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  1. @Nahm ok so you're saying life will always feel off while you're doing something 'false'.? Are you saying that by doing the work I'm inspired to do something will somehow change someday? Or can I be a bit more direct in my actions around changing my current source of income? I can of course go down the 'work hard and hustle to make the cash' route, that seems as false as the job, so I haven't tried to 'force it'.

  2. How To Quit Destructive Habits?

    favourthebold replied to Rilles's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    You don't believe it when you say it cos you really love doing coke lol. You're enjoying the hell out of it right now. It still might not lead somewhere good. If you want to change it, write out how you want your life to look, how do you want to live, what kind of person do you want to be. e.g. if I wanted to be an athlete, doing coke probably wouldn't fit into that image. It would create internal pressure against it. If you want to have heaps of friends and be the life of the party, coke actually help you do that (I imagine). There's internal pressure to keep doing it. Think about what you want
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  4. Why do you feel like crap? Is it because you are physically tired/exhausted or because you are annoyed at yourself for drinking too much? Or just in general wish you didn't feel like you do?
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  6. Hey all, I just stumbled across this forum, this is the first place I've found where people discuss the different levels in Spiral Dynamics I suspect that living in the 2nd tier and spiritual awakening are the same thing. I've only known 1 or 2 other people at yellow or above. The one I am thinking of was in turquoise by the time I met him. Although with 1% of the population at yellow it can't be that rare. I'd love to hear some stories from other people at yellow. Particularly around making money. For any that have managed to do your own thing, how did you do it? I seem to have that knack to be able to view the system as a whole and find the weakest link or point of leverage. I'm not sure if you can turn 'I can see things in systems' into a business. I've been sitting in corporate IT, oscillating between having an easy job, hating my job, accepting what is, having an easy job, etc. Thanks