LordFall

Si tu le voit choses comme ca je dirais que la plupart des gens se mettent en couple pour se construire le style de vie auquel ils aspirent, donc je ne vois pas le probleme. Je recommende au gens d'utiliser toutes les dating apps a la fois sa rend les choses plus rapide.

Yes that's a good point usually they approach with choosing signals and making themselves available.

I've been going through another awakening lately that was triggered by my 30 day challenge and I noticed that men basically always react to eachother on the street. If you walk confidently you will notice that you will either puff up more or shrink down/move out of the day depending on which guy you see on the street and how much of threat you peg him at. I first noticed it years ago while taking shrooms at a club but humans are basically screaming at eachother 24/7 through body language, it's quite mesmerizing once you tune into it. So really the odd that you trigger another dude especially if you make eye contact and don't back down is quite high, much more that said random dude would go to the point of harassing/assaulting a woman. Robert Greene talks extensively about body language in the 3r chapter of the laws of human nature, highly recommend that book.

That's a really good video. It's accurate in my experience that most men suck at approaching women, no such thing as a natural they were just socialized better than you were in that context. I remember my mom teasing me about women in junior high but she never even told me to ask out a girl, nor did my dad. Had to learn it from pickup coaches. And even though I was not the most confident guy at the start you forget most rejections after 5 mins. Women definitely want to be approached. I got a great one on film, I was doing street interviews with my buddy and decided this girl was too hot to approach. Then I said fuck it lets do it anyway and interviewed her and you can see she was pretty receptive and happy to be talked to, got her Instagram after. You can see though my left hand is jittering throughout, I kept my composure for most of it but I was really afraid of talking to her. https://www.instagram.com/p/C947lEPpMkn/

That's fair, I would say keep the hobbies and vision alive though. I would say it's one of the best times in recent memory to start a comic book and basically create your own IP, with AI agents and generative media it's gonna be possible to create the most alive alternative worlds that humanity has ever created and to do it by yourself/with a small team. I'm actually working on one myself right now! For me I'm in a similar boat of focusing on immediate cashflow to fund my bills and then working on a few separate projects on the side like this Legend of the Abyss IP I've been writing for like 6 months and also want to start a media agency since I host a lot of photoshoots and know a lot of models that would benefit from help with their media creation/marketing so that seems like a big win-win leverage. Just moved to Montreal so gonna see where I can take this over the summer. A lot of pretty women here boys you wouldn't believe. It wouldn't be a good place go to full MGTOW but then again I think every place on earth is a terrible place to give up on women. There are good times for monk mode periods of focus though, I haven't dated in the past 3 years to focus on the ecosystem I'm building.

That's a very naturalistic way to look at it. I would say it comes down to strategy vs coping then. Humans are build around using our times effectively to secure a better future for ourselves, that's one of the main differences between us and animals that live mostly in the present moment due to lacking the cortex for strategy. I think it's good to medidate and always enjoy the present moment even when it's mediocre but not to forget long term strategy so you're not stuck in stagnant environments over the long term.

Do you watch porn regularly? Being used to being alone shouldn't have too much with sexual drive. Technology mostly hightens competition, it's like globalization. The women in your immediate vicinity are engaging with the content of people living across the world and in part other men with more resources living funner lives than you. If you have the drive to compete it's not an issue but if your brain chemistry is out of whack then yeah it's gonna be overwhelming. The dating marketplace becoming more competitive is why social media and social circle game are so important.

@Zenterus What are you working on apart from pickup? Life purpose is definitely a big part of the life puzzle and without it you’ll invariably be bound by chaos.

You could call complaints like this perfect natural selection. All our history has been forced to adapt to reproduce and survive. The black plague was not that long ago with half your village dead on the street and dudes were like alright we're gonna make it fuck it let's still get it and here we are. It's even more brutal in the animal kingdom. A cute girl with headphones is what's gonna stop your bloodline? I think not. Go get them cowboy. I recommend doing this newbie challenge it progressively acclimates you to bolder and bolder approaches. Think about it, how fucking boring is social media? I guarantee you that you can outcharm tiktok. Practice a few teasing gambits and banter. Modern women are dying to get seduced. If you go into interview robot mode though then of course anything is gonna be more useful than her having to exert energy to answer boring questions. https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/newbie-assignment.34/

I mean if you're asking for my personal opinion 1) Obviously all men aren't trash perhaps only those who consistently inflict pain on those weaker than them. 2) Economic equality is a complicated subject that has to do more with macroeconomics and sociology than gender really. Men oppress eachother as much as they oppress women. It's the history of civil rights that feminism also belongs to. 3) Some men are loyal some aren't just like women. 4) Not true, in some aspects sure but most men I know aren't doing particularly well and for example now in terms of education and I think median income women in the west are doing better. 5) I don't think men fear strong women they dislike difficult women that create problems for no reason. Or they do sour grapes and hate on women they can't get . 6) Obviously not all men cheat I've never cheated and a lot of guys I know haven't as well. Truly a lack of character to cheat on the person closest to you, I wouldn't trust that kind of guy in business. 7) I agree with that one the most. Emotional mastery is complicated and something I struggle with daily to this day. Anxiety is a big one and misidentifying it and turning it into anger is common for me and other guys I know. Most women are also emotionally underdeveloped though.

It's a nuanced answer. Depends how you want to look at it. I think you shouldn't care what random people care about you and just reverse engineer the life you want. I agree that most men are underdeveloped yes but then so are most women so it's an irrelevant point. Men are trash. Men are the reason that equality hasn't been achieved Men aren't loyal Men as a class are completely privileged Men fear strong women All men cheat (This one is my personal favorite) Men are emotionally underdeveloped I'm just not really sure what some random women on an internet forum has to do with me building a harem with the most beautiful and coolest women I've ever met. I hope they use AI to fix their mental health and/or whatever other resources they have access to also achieve whatever goals they have is the end of my thoughts on men hating femcels really.

On what point precisely? I agree that most of a man's dating issues are self-inflicted yes. Up until you're an adult you're a result of your environment but nowadays with all the knowledge online you can definitely build whatever dating life you want. What action are you gonna take today to improve your dating life? I just moved to a new city and am currently broke and looking for a job and stressed with some health issues and I will still be continuing my cold approach challenge today. Feel free to join me and do it as well. The newbie guide I linked in that post is a phenomenal way to get into cold approach if you've never done it before. Each day that you fail to take action is one less stone in your empire my brother.

Don't take this the wrong way bro I love you and want you to become your most powerful best self. The whole problem with inceldom is self induced powerlessness IMO as someone who was one in my teens. You cannot equate women writing mean things on the internet about men to getting hit in the face with a lead pipe. That's insanity. Especially because a lot of times the women aren't writing it at men they're just emoting and sharing their feelings with what they hope is other women. Sticks and stones may break my bones But words will never hurt me. Another way to look at it is one of the core pickup principles is get better not bitter. Learn some game and go date 1-3 hot women, any other solution is coping fundamentally tbh. I made a whole thread on social circle game, I spend years learning that shit and spend thousands on some of the worlds best coaches on it. Trust me that will help more than any sort of complaining about women. If you just came in your perfect 10 this week I don't think you would've made this post.

Isn't that specifically a perfect textbook example of ego backlash? If you're a jew serious about deconstructing anti-Semitism and understanding the story of your people and those who opposed them, wouldn't Mein Kampf be at the top of your list? I think if you're a man that loves women you should specifically familiarize yourself with feminist literature. It's basically the story of your favorite group of people on earth no? If you're afraid of it it and attacking it out of hand it doesn't say much about women more that you feel powerless and attacked and don't understand why. I personally found it just as interesting as reading pickup advice or red pill philosophy. Lets you understand the sphere of gender interactions much better and ultimately bond with women more effectively.

The chemistry is usually done when you meet the girl in person. Sure do a few texts but for example if you literally don't know the girl as she's from online dating the sequence should be opener -> she responds -> banter for 1-2 lines -> ask her out. You basically never build chemistry over text in 80% of texts IMO from my own life experience and all the men I've known from many game communities it'll most likely bore her if she's a girl with a regular social life. If you're like on eharmony or meeting women through Reddit or something out of the norm then disregard this advice I have no idea how that works.