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@Zenterus I appreciate you sharing my man. It is a sincere inquiry, plenty of people give advice and most of it is untested opinions and coping. Sharing our authentic journeys, struggles and victories is how we can have serious discussions and growth together in my opinion. Your journey makes sense. I would say I'm at the middle of the journey. I'm an INTP and I've attracted women through just being myself a normal guy but that didn't really get me the quality of women I wanted nor the lifestyle. I fundamentally identify with my ideas and thinking processes and as I've tried and refined many ideas in my 20s I realized that I'm on the right track but lack the expertise and experience to create the vision I really want. I can't fully feel good about myself until I actualize that potential. At 31 I'm just getting to the point where the ideas are working, my status is growing and the hottest women in my life are attracted to me so I don't see myself stopping this quest anytime soon thus why I'm not considering polyamory and multiple wives. It seems like a logical conclusion to my path. I see it as a stage yellow pursuit because the further I go the more dots connect. The models I invite to my events are struggling with their careers so I can start an influencer agency to help them. The venue owners I connect with are struggling with hosting and marketing their own events so me figuring out content automation and eventually AI workflows to help them. I'm not meeting musicians and producers that wanna meet with me. The possibilities seem to be endless and especially with my levelling up framework it's definitely intoxicating. Thus my comment on your post on not seeing your love for social pursuits to necessarily be an impediment to your overall growth. When I see diminishing returns I'll revaluate but I seem to just be hitting the exponential.

God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good.

I agree I think everyone should create their own business and brand. Even in a world with AI ubi that gives everyone on earth $3000/month to live I think it'll just lead to people that understand economies of scale being billionaires and trillionaires and enjoying all the luxury and scarce goods and experiences.

Shame infinite passion to be had in life I think in the next 10-20 years all the damaging products we consume will be re-released as healthy alternatives. There are already healthy alcohol products on the market, it's just not quite there yet. Seems silly that you have to either kill yourself to have a good time or cut out all the easy fun mechanisms. There is value in dopamine fasting and not indulging in much but come on let's live a little here.

Yes bro I'm not a psychiatrist but I think you're inventing your mental illness as a protective mechanism against reality. Whenever you're ready let me know and I'll help you fuck hot women and launch your music career if that's what you wanna do. Living your dreams is much more fun than imagining them.

I heard some guys turn trans to get that validation that they crave from the dating market. That's fucking boys. Just learn to attract hot women it's not that complicated. Fuck some men if you want to but at least fuck some hot women too. Can you imagine following the content on this forum, realizing you're literally God and infinite and still somehow you manage to not fuck hot women lol. It would take a divine level of coping to achieve that. Bro you stop idealizing hot women by fucking lot of them and making friends with a lot of them and then living happily ever after with your infinite selves. Any other way will not work scientifically we can break it down any way you guys want to.

100% that's how I see it. There is so much mental block and societal gaslighting around dating and sexuality that it's hard to make sense of it. To me it's simple, find the women you want to fuck/date and learn what behaviours and strategies allow you to make that happen. Most guys that tend to be about the process turnout MGTOW or dating women they settled for without even having fucked even one what they would consider their 10 let alone many of them let alone build a life with them. Part of working on your consciousness is untangling the mental blocks, copes and self delusions that are stopping you from reaching your dream women. People give up at different points in the journey and its funny to see the spiritual flavoured MGTOW that's posted on this forum lol. Spiritual bypassing is a real concept.

Do you have concrete results you can share with us to prove your point? To use your analogy to me it sounds like we're a bunch of fishes discussing theories and some fishes claim they can breathe out of the water and the rules don't apply to them. When I go to check up on them I pop my head out of the water I smell a lot of rotting fish and not many have been able to bring back any leafs from the ground they claim to be able to reach. I'll keep building my Atlantis until I see concrete results that invalidate my strategies that have been proved many times to work. Bro trying to convince gullible fish he's a bird lol @bazera Good to know. There's new options now you can get your genome and use it to see how you specifically react to certain medications and protocols. I'll do that. I see some influencers like Liam Ottley starting to get into AI/genome based biohacking, pretty cool stuff. I need my erections to be powerful no way I'm becoming captain half chub.

Let's go, I agree. A woman is always on the market really, we need to continuously think about how to invest out time. Marriage is a commitment that was supposed to hold forever but that's not even that solid these days. Kids is serious as well but I don't really mind helping raise another man's child if I have the space resources. So if she's just got a boyfriend that's basically 60% single in my books. The whole forum is invited to our wedding, it'll be a great one. I need to many a lot of money to afford all these weddings to multiple wives I should stop replying to the forum as much or at least setup AI agents to work 24/7 for me. I'll start an AI agents thread in the entrepreneur section soon I think that's a game changer unlock, I've been procrastinating for months on getting them setup I have a mental block around it idk why.

@Zenterus Yeah I know I'm huge on social circle game and social media to scale your impact. I host events in different cities across Canada and soon to scale to the US later in the year. Power, money and status are much more important to dating than looks. Looks matter as well though and make it way easier to get an in with especially particularly hot women. I know I've tried the difference. When I looksmaxxed I've had girls come to me in the club saying wow you're like really hot and when I don't it doesn't happen. All this stuff about not worrying about being attractive and focusing on yourself has a solid foundation of reality on it and layers of cope on top of it in my experience. Most guys I see saying they've evolved past game have mostly given up with no results to show for it or settled in a mediocre relationship. If you're different feel free to share. I don't really value opinions or philosophies these days, even my own, only results.

Can you elaborate on your pickup and relationship experience?

I don't really see people's levels of developments as too much of an obstacle to relationships as long as goals are aligned and they are open to new perspectives. I'm very good at intellectual empathy and understanding where someone is coming from and challenging their viewpoint constructively so I legit think if I dated a conservative woman her level of consciousness would raise dramatically in little time. I don't think chess girls like chess players, it's too similar to how they think I think it would bore them. Andrea has a boyfriend right now they met on a social media dating show literally on film. He seems to be both confident but also playful and idk how he ended up on that show with her seems like luck. I wish them the best but if they break up she has an invite to the next LA event I'm throwing haha I didn't know she was an ESFP I'll look more into the pairing. I find her energy very intoxicating she's like super feminine while also being a logical chess player. I really like logical women but usually they are a bit more robotic like her sister Alex but Andrea has both it's quite unique and charming. @Jirh Bro you're tapping out because your worldview and paradigm are being expanded and you're getting cognitive dissonance lol. Your points make no sense. Elon Musk is optimizing for his family not to have the biggest laycount as possible. Some celebrities have lay counts in the thousands and more. Wilt Chamberlain said he had 20 000, Gene Simmons(lead singer of KISS) said 5000 and RayJ says 12k. Could be a bit inflated on each I'm sure but RayJ is Kim Kardashian's ex he literally made her career with her sex tape I'm sure he had girls dming him for years. I know club promoters with 300-600 body counts that would sleep with 3-5 new girls a week and they weren't even really famous. Not saying that you should get to that level but levelling up your brand so that you can sleep with 20-40 women that are the hottest women in the world for you makes a lot of sense to me. They have to in this day and age and a lot of women outearn men but a lot of them would like to be stay at home wives for a man they trust and love if they could. In Toronto according to Gemini you need a $120K salary to JUST GET BY as a single earner with a stay at home wife and $250k+ to be comfortable. My mom wanted to be a stay at home mom and my dad was like hell nah I'm staying at home too then lol. I would love to be able to provide that for many women. I like solving problems so I'm gonna be working on business for the next 30 years anyway might as well chill in a big property with many women while I'm doing it.

Appreciate you, I quit it about two years ago. I don't remember last time I bought a vape. I would vape with friends occasionally socially but man on March 7th this year I did Shisha at a harry potter themed bar and that was the one I've never been this sick from one beer and some shisha in my life so vowed to never do Nicotine again. We'll see if I hold up to it but so far so good. On the uber ride back home I saw a bar sign with that said if you're looking to quit this is it so I took it haha. Both are good appreciate the copassion Valach! I'm only human but I'm trying to become super human I appreciate it bro. I think for me it was the pain of the gap between the life I had and the life I wanted that made the easy dopamine of vaping so appealing. Also I was big into nightlife culture so it's so available there. I'm looking to kick all my avoidance mechanisms so I don't mind you calling out discrepancies between the vision I say I have and the flaws I reveal. Also I would think myself a bit immortal when I was younger but the older I get the more my body catches up to me so I think I'm about to go full Bryan Johnson and log every single habit I have and all the effects I notice to maximize it and become actually biologically immortal eventually.

Very cool, may you be safe and learn a lot my man. You remind me of this guy here Caolan Robertson who moved to Ukraine to be a war journalist. I'm curious if when you are there and see the war up close if it gives you more faith in humanity or less. I'm hopeful that we will soon solve all wars but I mean I've never been there just optimistic about AI.

No that was the casual way of explaining my beliefs. I have a put of a lot of time and effort in this field and learned from the people that seemed to have the best results. You seem to value your own opinions really highly for some reason. I don't really I make hypothesis and see what happens when I try it and if someone more competent than me and with more resources than me has tried it and make a judgement based on that. Most people's opinions by default is gonna be wrong because they value the road to least effort which is rarely the most optimal. So is mine so I research a lot and take a lot of notes and see how things evolve overtime and see if I was correct or not in especially areas of life that matter to me like dating. I like how @Osaid phrased it because it doesn't matter what works if your values goes against it but if you don't really care one way or another might as well do what works.