LordFall

We finally agree on something, cheers my man. Which part of this is most important to you? For me I played a lot of multiplayers games in the past where you end up spending hundreds and really thousands of hours on the game and don't get much out of it apart from some socialization if you're playing with friends but even then it's barebones. It's even more disgusting that these guys like for League of legends, Call of duty, World of Warcraft, Fortnite, etc hire psychologists and economists to addict and rinse their playerbase as much as possible. That's why the idea of web 3 fundamentally makes sense to me, it hasn't really been proven to be that great yet but if you're not acquiring assets from investing thousands of hours of your time on an endeavour then you must be accruing a liability there's no other explanation. Games are so cool you shouldn't have to trade your life to enjoy them.

The one part where Actualized is a bit of a cult is it skews too far away from real world results. One definition of a cult I saw from real cult survivor is it reinforces a hierarchy that doesn't translate to the real world so when you leave the cult you're playing catch up. It's not necessarily Leo's fault as he's more interested in spirituality than material success but perhaps that's also a trap he's falling into as he admitted to running somewhat low on funds and having to create more products to sustain himself. Which is fine and real; 80% of the forum members(myself included) seem to be dealing more with material issues than spiritual ones and especially seem to have an unintegrated stage orange. This creates predictable archetypes like the stage green hippie/well meaning person that has no ability to have an impact on the world besides getting really upset and blaming capitalism for all their personal and collective problems.

That's really cool. I use Gemini right now to analyze even forum debates I have but it's too biased and it usually mostly reinforces the blindspots I have although it can be useful in deconstructing the perspective of other people. Claude I've tried as well and it's more objective but it still lacks a lot of nuance. Stuff like this will be really helpful for politics. I'm surprised they don't have a fact checker for political debates a lot of times people just say stuff that is easily provably false but you can't really debate it against it in real time. It gives me great hope for global peace that we have such technology now available. Gaslighting and straight up lying are unfortunately surprisingly effective moves.

Anytime. To me the worst part about a relationship is not understanding what went wrong since breakups are quite traumatic. I would hate repeating the same mistakes over and over and it happens with people all the time if we don't introspect. It's both relieving to me and I suffer in empathy when I see people carry those issues into marriages. That's why I linked the resources, so you and others can see what a lot of other relationships look like. We often idealize "people that make it work" but it's not all rainbows and sunshine that's for sure.

That's sweet, subscribed to your channel! It's like city builder game? How long have you been working on it? Keep it up, I watched this video recently that gave me some good ideas to put into my own devlogs. My main feedback with yours would be to add some commentary so we know what's going on.

So you don't say I copied it from you when I release mine, I also had a similar idea. Mine is a 2d roguelite that will hopefully turn into a web 3 mmorpg but the point is to bake in useful elements in it so it's not just entertainment. There is the web 3 component so its tied to real economy but also some actualization principles like you meditate to recharge mana and there are multiple magic academies in the universe that more or less teach actually useful stuff based on their fundamental incentives whether it's genuine research or just indoctrination of the people. I also based it on our real world but in 1350 there was divergence that introduced magic so that when people study the worldbuilding they study actual history and then it's interesting to explore structurally how our real world would differ it magical elements were introduced. Such as what becomes of labor and standards of living when you can use earth magic to build stuff instead of a bunch of slaves. The main character is basically gonna use spiral dynamics principle to unite the world with his blood magic instead of using power to crush people and perpetuating eternal competition.

Anti aging is looking really good. I would follow Bryan Johnson and his experiments, it's not quite there yet but in 20 years I'm sure a 50 year old will look 25. How is your fitness level? As we age our metabolism slows down and it's easy to get overweight and that's where a lot of unnacttractiveness comes from. Yeah I'm starting to get way more injuries from working out consistently but not even that hard. My new addiction is asking Gemini about every pain I experience, it's fun to get actual answers. Just be careful to not let it turn you into a hypochondriac

Awesome this is a cool field report. Yeah fun is a phenomenal word; girls just wanna have fun. If you give them a safe and judgement free zone to do so they get pretty freaky. I've had a few gangbangs this way lol Are you gonna date her long distance and really make her your girlfriend? Sounds like you're used to monogamy where you only you fuck a girl in a monogamous framework and she was just DTF lol

I think you're spot on. The core of male sexuality is based on female fertility and the core of female sexuality is based on male provisioning and security which are relative to the environment that they're in. Which is why in today's environment which is quite safe but heavily status based, 80% of men are deemed unattractive if a woman is swiping on Tinder and going to the club. Knowing this as a man your best strategy is to use your unique strengths to overcome your weaknesses and be basically more competitive than the men in your local environment.

We don't attract what we want, we attract what we are. So if you have flaws with codependency you'll attract someone who is similarly flawed. Some people call it karmic entanglements. I would read this book on attachment theory. Sounds like you're an anxious type and your ex was an avoidant type.

Usually I like to share my ideas so people can point our the blind spots. It's really hard to steal someone's idea if you don't have the vision or skill to execute it. Here's a good article on startup ideas by the founder of Y Combinator https://www.paulgraham.com/startupideas.html On the flip side it's also good to understand the concept of a moat and building stuff that can't be done by someone else or by AI.

You're marketing a game? I feel like video games audience live mostly on Youtube and Twitch. You can try those platforms. Also shooting organic content to build an audience is gonna be a high ROI if you have the energy for it, just more a medium to long term thing.

I agree but you're seeing it with rose tainted glasses. A lot of it is using a strict moral code as currency to judge others, establish a social hierarchy, and feel superior without actually having to produce real-world value. Basically an ideology in the box so people don't have to think for themselves about serious topics. There is a lot of great wisdom in religion that I'm often awed by and I can see how throughout history it served a great purpose towards the advancement of our people but the flaws and critiques still stand. I also think self-help is too hard for most people and they just need an easy ideology to cope through life. Individualism in general to be fair is also sort of cope, it only goes so far. I've spend my 20s being a serial entrepreneurial and learning all things self-help and praising personal ownership and I'm currently broke staying at my dads house since my last cashflow venture dried up so I'm appreciating more today the benefits of community and family than in recent years.

I'm glad you thought about it and elaborated. Sometimes I feel crazy for saying that most relationships are mediocre but this is basically what I'm talking about. If you can't talk to your partner about serious topics is it even a partner or some sort of codependent human that's attached to you? Communication skills and emotional intelligence are like the two most important parts of a relationship with the attraction part as the third key. Sex is one thing that is important but not like life endangering, what about money talks? A lot of couples that end up married can't talk about budgeting and how they're gonna pay for rents and the kids without one of the partners blowing up at the other. Most humans are very underdeveloped and sensitive meaning that if you point out their flaws they freak out and antagonize you instead of being open to learning and getting better. I think it's even more important as a woman to vet your partner and have high standards because well that dude is eventually gonna knock you up and you're gonna spend 9 months pregnant and then have to raise a child with him. A man can perhaps afford to be a bit less selective but fuck I would not want to get knocked up by the majority of dudes out there that would be a nightmare lol. If I were you I'd go on Reddit and read through the relationship advice subreddits and just see what other people's relationships are like. It's hard to know the deep down details of your friends or family relationships but Reddit is great they put all of the flaws of their relationship out there and you realize most of them are terrible. I've read hundreds of them thats partly why my relationship goals and standards are so high. There is also the female dating strategies subreddit which is now dead but you can also scroll through the old posts to get a more women-like perspective. Also it's good that you're realizing that sex is important to you early on. Most couples and marriages have a pretty bad sex life, to me that's so tragic what are you supposed to enjoy in life if not your own sex life in a committed relationship? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/ https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/

Are you good bro? Your posts aren't really making much sense. What are you trying to express? Sounds like neediness and pain at the same time.