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I've been working on my social skills especially with women. I've been doing cold approach usually on the street or wherever I can. I love it. It makes me feel alive. I also think my life purpose is related to this. However most of the time I start feeling really really anxious since the moment I wake up in the morning just because I know I'm gonna do it in the afternoon. The anxiety usually increases when I'm about to start. It often gets unbearable. I feel like I'm about to die. you might say it's pretty normal because it's something very challenging for almost everyone but I face this problem too often to think that's just normal. If a girl doesn't text me back my day is ruined, maybe even the day after. If she texts me my day is great. I'm tired of living like this. I really don't what to do. When I experience this I'm not able to do anything else in life. I feel so bad that I just wanna leave my body. This type of anxiety can't be normal. I've been told "just have more options, get more girls and the problem will disappear". I don't think the problem is in the external environment, it's more an inner game. I must have some kind of very strong unconscious beliefs that hold me back so bad. I hope I explained myself well. Any suggestions? thank you so much

Hi guys, I realized that what I'm doing for a living is not my life purpose, not even close. I have an idea about my life purpose and I know that I wanna build my brand I have to put something out there. I'm thinking about making videos on youtube but I have a few really strong negative beliefs that are holding me back. I feel like whatever I'm gonna say is already out there. It's been said countless times and I'm just gonna be a drop in the ocean. People are not gonna follow me or buy my coaching because I'm not saying anything new. The second belief says that I'm not good enough to make videos about something I haven't mastered yet. It would be arrogant and disrespectful. I'm also afraid of looking stupid in front of a camera and what my neighbors might think of me(really thin walls and English is not my first language). How can I overcome these difficulties and get myself started(I know rationally I've got value to offer)? thank you so much

The practical step by step process to get rid of limiting beliefs. Also some information on how the brain works when it comes to creating beliefs. Too often I find myself in some situation where rationally I know what to do but my inner voice/beliefs doesn't let me do it. thank you

Yeah good point......I can't say you're wrong. I truly love to give value and make a difference but I'm sure I have other selfish motives like "feeling enough, being successful to feel superior, bragging about it, feeling significant...." Thanks for the feedback, I've got some work to do

Thank you so much for your supports. Your words really empowered me and touched my heart.

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It sucks because you are a woman and you get turned on emotionally and psychologically. If you were a guy you would like porn at least a little bit. Guys get turned on visually. They can decide whether they like a girl or not within two seconds. Personally I quit porn about two weeks ago just because it fucks up my brain but not because I don't like it. There is a book called "Your brain on porn" that explains why it's bad. I used to watch amateur porn because at least it's more real

Great point....I'm realizing the my mind is trying to fuck me over with this way of thinking and I don't know where and when I got it.....I will start to live more actively and take more action.....sometime it's like the more you know and the bigger risk there is to become delusional....I'm probably not really good at interpreting new information. Anyway thank you so much, I'll listen to your advice

Hello everyone, I just read the guidelines and made sure I am not posting something that has been answered already. I apologize in advanced if I broke some rules, I swear I am doing my best. I am kind of stuck in life, not because I don't have any passions but mostly because I don't know if it's natural for me to "look" for my exact life purpose. Would it be long term sustainable if I force myself to find a life purpose just because "I'm supposed to" and everyone else is looking for it? Why am I assuming I have a life purpose? Wouldn't it be going against my current inner state to look for something without having a clear genuine desire? Wouldn't that create inner conflict and demotivation pretty soon? I'm a spiritual person and I feel like in spirituality they don't really recommend to "look" for something. It's more like "accept the present moment and then the universe will give you what you need or maybe not" or something like that. You don't do it to get something from the universe, you do it just because it's the right way of living.' I probably have something else to say but I don't wanna make it even more confusing. I wanna say that I'm here to learn and what I'm saying is just a bunch of thoughts. I'm not assuming that I actually know what I'm talking about. I'm just confused and lost. I'm probably deluded and completely misunderstood spirituality and life in general. I hope I was clear enough. I'm super open to learn from your experience and wisdom. Thank you so much for your help. BTW I wanna thank you Leo for the amazing job you've been doing and the incredible value you've been giving us. I think your channel/ website is the most genuine, authentic and real I've ever seen.

yeah thanks guys....I've always been a very ambitious person but recently I kind of slowed down. If I'm here that probably means I'm consciously or unconsciously looking for more....I'm really passionate about dating/male and female psychology/sex/romantic relationships/masculinity/ cold approaching women/ how to create sexual attraction and basically everything related to these topics. My mind holds me back a lot though, or at least I let it do it. thanks for the support