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@zazen I think you're being a bit biased and using the good sides to takeaway from the damage and harm it's caused.

You gotta reverse engineer your goals but the simplest way to get started is by hosting your first container event. There are different types but a group dinner is the easiest format. Do it 2-3 weeks from now and invite all your friends and all the girls that you know or cold approach until then. Goal is to have ideally 8-12 people and for it to feel like an event not 4 people having dinner. The real idea is to play 10-20 events down the line what you want to accomplish. A monthly group dinner cool if you can get that going you'll have perhaps turned acquaintances into more of a friend circle type of dynamic. I do creative events so part of my container events is photoshoots, podcasts and open mics so that after 10-20 events I've built up a library of content and a full on branded community. That's how I created the creatives pages and group chats(each have 250 people) in Calgary and Toronto. https://www.instagram.com/calgary_creatives/ https://www.instagram.com/creatives_toronto/ You can do it in other niches like do a run club or a volleyball team for sports or more of a corporate type if that's more your interest. The idea is that you are creating an entity outside of you(the social circle) that also acts as a net for people in your life so you're not just a cold approach and dates kind of guy but you have a community and group that's part of your life. Depending on your life purpose and current resources you can take it different ways. Like you see I like to brand mine and scale it as I feel like it has infinite potential this way and I can create a global community out of it when I expand to the US and Europe soon. I hosted my first fashion show last year based on this idea, it was one of the most fun projects I've tried in my life so far. You can also make it more of a local hangout type of thing where you just have men and women that fit your personality and that you hangout with as a new friend circle that you created from thin air. A lot of things that we enjoy this life fit this model. Actualized.org is an online community that was distributed through a Youtube Channel. RSD was a business ecosystem that was marketed originally through local inner city group chats and free events. Dan Bilzerian hired a videographer to film his events and turn him from a dude wasting money spending cash throwing events to a global celebrity. The idea is to use leverage in your dating and social life and combine it with your business and career goals. Notice most dating coaches don't have a day job they film themselves talking to girls or talking to a camera teaching guys how to do it then they travel the world and date girls full time. Some of them do it through a social circle format but the core thing to remember and flesh out for your own personal life is leveraging your time. Getting more than 1 unit of value for 1 unit of time that you invest in your dating/social life. If you cold approach for 10 hours idk maybe you get a laid a few times if you're good but probably you just walk around the street and get a few instagrams. If you host events and shoot content then you meet the same if not more girls and build your social circle and build your media at the same time. This is how I created the The Dining Club page, I was hired to build this guy's personal brand while he was gonna renovate a marina in a small town and it turns out his main interest was really meeting hot girls so we started throwing group dinners and I filmed them and built a page around it to get social proof to get more and more girls and I ended up selling him the page and I pivoted to the creative events because they're free to host instead of spending money on the dinners. https://www.instagram.com/thedining.club This model will let you hangout with girls in a way that is win-win for the both of you without having to make it all about dating and sex. I like it because I tried making female friends the "normal way" and just inviting co-workers to lunch and I felt like I was stuck talking to them about random gossip in both our lives and wasting money on eating out all the time but since I've started doing it this way I feel like I'm making way deeper bonds that actually relate to the goals that me and these women have instead of just randomly having worked at a store together one time and now trying to keep a friendship going based off of that.

No worries. It's not my answer to everything but it's a common pitfall that people that have learned game run into. Since you learn to meet people on your own terms you're able to date outside of the organic social circles that people usually find partners in like school, work or family relations when it comes to arranged marriages. That's a phenomenal skill but the skillset that sits on top of that is creating your own social circles that you use either for dating or for business or community building purposes. A problem is usually solved in a paradigm above the one the one it was created in so it's a common solutions to a lot of game issues.

Just had a massive creative insight for the game and overall theme of the story. I'm actually gonna move it from the 15th to the 17th century and focus on a triangle between the industrialization of warfare away from medieval type weapons to gunpowder technology and also add magic into it for a high/dark fantasy feel. Then I'll be able to create all types of unique matchups both in the anime plot and for game combat mechanics that haven't really been explored before like what happens when a fire mage encounters a medieval knight? Or what happens when a samurai with wind magic faces on a garrison of Shogun troops with muskets?

Do you find this issue happening only with women or with your platonic friends as well? Sometimes introverts can have trouble consistently bonding with people because their interest lies more with intangible ideas over real life, is that your case or does that not sound like you? There are a few ways that we can flesh this out and get to the root cause, at the end of the day surely it comes down to a simple calibration issue.

@Thought Art @Majed Have you guys watched the video on Islam? I think he's too nice and poetic about it if anything and he doesn't go in depth into the origins of Islam and how it was birthed out of the bloodshed of thousands and immediately lead to many civil wars in the middle east called the Fitnas and the caliphates that grew out of it like the Umayyad Caliphate were not any more peaceful than the ones that came before the time of Muhammad.

You seem to not be comfortable with sexuality as I've already mentioned about you on in a previous post. What process have you gone through in your life to get to the root of your own shame and discomfort around it and do you have litmus tests to know if you're creating a positive experience for the women you're interacting with and or if you're reinforcing their bad behaviours? The way you talk about sexuality like it's a dangerous opioid is not healthy in my eyes but I could be wrong.

Yes it's also more fun! You create a friend group and community around your interest and you become the center of it so you have more socialization but growth in your corner. I think anyone can do decent on dating apps, you just gotta take photography seriously, dress well, know your angles and find the aesthetic locations in your city to portray the image you want. Have you ever worked with a professional photographer before?

I actually couldn't agree more. The men I know that aren't involved in business endeavours are pretty limited in their skillset and don't have a pretty core skills to life I find. I see it especially when I have some clients that come from a smaller city and certain simple things seem to overwhelm them like traffic and getting a dinner reservation at a nice restaurant. Let alone getting into more complicated social circle concepts like booking a venue, planning an event, hosting people and making sure they have a good time, planning other events, etc. A lot of life can be broken down areas of skill and the more high impact skills you have the more valuable you'll become as a man.

I think a lot of times people over-romanticize connection. In my opinion deep connections comes from relatability and understanding how someone sees the world because you see it the same way as them so you feel a deep sense of being understood when being with this person. That can just as easily lead to massive codependency, trauma bonding and karmic attachments as a lot of times people that see the world in the same way as you have the same blindspots and are stuck on the same video game level of life as you are. The more I grow up and self-actualize the more I'm able to connect with a wide variety of people that don't fit my perspective and paradigms and that's lead to a breath of new experiences. Throwing game knowledge and building social capital lets you then be able to attract a wide range of people that want to spend time with you because you've now surpassed the paradigm that they are stuck in but can also relate and bond from it without being judgemental about it.

Have you read the game and the truth by Neil Strauss? I find they are great books to inspire a man on his journey towards learning to become more attractive and mastering seduction. The Truth especially is not as well known as the game but it's much better imo, makes the story come full circle and goes over his sex addiction after meeting his model wife and how she dumps him for a while and they reconnect. It's also very fun to read as Neil is a fantastic author, it reads more like a thrilling action novel than a boring self-help book.

Two main things come to mind after reading your post 1) You seem to shame your own sexuality a lot. I would argue you seducing a woman is a gift to her, as long as you don't lie about your intentions and lead her on. Life is boring and stressful and you don't need to marry a girl for 50 years to offer value to her life. A fun night of kissing and bonding refreshes anyones soul, you don't need to see them for a long period of time afterwards to make that a mutually beneficial exchange. 2) You seem to lack a container in your life for women that you're not massively into but are still friendly with. That's where the power of social circle game and container events shine. You can organize a monthly or bimonthly event that aligns with your interest where you invite all the women you know and your friends and use it as both a testing ground for how these women align with your life but also as a way to keep in touch with women that you wouldn't necessarily ask out on a full date but also aren't already part of your social circle. I'm in the creative industry so I've done this with photoshoots and open mic events. Dinner parties can aslo work well for this.

Right but that's a correlation, not a causation. Meaning if you marry a woman with a 100 body count she's more likely to divorce you than a woman with a 1 body count. There are many reasons for that, the common one touted by the red pill sphere is that her body is now used to men and releases less Oxytocin and thus reduces the strength of her pain bonding ability and makes her more likely to jump ship. I'm a bit doubtful of that explanation, I think it's more that when you reach a high bodycount you're not paralyzed by the societal shame that comes from a divorce and you're more likely to leave a relationship that doesn't work to find another one that suits your wants and needs better.

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There are so many good ones, I printed a crypto one for an investing meetup I held last year and people liked it a lot so it gave me all kinds of ideas. Sleeping with me resets your bodycount Stop grabbing my crotch ladies Rated best kisser 2025, let's make 2026 count Me, you and your bestfriend is a true lovestory Endless possibilities