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Perhaps, I can work on simplifying it further. I'm not sure about that. But, I wouldn't expect open-mindedness and compassion from myself either when I am fooling around aimlessly. I didn't say I figured it all out. If I did, I would have sounded a lot more confident, or I would have just directly manifested my understanding in a physical form.

I agree with it although you can still just do what you want if you are willing to face adverse consequences. I don't harm others because I don't want to harm others. I do what I want as long as it doesn't harm others because I want to do so and because I know it is practically the most amount of freedom I can have and the most amount of freedom that I want others to have. Physical damage Imposing limitations on thoughts and actions without giving people a practical option to opt out and do their own things elsewhere. I don't care about toxic subcultures as long as they stay in their comfort zones although I think they need help with getting out of comfort zones. People should go beyond their own comfort zones as much as possible. Consistent libel toward one specific person?? The punishment for libel should be up to individual venues like conferences.

I was mostly reacting randomly to your points, based on what I know. As you said, I was giving random talking points. I was fooling around without a direction on this forum. Personally, I thought you might be better off without a lot of conceptualization, but that's just my opinion. To me, MGTOW, incel, SJW, etc, ... are just people who keep complaining in their comfort zones(i.e. their echo chambers). And, I don't worry that they will turn into something as threatening as KKK or nazi. I'm done fighting against ideologies. Don't take my criticisms too seriously. In retrospect, I realize that results will speak for themselves. Direct experience speaks truths. If whatever you're doing gets results that you want, keep doing it. Ignore my theories if your direct experience contradicts my theories.

There is a line you want to defend. It's like asking whether a CEO should keep a toxic high performer in one's company. Not in the long term.

Probably because I was not motivated to learn and understand your framework which is quite complex. Understanding your comments requires non-trivial amounts of background knowledge. Yin, yang, feminine, divine feminine, etc, etc, ... That's a lot of pre-conceived notions. As you said, you are talking about esoteric concepts that your youtube channel subscribers might understand. My framework is simple, and I want it to stay simple. Let's say your framework is not particularly suitable for my life and vice versa.

Ego will use any trick to maintain status quo. The bigger the change, the larger the ego backlash. Learn the tipping point of ego backlash through direct experience. Learn not to breach the tipping point. While your ego is going through backlash, suffer through it mindfully. Mindful suffering grows you. While you are going through ego backlash, try to maintain as many positive habits as you can. Try to love yourself instead of judging and criticizing yourself when you are suffering through ego backlash. Judging yourself doubles misery.

Damn, I should have been his wife. Billions of dollars. I think Jeff Bezos is not going to marry again after losing that much money.

You think trees are destroyed because of anti-feminine sentiments? Anyway, your response is too long and densely packed to read thoroughly. The general impression I got from your comment is that you want to convince them of truths. As Leo said, people are not going to differentiate between paradigm and truth. Also, I'm skeptical about convincing. You might be able to pick the low-hanging fruits by convincing people who hold positions similar to yours. I would inspire others with my life or my body and make people come to me for advice instead of going to them. Consider Elon Musk. Lots of young men are eager to follow his life advices because his life is inspiring. Tony Robbins is a good example of inspiration, too.

Do these, and your energy level will spike up to a god level. Energy Output Conserve your energy for important things (This makes a big difference in your daily energy level) Be very choosy about what to do, think, and talk. Don't sweat your energy on meaningless chatter which is going to drain your energy quickly. TV, YouTube, and Netflix can drain your time and energy effectively. Listening to exciting music can also drain your energy. Don't listen to music too long or too often. NoFap // Quit porn entirely, or at least control the interval between which you masturbate. Workout It increases your energy and improves your health. Work out every 2~3 days. Energy Input Eat protein and complex carbohydrates(e.g. grains and starch) to fuel your mind and body for hours. Simple carbohydrates(e.g. sugar) run out pretty quickly. Eat a lot of fruits and vegetables

The general strategy with regard to food is eating healthy food that is going to fuel you for hours. Details can change.

Your compassion is inspiring me.

@Serotoninluv In restrospect, I think Emerald is trying to convince incel and MGTOW out of their comfort zone. By comfort zone, I mean their echo chambers. Convincing people doesn't work because arguments only strengthen one's own position. But, you can inspire them out of their comfort zone. I also think she's not doing a good job of inspiring me into her position by telling me my head is stuck in sand, which doesn't seem to come from a position of compassion. Inspire them with your own life. Incels might be inspired by self-help techniques. Since incels think they are unfuckable and blame their unfuckability on women, they might be inspired by physical training and positive mindset and responsibility. For example, if a muscular man becomes a friend with an incel and inspires him to become muscular too, then that incel might become another alpha male who feels confident. Also, I know I'm not in a good position to inspire others. So, I just work on myself and recommend that people watch self-help videos. I should utilize division of labor and let self-help gurus take care of self-help and raising consciousness. Lastly, I trust Spiral Dynamics to do its work. I just need to focus on myself and give people quick tips here and there.

You don't trust Spiral Dynamics? Humanity raised itself from Red to Orange/Green and toward Yellow without me or you. Trust in the universal process. I work on my shadows. I worked on my spitefulness, and it was good. I try not to fiddle with others because arguing with others only strengthens their ego backlash. Good luck with trying to talk incels and MGTOW out of their comfort zone. But, I can inspire others with my life if I live my life well. Don't convince. Inspire.

Sticking to one's life purpose regardless of what's happening around oneself is what I've been preaching for a while. Don't mind too much if you don't like it. You're free to do whatever you want to do. I'm going to do what I want to do, which is my life purpose. I'm leaning toward becoming agnostic of toxic subcultures that come and go.

This. I wanted to say this. This is why you should ignore toxic subcultures and focus on self-actualization and life purpose unless they directly get in your way. Toxic subcultures come and go. Don't worry about the details too much. Details will have been taken care of through necessary adjustments in the next few decades.

Everything that's happening happens because they are already allowed by nature. Environmental destruction of earth is allowed by nature, too. I don't know what will be clear. Whatever happens, stick to your life purpose.

If that's what you want to do, do it.

Well, you can establish an online business and do your business in foreign cultures and don't expose your real identity. You can buy time to leave or just wait for cultures to change. Drug dealers sell drugs even though drug wars are going on. Right? Life purpose warriors just do it regardless of what's going on around them.

Of course, learning different cultures helps in the long run. However, there are limits in doing so in the short term which is what matters to you. Thus, I came up with a strategy. If KKK members are running around in your neighborhood and beating up people like me, just do it, or leave for a different place. If you found yourself in the midst of world war 2, don't try to understand the value system of nazi germany while you are being shot at. Just leave for a safe place, and do it. Lots of scientists left nazi germany for USA to continue scientific research. If crazy ideologues are trying to censor your work, just do it. Don't let them ruin your garden. Just find a safer place if they get in your way too much. You can try to understand them later. Just do it, or find a better place to do it. Understand later. Do it regardless of what's going on around you. If you are a musician or a painter, understanding other cultures can help improve your work in the long run. But, what grows you as an artist is mostly a lot of practice and a bit of theory rather than understanding other cultures. Understanding of other cultures is secondary.

If they actually get in the way, fend them off. Otherwise, just do what you want to do. If others in your craft are actually hurt by one of these ideologues, learn how to deal with them from your colleagues. Don't spend more time and energy on them. Perhaps, just leave where you are for a better place if they get in your way too much. Even during world war 2, scientists could just leave germany for america so that they could continue scientific research. This is what a life purpose warrior does.

Ignore criticisms from toxic people. Just do what you want to do without excuses. If you live long enough, you notice that all sorts of negativity come and go in society. Your job is to do what you want to do regardless of what's going on around you. They are just contemporary fads.

Let me tell you what you need to know. They are not important in your life. They just want to keep complaining in the known, in their echo chambers. They are not going to help you take responsibility, experience things that grow you, and strive for constant improvements. For your life purpose, you should ignore them as long as they are not getting in your way.

I once interacted with MGTOW subreddit. Minutes after I brought out an unconventional topic about men's issues, I was banned from the subreddit forever. They didn't want to explore the unknown. The same shit happens in other groups, too. All of them complain about the same shit over and over and over ad nauseam. They are echo chambers.

TJ Reeves uploaded a video about this yesterday, but he removed it right after I watched it. American Psychiatric Association defines masculinity as mental disorder. Where masculinity is not valued, men stop valuing fatherhood. MGTOW doesn't value fatherhood. Incels think they are unfuckable. SJW is mostly associated with feminism and tends to blame patriarchy for random stuff. Although there are differences among groups, all of them want to complain while staying in the known(comfort zone). They don't want to explore the unknown.