LordFall

Don't take this the wrong way bro I love you and want you to become your most powerful best self. The whole problem with inceldom is self induced powerlessness IMO as someone who was one in my teens. You cannot equate women writing mean things on the internet about men to getting hit in the face with a lead pipe. That's insanity. Especially because a lot of times the women aren't writing it at men they're just emoting and sharing their feelings with what they hope is other women. Sticks and stones may break my bones But words will never hurt me. Another way to look at it is one of the core pickup principles is get better not bitter. Learn some game and go date 1-3 hot women, any other solution is coping fundamentally tbh. I made a whole thread on social circle game, I spend years learning that shit and spend thousands on some of the worlds best coaches on it. Trust me that will help more than any sort of complaining about women. If you just came in your perfect 10 this week I don't think you would've made this post.

Isn't that specifically a perfect textbook example of ego backlash? If you're a jew serious about deconstructing anti-Semitism and understanding the story of your people and those who opposed them, wouldn't Mein Kampf be at the top of your list? I think if you're a man that loves women you should specifically familiarize yourself with feminist literature. It's basically the story of your favorite group of people on earth no? If you're afraid of it it and attacking it out of hand it doesn't say much about women more that you feel powerless and attacked and don't understand why. I personally found it just as interesting as reading pickup advice or red pill philosophy. Lets you understand the sphere of gender interactions much better and ultimately bond with women more effectively.

The chemistry is usually done when you meet the girl in person. Sure do a few texts but for example if you literally don't know the girl as she's from online dating the sequence should be opener -> she responds -> banter for 1-2 lines -> ask her out. You basically never build chemistry over text in 80% of texts IMO from my own life experience and all the men I've known from many game communities it'll most likely bore her if she's a girl with a regular social life. If you're like on eharmony or meeting women through Reddit or something out of the norm then disregard this advice I have no idea how that works.

Just edited and released the vlog of the photshoot! Let me know if you guys have any questions on how to throw these types of events yourselves or other types of events and what the strategy behind it is.

I would try remote income, there's a few types of gigs like customer support, data triage/labelling, virtual assistance, or content moderation that are fully remote. You could also try carpooling networks. If there's facebook groups near you try that or marketplace. If you enter a relationship in a financially vulnerable position looking to manipulate someone usually that ends up in a toxic relationship with perhaps abuse against you as people can feel themselves being gaslit. There are also jobs where coworkers can pick you up type of thing and you give them gas money. If you're asking this I assume you don't have family that can assist you but if so that would then obviously be the first thing to try.

Love yourself and then find a great woman/man. It's a skill issue nothing to do with Hollywood. What part of it was so hard for yo?

Just visualize yourself as a caveman when you fuck. Our ancestroys have been fucking women since the dawn of time. It's what we're here for. Man fuck

I dated a BPD girl for about a year and she cheated me a couple of times throughout. I did cocaine and even meth with her. If I didn't move cities across the country I probably would be dead by now. I think a lot of it comes from self-esteem and abundance mindset. I was lonely and lived a boring life without her. First woman I loved and hopefully not the last. Boundaries are very important, now I have a very short patience for people that don't add value to my life. I'm both more confident in my own value and skillset now and not willing to be miserable for the sake of someone that's not gonna help themselves anymore.

@Lila9 Yeah that's fair. My only caveat would be to say that the patriarchy is not an unnatural system. It's just the extension of the dominance hierarchy of the animal kingdom. Kill or be killed or be enslaved basically. I do think it's time that we rise above it and finally bring our species globally towards stage green values. It's funny because I'm quite sure AI will have a lot to do with it. Women's rights increase dramatically the more stability the state has and the more effective law enforcement is. I think perhaps now we have gone full circle to @mr_engineer's point not in terms of both being hateful ideology but fundamentally both being about being able to thrive and be fulfilled and how hard that is in our current society no matter your gender. Interestingly Stage Yellow is the first stage that really combines both feminine and masculine polarity. Also I think a lot of inceldom has to do with fundamental immaturity and a lack of integration of stage blue and stage orange. A well integrated stage orange individual should have no issue dating as they have figured out how to be interact effectively with the markets that they are in.

What is the patriarchy to you? It sounds to me like you're lumping all of feminism together when it's separated by waves. 1st-3rd wave feminism seems way more legitimate to me than 4th wave feminism that we have today which is mostly femcels/anti-establishment socialists.

Sure you don't have to try it if you don't want to. Just realize that a lot of the shame comes from conformity and group think and if you accept the world that we do here and that fundamentally the whole universe is the same as you then no shame should come from sexuality or much of anything else apart from the wounding of others. The fact that sexuality is probably the most shamed concept on the planet but the most intimate is a deep insight as to the nature of what low consciousness entails. Not just in the way of you being ashamed if you wanna try some dick but also there's plenty of women afraid and uncomfortable with their own vagina let alone sexuality as a whole.

Posture is very powerful, it does literally change your state of mind. Kind of like when you're sad or depressed if you force yourself to smile your brain will release endorphins and it'll help you feel better. It's not the only thing but it definitely lowers your self-esteem to have bad posture. Dominant posture if you're a single straight male is especially powerful. There are often times I've noticed recently when I have quite good posture girls with boyfriends on the metro will eye me up and often times I see their boyfriends with a slouched back, they literally look defeated I almost want to tell them Bro straighten that back imma take your girl if you keep standing like this!

Trans women can be really attractive, here's Hunter Schafer from Euphoria. Also most of them won't have bottom surgery but even so penises are not that scary, society has a huge phobia on that but it doesn't really make sense. I had my first bi experience recently was pretty cool, I'd recommend testing it if you're inspired to try new things in your dating/sex life.

100%. A lot of guys try to seduce a woman through text. It's basically chit chat nonsense that almost fundamentally can't do anything but lower her attraction towards you. Unless you're extremely suave at it then some guys are able to get some sexting going on and get the girl pent up to see them but that's clearly not what you're doing here. I would mostly let her be the one to message you if she's in the mood to chit chat and leave it at teasing and don't ask questions because you want her to open herself up to you in person. If she does it over text it's gonna be boring for her. "Whats been making you happy recently?" "Where do you wanna travel next?" "What are you looking forward to when visiting those countries?" "Are you always spontaneous or just with travel?" That's what I would aim to cut out. I would just ask her when she's free and do all that in person. Sometimes voice memos can work a bit better than just text but also not great. This of course changes if you're actually dating and she's your girlfriend but that doesn't seem to be the case. My feedback was for the courting stage. Also it sounds dumb but get AI to analyze your text. It's emotional intelligence is actually surprisingly high and it'll tell you stuff you hadn't considered. Here's what Gemini had to say about it.

You have to differentiate people venting online vs complex critique of the systems in our society. There are many in which women didn't really have rights until the last century and for example until 1965 couldn't open a bank account and manage property without their husband's consent. Marital rape not being recognized as a thing also being one. Also to this day in other countries women's rights are not great. You can also say that in general civil rights were not defended for men as well up until the 60s as well in the states which is a fair point. Now we go back to people venting on the internet and this is where I agree with you that it's basically a loser mindset from both men and women that are failing to get the life they want and instead of having the humility to get into self-development they will trash whatever is the source of their pain. Incels blame women, "feminists" blame men(considering incel means involuntarily celibate I would argue those feminists you talk about land right in the incel category too as femcels though) and you also have reddit left wingers/socialists/anti work people that blame rich people and the government for their lack of personal finance. Fundamentally it stems from a victim complex and learned helplessness.