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@Thewritersunion I only have fish. I don't have a dog or fish cause I don't have my finances in order. Thanks for all the replies. It's so difficult to change your modus operandus, even when you see it is not true! have a good day.

Hi guys, I took some psychedelics the last few months and I'm beginning to see that my worldview is wrong. Especially one world view: 'I can only feel love if people love me' As a child I developed this coping mechanism that I need to my best so people will love me. And I thought that I had a lot of love as a child. (which wasn't often, it was sporadically when my mother used me to feel loved) So now I see that I was the one who created the love and not the other who made me feel this way. Living from this paradigm would make me so much more happier. But I always forget it and try to seek validation. Anyone got the same thing with their worldviews changing? could use some encouragement. I'm very scared as I don't know who I am nomore..

@Leo Gura @jayG84 You guys are right I'm scared as hell. It's all about love. But damn there is a lot of work to be done. Watched the episode about dealing with fear multiple times and more fear came up. But I'm growing. Thanks a lot for the point of view.

Hello everyone, Yesterday I took 3g of magic mushrooms (dried paddo). It was the fifth time I used it. Always the same thing comes up: I feel how life was before highschool and how free and loving I felt. Yesterday during the trip I had this same feeling as in first year of highschool. I felt very loving and would love to meet new people and start this great journey, but then people started bullying me (which never happened before age 11) and I felt this deep sadness. I understand that these people had pain themselves. My mother is bipolar and same thing happened there. Granted I forgave her after deep work. But now I have this feeling like everyone on this planet is hurt. Which means they have the capacity to hurt me. So know I have this feeling of why should I ever accomplish something in life or be loving towards others if they CAN hurt me. Cause as a kid I only thought a few people were hurt, but now as a grown up. I see so much pain and now I feel very depressed about that. If anybody had an experience likes this feel free to comment!

Thanks @Nahm This reply makes sense as I'm dwelling in the past even though I'm meditating. If I ask myself what the only thing is I need right now, is Love. Especcialy self love. But it's kinda difficult to do that with all the rules I've put up for myself.. Thanks again!

Hey guys, Now whith the corona virus being Quarentained huge depression came up. Not huging my girlfriend who lives further away, not going to the gym, not traveling. Now I can see without these I get very depressed. I call daily with the girlfriend but that doesn't feel enough. Besides that I struggle with my health. It feels like my muscle are always in tension, I feel cold and I don't have any appetite. This all started a few years ago after taking roaccutane and worsened after getting Epstein Barr Virus. At the moment I'm in my first 2day fast and I feel the physical pain going away! But I just want to feel healthy and tried so many things. Like eating very healthy. Only fasting has results. I feel kinda stuck since I meditate for over 2 years 40min a day. And I felt like I was growing a few months ago. And now I'm here very depressed. Any tips? Any guidance? Any experience would be handy.

Anxious again. Not that the circumstances are scary, just my adrenals that are fucked up. Focus on sleep, diet, start meditation and awareness of victim mindset.

I'm feeling anxious. I want to do some selfimprovement. But I also want to binge on social media and videogames. I'm going outside reading.

Hello, It's been 5 months since I started the actualization process. I come from an emotional abusive childhood. I've developed addictions which I'm trying to manage the last years. After getting better and better, getting more aware of my life I crashed into a few weeks of binging porn, gambling and excessive social media. I want to find a solution for this. The biggest reason I have at the moment is that I don't feel motivated for life. It's difficult to explain, I am motivated and want to do a lot of things, but I don't have the drive. I only have a strong drive for low conscious, effortless things. I don't have a strong life purpose. I bought the LP course of Leo. But after 10 video's I quit cause I needed to put effort wich makes me feel good in long term. This is day 1 of the journey. Watched the low vs high consciousness video.