LordFall

Yes because they are in abundance and therefore have high standards for their man. If you don't have systems of leverage and value built into your life you will experience it as a high maintenance and demanding woman that drains you. It comes down to what you value in life but I have to stand up for them and say it's not their fault its a function of having a lot of options so not being satisfied with the bare minimum in a relationship where as most guys stereotype it as just being shallow. Especially since we study systems thinking here I think defaulting to dating less attractive people strategy is a bit silly, just gotta build more efficient systems! That's why I preach social circle game so much. For example I hosted open mics last year, it cost me $0 and as a matter of fact could've made me money, let me cool musicians, I would invite the hot girls I knew to watch the performances, it increased my business leverage with the local venues around town and built my brand, etc. You can't do this with a cold approach or just a regular guy mindset so of course their ask for a fun lifestyle is gonna be experienced as too much. Even introverts can build a fun diverse lifestyle if you base it on systems of leverage and not just randomly going out to drink a beer or idk playing board games.

No you clearly are confident but you seem to have a chip on your shoulder and are defensive. The ironic thing is this thread is titled "Relationship Based on Truth, Honesty & Vulnerability," yet every time someone asks you to be vulnerable or share the specifics of your own dating history, you retreat into vague generalizations about toxic people or question people's motives. I myself exposed my past relationship shortcomings and lessons and invited you to do the same but you seem to have trouble doing so and get defensive. I'm much more aggressive than Natasha so I will not let you get away with this avoidance mechanism. You're a cool guy bro there is no need to hide in platitudes and spiritual superiority.

100 is a lot goddamn. I should get there in 5 years we'll see how it goes. Grocery stores are underrated. I feel like there are so many hot women there idk how that works. I used to live near a big central Walmart and there was always a few attractive women there each time I went. The most I've heard is Ray J, the rapper who made the sex tape with Kim Kardashian. He says 12 000 in this one. I think that's probably over exaggerated but I believe he's got at least 1000.

Inner game is super important even if you're super good looking. I know anxious guys that are good looking but don't get laid cuz they don't have the confidence to flirt and pass women's shit tests. I don't agree on the confidence is all you need. A lot of attractive women stay at home these days so you wouldn't even meet them. Only by hosting events and having social media/dating apps can you meet like 70% of hot women. I guess you can cold approach in a busy street downtown but I rarely see guys get real hottie doing that. Usually they approach a few 8-9s get blown out then start seeing 5-7s as a result. The only guys I've ever met that pulled hotties consistently were club promoters. Cold approach has very bad results for the amount of effort it takes to get good at it. What's your favorite type of game? Where have you met most of your women from

He's talking about inner game though not outer game in this instance. Inner game is just giving you the confidence and lowering your anxiety enough to get you to go up to women and be charismatic and not in your head. There are a lot of outer game techniques that do work consistently but it's not as important as inner game. I'm not a big fan of cold approach but an outer game technique I like is taking dating photography and shooting content to get laid off of dating apps and Instagram. I got all my FWBs from Tinder and Bumble.

100% thats why a lot of relationships end in dead bedrooms. Women can conquer men with their vaginas but if it works it turns off their sex drive.

@Inliytened1 We can continue our conversation on what women like on this one. We'll bring back our man Jordan Peterson with this quote he has which I think is pretty interesting "What do women want in a male hero? Well, he’s got to be a dangerous man... He’s a monster, but he’s a monster who can be tamed by the right woman. That’s the Beauty and the Beast archetype. That’s why women like pirates, vampires, werewolves, surgeons, and billionaires... A doctor or a billionaire is a dominant male in the social hierarchy. A pirate, a vampire, or a werewolf is a dominant male outside the social hierarchy." I think Twilight shows a lot on human psychology. It's an allegory for high status males. Basic girl literally gets two supernatural super men to fight over her. It's the equivalent of harem anime where a dude who's not that special somehow conquers the world and gets all the girls pining for him while the writers make him as bland as possible so as many men as possible relate to him. It's interesting human psychology on many levels. Teaches you what marketers know about all of us that we don't even know about ourselves. My own game Legend of the Abyss is a bit inspired by Twilight in that the main character is uses blood magic but it's more based on the bible and the book of exodus than actual Vampires.

Yeah when you put it like that I agree. You can't really practice sex outside of a relationship outside of doing a bunch of hookups which don't tend to produce great sex anyway from my experience so working on the package is the day to day logical move. When you're with a girl then yeah make sure she cums often and in varied ways and she'll feel like you're irreplaceable. Also being really attracted to the girl you're fucking makes for better sex I find since you become an animal and ravish her and that comes from having a high SMV to be able to pull hotties. I've banged girls I was not really into and like sometimes I can't even stay hard cuz I don't actually wanna be there and start questioning my decisions in the middle of it and it makes the process even softer . Also it makes it so I really want them to leave where as if I'm really into the girl I can fuck 3-4 times and afterwards we just collapse into bliss and pass out together even if I barely know her.

Sure I'm just saying that's a low bar. Go down on her or get a vibrator if the dick doesn't work. Like 70% of women can't cum from solely vaginal sex. I agree that cumming in your girl while she also cums is a deep bonding experience that weighs a lot I'm just saying there is more to it then that to be attractive to a wide range of women especially if you like women who are in demand who have access to all kinds of dudes like promoters, DJs, musicians, etc that fuck a lot but aren't great relationship partners.

No I think it's a pretty wide generalization. Women don't care that much about the destination they want an adventure. "Pack your bags baby, we're leaving for Italy in 3 hours!" An adventure with question marks along the way but she knows its gonna be safe and awesome with you because you're the man.

Plenty of dudes give women multiple orgasms every night and still get left, ghosted, or cheated on. Physical climax isn't a leash. If orgasms were what locked in a woman, no woman would ever leave a high-performing hookup partner. What locks a woman in long-term is high value, safety, and emotional investment. Not just dopamine from a good orgasm and great sex. As a matter of fact there is a lot of women that don't like it when men focus on them orgasming because it makes the process mechanical and too logical as opposed to a true roller coaster of emotions which is felt throughout her life. If you use sex as an analogy for a relationship, then bondage is kind of what they want. They want to feel an adventure that's a bit dangerous but actually safe and pushes their comfort but in way where they're in control. Just focusing on orgasms is like doing the missionary position over and over again and she cums each time but she still dumps you because it's boring.

Yes in one sentence a man that adds value to their lives and helps them solve their problems as opposed to adding new ones.

Reddit is an amazing place but the mod culture is very annoying. It gives power to individuals that seem to be pretty sheltered and not that socially calibrated so they get offended easily and it's not like here where we can talk about it and figure out our viewpoints; they just ban you. So annoying, what fucking losers.

When we look at the definition I think it's pretty easy to see that life has many purposes. Experiences, growth, love, evolution, cooperation, fun yes, etc. Whether or not you feel moved by any of these things is another thing entirely. Do you feel like you have purpose in life?