Prakhar

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“Love says ‘I am everything.’ Wisdom says ‘I am nothing.’ Between the two, my life flows.” – Nisargadatta Maharaj

Whether it is Leo, Osho, Bentinho, or any other target, people will keep on talking/distorting/lying/assuming/pretending/projecting in the name of their "truth". The problem is that most people are not willing to listen, understand and see things from all perspectives to find the closest version of the truth that a just human mind can perceive.

My advice: Do both at the same time. Inner and outer mastery complement each other. Yes, it will be a mindfuck, but that will precisely accelerate your journey.

When you realize it, only you exist. She doesn't exist. However, if she realizes this, only she exists. You don't exist.

I am all there is. That is it.

A beautiful life is the manifestation of your inner beauty and inner strength. Work on your inner kingdom. The outer kingdom will be made for you. The Soil The soil holds the vision for your life and the potential for the best version of yourself. It can change with new seasons of life, so neither it has to be perfect, nor it is set in stone. Go crazy to come up with your highest vision for yourself and your life. The Seeds The seeds are your intentions. When you’re unaware of your intentions, it’s easy to fall into the traps of addictive/unproductive/distracting thoughts and behaviors. When you’re conscious, you plant the seeds according to your vision. Set loving, positive, and deliberate intentions each day to your claim your responsibility as the creator of your reality. The Water Watering the seeds is nurturing them by acting or imagining. When the water comes from a pure source (your Higher Self), the seeds that are true to you will grow. The seeds that don’t grow aren’t meant to grow, so you’ve got to let them go. Focus on watering the roots of the plants that grow. The Weeds Weeds are the distractions that drain your time, energy and attention as they create useless drama in your life. Cut them off and raise your standards to tolerate only what is beautiful or useful in your garden. The Sun Sunlight is faith. The universe conspires to manifest the life you desire if stay loyal to your vision. Trust the process and remember that all things come in perfect timing. The Plants Plants are the manifestations of your intentions. If you keep your intentions pure, the plants will grow strong and thrive even in difficult times. Take good care of your manifestations to further grow and nurture them. The Fruits Fruits are the gifts of your manifestations that you can use to celebrate and be grateful for. Each fruit also comes with a seed that you can use to grow your garden. Focus on the roots and the fruits will be ready to harvest at the right time. Enjoy and share them with others.

People talk. That's what they do. Bentinho has helped me immensely on my spiritual journey. I recommend watching his YouTube video to start with: https://www.youtube.com/c/BentinhoMassaro/videos

Ride the wave, my friend. The life runs in seasons and cycles. Own your feelings. Once you're 100% with the fact that you've stopped caring, maybe start with some good books that may plant new ideas in your mind. Hope that helps.

Besides what others have already suggested, try getting in "the zone" using music. You'll have to experiment to see which one works for you. Some of the most common ones that work for people are: Binaural Beats Nature music (Noisli and defonic are good websites) Repetitive music (or a music track on repeat - no lyrics - gaming music are made for this) Cafe sounds (you can use websites like Rainy Cafe, Coffitivity, ...) Instrumental or classical music Also, have your tried pomodoro timer (search for it if you aren't familiar with it) Other than that, make sure you do the basics (like others have said before). Hope that helps!

Yes, it is. Here's why. It's not that because I follow personal development, that I live a good life. The reason why personal development improves my life is that it is aligned with my values. One of my top value is to live a life of growth. With personal development, I'm always fulfilling that desire and value. For some people, growth is not that important so even when they get involved in personal development, they tend to drive away from it because they don't find fulfillment. So maybe if you reevaluate your values and see if they are aligned with what you're doing, you will find fulfillment. Good luck!

Here's what you can try, my friend: For 1 full week, cut contact with them. Give them some excuse or tell them that you're doing some kind of experiment. If they're your friends, they will understand. For a full week, reset your health by following healthy habits and feel the benefits from inside and outside. When the week is over, you'll no longer be attached to coke. You will gain a new perspective and won't be afraid to say no to coke with your friends. Even when you meet them, you can tell them that you've changed and you're improving your health. Maybe they will laugh but soon they will know that you're serious about it. Once they understand the new you, they will either accept you or reject you. If they accept, good. If they don't, good. I know it's hard. But please don't fall down to the expectations of your friends. Raise your standards and if your friends learn from your example, good for them. Otherwise, don't judge them and have a strong will to stick to your commitment.