LordFall

People have been posting some really cool edits and montages recently especially with the Phonk trend. Here are a few of my favorites

I've read that one. Highly recommended. It lead to me starting to work on my dream video game project. He recommends examining your life and finding your flow and doubling down on activities that feel effortless to you. It's helped me so far. I read it when I was really depressed and not sure what to do with my life.

I would recommend hiring a photographer or go out with a buddy if one of you has a good phone and getting great pictures done for dating apps. Dating apps don't work for most men until they get the right pictures. They didn't work for me until I did properly. I remember I used Tinder for like 2 years and had 14 matches and 0 dates. I became a photographer in 2020 and did constant photoshoots for myself and others and got up to 750 matches and slept with like 15 women on it in 2 years. This is a good video on the type of pictures to take The angle you want is especially the badass shots, shots at trendy spots in your city, shots working out/martial arts if you're fit and one that's sleeper OP the having fun wide smile picture. You will find the most DTF women on dating apps and the process to bed them is the most simple. You meet them at a spot near your house, get 1 drink then ask if they want to come over. That worked in about 75% of cases for me. Having a personal brand is the evolution to that. Your dating strategy(life/business as well but that's another topic) should rely on being able to meet people globally and building status. Who gets laid the most in society? Musicians, athletes, celebrities and overall dudes that have a global audience. Why is that? Both because they reach millions of women so even if only a few % want to fuck them that's still thousands. It also elevates them above the masses of random dudes. Most women look for value but also for novelty when picking men. Most dudes are cardboard copies of each other if not in appearance in how they interact with the world and the value they provide. What type of bad boy is popular with women? Club promoters, drug dealers, starving artist archetype, etc in all those cases there is a unique emotional experience linked with the man. Also remember that even if you're in a conservative country, women are horny. If you stand out from the sea of hundreds of timid and stuck up men your dick will literally be the lightning rod they flock to. This strategy would work in India, in Georgia, in Indonesia, in Russia, etc. There are nuances to each place and how to pull it off but the principles are the same and tested across many different men. If you do all this you will not need to lie to women to get laid, you will find plenty of women down to fuck you and date you. It's also quite fun to level up in this manner, I haven't found it to be a chore at all. To me it feels like getting laid with my brain which is more rewarding than just hammering out approaches pretending to be an extrovert.

Not true. You can disagree with women all you want. I do it with Natasha and Emerald all the time. Having an anti-woman sentiment while displaying a complaining and victimizing mindset is what screams low value coping behaviour to me.

See? You just did it again. Are you working on a business or project that you're invested in at the moment? Sometimes I find myself also getting into this butthurt mindset when I subconsciously feel myself stagnating in life. Don't worry about who wants attention lol, be like the sun. Provide so much value that your cup overflows and you're not in scarcity.

@Monster Energy You're very reactive bro. You gotta learn to be more grounded and be more at the cause and not the effect. Getting triggered by women left and right shows you're not in abundance. Feel free to ask more questions instead of stating opinions, and we can work on unlocking it for you.

Brother, where is this coming from? The idea is not to pretend to be an infallible master of reality; it's to seize what agency we have and maximize it to help ourselves and others. Clearly action is possible in this reality, where on earth did you get this learned helplessness from?

Where are you from? Are you on dating apps? Do you practice social circle game? Are you building a personal brand? There are always options to build more leverage and value. Don't resort to lying to get your wants met; that's low value behaviour.

You can get laid plenty telling women you only want casual sex. What are you on about? Have you tried this or are these your insecurities rearing their head? Women also want casual sex, this is some insanity being spread that they're all desperate for a relationship at every point in their lives.

And that brings the whole thing full circle. That fundamental contrast is why I'm such an advocate for social dynamics, game, and proactive network building. It leaves you with the power to deliberately dictate your reality, instead of being stuck in a passive, reactive state hoping the world delivers what you want. Two totally different approaches to life.

I think that philosophy makes sense if you don't run any projects. Try hiring people or running events, and you'll see the average man is a liability to himself and others. The average dude can barely get somewhere on time, let alone provide any sort of utility to the environment once he does. Also mate you can connect to any human being on earth, connection is not exactly scarce. If you want high quality connections in your life, in my experience the best way to achieve that is to find out what you truly value and set firm boundaries that naturally raise your standards for who you spend your time with.

@Joshe To me I find new ways to benefit from social dynamics continuously. It's helped me do business deals as well as throw events and build my communities. I don't share that same jaded view of PUA as the average person. It's helped me get the romantic and social life that I wanted and thus I will keep vouching for it. I also think it helps with building an intentional high quality dating life. To summarize it as being able to sleep with random women left and right is not a true summary of the potential of it. A lot of dating strategy revolves around identifying your insecurities that lead to emotional triggers and point towards deficiencies in your overall esteem as a human. Solving this leads to you engaging with women and others in your full potential and being able to create the relationships that you want. Both with attractive women but also with high value men.

Got it. If dating is not an important part of your life then yeah I think spending time on it is not that useful. For me, it unlocked incredible adventures, great FWBs, and real abundance that I wouldn't trade for anything. A lot of times when I have conversations with other people it seems like their scarcity impacts their judgement in very obvious ways and they come to conclusions that are obviously false from the perspective of someone that's had more sex and dating experience.

The idea is to get guiding principles for it, not to follow it A to Z. There is a right or wrong to it, that's the idea. Every guy thinks he can get women; very few can do it consistently. Some principles work consistently no matter which man uses them. Push-pull for example, being cocky funny, having good logistics, building a cool social circle with attractive women or getting big on social media, etc.

Pickup artists rarely rely on looksmaxxing, they rely on charisma, boldness and understanding social dynamics to a high enough level that you can subvert expectations in a calibrated way to end up charming as a result. Two dating coaches that come to mind are RSD Todd and Michael Sartain that basically boil down all of fashion for men as "wear black jeans and a black t-shirt".