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@Leo Gura In regards to college, is it helpful for someone who wants to start their own business? I am currently studying a business degree at my University and it is clear to me that I want to run my own one day - even though I have no idea what I want my business to be (a.k.a my passion, in which I will be taking the Life Purpose Course to find). However, I enjoy learning the business concepts that I am being taught, the studying habits and skills I am picking up and the social aspect that comes with being apart of a big University.

@Leo Gura I would LOVE to hear what you have to say to this.

@zoey101 I don’t even know how to have fun and derive pleasure from being with my friends or doing things as a single man. Maybe I need to contemplate what fun really is to me? I can’t seem to tell if I’m having fun. And will things really all just fall into place?

I’m currently going through my first break-up, which, despite being a long and arduous relationship and being glad that it’s over, has left me feeling fiercly lonely. For the first time in my adult life I am single and my multiple friendships now all seem shallow. I don’t know if I should: • Do as Leo suggests in his videos and “bask in the solitude” alone in my room, and try to weed the loneliness from my mind • Go out - be a social animal and try to meet new people Inside I would like to become this master of social skills and improve my ability to talk with women, but is this just a bandaid over solving my problem of loneliness? And how do I even start to become a social master? How do I get over the fact that all my other friends and ex-girlfriend have more friends than me?

There is a lot to work on - begin with this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e4yipKfO8nA. Start a daily 20 minute meditation habit and never miss a day - that alone will generate incredible results after a few months. I'm only 18, so hopefully you can appreciate when I say how powerful and practical this practise can be . From there, branch out and start looking at some topics that interest you - here are just a few important things to study: Philosophy Relationships Spiral Dynamics Consciousness Healthy Eating Emotional Mastery Meditation Also, I recommend that you buy the book list and start reading as much as you can about any topics that interest you. This work is far, far deeper than that, but it's a starting point. Remember to stay openminded when you read books and watch videos - and don't heedlessly believe everything that you read/watch, even if its on Actualized.org .