LordFall

Switching from work more to social mode is a common way for guys to experience approach anxiety since logic and free flowing conversations are pretty drastically different from one another. Having confidence in yourself as a man and what you bring to the table is also crucial. If you know that random women out and about would be lucky to have you in their life then you gain that masculine man to woman frame and it's easier to both not be anxious and also be playfully flirty in conversation because you aren't desperate for pussy.

No worries, thanks for being open. Keep doing your cold approaching. Host events in your city like music events or modelling based events and invite the girls that you meet to those events. Now you can not only get dates but you are building a social circle and status in your city. Post about it on social media and now you have a brand. If you utilize this strategy properly you can get laid and get a girlfriend as well as build a cool social circle and a business that generates income from this. I've slept with dozens of women with this strategy and made thousands of dollars from it. I'mstill low level at it as this framework can scale infinitely. I will keep building it throughout the next 10 years and will host my first US and European events hopefully next year. Here's a Youtube vlog of a photoshoot event with models I threw in Calgary a few months ago. You can look on my Instagram to find more examples. My favorite are dinner events because you can just chill and have great conversation with cool attractive women.

My guy you probably have narcissistic traits yourself that's why you are triggered with harsh criticism. Narcissists have a weak ego and can't handle friction from the outside world. I don't really mind insults or to challenge people, that's why I continuously grow and I push people around me to constantly grow as well. I never said I don't care about you I said I don't care about your trauma based excuses. The women in your life that you are trying to seduce also won't care. That was MY WHOLE POINT ABOUT OFFERING VALUE TO PEOPLE AND NOT EXPECTING YOUR VULNERABILITY to get you results and since you're a virgin it clearly hasn't worked for you. No shame bro I love you and wish for you to live out your wildest dreams; I just have no patience to humor weak men and limiting beliefs. It doesn't help them nor myself. I will only give advice that I honestly and genuinely think will lead to a solid conrete results and thus a great life. If for you that's too brutal then keep doing you bro.

It doesn't matter what you've been through. I'm not your mom I don't honestly give a fuck. I'm sharing what I think will lead to results. If you're not happy with it; keep living the life you've been living and getting the results you've been getting. This is the problem with being a soft man or leading with vulnerability. Nobody gives a fuck. I told you this in the other thread. If life is brutal then you make a castle to protect yourself from it and once you're in your castle you can offer other people shelter. You don't sit in the field and cry that life is hard, you will get nowhere and be attractive to no one.

Thanks guys Yes me and @Inliytened1 had a good call, it's important to realize forums are just an extension of real life and we are basically all an online social circle. The point of a social circle is to benefit each others lives so collaborating with each other and holding each of us accountable is so important, more than being right or wrong in a debate for sure. @Rishabh R My philosophy is that one's training should be brutal to make real life easy. If someone lets their inner beliefs win and takes it easy on their psyche then life will be hard to them. I don't like to let people off easy for the sake of social cohesion because I think it robs everyone of valuein the process. If I'm hard on you and it leads to a cute girl sucking your cock and you appreciating life more then I will take that as a victory any day. My purpose is to help mankind progress and to help love flourish so to me conquering ourselves is very important towards making that happen so we can overcome the challenges of material reality and become superhuman.

Nobody is perfect that's what being a human is. It's very frustrating to put a lot of effort into something and then have people invalidate it with platitude. Especially clueless people lol; what on earth are you talking about you don't know if Muhammad existed? So you have 0 knowledge of Islam's history and just watched a few videos on Youtube and are now writing many posts praising it? That's pretty wild my guy https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muhammad Muhammad was born in a tribe of wealthy merchants called the Quraysh tribe who controlled the area around Mecca even before Muhammad's rise. He was a middle manager type merchant working for a a businesswoman named Khadijah who he later married. He was deeply troubled by the inequality of the world and the chaos of it and would at times isolate in a cave to meditate in a cave and find peace. At about 40 years old he had a vision of apparently the angel Gabriel and he embarked on his religious adventures and conquest that we know him from today. Were you arguing with me over multiple pages over if he's a warlord or not without even having researched the guy? Come on bro

Thank you for your existence and energy! Femininity is always appreciated. I think Socrates also said this one or maybe it was Aristotle, hard to be sure.

Natural doesn't work for non naturals otherwise they'd get laid well naturally. You need a simple system to track your efforts and growth so you can guarantee results over time. Overthinking happens when you think too much before the approach so you never get into the flow of it. A system is made to debrief only after approaches to know what went right or wrong. I talk more about it in this video here

Counting your approach is important so you can know if it works or not and change your style if it's not producing the results you want. Building systems for both your dating life, career and life as a whole is very important so you can scale and get results that the average man can only dream of. Cold approach is a hard skill to learn but it works. I've had sex multiple times with women I knew less than a few hours from it. It's sometimes awkward, sometimes boring and sometimes you hook them into you and start a romance or a sexcape right from the street, the mall or the club that you met them at. One of the wildest cold approach stories I have is during Covid I was living in Harbourfront Toronto and nothing was open so me and my roommates would walk around throughout the summer and well cold approach girls mostly. One day we were bored at this big square called Dundas Square in the city and we were about to walk back home and he had the energy to approach one more girl. It worked and he came back and introduced her to me and we went to the liquor store and got some wine and drank it walking back home with this new friend we got. As we walked back to our place we went back to my room and he started making out with her and I was sitting down and I almost left to give them some privacy but she was grabbing my leg too so I made out with her as well. Lead to both of taking turns fucking her while listening to some good music and drinking some truly foul wine. The one you get for like $15 that comes in a crate not a bottle. All from cold approaching a girl bored in downtown.

Debates about sex remind you of mac and cheese? You're a kinky one that's for sure

@AerisVahnEphelia Between 1978 and 2020 China has lifted 800 million out of poverty which was 75% of the upward mobility from poverty that mankind as a whole has made. I'm extremely impressed with how China run their country especially in the last 5 years when the west has devolved into a clown show. Chine was fear mongered for authoritarianism and centralized power but looks like their system works better than western liberalism and the west has just as much corruption if not more. In an ideal world you could have pure freedom and pure progress but in our world that seems quite difficult to achieve. I don't doubt that will be at the forefront of what humanity will achieve over the next 15 years and throughout the AI revolution as a whole. You're invested? I was a big fan of Crypto but the more I age and the more I talk to Gemini about it the more I realize some enthusiasm is valid but a lot of it is speculation for the sake of avoiding producing actual value through your own commerce or career. I still study macroeconomics and I'm curious how it will move over the next 6 months but I'm much more dialed in to my own business now instead of hoping that by studying 200 hours of crypto theory I can 100x my money.

Why don't you try creating a circle of high quality people where you are? You seem to be good at meeting people, so the organization seems to be the part that you struggle with. What are you into in terms of hobbies? What skills do you have? If you create regular meetups where you are in 6-12 months you'll now know many women that you can choose to date/sleep with if they're down.

Do you control a relationship to get your needs met at the expense of your partner or do you do it to guide both of you towards achieving your needs and wildest desires? I think that's the crucial difference in paradigms. High level of interdependence in a relationship can mostly only be achieved through healing your shadow and achieving great self-awareness. From this vantage point then your leadership becomes a transformative experience for others in your life as opposed to just the blind leading the blind.

Are you into choreography at all? These days you can create an AI avatar that reproduces your moves pretty easily and you could create a virtual dance school with different AI influencers as your content creation funnels. That's where my mind goes

@Natasha Tori Maru You haven't answered the question. If you've never slept with a girl then you can use a man for the example.