LordFall

Not at all. Being alpha is about being competent and having a strong community behind you(so you have high status.) Once you offer value to people people follow you because life is hard and you become an oasis in their life. What are your top skills and interests at the moment @9735557264 ? @Rigel What exactly do you think is a scam about it?

Best place to start is if you have a nice big place. If not then you have to be a bit more creative. You can: - Make friends with a richer dude and you team up and do more the promoting and he does the hosting. That's what I did with Jeff of the Velvet Network. - Partner up with a venue like a small bar/restaurant and bring people for events regularly. It's win-win for them as most small establishments are totally down to host you for free as they'll make money on the food/drinks and sometimes you can negotiate a % of bar tab if you're consistent. - Rent a studio. There are platforms like peerspace that let you rent various types of venues from like $30-200 an hour. That's how I hosted my first few photoshoots. You can fund it yourself or partner up with other people interested in that type of stuff and split the costs. Socialization because fun IMO when you treat it like a video game. You level up the more you do it and you have to figure out how the system works and once you do you basically rank up and you feel the difference when you hangout with people that have no idea what they're doing. It's also very cool when people start thanking you for hosting stuff and when you say "I'm an introvert, I don't socialize that often" and they go "No way I don't believe you, you know so many people and host the coolest events!"

For me MDMA and the loving kindness meditation have helped me a lot. As well as just more consciousness and knowledge in general to understand where other people are coming from and that what they're doing serves the same goal as me fundamentally. Usually every human being revolves around safety, purpose, belonging and contribution. Whether they're Taliban or college blue hair feminists it's a similar goal just in different ways due to the environment and culture they grew up in.

You're welcome. Yeah really hosting events is all about empathy and understanding what other people are looking for. Try it out, it's really fun and fulfilling. The way I see it the more tangible you can make the value you offer others the more predictable the quality of your interactions will be. I'm an INTP so system thinking is beautiful to me so Bitcoin is beautiful to me. You can't call taking charge of your financial situation and thus the level of freedom you will have over the next decades of your life not meaningful. That's just one example but generally I tend to have a lot of success talking to model type women about business and finance because I'm a good mix of right brain and left brain which is usually lacking in the creative space. What industry are you in? I'm a big believer in combining your socialization and your work. Synergy is a phenomenal thing to unlock in life so you don't have to take time away from your socialization to work and vice versa.

Your issue is the method of socializing. Introverts enjoy depth. Extroverts enjoy letting loose after a week of work. Use your brain to put yourself in more intellectual environments and create your own through social circle game. Have you ever hosted your own party before? That's where I'd start. You also change the center of gravity to yourself as opposed to you having to cold approach people to hook them. Meaning that other people will be the ones approaching you to hook you instead! I wrote a post on social circle game here. I filmed a vlog at the photoshoot I hosted last weekend, will be editing it and posting it soon.

This is why social circle game is so important. It allows you to define the rules of the environment. If you try to be a high level player in someone else's game, irregardless you have to adopt their paradigm. And in clubs and nightlife, that paradigm is indeed quite low. Have you ever tried hosting your own event? You I host photoshoots and talk to women about bitcoin or whatever else is on my mind at the time. When the environment you've curated takes care of good vibes and flow then you can talk about whatever you want. The problem with nightlife is people use it as an escape from their regular life where they have to be logical. If your environment becomes part of their life then it serves a different function altogether. Thus why a lot of women sleep with their bosses because their missions are intertwined and the boss's logical thoughts become valuable to her unlike some random dude rambling about something boring to her at the club.

I tend to agree. If you host a lot of events the more women you have the better your event generally is. Having a lot of men usually invites a lot of chaos. Women are more submissive and supportive so tend to add value to the environment by default. I'd say 80% of men are mostly commodity labor and don't add much value to society. Interesting to think about what's gonna happen to them with AI automation. The funniest part is they lack the self-awareness to get into self-development! A lot of men are offended by the very concept. Thanks bro, more wealth and women for me.

You made this thread on Tuesday, it's now Sunday. What action have you taken since then? Sounds like a victim mindset to me. "The enemy of the great is the good." Meaning people that are naturally good at something probably won't have the motivation to ever become great at it. Build up your social capital, a lot of socialization is very powerful. Do you post content on social media? Gemini thinks you're failing your namesake: "It’s ironic that his username is Ramanujan—named after one of the most brilliant, intuitive mathematicians in history who saw patterns no one else could. Right now, this guy is refusing to look at the patterns of human interaction because he’s terrified of the baseline data-gathering phase (rejection)." Socialization is all patterns, it's in a way quite hard but very simple to learn for intellectuals. You rinse and repeat, fix one thing time, get feedback and use scalable tools(social media) to increase your SMV.

Personally I'm very happy that you're trying out the Reels on Instagram. I'm building a podcast, perhaps I can have you on eventually. I consume the reels here and there and they are good thoughts, I wouldn't pay for a vault of them though. At this point in my self-development journey I personally am interested mostly in specific outcomes and I'd save up a higher ticket price for that like 1-5$k.

If you wanna be a femboy don't let your dreams be memes

Seems like bad epistemology. By definition if you can experience things you exist. Whether you exist as a subset of a universal consciousness doesn't invalidate that.

What's the main points you're looking to get across with this project?

Not at all, I think you're carrying anxiety into the statement. Fame means people being aware of you. Meaning you can have an impact. Doesn't have anything to do with narcissism. If you're afraid of having an impact I'd call that low self-esteem. The more people know about your mission and your work the more positive(hopefully) impact you'll have on the human race.

Sure you owe it to your fellow human being to cooperate with them if you can. Most western economies have been stable and growing since WW2, only now experiencing major contractions. Africa and Latin America have less rigid rule of law where a certain percentage of young men go into organized crime instead of legitimate career options. There are plenty of anti competitive practices that once take hold at scale prevent people from making a living even if they can provide enough value. The days before labor laws are a good example where the average worker had to work 12 hour days to survive and children were a part of the economy as well. Doesn't take a communist to be pro people and pro worker.

What is your MBTI personality type? That has a lot to do with which style of game will resonate most with you. I'm an INTP so social circle and social media are really good for me as I like to think and build systems. If you're a hard extrovert that likes to express emotion then cold approach is gonna work particularly well. You must socialize/go out at least 2-3 times a week to see quick results though but if you're consistent you should start to notice drastic improvements within 3-6 months. As in going on dates and sleeping with women regularly. Also depends on your baseline skill level of course.