LordFall

How do you know have you been to France? I’ve been and I know multiple French women as well as I’m in Montreal and encounter both French speaking québécois women and also French women from France on a regular basis.

I don’t mean it’s necessary unstable just that it’s not for everyone and I recommend people experiment with alternative relationship types if they feel drawn towards it.

I don't think so I think some women have high standards and don't like the men in their immediate circle. I would almost consider it a green flag. Vetting and screening are very important though but that's with any relationship. Well divorce only started being legal recently. They have to strictly enforce monogamy or it falls apart.

That's fair. I don't really have the time to watch it. What are some of your favourite points from it?

Money is vital for lifestyle quality. I don't want my women to need to work for example. I agree fame is great for attracting many attractive women overall. If you're famous and have location independent cashflow that's playing the dating game on easy mode.

Are you talking about your own personal feelings or the basis of it being a valid critique? That's more so the latter I was talking about. Your feelings are your own.

Sure I think it's a totally valid dating strategy. Treat people well wherever you date them but foreign women are beautiful and fun as well. Especially when things get long term I don't think there's any ground to judge people based solely on having a global dating strategy. Colombia is a common country for this as well as Argentina. Going to a place with weaker currency is one strategy but making a lot of money and doing the reverse strategy is equally valid. I feel like Dubai would have very cool women for example. I'm a bit unique in that I don't mind transactional women, I had a multimillionaire sugar daddy as a business partner for a bit and he was telling me that the women you meet through sugar dating are much higher quality than what people stereotype them for. Getting rich and dating the best women across the world is for sure the best dating strategy there is. Anything else is a stranger idea. You can do it in your own country but the world is so big might as well explore what it has to offer.

I think it's totally fine to have your own boundaries wherever you want but linking the concept to red pill negativity is just not true. Academics use it all the time. There's a few good books on it that help deconstruct the concept. The Red Queen by Matt Ridley on Leo's book list talks about hypergamy extensively for example. There's assortative mating that's basically looksmatching and dual-mating strategy as well. A lot of these terms are used in the red pill but they are just observed phenomenons by researchers over time.

Easier to support multiple women over there. I think it'll work for your brain that the women in your harem are new when you fuck them on a rotation especially because you wouldn't be seeing most of them daily. Let alone if you travel with women and fuck new women together. I think if you make decent money it'd be pretty easy to pull this off. My game is pretty good now so I think it'd be pretty easy for me to make this happen. The financial component is most of what I'm working on at the moment. My business is just starting to look like it's gonna start to pump out online cashflow consistently. Having sex 2-3 times a day for multiple decades seems feasible to me. I have a way higher sex drive than most men though. Usually when I sleep with a girl and I'm really attracted to her I can go 3-4 times each time we see each other easily.

They appreciate the effort though and then you can switch to english. They also are more tight night in terms of friend groups. Clavicular is used to Miami where offering women to the club works really well, I think that's more common in North America. It's common in Toronto as well. He should've hosted his own events and invited women and their friends and he would've gotten laid easily especially if he did multiple across days and reinvited women since hookup culture is less extreme in Paris than in Miami.

Yeah you can, it's documented extensively across both humans and different species https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect

I will actually make a video critiquing Clav's game I think there's a lot for people to learn. An easy one is when dating abroad at least learn a few lines from the other countries language. He tries to speak to french women only in english that's kinda rude.

Hypergamy is often used derisively to shame women but I think it's a healthy drive. Like I said without women with high standards we'd still be living in caves or in a big field. It's not a red pill concept originally it's documented science in terms of evolutionary psychology. Women tend to like men that earn more than them or at the same point at them. Men tend to mate across and down. These are statistical trends not true for everyone. @Valach I agree I think frame control is a useful concept to understand so people don't use it on you in unhelpful ways. In general having collaborative frame is the way to go or I like to think the win-win mindset.

I mean the Coolidge effect is a documented thing. If you have access to many women sexually then your libido will be much higher than a man with only access to one mate. Women love sex too especially if they're not stressed all the time. 7 is a lot though that guy is a legend. I think they all live in his house too. I like the having hierarchical polyamory where you only liv with 2-3 primary partners and then have other ones that either have their own partner or are single. I read this harem game blog series a few years ago it was interesting to read a breakdown of a guy that had something like that. His was compartmentalized though the women didn't meet each other. His biggest conclusion is that societal shame will be your biggest problem to making work. https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-build-harem-pt-1-queen-theory

I would say more it's a cultural narrative and partly brainwashing but mostly it's an efficient system for humans to mate as a whole. When you don't enforce it by social shame though it people tend to be more serially monogamous as in date multiple over years but one at a time or have more various arrangements depending on their lifestyle preference. Some polyamorous people live as like multiple men and women in a polycule in one household. I'm not saying that's polyamory is for everyone just that monogamy is not perfect either. Standard monogamy assumes one single human being can and should fulfill 100% of your emotional, intellectual, romantic, and operational needs for a lifetime, while rigidly suppressing natural biological variance. I think it shows that you're projecting a lot of your beliefs into the situation and judging people without knowing much about them without knowing about the actual reality. Tony has children with multiple of the women in his harem. They are not prostitutes they are women he's met over there organically or on dating apps.He's intertwined his full life with these women and to my knowledge most of them are happy and having a good time. I'm sure there are problems in their relationships and it does come up but he has the bravery to put himself out to the world and show the good and bad sides of his relationships. If a lot of perfectly ordinary monogamous people put their whole lives on the internet some problems would appear as well I'm sure. Tony is a particularly out there case he's like a full scientist and love to push his life to the limit he's really into body building and biohacking. I don't envision myself building exactly a life like him but it is cool to see someone work on his life enough to become financially independent and travel the world and be able to live his hobbies and passions and invite other people into it. Andrew Tate is a whole other case entirely. He has multiple women accusing him of rape and coercion and he documents himself online admitting to scamming his own women on taxes and working hard to to rinse men of tens of thousands of dollars by lying to them through his webcam girls.