LordFall

Thanks bro, I appreciate you! What you need to do is shoot some street interviews of your own, approach some women you think I would like. Then we will trade and keep growing our reach. Then when we get our castles we will actually have too many women that want to show up to the house warming party. I want it so that the cops have to travel and shut down the party because there are just too many women in these castles it's just not safe. Angry Cop: "Who's in charge here, this is madness!" Lord Fall & Ulax : "We are sorry sir, next time we will try to not invite too many women, you're completely right this is irresponsible. Have you met Sarah over there? Earlier she said she had a thing for cops, she'll show you some radical open-mindedness and we will make sure the fires are well contained."

Getting some initial traction for it if the app is good is pretty simple. I would just print a t-shirt with the app name and logo and do a bunch of street interviews like this

Most people today are not able to live their lives how they want, they have jobs they dislike and are constantly stressed. Being able to have a hot shower is not being post scarcity. If people get UBI they will have their whole life to self-actualize and pursue what is meaningful to them. It's gonna be a beautiful positive change for our civilization. There are no incentives to harm the population, just because the rich people don't care about the poor doesn't mean they have a vested interest in hurting them. I would say there are many upsides to providing help to them. It's ROI positive to scale UBI worldwide. Rich people will maintain their purchasing power and it will increase if anything and poor people will get their living needs met. This happens when you don't get to the root of your desires and where they stem from and thus the solution you build for it only addresses the surface craving and not the core need. There are plenty of forms of abundance that enrich your life and feel deeply fulfilling. Can you elaborate on what the abundance you built looked like and what was not fulfilling about it?

Honestly yeah, that's the right idea. All you would have to do is make vlogs about your dating life, go outside and do street interviews asking for people to vent about their own dating life and pitch your app to them and people will join. Honestly I thought about doing it and I think I will. I think it's entirely possible to build a massively abundant dating life and make millions in the process. There is great power that comes from aligning the different parts of your life together. That's how dating coaches do it. They tie their income to dating so they can focus their energy on one activity that solves multiple verticals in their life. That's how you go from good/great results to exceptional/world class ones.

There are many ways to look at this but basically this is a function of competition. Making society more and more competitive makes it so only a few % of males succeed and the women are incentivized to pursue them. Great if you're industrious and end up at the top and pretty lame otherwise. AI, biotech, fertility tech and overall post scarcity are gonna throw all of this on its head and I think basically everyone will end up getting what they want or have a clear lane on how to get their desired life. Most men are not ambitious and don't really want to work to level up and become more attractive. If they can have an AI girlfriend/sex robot that fulfills their intimacy needs they will take that over a clear roadmap on how to become a valuable partner to a real woman. I am in the latter camp and am willing to work extra hard to be able to afford 3-4 women. Seems like it works out perfectly for all parties.

(Even the victim mindset bros will eventually get UBI and infinitely hot AI girlfriends. I'm working on some for Legends of the Abyss, they're gonna be dope.)

Gemini said I was not sympathetic enough but that the tough love is more helpful than empty platitudes. I dislike validating pain like this because I don't think it really solves the problem. Would it be great if you went to random events and the most attractive women there were supposed interested in you for no reason and pursued you heavily? Sure. That doesn't seem to be how the world works though. To me Stage Yellow is being able to go beyond our own pain and also understand women's pains and their desires and to be able to fulfill that before we really overemphasize about getting our needs met. I also have felt invisible and unwanted by women. I do recognize the pain that it produces. Some people advocate for just more meditation and trying to get rid of your desires and embrace spirituality and somehow that makes it all better. I found that to be 30% accurate and 70% delusional spiritual bypassing nonsense. What I found works is to level up my social life and place myself at the top of a high value ecosystem and getting hot girls to fuck me. Life is hard but when I cuddle with a girl I like and I cum in her then we both feel better. Then I get motivated to keep working on my life purpose and business and keep that cycle going. Otherwise I get suicidal and think life is too painful and not worth it. The main and only thing that makes it better is getting what I want in life. I would suggest writing down all you want so your psyche is not filled with undefined longings and then you go and do it. It's truly diabolocal that Stage Green demonizes money and sex because they are 2 of the best verticals to do self-development and find massive life satisfaction. If you don't master those 2 areas of life then you are bound to be frustrated and miserable.

Being an value provider which mostly being able to solve your own and other people's problems. Beware of shallow game teaching some basic charisma without working in depth on this process. Men that cannot solve problems effectively will also not do well in the economy and be broke on top of being not attractive to women. A man that can relate with women, banter with them, be a rock that takes care of her problem and has a mischievous who enjoys her sexuality with her is gonna find himself in over abundance of women who want to date him.

This is actually what Stage Green looks like in most of the world currently when it rejects Stage Orange and doesn't integrate Stage Yellow. Complaining while demonizing solutions. This is why I made this thread on problem solving being one of a man's post attractive qualities. Don't you think women have problems too? Who do you think they wanna come to at the end of the day, her man that's already handled his own problems and she can relax and bask in his groundedness or a man who's complaining about how unfair the world is? It's hard to learn new skills and match the evolving problems that humans face. It's much easier to blame the world for how hard it is. Man I gave you the solution to your problems. You didn't ask for clarification or proof that my ideas worked or how do I think that this will change your results in 6 months. Do you see the difference between a victim and an action taker mindset? The reason why I like social media and social circle game is it's measurable. When you're going to random events and wondering why the women there are not particularly interested in you then that just ends in your frustration and then sharing your frustration online and hoping that other men relate so it brings down your burden of performance and you can relax and be comfortable in knowing that Swedish women are entitled and their standards are ridiculous and they will end up bitter and alone and you're doing nothing wrong. Or you could host 1 event per month for the next year. I don't know if you're from Stockholm but there are tens of thousands of women there that are down to go to fun lifestyle events weekly and other big cities will have similar numbers. You can use Instagram to find hot women to invite to your events and once you've done your first one you can use the footage from that first event to run as an ad to target women the age that you like and snowball your reach that way. There are different event types to try depending on your budget and interest but photoshoots are a great one to start with. With this plan you can expect that at least 10 new women will come per event so after 6 months you'll have met at least 60 different women and probably way more. This is not day game because you met these women at your own event they will now be in your network and you can invite them to future photoshoots or any other type of event you throw. Some of them that you bond with will invite you to other events and invite their friends to your events so you'll meet more and more women. Once you get along in person you can also invite them for dates and start to fish from your own social circle. Now you got a flywheel and also social proof for your Instagram so that when you do go to future run club events, women there will be curious about this guy hosting events in the city and you'll start to have mutual followers with basically any hot girl in THE WHOLE COUNTRY. You see how this would be more effective than going to random running events and being butt hurt that women don't pay you any attention? Now explain to me how the fuck I was gaslighting you? I don't care if you take the advice or not, your own dating life is for you to enjoy or to ruin. @something_else also gave you great advice and you also dismissed him. You're insulting yourself by claiming this is some mystical Chad perspective. It's truly mostly about having a student mindset and learning from your mistakes and from others who have the results you want vs complaining ABOUT HOW UNFAIR THE WORLD IS AND WOE IS ME AND WHY DON'T OTHER PEOPLE UNDERSTAND HOW HARD IM TRYING I know bro, life is hard. You know what makes it better? Results. That's what stage green runs away from. What makes the pain of problems better is finding effective and long lasting solutions. They refuse to do that because they invalidate stage orange because it invalidates their pain. If you invalidate the solutions all you are left with are problems and dead ends. Good luck living life that way, the pain will not end and only get worse.

It's not about me and my ego man. We are on a self-development forum. It's the oldest trick in the book to blame the world, culture and in this case, women for our problems. I used to do the same thing. It feels better to externalize blame but only by having a strong inwardly focused locus of control did I start to feel in control of my dating life. If you blame women's attitudes for your lack of success then you can spend the next 5 or 50 years experiencing the same problems. There is no need to do that though, if you re-read this thread with an unbiased eye, I'm sure you'll be able to easily spot your own rationalizations and lack of objective problem-solving. > In fact, if men had the power that women now have on the dating "market". It would be worse. They would just fuck all of them and not commit to one. They would also have a hard time choosing one woman to commit to. This is why successful pick-up artist have a shitty life. They are some immature boys who cracked the code and now they can't stop. They get addicted to sex and pick-up. See you just did it again in another way. If women don't like you, it's because they're ruined by dating apps and social media. If other men are succeeding, it's because they're toxic and addicted. No matter what your ego comes out on top and doesn't learn a thing. I would encourage you to introspect on this way of looking at the world and if it's really serving you.

I think that's an atheistic view of the world and a bit shallow. God could be many other ways if it was a superior mode of living. For example the Gnostics believe in a cruel God that made reality to test humanity. I don't think that's how the universe is fundamentally structured but it could be.

Bro you're a random guy that apparently likes to complain and are refusing advice when given from someone with more experience than you. No wonder women aren't exactly swooning to be with you lol, you don't seem like someone who has embraced a value-adding mindset. Genuinely women enjoy competent men that operate from their masculine core. Entitlement and victim mindset are the polar opposite of that.

Level yourself up and you'll find yourself attracting single women in droves as opposed to the mass of boring and forgettable men out there. Have you built an interesting life and a well-thought-out Instagram to showcase it? If you're not using effective dating tools then you only have yourself to blame for your lack of success in this area. I've also talked about hosting your own events which further elevate your status and gives you even more opportunities to meet new women and content to post for your social media. Have you hosted an event before? Do you post content? If you don't offer value to the world then predictably you'll be left mostly unsatisfied with the value you're getting in return and if you have a victim mindset you'll mostly complain instead of looking at more ways to offer value and thus be valuable to women. Also are you getting continuously rejected by women or have you not even worked up the courage to ask out a lot of them and then came to the conclusion that you're not wanted by the market? If you're an anxious man being frustrated that women are also anxious and not making moves on men then I got news for you: that's role in the dating marketplace.

Peace and love to you as well brother. I think you're limiting the expression of sexuality in many ways. I don't see why healthy sexual relations that feel sacred could only happen in a marriage. A marriage is an effective socioeconomic arrangement for humans to raise children in a lot of societies. To make it the only way intimacy can be shared in a healthy way is a bit silly. This is why it's important to go deeper in our thoughts towards this and unearth what we are pointing to. I can understand that a couple inviting a third partner into their relationship seems a bit extreme for someone that's not used to it, but I would encourage you to sit with that thought and get to the root of where the negative feelings around it are coming from in your psyche and you will likely end up with a more complete understanding of human sexual expression.

You completely dodged the dead bedroom reality because religious dogma can't account for actual human relationship dynamics. When your entire moral framework boils down to "Stage Blue religious conditioning that I can't rationally justify," of course real-world psychology looks like "ego" to you. You sound like someone who has one foot in Islam and one foot in trying to make sense of the world by himself but anything that goes too far outside of your comfort zone you run back to 'straight to eternal damnation for you!' It's cute to have an ego this fragile but it makes you seem like an individual living shackled by fear as opposed to being inspired by freedom and love. Stop shaming others for their sexual desires and you will stop shaming yourself like you've been doing everywhere on the forum for what seem to me like mostly healthy expressions of human drives that religion has deeply shamed you for.