A lot of women want to have them too but they are too shy or just don't know how to make it happen. Some dating coaches like RSD Luke and Michael Sartain base part of their game on getting a bisexual girlfriend and having regular threesomes. I wanna get to that level, seems like a very fun life. Regular polyamorous couples do it as well but because they don't understand game I think it'll be much less often and with less attractive women. When you know game and are in a polyamorous relationship I think a whole new world of dating options open themselves up to you.

I'll let you know in the next few months, should be able to have a threesome by then and maybe even start a throuple. Last time I tried was when I was doing the group dinners and podcasts. I've never had a threesome yet, it's been on my bucketlist for a while. Tried to link 2 of my fuck buddies together a few years ago to make it happen but I stopped seeing one of them before I could make it happen.

Do you find this user to be adding value to your life? You are adding value to his by entertaining his points, giving people free value when they don't offer it back is how you are dragged down into the mud by people that don't make conversations higher level. I see that we are going for the pubic forum angle and back to looksmaxxing and grooming strategies. Personally I like to keep a low vegetation so that the tree has room to shine and leave the crowd in anticipation of the festivities.

Don't respond to low quality perspectives, it only validates them and makes you lose frame. Insults are not a valid perspective to share in a debate, you should not even respond. Be at the cause and not the effect.

I think having strong core values that you stick to is what invites the right kind of women into your life. I hosted a podcast with hot girls talking about their dating and sex life and everyone enjoyed it. I never apologized for my beliefs and stuck true to my identity throughout and some women shit tested me but I'm pretty comfortable with myself and I know what I want so it rarely manages to affect me. I remember two particular incidents while we were throwing events in Kelowna. We host group dinners and invite girls we've never met so they naturally ask us about ourselves and our dating lives. I usually answer exactly like I do here that I want 5 wives and am polyamorous. I've had to learn to calibrate saying this as it is not part of social norms so one time at a wine tour the girls that kind of annoyed at it and started flirting with the guy pouring the wine for us and that was awkward for a few minutes but not too bad. One of the following nights I did it in more of a flirty way and turned it back on them like wait you don't like women? That's weird! I think Millie here likes you though and the girl I mentioned started blushing and it was almost a threesome vibe for a while. I haven't gotten to that point yet but each time I talk about marrying multiple women in front of multiple women it acts as a unstated frame that if it came down to it I would fuck them all so I've found it either gets flirty or awkward real fast lol

Up is where you want to go, your desired life, life purpose and infinite possibilities! You don't have to betray your values to sleep with many women, it's a false dichotomy setup by people that aren't in an abundance mindset and are trapped in society's default dating paradigm.

That's sweet did you get girls dming you from it? If you manage to hit strong numbers on multiple reels then you'll become a local celebrity and can leverage it for your business and life purpose endeavours as well.