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Groups fall of over time through drama or people going their own path if there is not a solid glue holding them together. That's where you come in as the social circle leader! People are so lost that if you consistently host cool events that have value you will invariably rally people together.

I like attractive smart women with a lot going for them. You can call them materialistic or you can call them in demand with a lot of options. @Zenterus Good luck with the events, they're fun but a lot of work. What is your taste in women? Once you start doing them you'll see you can cater to specific niches but it takes a while for the seeds to flourish. I'm gonna be doing some fashion events in Europe in spring 2027 so gonna be meeting meeting even more stunning women there. @Hojo I love the status game, as an INTP I find it very fulfilling. You get to unravel the mysteries of the universe and sleep with beautiful women as a reward. They're not more annoying than men, just have their own objectives as humans. Women need to feel safe in a chaotic world and unless you're the man you can't really dominate your society and offer them safety, purpose and a fun existence at your side. @WonderSeeker Totally people have different goals, I aim to encourage those that want to achieve more and document my journey. I'm not where I want to be and it's looking like in 6-8 months my setup will level up even more so I want to showcase the journey and progress of it. Everyone can achieve a level of this if they want so I just get disappointed when I see people getting stuck at level 2 of the journey and giving up. @theleelajoker Some ways work better than others brother. It's not generic at all, I've studied most game coaches and only people like RSD Luke and Michael Sartain do social circle game at a high level. I've learned from both and it's why I've been able to do some pretty crazy events and date some girls that I don't see anybody else have even access to lol. If you're able to replicate some of this feel free to share your Instagram and share your results as well. They say the two core male delusions is being able to fight any other men out there and being able to pickup any woman. That's why having IVE(irrefutable visual evidence of your life) and receipts is key if you wanna come at it from a similar place of authority. I'm a polyamorous man myself and want to explore the world and date many of these women and buy a castle somewhere and settle down with a few wives so getting one attractive girl to be into me was only the start of my journey. I'm grateful to all the women I've met so far and am looking forward to meeting many more! Hot women teach you a lot about the universe and if they're difficult in your experience it's because they have a lot of shit test to screen out men. If you are what they want they turn into princesses it's funny and very pleasant to witness. Women are the greatest invention of God apart from the universe itself, such a joy to meet your divine counterpart in physical form.

No Leo she's real the hot witch girlfriend, she does have real magic it comes from a supercomputer though.

You can literally go on bdsm forums where women will talk about wanting to find a dominant to be in a sex slave to(consentual). The most extreme version is called 24/7 total power exchange. Women are generally kinkier than men, they've found this in many surveys. You could definitely date women for many years that will never deny you sex and help you build your dream life. Ultimate and infinite sexual satisfaction is of course possible it would be a pretty big flaw of the universe if it wasn't. I haven't even pitched you AI/VR girlfriends yet those will change the world in the next 5 years wait til they're connected to an AI agent that work for you 24/7 as well. The future is a wild place.

I see what you mean but I still believe our best future fundamentally lies in post scarcity. You can also look at most relationships today as cope and basic survival as opposed to great unions of love. Once humanity is unloaded of our burden of basic labor for survival we will face a gigantic intellectual, cultural, artistic and romantic renaissance.

In what way can you elaborate? Sounds like a mindset problem and a clue towards mental blocks that you might have more than a social media problem. Why don't you use social media productively? You found yourself endlessly doomscrolling?

Got paid $500 by my main client right now so I have some spending money. I mainly get leads from Instagram ads and it works consistently which is nice and eventually will be endless money if I can master the system but it's hard. Alex Hormozi said in a recent video that he talks about ad budget management in his 3rd money book money systems so I'm excited about that because ads are really a crazy misunderstood thing. If you can do them well you can acquire endless new clients that want to give you money for whatever offer you're running but you have to run a profitable offer and manage your bankroll well. All skills I currently lack and thus why I sleep on my buddy's couch right now but I'm closer than ever to figuring it out so feels good. I pay a guy $50 to assist on the podcast so I keep $450 of it and had to pay my phone bill so down to $400. Should have another podcast in a week which will take my bankroll to $900 then right back to $400 with paying $500 in rent at the start of the month but now I got some play money at least.

Yes, I'm like $25K in debt rn I talked about it on my journal thread here : For me it's like a cornerstone of my personality. I have a hard time saving and tend to impulse buy stuff or even just invest it in smart things but that aren't fully sound. My biggest breakthrough lately is managing my money in multiple accounts and stacking my liquid cash in cash etfs that take like 2 days to cash out it's harder for me to impulse buy. I'm an entrepreneur so if I don't misuse my money I can always make more of it and that's held true but it's' unreliable and inconsistent. It's something I would like to solve and have solid consistent cashflow and a control on my finances 12 months from now.

Cold approach benefits a lot from momentum, if you stop doing it for a while you lose the ease of approach. That's why I'm more of a fan of social circle and social media game, your progress is longer lasting. Make sure you get the Instagrams of all the women you cold approach and not numbers so you buildup your page and not just have an endless list of useless numbers after a few months of doing it.

I'm in the process of building a web 3 game right now where you can make money from playing it. It's gonna be called legend of the abyss. Video games a return on investment on the time spent on them IMO otherwise at best they can give you stress relief and perhaps inspiration for another project that will then be worthwhile to you. Here are some of the concept arts I got AI to help me with : I want to make it similar to the MMORPG Dofus; had a lot of fun playing that when I was younger. Definitely put 10 000 hours in it. Just wish I still had access to my original character and items as NFTs or something it'd be worth a fortune now.

No I disagree with this premise, I think this was the goal of evolution the whole time. If you found your dream girl tomorrow and she was everything you wanted and I came and killed her at the end of the day how on earth would it make that experience more special? I think you will now be able to enjoy your girlfriend forever and also get to live a life beyond economic scarcity with AI post scarcity. Capitalists benefit from stability and order, chaos is bad for business. Everyone on earth getting UBI and then buying their products and consuming them for all of eternity is good for business. WW3 is bad for business. Billionaires want to become immortal. Biological immortality is a good incentive for all parties involved. We're going post scarcity baby.

Sure but it doesn't make one technology have the same drawbacks as an other. I know you don't like Elon but at least contrast him to someone like Richard Sackler who became a billionaire by exploiting the opioid epidemic in the united states and shilling Oxycotin and lying about its effects and being almost directly responsible for hundreds of thousands of deaths. Also technology will solve the fundamental limit of our current civilization = scarcity.

Technology is just efficient solutions distributed at scale. Whatever you think sages and saints has is not distributable at scale. World peace will come through technology I could bet on it, it's definitional. You're right to be scared and concerned but I would be grandly optimistic as well. It's no accident that the epstein case and the US vs china showdown is happening right as AI is about to takeover the world. The great alignment is coming unless you believe in the great doom for some reason.

I used to like video games but they're pretty boring to me now. I like to watch fantasy tv shows and anime. Watching The Tudors right now it's pretty dope.

I disagree with the notion. Most guys guys Leo included haven't pushed pickup far enough to even talk about exhausting the sexual satisfaction from women. I've done game for 10+ years and met hundreds of guys in the community, less than 10% ever sleep with an 8 out of 10 and I've met like 3-4 that have had a threesome with 2 women that they would themselves rate 8/10. T If you wanna say that you don't prioritize sexual abundance and satisfaction in your life that's one thing but throwing out the baby with the bathwater is not honest imo.

This is pretty easy just ask her if you can come over see what she says. It's pretty fun to bang a girl in her own bed it's a different experience. Doing pickup and game while not having your life together is overrated though. Why don't you get a job/side hustle so you can afford to have a nice place of your own? Put a time limit on it so you're not procrastinating endlessly : 6 months.

@Majed The field of pickup was built around field reports. Test it out for yourself. What you describe sounds to me what happens when you go to a club that caters to 18-21 years old and you have drunk college dudes running around. I somewhat kind of understand what you mean with your point but you need to build on it more as that's not particularly seductive or attractive.

Let's do honest epistemology here. How else do you solve global warming but to move away from a fossil fuel based civilization through superior technology? Don't let your bias corrupt your arguments.

Plenty of regular couples film themselves having sex without the porn industry involved or just people sharing themselves masturbating.

You gotta give him the credit for actually pushing humanity forward in majorly beneficial fields though. A philosopher not willing to sacrifice a bit on their values would never had accelerated the electric transition and renewed interest in space travel like he has. He's also heavily involved in AI and has repeatedly spoken about post scarcity and humans not needing to work soon, something he will have heavily contributed to. He is not profit driven like a lot of capitalists out there. He is mission driven.

Labor or die; post scarcity is coming

I strongly disagree, what makes you say this? Mania is just high energy, you're just as likely to scare women.

The future is really gonna be interesting. Soon enough transhumanism will take off like never before. With technology like Neuralink that will raise our IQ to 200+ as well as biotech that will let us improve our bodies and become biologically immortal. This understandably freaks a lot of people out but as someone obsessed with self-development which is already basically self-transcendence, this is incredibly exciting to me. There is the dystopian version where the rich people use AI to oppress the rest of the populace but I don't see that happening. In game theory, it makes much more sense to facilitate a transition towards post scarcity and give everyone AI UBI than try to wage an eternal war on humanity. I can't imagine being able to compute faster than I currently can. Already taking psychedelics the information overloard is incredibly, perhaps with a Neuralink-esque device in our brain's we'll be able to interact with the infinite infinitely more.

Awesome this is a better response. Not at all. I've countered every point that you've put forth. Notice that you've now shifted the goal post and are arguing different points. First I had to defend casual sex in of itself and now the practice of learning game. Which I can easily do. Pickup is a wide field, you can't criticize it as a whole. There are some coaches that believe in just coming up with a rehearsed script and fuck as many girls as possible even if you have to lie to do it. Some other doesn't believe in casual sex that much and emphasize trauma release and introspection to identify your core needs and desire. I've met muslim guys that do pickup to learn to socialize and make friends and have never had sex from it. Fundamentally it's just about learning social skills and communication skills. Building rapport with a stranger that doesn't know you. That's why pickup guys usually get into sales or try it at some point in their career, it's a very related skill. Same thing where you can say business and sales are toxic in some context and not in others. I say it's mandatory to have a high quality dating life to learn to speak to women and seduce them. I think as a man learning to have casual sex will help you. I don't recommend manipulating anyone, I recommend becoming a genuinely attractive man that women enjoy being around. In regards to the Reddit posts you linked, those are valid perspectives. I don't think they mean much towards your point though. Someone having a bad experience with people that might or might not have been dickheads with bad intentions doesn't invalidate learning to express yourself and connecting with people. What if you got feedback from all the women that dated people that learned some game and are now in happy relationships, obviously their feedback would be the opposite and mostly all positive. Which one is more solid data? Also keep in mind women don't actually know who does pickup. If they get hit on by a guy at a bar that says some cringe line and when they say sorry I'm not interested and the guy says fuck off whore you're ugly anyway, I'd say it's pretty likely if you asked her what she thinks about pickup guys she would say omg they're assholes rude. Whereas that guy probably has never read a pickup book in his life nor actively tried to shed his ego and improve his flaws and learn to be a better man. Just a random drunk dude. Pickup is inherently about shedding your ego, the whole point is you're not good enough as you are and you have to learn to be better, increase the value you provide to others and communicate that value better. And in closing we're being asked from prescriptive advice here from the OP. Meaning he's looking at different trends in dating to figure out what he should follow. Notice that you haven't give him any advice apart from trying to argue against casual sex and pickup. So what would your alternative advice be, don't learn social skills, don't make a high quality social circle and don't learn to present yourself in a positive light? All key components of PUA philosophy. If we're to take this conversation away from the domain of philosophy and to practical life I would ask also what have you done in your life to help people find high quality relationships that gives credibility to your opinions? I do this as one of my businesses you can take a look at my personal Instagram or my business page https://www.instagram.com/royals.dating . I've personally helped guys get into relationships so that's also why this topic is personal to me.

@Elliott I'm not really willing to engage in low level discussion without intellectual integrity. If I'm gonna put effort in my responses and literally test them against an AI and you just say stupid nonsense then I'll leave you to a solo conversation. Hope you reconcile your bias and traumas around this topic.