sholomar

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  1. I generally don't trust any content creator who does all the stuff to appeal to the "algorhythm" and that includes sensationalist looking screen caps. That said, guarantee you election meddling has been a thing as long as there are elections, because of human nature. When people are so sure their cult like belief systems are the only right way to live, they will tend to do anything to "defend" them and will have the mentality where the ends justify the means, and how the win is achieved doesn't matter, and that winning is all that matters. You know the political left are just as guilty of this as the right. Anyone who is not tier 2 consciousness, and indeed many that are. Of course now it's the left accusing the right of cheating... I expected nothing less. They will piss and moan and do all the exact same things they claim their opposition does, including be good little closet autocrats, upset they can't control the narrative, for now at least.
  2. Stage green are too naive to human nature, which makes them prone to be used and taken advantage of by the lower stages. This is why they can't be in charge. They think everyone is inherently good and don't know how to deal with each stage at their own level. That's what is happening. The democrats/leftists have been hijacked in the west. They won't save anybody. Reach tier 2 consciousness so you can see who the real "enemies" are. Certainly don't shame me for not "embracing my green." Now, watch the puppets pulling Biden's strings, the same ones who would have pulled Kamala's start world war three and shatter your narrative about the left being the only way to save this planet. Welcome to human nature, where wealthy psychopaths bribe those in charge to get what they want, no matter what the cost. Enjoy the game. Funny thing is, none of the people actually in charge run for any office. Those who run for office get used by those who have the money. That is human nature. Play the game the way you're told, how you're told.
  3. And yet these democrats are the ones that were supposed to save mankind and it's the republicans that are dictators and war mongers, lol.
  4. It was the left trying to fact check and combat what they call "misinformation" that kicked all this off. Granted there is misinformation out there pushed by the right, but there is also misinformation pushed by the left. It's dangerous to let one side control the narrative just because they believe they are right and their cause is just. Trump is not going to dismantle freedom of speech. Don't worry, you will be fine. Life goes on. Bottom line , it's human nature for any large group of people to try to control the narrative and oppress their opposition. Checks and balances are important to protect us from our nature.
  5. Seems to me nobody is totally one spiral dynamic stage and higher stages don't necessarily mean one is less neurotic and more moral. One could argue there are stage turquoises that could be serial killers or psychopaths because people who are not neurotypical typically get into personal development simply to figure out why they are different. Society's philosophers and intellects tend to be social outcasts to varying degrees compared to what one might dub a "neurotypical." There are plenty of highly intelligent individuals with violent or neurotic tendencies in our society/planet. The degree one is developed is the degree one is able to accept what is outside one's control without turning totally amoral or emotionless or nihilistic or getting upset at things one thinks "should" be different than how they are. Seems like spiral dynamics doesn't do a good enough job measuring EQ in my opinion, and a person shouldn't really label themselves as a tier 2 thinker if they are too full of negativity, victim mentality, or any emotions that david hawkins would calibrate under level 200 or they have a side to them that can "snap" easily with emotional outbursts and/or desire to get "revenge" among other lower emotional states. Also it's easy to be a saint in paradise, and people tend to regress to lower stages based on when they are stressed or put in a situation where there may be genuine danger. This separates those who have spent less time mastering their responses to "what is" to those who are better trained to "roll with the punches." ... to this degree you can have better developed stage oranges while having stage yellows that are undeveloped or immature in many ways. It's another system that measures some or even many aspects of a person's development but not all aspects.
  6. Your last couple of paragraphs summed it up... human nature prevents their success. As long as you have really wealthy people buying political favors, human nature will likely prevail, our more hedonistic desires such as wealth, status, access to women. Changing a couple of million years of evolution in a couple of generations isn't easy without genetic engineering. Perhaps the problem isn't stage green itself, but rather the other stages that infiltrate and corrupt the greens to their own ends. Actually that's not entirely true because just the fact greens are tier 1 consciousness means they will try to push their belief systems on others, just like the stages below them. Bottom line, there's no easy answer in the fight to win over public opinion with an ideology. I'd say start with honesty, something politicians seem incapable of. Don't insult people's intelligence. Present them the facts and let them choose, rather then trying to tell them what to think or calling them all stupid because they won't join your "side." The left's overbearing Karen like nagginess and moralizing turned a lot of people off. Again human nature... humans don't like being told what to do by moral nannies. They didn't like it when the religious right did it, they don't like when the woke left does it. Human nature will tend to assert itself unless stopped forcefully, which leads into the argument for autocrats, dictators, and other undesirable outcomes to appease a specific spiral dynamic stage or ideology (who always think they have all the answers) instead of allowing all of them to grow at their own pace. Our shared diversity of opinions is our strength. There's too much "I'm smarter than the sheep" among both the super rich, conspiracy theorists, and the personal development crowd, this idea that the masses are all just zombies and we are so much more enlightened because we have discovered "the truth." Nonsense. To me many of them have more wisdom than those in charge. Don't insult their intelligence... they have more common sense than given credit for.
  7. THC works well. Going to bed at around the same time each day works well. Earplugs work well. I work all nights, wear earplugs, go to bed between 4-7AM every day, and sleep like a baby. If this is something you can't force yourself to do, wear earplugs, then accept the fact you will hear noises potentially, especially during the day. 25 MG of Delta 9 in edible form before bed works very well, but admittedly using drugs as a crutch isn't the best idea long term, but as far as drugs go THC is about as harmless as they come. If you do want to try earplugs, these are the most comfortable ones I have come across... https://www.amazon.com/3M-Earplugs-Hearing-Conservation-311-1250/dp/B008MCULZW Even without earplugs I'm blessed with quiet, considerate neighbors. If you are renting with inconsiderate neighbors, consider moving units. Life is not worth dealing with loud, inconsiderate neighbors. Part of the struggles of living with higher populations with more people renting is the construction quality of the units combined with people enjoying dog ownership often leads to excessive noise and lack of privacy. Mental attitude also matters. If I can't sleep I don't ruminate over it, I use the time to practice mindful meditation and count it as sleep. If you struggle "trying" to fall asleep you will just make yourself miserable. Any time you struggle against "what is" will create unnecessary suffering in your life, like the people here have done since Trump won, as an example. However, my ability to do this still has limits. If I had insufferable neighbors, I would have to move. Back when I had more severe general anxiety disorder, I had insomnia. It was a sympathetic dominant nervous system. As my parasympathetic, ventral vagal response increases gradually, my sleep has returned. Going to bed at the same time every day is a healthy habit to have, or waking up at the same time, but it's the mental attitude while awake that has made the most difference. Acceptance of what is, peace of mind, willingness to roll with the punches, mindful observation of emotions instead of letting them hijack my responses, manning up and being less of a man-child with a victim mindset... the transformation has been remarkable.
  8. Enough of them were sold a lie by Hollywood about how women are sugar, spice, and everything nice. Many of them didn't have the confidence or social skills to really keep a woman satisfied and they got bored and moved on. These guys turned bitter as what they were taught about women by society didn't work. They don't tell men growing up specifically that they need playful banter and a rebellious, adventurous nature to be successful with women. This is something men have to figure out themselves. The left has been white shaming also for years now. Why should someone feel guilty of their skin color when you go back far enough on human nature everyone has enslaved everyone else? It's the leftist narrative peddling that brought on the counterculture movement just because of the preachy, naggy nature of the movement. Shame on you for being masculine, white, a male. Shame on you for being conservative. People don't want to hear that. Counterculture movements are normal when the status quo become naggy enough after they get enough power.
  9. Life is a mental game. You can try to climb on the personal development hamster wheel to try to feel a since of pride of accomplishment and as a man that is important to do in moderation but in the end it still comes down to peace of mind independent of external circumstances, which is something that is hard to teach or tell you how to do, you just need to find your inner peace on your own through self inquiry. For example, I am at peace despite the fact I acknowledge I have aspie traits, a boring personality, and lack the playful demeanor that creates most bonds, friendships, relationships. There are other areas in life I work on to keep my peace of mind such as low bodyweight percentage, diet and fitness. I am nice towards others, but will never be a storytelling extrovert or a practical joker and my playful banter skills are a work in progress. Arguably these are the most important traits to have as a member of the species. As a man I should say, if you want something you have to be aggressive and take risks. People with good intentions will tell you to be responsible and play it safe, but typically the most successful in life don't actually do this. They take risks, if they mess up they try again and again. They act in spite of their fear. Regardless of what you do, good luck!
  10. Thank you. LOL. It's clear to me why people turned against the left. It's the suffocating, Karen-like moral/intellectual superiority/nagging they've been constantly doing for years now. Shaming people for voting against them, calling them stupid and dumb. They just come across as insufferable to me, insisting their path is the only path forward for the species. Maybe they'll be proven right and Trump will destroy the country, but I doubt it. If it happens, it happens. Observing all this theatre has made me see how counterculture movements form, it's because the status quo become insufferable with their attempts to nag and control the masses, which promotes the movement as a way to rebel from the "Karens" trying to nag the populace to death. The left became entrenched in the institutions and turn into naggy Karens shaming everyone every time they dared criticize the most looney of policies such as transgender surgeries for 8 year olds, etc. This is the result.
  11. I mean, David Hawkins was a republican and wrote a litany of books on his calibrated levels of consciousness. This idea that all super high developed people are all super progressive is a story that progressives tell themselves. In the end it's important as homo sapiens to have a nice balance between liberal and conservative traits, just as it's important to "toughen up boys" to turn them into men. We can't put the entire species inside a bubble or safe space to shelter them from any discomfort in life. The left wing when taken to it's extreme violates the laws of nature that run evolution including our species and turns societies non functional. You're never going to get rid of all discomfort in life and make everyone totally equal, no matter how hard you try. You're not going to force the entire planet into a stage green philosophy any time soon.
  12. The amount of people having full blown mental breaks, public meltdowns, and anxiety attacks is wild. Like if this election made you legitimately lose your mind, maybe you weren’t all there to begin with. It's insane how quickly the left got actually racist, not fake racism crying like they've done for years, as soon as black and latino people didn't vote the way they wanted. The number of Kamala supporters I've seen that keep going on about how they can't wait for trump to put Mexicans in camps or that he's going to deport muslims and completely level Palestine and they'll be laughing about it is incredible lmao. these are the people claiming to have some sort of moral high ground. No trump voter has said anything even 1/10th as toxic to me 😂 To me the left simply got too naggy for their own good, like how the religious right used to be in this culture which caused people to rebel from them. Stage yellows should learn to deal with stages at their own level. A true yellow isn't going to nag lower stages to death trying to force feed a belief system on them, in my opinion. Since they are greens stuck in tier 1 thinking, naturally they still think their stage is the pinnacle of societal development and want to try to force feed it on everyone like tier 1 thinkers tend to do. This sort of nagging, condescending, intellectual and moral superiority they dangle over everyone trying to shame them to death for being racists, bigots, etc. is just going to cause them to lose more support going forward if they are not careful. Not everyone wants to buy what they are selling, and to go turn around and trash them for their disobedience isn't going to win them over, but by all means, keep at it.
  13. I always see developed people bash the "sheep" as though they are low information lemmings plugged into the matrix, but I'm convinced a lot of normal people are more developed than people into "personal development" as all the major authors talk about rolling with the punches, acceptance of what you cannot change, and not taking a victim mentality, all the opposite of around 75% here do. Rather than a personal development forum this is more of a left wing politics forum in my opinion. Stage green know they are green, act like they are green, and seemingly unable to change their behavior or world view, which I find fascinating. The strong emotional investment I find equally fascinating. They seemingly can't understand why people would vote for Trump, a characteristic of Tier 1 thinking. Just fascinating the reaction to Trump's victory. The model works! They may have genuine reasons to be worried about Trump though... I guess time will tell, because he's here to stay.
  14. Yes, but I believe there is room for compassion and choice on the abortion issue. First, assuming you believe in the soul, past lifes, reincarnation, the soul already is aware of the possibility of an abortion happening, and is prepared for it. Second, the fetus has no conscious awareness of it's existence until perhaps the month up to birth, where some people report remembering being in the womb. Third, the sex drive is extremely strong and for conservatives to say to just abstain is asking a lot given our nature. Fourth, to ask a mother to raise a child they are not ready to raise when they are really young especially, when the guy knocks her up and disappears, can be traumatic for a young person especially if their parents are conservative and not supportive of the accidential pregnancy. Fifth, asking them to raise a child they probably cannot afford means the government is going to pay for it.. you'd think more conservatives would be against that. For all these reasons and more I generally support abortion through the first or second trimester. I just don't see any harm coming of it, besides potential future psychological damage as the woman gets older wondering what the child would have been like that they aborted, which is a very real thing, but something the woman will have to deal with. Bottom line, it should be a choice, in my opinion of course. When you criminalize something there will just be black markets for it, and there have been black markets for dangerous abortion procedures going back thousands of years.