LordFall

Very good. Each rejection proves to your brain that you are an action taker and you go for what you want. Each time you don't get what you want; you learn something about the universe and how it operates. It's important to figure out what women want as a whole and not a singular women. Basically nothing can be guaranteed to work on a single woman. Women as a whole though much easier to figure out. Keep levelling up bro, you got this.

Of course it will, 100x over. First of all because social circle still can include all the cold approach you want; the reserve is not true. It's not because you cold approach often that you're building a high leverage lifestyle. Social circle also allows you to scale your social life basically infinitely. All cold approach allows you to do is meet women in the street and clubs and fuck. It has a very low ceiling. Which is why all the cold approach we know about have massive social circles, social media and use leverage in their dating life. The reason that we know about Owen Cook is not because he's the greatest at cold approach. It's because he formed a social circle of the all the dating coaches he knew, used social media to scale and started to create systems of leverage(travelling to different cities and charging high ticket prices for bootcamps to fund his lifestyle.)

The fact that you immediately reached for a body count flex and assumed I must be lying shows where your mindset actually sits. You're reacting to your own past burnout with PUA tricks by swinging to the opposite extreme. Integration means being honest, high-value, and socially calibrated all at once. Without needing to project your old habits onto me.

This is actually the crux of the issue why cold approach is fundamentally not a good technique. It doesn't offer value it's just a an outreach method. If 100 dudes start hosting event it would elevate the city that they're in. The more dudes cold approach(especially clumsily and without calibration) the more guarded and less trusting of men women get. I t's kinda like being a telemarketer and just brute forcing marketing, sure you can make some money but there are more effective frameworks that are more win-win for both women and yourself. I still think it teaches you stuff to do it for a while but graduating to other more powerful forms of social strategy is mandatory for a man that wants world class results.

I still think you're spiritually bypassing and by hoping that your authenticity is enough. I never said to not be authentic but I don't even know what that means, I've pretty much never lied to women in my whole game career I always made it a point to tell all the girls I've dated I studied pick up for example and that's never backfired on me. Offering value as a man is a different concept. It's like what does authenticity have to do with feeding yourself? It's tangential. Feel free to experiment with this style of dating for a few months and get back to us on how it worked out. I could be wrong and you could find what you want quickly but my guess is that it's gonna be a little harder than just trying to be authentic and hoping people accept you without getting down to the core of how who you are as a man and what you offer the women that you're hoping to date.

Couldn't agree more. I'll race you to $1,000,000

@Asayake I think honestly man you're right that this forum is not serving you well. If you hangout on the Roblox forum you should find more interesting questions that are a match for your level of intellect.

Feel free to correct me and point out exactly where I'm wrong. I think you're feeling triggered and cornered. If you don't value intellectual integrity it's indeed useless for me to point out the flaws in your arguments even if it is objective. If it was not objective and true feel free to deconstruct my points just like I did to yours

Love Eminem he's up there for sure. One of the top stories of the american dream. Also some lessons to learn for us to learn on love and fame. I took a girl to karaoke one time and chose an Eminem song. One of the biggest mistakes of my life, his flow is way too fast I looked like an autist trying to replicate it even with a song I knew well. The cheeks went unclapped that night

I disagree with the mods and Leo on half of my posts. Why on earth would your goal ever be to be liked by a conformist crowd, your goal in life should always be to add value to whatever environment you're in. Conforming to the status quo or crying about not being responded to are both non-value adding moves. The 3rd most watched video on his channel is about emotional control. Yet you spiralled and fell pray to victim thinking, seeking validation and didn't introspect on what was happening.

For sure man, you deserve the best dating life that you can possibly imagine. That's why I write these crazy polyamory posts because that's the most beautiful life I can envision for myself. It's sure as fuck not easy but each day one step closer!

I didn't feel like backing up Bryan once more after I did it repeatedly would more value to the thread, highlighting your blind spots is more fun for me I like to challenge people. With skillful rhetoric you should be able to turn any conversation into a valuable exchange for both parties. It's a good point though you need people to push the overton window for society to evolve even if they do it not perfectly. I love the fact that Bryan coined the slogan Don't Die; I think that with the way biotech, medical research and AI recursive learning is going there is a good chance that we do end up biologically immortal in 20 years. This point is hilarious but seems bit true in that I think Bryan seems to not be a breakthrough researcher himself but more of an entrepreneur/marketer who shares his personal health journey as a way to leverage his business skills to add value to the medical industry and create a strong brand. I also like how he went to India and humiliated them a bit on their air quality issue. It definitely lacked some social calibration but its a useful call out; apparently 2M die prematurely over there due to it thats fucking crazy.

Of course it's yours. You're pointing fingers instead of figuring out your own blindspots. Saying that you're beyond something instead of trying to understand it which is the easy way out and ultimately a critique from below. The mind likes to think that it's always right but for that to hold up consistently you must first understand the other party's point of view and steel-man it instead of straw-manning it. Leo points to a valid phenomenon in that marketers tend to overhype stuff and even truly competent entrepreneurs tend to underestimate the timeline it takes to bring stuff to market. So even though Bryan means well it's a fair critique of his brand. Elon Musk famously does the same thing and even though he usually delivers; it pretty much always never goes according to his promised timeline.

That truth should be your highest principle otherwise anything else that you try to value over it will be corrupted and rendered weaker if not completely useless if not completely backfire in your face because of it.

I like the word leverage. It's simple at first but if you understand how it works it describes most of the mechanisms of power in our world. It's more the concept that is cool than the word but with this one word you can build an empire.