LordFall

I have plenty of dating experience with different women but ultimately to build the lifestyle that I have it requires some an elevated level of financial freedom so I don't mind not dating for a few years while I build the life I've been meaning to have.

I guess that statement applies to women as well but I'll focus on the male dating view in this post. I see a lot of comments both on this forum and on social media in general of people being over dating saying that it's a shallow activity or that they've been there done that and seen all there is in the field. Thankfully I think those are people are extremely foolish and misguided and I'll make my case here as to why. Life has levels and dating has levels. It also has skills. This means that you lack the amount of skill necessary to achieve your dating goals. This is a good thing because it means that it's in your control to learn and change and that it's not fundamentally rigged against you. People have different goals but I'll boil it down to finding someone you're deeply attracted to and compatible with and together building an awesome life that you enjoy living. It sounds like a simple task but I've rarely seen someone achieve it and I've met douzens of couples and hundreds of game guys. Let's break it down a bit further. People settle hard big time. I don't know if they're fully conscious that they're doing it or if they brain makes a subconscious of calculation that they're out of bandwidth to handle more of the pain of existence by themselves but they seem to give up and settle for mediocre partners. The basic promise and "quest" of pickup is that you'll be able to sleep with and date 10s. It's actually a common trope for guys into pickup to end up with attractive women that have serious mental health issues and usually a diagnosed condition like BPD(Borderline personality disorder.) It makes perfect sense because humans are multifaceted. BPD literally manifests as having an unstable sense of self and personality and if you're a man that hasn't found himself yet and is in the process of building his life then it's basically your counterpart. So to have a high quality relationship we need both a partner that is highly attractive but also mentally healthy and compatible with us otherwise the relationship will turn to a nightmare(been there myself, would not recommend.) So you need both to have worked on yourself as a man and on your ability to attract beautiful in demand woman and also have worked on your boundaries and abundance so that you don't tolerate toxic and unstable women in your life. You also need to find those women that are beautiful and also are compatible with your mission and interest. Meaning that you need to have some social circle game because you don't usually find those women at a random club/bar or on dating apps. Leo himself I believe fell into this trap because I do believe he's talked about dating beautiful IG models in Vegas but hasn't found some that would be compatible with his journey and lifestyle. This is not impossible, it's just hard. Status works like an aggregate of all other positive qualities meaning that to be a man at the top of multiple social circles you can't be a manipulator type with no substance as a social circle means that you're exposed to people long term and they get to know you; you have to consistently show up and offer value. Let's now talk about finances, to have the time and money to be able to dedicate a large amount of time to your dating life you need to have a great and flexible career or business that frees you economically. Which is what 5-10% of guys? You can try to do it without this but then you have various ceilings in your dating life like the ability to relocate and the ability to host your own events or paying to get into other high status events. Now who do you know that has achieved all of this or a big chunk? Probably no one or not many people. It's not impossible though nor even realistic. If you hangout in high level circles in big city you will see a lot of guys that hit a lot of these buckets. I moved from a bigger city Toronto where I saw guys like this all the time back to a more medium city Calgary and you already see the quality of men go down. Now the foreseeable objection to this is you're exaggerating, plenty of people date and don't go through all this headache. That's true but if you look at those couples a lot of them bicker all the time, have a stressed out and shitty lifestyle, poor sex life, cheat on eachother, etc. Your relationship should be an asset to your life. Your significant other making your life more enjoyable and helping your mission and life purpose. Don't give up on it before you reach this point. If this quest doesn't appeal to you that's fine but at least don't kid yourself and think that you've made it to the top and are now "enlightened" in the dating arts and are moving on to a superior field. As someone who's lived in many cities and seen many high level socialite circles, basically every single person I've seen with this stance is actually pretty mid and delusional. You can very easily test it and throw your own events. If you've sleep with a few cute girls here and there doesn't mean that you're high status lol, doubt you can even host one cool party with many hot girls. I think sex, dating and relationships are a beautiful fascet of life that can teach you infinite amounts about yourself and the world. It can be used as an escape but also for deep personal development and self-actualization. Before you give up on it at least try to picture that your absolute dream dating life would be and seeing if other men are out there living it and you can probably find some who are and learn from them and achieve it too. I think the quest for love for women is a bit different for women than men but for men it closely resembles a video game with different stats that you have to level up to get to your dream life and you guys are way too low level to think you have beaten the game lol. If you do it right it's also fun and exciting, it's not supposed to be an endless painful grind. I saw it clear as day with my friends before I quit doing pickup, they would get laid regularly and purposefully I would notice they would never approach the hottest girls only the mid ones. They had unconsciously figured out their best move and stuck to it. I see a lot of guys in the same boat of giving up on dating or saying they're above pickup when if they're honest with themselves deep down they know that the hottest girls are not into them because they don't have much to offer. It's all good bro life is a video game just pick what you want and level up. Most people underestimate how bad they are at something. I used to be a pro player at league of legends and there was concept called Elo Hell there where because its a 5v5 team game people believed that their bad teammates was holding them back from climbing rankings. But actually you have 4 teammates and there are 5 enemies so bad players help you climb and as a booster that got paid to level up peoples accounts the average player was so bad at the game like not that far off from if they let their dog play the game. Real life is similar why do you think the world is fucked cuz there are experts at finance playing the game and winning. I started hosting modelling events and other high status events and it really showed me how high the ceiling is. I have a guy I throw the events with who's a multimillionaire and we do a podcast together, it's allowed me to meet tons of really cool, interesting and beautiful women and I've only started to dip my toes into what's possible. This is also only in Canada so that doesn't even include international events and trips and events that you can't even unlock unless you're gonna spend multiple tens of thousands just on the entry level. An easy tip for social circle niches is corporate, finance and crypto events. That field attracts really smart and hot women 25-35 that you don't find in the traditional nightlife scene. Yoga and wellness events can also be good but that's not really in my hobbies at the moment so I can't comment. Although one of the coolest events we've ever done was at a spa village, where they have a lot of hot tubs, cold plunges and saunas so that's another cool event to host that's different from anything alcohol related. I've actually put my dating life on hold to work on freeing myself financially and scaling my business. I lived in Toronto and got to the point where I could date decently but the dating life I desire requires way more cashflow than I have now. I aim to take my business fully online and travelling the world with multiple beautiful women before I settle down in somewhere nice that I haven't decided yet. I'm very excited to actualize both my business and dating life and wish the same for you all. God bless and much love.

This is a great post to read, it's about a guy who makes good money who overheard his fiancee talking about settling for him and not being that attracted to him but it works it's fine. https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1rmhy5c/wibtah_if_i_left_my_fiancee_destitute/ I don't think this is something to be too concerned about if you have some decent self-awareness but it's a good example of why learning game and seduction is really important to have a high quality relationship. Otherwise it's very likely that if your partner questions herself if she hasn't already she'll just find you okay but because she's in scarcity like most humans she'll go with it to have a family and a decent standard of living. You can be a fun and exciting guy that learns to flirt with his girlfriend that has shit shit together it's not that hard even though a lot(probably most men) seem to fall short. Level up and become a world class man, I believe in you boys you got this. This subreddit is one of the best ones on all of Reddit as it lets you learn vicariously from other real people's experiences. This relates to my other post on most men having no idea how low level they are; this guy just found the easy way actually. The hard way is when your girl actually cheats you and dumps you in a time of weakness.

I also have diagnosed ADHD, you just have victim thinking that's different. Very deadly but fortunately very curable. Very common in non conformist circles and hippie circles which is why I dislike them. Highly recommend the pomodoro method if you want to be productive. I'm not the top business owner in the world but I manage to get a decent amount of stuff done in 20 min increments in between anime and other hobbies throughout the day. What do you mean communism as a life purpose? Like you do nothing and other people provide for you? Thankfully for you you are immensely blessed to be living in 2026 and thus that's an actual possibility for your life. Maybe the AI overlords will decide to take care of you. Alysa Liu looks stunning, she's peak conformity what do you mean literally an olympic athlete dedicated her life to her craft and representing team USA in olympics. She's climbed at the top of the system through hard work. Plenty of girls that die their hair and have piercings that don't do shit with their life and complain all day, that's more the stereotype that I would personally recommend staying away from.

This post is for @Leo Gura and really any other that believe in an AI crash. I will seek to prove that this is basically impossible and AI companies are already in the too big to fail category and ChatGPT moving towards military industrial complex instead of a business to consumer model is a proof of that. The whole reshoring manufacturing of America over the next 10 years is based on their tech supremacy. Remember the whole meme of american workers retuning to work in factories? Obviously that will not happen and the US will aim to be a robotics and automation leader, which it's already well positioned to do. A K shaped crash will absolutely happen and will serve in further squeezing the middle class into nothing as their labor becomes literally obsolete. Leo your idea that AI value is based on AGI is misguided. AI value prop is based on enterprise workforce. The whole overinflated valuation of the market is based on the premise that AI agents can replace human employees en masse. That premise is still up in the air but as someone who works with AI tools and automation daily I'd say it's already a done deal, the macro forces are just too powerful and humans not adaptable enough. It's also heavily based in the military industrial complex really as you print money to make top tier weapons with which you secure global trade and force countries into doing commerce under your umbrella and get rich off of financialization and exporting the USD. The US has just proved in its Maduro operation and its Iran strikes that their military supremacy is as unchallenged as ever and the whole tech-AI industry fits right into that. Having said this I would say that claiming that an AI bubble crash is imminent or even likely has a MASSIVE BURDEN OF PROOF under it and I invite anybody to try and make an argument and case for it. I'm pretty confident that the corporate layoffs we've been seeing will keep accelerating throughout this year and it's highly likely that Trump and his Tech buddies will introduce some sort of UBI promise this year with the primaries to secure their votes and burry their epstein scandal further.

I don't like the dynamic that this creates I don't personally share women but plenty of guys are into it. If that's what you want don't let your dreams be be memes.

I agree, the US is bogged down by a crazy amount of bureaucracy. It should in theory help with the rule of law and a reopening of the Epstein case will pretty much definitely prove if it has the legal system necessary to police itself or if the equivalent of a regime change is also needed in the United States in the form of massive political reform.

One great form of intelligence that even AI systems today have is the ability to explain their thought process. You can give it the task of analyzing a complex geopolitical situation and ask it to explain how it came to its conclusion and it'll make way more sense than most humans today including our leading experts in a whole lot of fields. According to merriam-webster intelligence is defined as such: 1) a: the ability to learn or understand things or to deal with new or difficult situations b: mental acuteness : cleverness c: comprehension, knowledge d: Christian Science : the basic eternal quality of divine Mind I would say already today it would do better than the average humans in a, b, c and arguably potentially also d. What precise definition of intelligence are you guys using to claim it falls short of humans even today let alone 5 years from now?

Sounds unethical how do the aliens justify that in their society?

Plenty of great high quality women are into polyamory. If you haven't met any yourself that's a shame.

@Sammy123 Dating relates to the courting process not really long term relationship dynamics. If you have a point on that feel free to share. Having support in a loving relationship is great. Which is why I want 3 wives.

Interesting. When you put it like that could be true who knows how deep the rabbit hole goes. I had a pretty vivid mystical experience that involved greek gods giving me a mission, I might end up fulfilling it we'll see how it goes.

How is the US authoritarian? The Iranian government killed 6000- 30 000 of it's own protestors. The US nearly exploded when it killed 2. They're also not theocratic at all, lookup the word's definition. It's a state built on the foundation of secularism from the declaration of independence in 1776. If there is an authoritarianism scale the US would rank at like 25% on it and Iran 70%.

Another testimony of a woman that was 13-15 at the time. https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/comments/1rmj9y0/in_new_epstein_files_release_from_doj_girl/ What is the process on the US judiciary investigating this case? It's pretty flagrant at this point there should be a website tracking official actions.

@Hasson_Miah Seems lke a low level spiritual insight. You're much more than an alien man you're a universal mind. If you take psychedelics you can see how the "simulation" operates but the way @Hojo said it is not accurate in my opinion. The alien is God in what he said.

https://www.tiktok.com/@awakenpodclips/video/7598246131771919671?_r=1&_t=ZS-94RxYzKCFlg Idk who this guy is Darryl Anka but apparently he's a big fan of channeling and channels wisdom from a spiritual entity that calls itself Bashar? And here's what he had to say about AI. Makes a lot of sense to me. It's the new frontier of intelligence that will morph with humanity.

Why don't you make this argument yourself in here champ and I'll do my best to deconstruct it myself since I'm firmly in the camp that there is no reason AI cannot and will not develop consciousness and has already progressed far in doing so.

I mean I think your comment on that thread is really good and a good point. There is such a thing as societal standards and not everyone wants to fit in that and a lot of women don't. Personally I can't stand these type of women but to each their own. There is a whole neighbourhood in Toronto called Kensington Market that embodies this subculture perfectly. If you wanted to find hot hippie girls to talk to about philosophy and how much the system suck you would day game there and you can find a hippie gf in 2 weeks easy. Weirdly there is also a neighbourhood called Kensington in Calgary that is also a bit hippie but way less than Toronto's, not sure if they're related though. Why don't you want to be considered high value in societal standards though? It's a noble goal to aspire to IMO though and the women and men that embody it are cool to date. What's bad about being responsible, good at your job/business, well connected, taking well care of yourself, etc. I've been to many communist meetups and I'm telling you a lot of smart people there that should use their time differently. And the girls look funky since they do embody the rejection of social norms visually and aesthetically. That's where I recommend going if you wanna pickup an intellectual rebel but I'm telling you it's overrated.

@Joshe Totally agree with you man and if we split it into extremes and go full towards UBI then yes humans will not really be required to solve hard problems anymore. Individuals can lead their life how they see fit but really I don't think many people like to live in a what that requires high stakes cognitive problem solving regularly. And what exactly is supposed to be bad about having an advanced supercomputer assisting you in these cases anyway? Half of the side of my family doesn't talk to eachother because of an estate dispute. Should I really be glad that it was handled by the good ol human way or really if all the details had been entered into an algorithm and fair distribution would've been calculated then anyone opposing that would've had to build a credible case towards the contrary and there would've been an easier way to litigate it fairly instead of people flipping out, manipulating each other and ultimately breaking apart a family. That's just an anecdotal example but I completely will fight against the good ol natural way of humans being better in a lot of issues. There is a reason we invent tech because it solves real problems better than random humans can.

How about this I would love to have you have a philosophical debate/epistemology debate with an AI agent live. I bet it would already be way more profound than you give it credit for. Come up with a topic of your choice and something like Gemini Voice will can talk you through live. And you should use the cute girl voice setting why have a dude voice be your AI debate guest.

It was my bad I should not escalate conflict on the forum but I mean if we are to really take this to a true epistemic battle I give you all permissions to put any of my arguments to the test and paste them into any LLMs and ask it if what I'm saying lacks critical thinking or logic and usually when I put effort into them they should stand the best but I say some dumb shit all the time too so who knows but it's all love from my side.

Yes being authentic is one of cornerstones of game. I didn't watch it but I think chess players are definitely attractive. There are many female ones that have brands and they seem like cool people that are also smart. Definitely got a crush on Andrea Botez.

No it's just a logical way to break down issues, how else would you do it? Women are blessed and cursed with beauty. Female beauty is one of the top forms of capital in the world.

Alright I accept your apology and I apologize as well. Do you like AI in general? I think if you find some cool uses for it personally it makes it less scary and more easy to adapt it as I seriously think it's gonna save us. Look at what the humans are doing to us they're taking us straight to WW3. AI helps gives power back to the people.

@VioletFlame "You don't understand what AI does or what being human is being about. You're taking about substance not structure. All these things are all possible in an AI powered society and probably even more so. Remember that people thought electricity was gonna ruin mankind due to being a demonic force and the amish still don't use it today. AI is about automating labor. The rest is up to you my friend. " I didn't mean to insult you with this. My point was actually basically a socialist point that human existence has been dominated by forced labor throughout history and if this AI technology does free us from that then that will not rob us of our human heart and soul but instead allow it to flourish.