now is forever

he is obviously the guy next to her

it’s your decision anyways, what you want or want not - you said you don’t believe in absolute Love so see it anyway you want, partially or total.

@oisacodalcet

you’ll never know if you don’t at least look out for it. try to find it, maybe one day it will hit you out of nothing out of nowhere. then you’ll laugh about how blind you’ve been.

it’s not about you saying it, it’s about the way it sounded even after reading it several times. believe me ego can be very actively surviving in the now maybe not this now but who constructs past future anyways

and i somehow arrived also on another level of the big cosmic joke. too sad it’s an insider.

started watching understanding duality part 3. i‘m a little confused - as a non christian i start to understand communion differently than i did before - well i didn’t understand the meaning of communion before even though i have this version of it in my understanding. i guess now i do know what the word hides. i like the idea of it, to bad christianity is occupying that word so much.

maybe by finding out what streangths you have? and trying to find a way making peace with her for yourself.

i don’t know why it sounds a little wired how you say that. ego has definitely some more functions than that. as it is for survival reasons it is certainly also there to protect and to deconstruct... especially itself - well sometimes it hides behind itself. i mean the territorry hides itself behind the map.

be aware that if she really liked you and there is still something left between you like basic respect, she will not compare you. you react to that guy with basic rivalry don’t even knowing if it’s those aspects you yourself think make him a better partner or not, why she might have chosen him. maybe for her it’s because his smile is cute... maybe she even preferred your body type, but you both where not compatible, because of toxicity towards each other. the relationship is still toxic even though it’s over because you didn’t severe the connection, because there are still open dreams connected to that girl. maybe she was the first girl you had this deep connection with and now you think you loose that because of the other guy. it seems like it’s not even about her or about what you shared but about yourself using her as a mirror - the other guy stands naked next to you, you only compare physiognomy. if it’s not the love of your life, you need to severe the connection to that person and go on, find someone else, wish them good luck. the reflection about jealousy vs envy makes not much sense in love rivalry like that, it’s mostly jealousy because of envy. maybe there is even nothing much to be envious about.

yes you are right but it must shift intelligently - there are multiple factors of why it would be intelligent to start a vegetarian or vegan diet. my guess is going from meat eater straight to vegan is very difficult, too. if you just cut them from their cheap meat source of course there will be a witch hunt, they’ll ask why meat is only for the rich then, because that’s what will happen - the rich won’t cut down on it. witch hunt also because people don’t know how to eat healthy wholefood, it’s also food for the wealthy and the ones who go the leangth of preparing fresh food. and some will have troubles to afford it. it’s not just their problem then. you need a wholistic approach to change something. it’s difficult to make this change.

@Lister you know the problem is people don’t like healthy stuff, some do, yes, that’s why they eat unhealthy margarine made of refined fossile oils, it’s like eating plastic. in this case butter is much much more healthy. some can’t eat salad without putting sugar or sauce without ketchup and mayonnaise. maybe it’s because they don’t know it better. people smoke and know it’s unhealthy, why can’t they stop? there is a level of proving things unhealthy and a level of ignorance. some people change their food habits but a lot of them will instead start a witch hunt. the non dualist spam is more of a commentary than a spam. i think i don’t like spam. if you would say it’s a carrot i’d prefer that. spam is also only some fast food, some poor pig in a can. carrots are fast, too.

yes i like salad usually the secret is in the dressing.

no it’s not equal - it depends on what you are searching for in a map. and if the map is really the map or if it’s a territory

that’s finding yourself in the map doesn‘t mean though you are not lost in the territory.

well but if you get lost there you would know where you are, so you are not lost in the map, not even lost in the territory.

well if the map is a map and a territory is a territory you still don’t get lost in the map. although your finger might get lost in the map.

you certainly get lost in the territory!

you still only get lost in the territory

the difference is you can’t get lost in a map but you can get lost in a territory.

you explain yourself very well as everything is spirituality you transcend yours perfectly. it’s all your projection all your own karma. only you talking to yourself. did you read it closely? of course are all meat eaters cannibals but lions don’t have the level of awareness that humans have - they don’t realize they have an ego they also are no industrialized mass murderers. i‘m not talking about christianity here, this is about shadows - and shadows are more about psychology not about christianity in fact i don’t know much about christianity.

there is always an excuse, the soul can’t handle being a canibalizing being living off of the lifesource of another. the ego then steps in and starts to fingerpoint towards the ones that remind it of being a canibalizing being, telling them they are selfcanibalizers, because they destroyed their canibalizing ego transcending what the soul could be - the soul remains as a shadow of the canibal.

what do i care about your shape said the light to the lamp. the spotlight and the moodlight laughed.

the longer i look the lesser i see. clear vision is sometimes only a momentary thing. (it’s not the sightless gaze though - it’s the opposite it’s the sightless stare it develops to a stairless case)

get out of it! the book has no memory of you - it came out of itself.