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@Rebec useful. thanks.

@denydritz I thought it was a package. Once youre conscious all aspects of your life will be better.

@Star Net thanks. Can you recommend more books that I can read.

I once had a crazy friend who was dating a guy and she was searching for videos on how to make a guy fall in love with you and she sent me Leo's video. That is when it all started. I am 25

As many as you wish

I want to be spiritual but I dont know how that is why I came

Friendship is a lie, Friends do not exist

I do not agree that we should eat vegetables only. I tried it once and I died. I need bread, Milk and natural sugar.

Yes. Thank you

I dont like psychologists, money making bullshit while you can heal yourself.

No one is "not good enough" for anyone. Its either you get along with people or not. If things dont work out, this does not mean that you are better or he is better. Bullshit!

You do not need to let them go, he says that you need to get detached from them. When you get detached you will enjoy them 10 times more.

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I'll tell something, most girls get nervous also while talking to guys, they try not to show it though. Everyone, even the most pretty girl on planet, has their flaws dark side insecurities so do not think they are perfect or super confident. love yourself no one knows what they are really doing or saying.

What do you mean.

It has been two years now since I started watching videos and reading books about self actualization. Those videos and books have answered millions of questions that I have been searching for answers for. I still have a question that I have been asking myself recently. Life coaches tell us to get rid of negative emotions by meditation, acceptance, letting life flow .. etc At the same time, I hear them talking about cutting people that are rude, negative, toxic .. etc out of our lives. Why would a person avoid negative people when he is able to be around them and not be affected (we will keep dealing with them anyways) and also, why should a person take action to stop negative behavior such as rudeness (like confrontation, complaints, reporting .. etc) while it is possible to accept rudeness, disrespectful behaviors and offences.

for me, all Leo and guru's words make perfect sense to me that is why I do not agree with you.

I understand this very well. My parents compare me to other people all the time. But now I chose to take it but not be affected by those comments. This is their opinion about how to raise a child and no amount of discussions would change their mind. That is why I let it go. When they compare me to others I listen to them and smile

Being an introvert is not an issue at all, nor being an extrovert is. Its like being tall or short, having blue eyes or green eyes, you can make few good friends and meet up with them every once in a while if you do not feel like talking to people everyday. Being social has never meant having thousands of friends, few good friends, siblings, cousins will do. For me, I am my best friend so it makes no difference.

I think we judge ourselves because we care much about how others perceive us and this is not a constructive way of thinking. You are less likely to judge yourself if you did something while you were alone when no one was watching isnt it? Self judgment is all about illusions that the mind creates.

Haha for me, every story is inspiring in some way. thanks for sharing. I like the saying "everyone you meet knows something that you do not know" and I consider myself a good listener In my culture, parents are another issue. If you are right or wrong you should always apologize to them, if you are right or wrong you should always agree with them, if you are right or wrong you should always do what they want you to do. And I'm not talking here about my parents only, all parents in my society think they have done a miracle by having kids, and that they should be forever appreciated and honored for that. So being a middle eastern, even if you dearly love your parents and they dearly love you, they would rarely support your self growth (unconsciously)

Yes I agree thank you. I think when Leo says stay away from toxic people he is talking to people who are in the beginning of their self development path.

I mean by negative the people who give you negative vibes by being rude, always anxious, envious. I am talking about consistent behavior with no will to change that it eventually affects you. Can you elaborate please.

I agree with you on the difference between an established and not fully developed mind. (which is my case) I prefer to deal with it and try to minimize it rather than covering my eyes and ears or escape from it. But then even negativity minimizing solutions do not work all the time, some people are too stubborn and they take everything you say and do personal. So for example, if you confront them, they think you are attacking them or blaming them or want to hurt them. We can always cut people from our lives ofcourse but some people are meant to be around you for too long!!

Thanks a lot charlotte. I do not hesitate to cut people immediatly once they have shown they are toxic and I did this many times. Actually when I cut someone toxic I feel relieved. The problem is dealing with people you cannot avoid like a work colleague, parents, boss ... etc.