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Porn definitely saps my energy big time and makes simple tasks for my business and brand feel dreadful. I've been working on a nofap challenge, I failed and then journaled on my mood and motivation and there was a huge difference.

Worry about systems, the feelings of inadequacy will go away once you kick your winner effect back in. If you're in a big city I would look at resources like game global to find wingmen in your local city. I would then go out to cold approach daygame/night game at least once a week ideally 2-3 times. It helps so much to go out with people that know what they're doing and getting laid. I assume your friends are also incels or in relationships already and don't pickup women regularly but when you talk and chill with a dude getting food for an hour and then he picks up a girl and gets laid that night right in front of you; it'll demystify the process and you'll start to feel like it's not that complicated and you can do it too. I would write an at least one page journaling your feelings about this and why you haven't gotten a girlfriend in your life, what you've been doing instead and what you see your other peers doing. Send that to an AI of your choice and have it level with you. Get on dating apps as well. At the start you won't get many matches, go out with your friends and get better pictures. Watch a few videos on it on Youtube. Hire a professional photographer. Change your life from being the passive observer to the action taker and you'll probably get a GF in 2-3 months.

It's time for a radical experience in consciousness

On one of the top 2 cults in the world

I think humans giving their perspective can be helpful. I like having AI to analyze my thoughts though. Way more convenient and thorough than a human therapist I agree.

Sounds like you need to meditate some more. Awakening is not enough to sustain an elevated state of consciousness without tripping out and losing perspective i.e. falling into psychosis. Happened to me a few times. I had some similar insights to you about kind of being dead already but God wanting to play a game and unfold a story. The more I live out my life the more it aligns and the less I suffer and fall into a good version of my story. I hope you find the same. Suffering comes from misunderstanding materialism.

No I mostly disagree with you. Validation doesn't only mean that you're desperate for approval. It means that your peers approve of your contribution to the group. If you don't contribute positively to the group what do you spend your days doing? Even this whole forum is only possible because a large of us validate Leo's work otherwise he would be like a random dude saying random stuff on the internet that nobody relates to.

Makes a lot of sense to start with money. If you have the money for it you can easily hire a dating coach and a nutritionist to help your journey along these fields.

Yes leftists are always coping by calling Trump dumb. Anybody that's actually successful knows that to have any kind of success in 3 major industries(real estate, television and politics) is insanely difficult. Leftists and stage green people tend to not be very strategic(the ones that are move up quickly to stage yellow) and underestimate the evil and scheming of the politicians that rule us. https://actualized.org/insights/leftist-fantasies It's hard to know what's true because we live in a fog of war unless you have the connections or access to talk to people that are actually power players in the world. The US seems to be where they want to be though. Rearing up their military industrial complex and massively funding their tech sector in preparation for an AI arms race with China. To be honest I don't have the energy to fully research this stuff and figure it out but Prof Jiang videos seem to be a decent place to start off as he deconstructs our world order pretty effectively. He seems to be biased towards China though(he has to literally works and lives in Beijin and is one of their biggest influencers now lol sure she's had some meetings with the CCP or they keep tabs on him) so keep that in mind.

I think you and a lot of other people on this forum are overthinking and generally falling into laziness when it comes to business. Most of these ideas work. Document yourself working on them for at least 3 hours each day and you'll be shocked how much progress you'll make in even 2 weeks let alone a few months of dedicated effort. I've posted many business ideas and productivity hacks on this subforum and elsewhere and I rarely see people reply to them let alone try them. Can you share what your business experience is and what you've tried so far? Or are you at step 0 and just thinking that business advice on Youtube is a scam? I'm more trying to deconstruct this attitude rather than singling you out particularly to be fair. I just feel 90% of this forum is stuck in stage green passivity where they lack the effectiveness lessons from stage orange and judge it or are intimidated by it.

I mean there is such a thing as a shit test where she's just seeing how you react and if you're smooth about it you can still makeout with her. There are also women that are not into you and upfront about it. If that's the case you can always add her on Instagram and invite her to group events where you invite other girls that could be into you and having female friends helps your case. You don't need all the women in your social circle to be into you to still be able to use it productively to meet other women that are down to sleep with/date you.

It's interesting to think about how much of human relationships were handled like this throughout history. The whole finding someone you like out and about is a really crazy and modern concept. People always complain that we are in the dark ages of dating but we are really blessed and the most free generation in that regard. With freedom comes a lot of chaos though.

I've found some of her ideas and paradigms to be unique and helpful. I haven't gone too in depth in her work though.

Time is an illusion!

What were the symptoms of your weed addiction? Did you choose to go to rehab voluntarily or did someone make you?

Working on the food brand, it's something I've done on and off in the past couple years as it's good for social circle long term I believe. Thinking of getting back into it more as AI is helping me think through my content system with more clarity and the automated content pipeline is starting to become easier than ever to manage. Just edited together a pizza happy hour reel and boom that's 3 pieces of content. One youtube short, one Tiktok and one IG reel.

Depends what you mean by objectively. Meditation and psychedelics will help you empathize with women way more and see the world from their perspective. Then in a way you'll get 10x more horny for them as you realize the beauty of biology and sexual attraction.

Understanding the trends and being at the mercy of them emotionally are two different things. As a man looking to establish himself in life, gossip is the worst thing you can take in. It's basically like the lion caring about the venting of the sheep. Learn to generate value until you have a surplus and then share it with great people you want to and you'll realize the gossip of the crowd doesn't really affect you much. To let it rob you of your power is a tragedy.

Worrying about what the mainstream thinks about men and getting down over it is what's called failing the shit test.

We are truly at a fascinating point in our species evolution. It's a mix of late stage capitalism and hyper progress imo. @Spiral You're definitely unto something that our societies are moving so fast that our parent's advice is becoming ineffective. Fundamentally it comes down to adaptation. Our species has always been about which individuals adopt the best and those who fail to usually go extinct. Our society if anything is more soft and less punishing in that those that can't adapt and compete just don't get to participate in the marketplace(of dating and soon the job market entirely) and have to use the derivatives(porn, AI girlfriends and soon UBI for the job market.) I think the dating market is in a dream like situation to me. For someone who's willing to understand the system and work hard to rise on top of it your options become unlimited.

What does this even mean? Can you elaborate on what you're looking to experience there and get out of it? I've never done a bootcamp personally but I've assisted a couple dating coaches with them. It is life changing if you don't have access to anyone like that in your regular life. $1000 for self-development is not really expensive. Just be clear what you want out of it though.

That's the role of psychological profiling. It's not perfect but it's the closest to mind reading we got so far. You don't particularly care for the law, have been shown to enjoy activities related to extreme dopamine cases, speak in sadistic ways online around wanting to dominate your enemies, admire foreign countries where the rule of law is weaker and have multiple rape accusations? It's not a verdict but not looking good for our buddy the Trumpster.

It's a good lesson in incentives. It's not because a country is low in development that it doesn't have some aligned incentives with the rest of the world.

I have ADHD and only took meds for like a week then never again just found it wired me without boosts in productivity. I get distracted easily so I do stuff like Pomodoro method(work in 20 min increments then take a break) and I find that works. It's not an excuse against success, just gotta manage your workflow and productivity like anyone else. Anything I really don't want to do becomes a real pain though whereas I find my friends have an easier time just pushing through it just cuz its gotta get done. Helped me figure out more creative ideas in business though.