nour-cha93

I suffered from lonliness for too long but about a year ago I stopped and thought: wait a minute, is being alone that bad?? I had to keep a very toxic people in my life so that I dont feel alone because being alone was once a nightmare for me. Here is a saying that I like the most "if you are not happy alone, you will not be happy with anyone else" Only when you start enjoying being alone, you will start building healthy relationships with others, when you make others responsible for your happiness, you will suffer even if you were around tons of friends, simply because no one can make anyone happy!! not even your boy/girl friend. Its okay if someone does not want to be your friend, or you find someone that you do not like to be around. Find a hobby, read good books or practice an instrument, make relationships with people a trivial thing in your life and only then, you will be able to make good relationships.

Do you mean that it is impossible to develop yourself while dealing with negative people? and that is why we should try our best to minimize the negativity? by confrontation, reporting .. etc

Self Development does not mean you should quit life. It means you should just change perspective. I advise that you continue with your career and your goals.

I think the law of attraction takes you to the point where you no longer need the things that you need. for example, if you want to be a musician, then you can start feeling and thinking that you are already a musician that you no longer need or want to be a musician because you already are! and by getting rid of the need, you will feel happy even if you are not a musician because you no longer need to be a musician because you are happy without being a musician! Maybe you will attract something even better (by feeling happy). And I think what they mean by attraction, is changing the way you feel, therefore changing the way you act, therefore getting good results based on good actions based on good feelings.